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Education / Re: I See Membership Of Alumni Whatsapp Groups As WASTE Of Time: Am I Wrong? by Heavance(m): 7:31am On Apr 19
VinnyBaba:


Physical meetings and Online meetings are TWO Different things, Sir! 😏😕

The online meeting is 80% and through it we arrange to see offline, which may happen once in a year or 2 years.

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Education / Re: I See Membership Of Alumni Whatsapp Groups As WASTE Of Time: Am I Wrong? by Heavance(m): 1:48pm On Apr 17
VinnyBaba:

In my Secondary School and University WhatsApp groups,
I hardly Comment or make contributions. sad

I see them online talking about social media trends, Our School days, Visitations,etc and I always Wonder 'Do these Pple have Jobs and ambitions?'.

I talked to a Friend of mine About this and he said 'I am Anti-Social or an Introvert'. embarassed

But Really, I see those Alumni WhatsApp Groups as an Organization of Time Wasters. undecided

HOW ABOUT YOU?
Comment.


What kind of school did you even attend in the first place?
What kind of school?
Even the former president (Obasanjo) was so happy and in his assembly hall mood when he saw his buddies.
Many of us have a big relationship with our former classmates.
UCL game day alone is something else.
And there are various activities we do, and end of year party is always so big.. Anyone abroad hustle to join the link.
So what kind of school did you really attend?

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Politics / Re: Naira Redesign: Emefiele Confirmed Arabic Inscription Won’t Be Removed – Sanusi by Heavance(m): 8:05pm On Nov 01, 2022
How has Islamic whatever helped in making it add value?
Religion will destroy us, we no get sense at all
Politics / Re: Shettima: We Will End Insurgency In Six Months by Heavance(m): 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2022
Exactly the same thing APC said in 2015.
Exactly.
These people no kuku rate us
Politics / Re: Tinubu: I Turned Lagos From Jungle To Megacity by Heavance(m): 10:14am On Oct 15, 2022
Out of desperation, IBB is not even given credit for third mainland bridge at all.
People even put Jakande extensive work in a locked shop, even Buba Marwa was kept aside.. Its just Tinubu Tinubu, na wa o.
Na real wa.
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Certificates Emerges As Nigerians Point To Discrepancies In Obi's Own by Heavance(m): 8:24am On Sep 23, 2022
oikirodah:
Tinubu's Certificates Emerges As Nigerians Point To Discrepancies In Peter Obi's Own (Photos)




https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/another-bombshell-as-tinubus-certificates-emerges-while-nigerians-point-to-significant-discrepancies-in-peter-obis-certificatephotos/amp/
If you swallow that Chicago pdf as certificate, then your case may need proper help.
That shit can be done via any computer, that's not their letterhead at all.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Irish Twitter Jubilate Over The Death Of Queen Elizabeth II by Heavance(m): 8:27pm On Sep 09, 2022
If you know in your heart, that your state governor (past or present) has properties in England, please don't even mention anything about how her ancestors stole or anything...
We are our enemy.
Romance / Re: Should A Woman Be Bothered About Not Being Good In Bed? by Heavance(m): 7:56pm On Aug 26, 2022
Rozross:
. Women hold down jobs, being moms, being a wife and this can be overwhelming and highly desexualising making it difficult to shift into romantic modes with worn out energies.

With all these put together, should women worry over not being good in bed to meet up with their partners' fantasies?
As a man, will you leave your woman because of her poor bedroom skills?
Men hold down jobs, being fathers being a husband as well.
If you know you are bad, then don't stress the man when he tries to satisfy his fantasy.
These things should be talked about, so we don't see post here and there about cheating, divorce and troubled marriages.

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Family / Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Heavance(m): 8:03pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
How much were your parents making when they got married?
Okay you will say you don't want to live like your parents. How much are you making to do yourself some good or plan well?
What's your financial stand that can support anyone?
Family / Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by Heavance(m): 8:00pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

One problem is, these days couples don't know how to take decision on when they want kids... Some just dive in and put full tank, next thing within days of wedding is pregnancy.
No be so at all...
No be so
Romance / Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Heavance(m): 7:09pm On Aug 21, 2022
Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks
The people you see on a weekly basis, with flashy clothes, decorated hall and aso-ebi guard of honour, how much do you think the couples earn?
In some cases, the wife earns nothing and husband earns 100k or less but we see people snapping and uploading all on social media.
Now, have you had the opportunity to check payslips of civil servants (state workers), how many do you think earn 95k as netpay? But 90% of them are married.
What if federal workers, how many can you see with 95k and above? But they are married....
I am not saying you should, or you can marry, or you can settle down with someone earning that amount, just understand the above and you will understand the choice you have to make.
Health / Re: Lagos Launches Floating Clinic Boat For Emergency, Medical Outreach Services by Heavance(m): 5:29pm On Jun 22, 2022
TheNiceGuy:
Without prejudice, Sanwoolu is the most proactive Governor among his peers.

He's working relentless and not being praised but insulted by people who are Govern by well packaged fraud kind of Leader out of HATE


Yes, Tinubu Lagos!

He's not referring to Enugu, it's Lagos. You shouldn't have problem with that
A system put in place by Ambode... Haba, have you taken a ride to that station before?
And you even think Sanwo-olu should rake this praise? Come on nah....
Similar ones would have been erected in at least two other places if Ambode was left to finish his work.
Politics / Re: PVC: Governor Matawalle Declares 1-Week Public Holiday In Zamfara by Heavance(m): 11:46am On Jun 19, 2022
Wow...
See as Atiku people dey set trap for us
Celebrities / Re: I Have 2 Houses In America - Peter Okoye Reveals As He Addresses Critics (Video) by Heavance(m): 11:45am On Jun 19, 2022
Justdogood:
The earlier yorubas and igbos stop abusing themselves here on nairaland and understand that if Nigeria is good today its for everyone and if its bad its still for everyone of us here the better for them.

It saddens me when I come online and see kids.
17 years, 18 years, 16 years. Insulting themselves.
Flat heads, afonja, ipigs, poto-poto, ofe-mmanu, skull-miners, etc.
See, Being an e-warrrior doesn't make you have a fulfilled life.

Most of you do all this online and still go to bed hungry and not sure of tomorrow's food.
People of your age bracket are looking for what to do, or how to make an impact.

It's shameful.
It is really shameful.

I can't remember seeing Tinubu's children insulting orji kalu's sons or seeing osinbanjo's daughters abusing Ekweremmadu's sons.
It's always two low-lifers, at the two southern end of the nation. Holding their phones and cursing the hell out of themselves.

If you guys are not tired we are tired.
Get a life.
Nigeria is burning. Nigeria is dying, we are sinking. Stop this abuse.
Like, very shameful.
And they still don't understand how this is so loved by the northerners. Our division makes their unity stand better

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Politics / Re: Make Nigeria 3 Regions; Make Atiku, Tinubu, Obi Head The 3 Regions -Okey Bakassi by Heavance(m): 10:52am On Jun 13, 2022
TMSMedia:
Make Nigeria 3 Regions, Make Atiku, Tinubu And Obi Head The 3 Regions - Okey Bakassi

Popular Nigerian comedian, Okey Bakassi has suggested that Atiku, Tinubu and Obi should be allowed to govern two geopolitical zones each from Nigeria's six geopolitical zones, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote on his Facebook page;



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02H8ZeYGDnUh5hFTUMMw1sevfLh3H4gShnm3CtMTb2X8XsdvVFrD9QSjW9PKb3CUttl&id=100050264268938
My question remains, who then heads the south?
It is not classified as Igbo speakers or yoruba speakers, so who heads the south? Mind you it used to be called mid-west and had their governor, for people that will want to say rubbish.

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Travel / Re: Nigerian Lady Hit By Lebanese Man Driving Against Traffic In Lagos Dies by Heavance(m): 10:42am On Jun 13, 2022
Olasyke:

He's a white man, they won't persecute him.
Welcome to the zoo. Not even peter obi can save the zoo from being the zoo. It's gone, irredeemable.
Lebanese are not white
Romance / Re: Lady Cries Out As Her Husband Calls His Sidechick To Cook In Her Presence by Heavance(m): 2:14pm On Jun 01, 2022
virginprincess:
-:\,That man is a chronic cheat,he knows his wife won't be able to prepare that meal,he was just look for an excuse to go outside and cheat on her,such a useless man.
Useless, but people celebrated and danced on their wedding day. wooo, let the woman manage what she has married.
The man only showed her there is nothing impossible jare
Music/Radio / Re: 2022 Headies Award Nominees (Full List) - Portable Gets Double Nominations by Heavance(m): 7:06pm On May 24, 2022
Na wa o.
This is like compensation to Wizkid for losing out on Grammy's and Billboard.
Guess he will walk away with 6-8 awards...
Headies no get sense.
Bella schmurda ft Zlatan is nominated, so what is the time frame of the songs nominated, from when to when? Because this is looking like 2 years frame.
NYSC / Re: I Don't Want To Serve NYSC, How Do I Exempt Myself? by Heavance(m): 4:40pm On Apr 28, 2022
isaiah4life:
His shooting himself with a gun. If you know Nigeria well, getting an Nysc certificate is key. If you think it's nothing, ask Kemi. She will explain better.

Forget Exemption and get the certificate. Save yourself of premium tears in the future.
What are you saying?
Getting exemption is no big deal. I even prayed they scrap that nonsense before I went. There is absolutely nothing there, it's just a way of suffering and smiling

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Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Heavance(m): 4:36pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!
Better be prepared, have your own properties, so that when it happens, you can have a place to stay.
You don't decide on top someone's property
Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Heavance(m): 4:33pm On Apr 28, 2022
Truvelisback:
I love the drama in Polygamy. If A dey fumble or misbehave, u go just move to B until A head correct. It would bring competition btw the 2 wives on who to win ur heart and gain ur attention the most. It would also bring a quick adjustment in the way they behave.
Have you considered the repercussions on your kids?
They inherit enemies from their mom for no reason. And you think you will even die in peace?
It's better you divorce and move fully to another o, than having two trouble at once.
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Act Of Humility: Joined Queue At Aisha Buhari's Ifta Dinner by Heavance(m): 9:16pm On Apr 25, 2022
Asgard73:
This days .. yorub people find it hard to resist the fact that Obi is an igboman..

They’re forcefully converting him to a Yoruba man

God forbid!

Which main nonsenses be this... Na Must?
That photo is the work of photoshop.
Politics / Re: Buhari: We Can Make The Commonwealth A Real Global Power by Heavance(m): 9:08pm On Apr 25, 2022
The only thing in this man's head is "borrowing"
Politics / Re: Seasonal ‘romance’: How Politicians Deceive Voters With Fake Lifestyles (pics) by Heavance(m): 7:41pm On Apr 24, 2022
Clearly, the best pretender wins the heart of the people.
Celebrities / Re: Blackface Accuses Banky W, Wizkid Of Stealing His Song by Heavance(m): 11:17pm On Apr 22, 2022
Mokason288:
Hahahahaha

Black face ask well ooo

Wizkid broke Dammy Karane’s head for calling him out
So you mean wizkid will try that with amugbo back face?
Ahhhh... Na die be that o.

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Family / Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Heavance(m): 7:30pm On Apr 17, 2022
It takes real wisdom to survive marriage.
Like someone asked, if marriage had an expiry date, will men want to renew?
It is a good question, and I think men should ask their women, if your woman knows you won't like to renew, then she should know you are not enjoying such Union at all.

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Family / Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Heavance(m): 1:46pm On Apr 15, 2022
Experience has shown and proven that women only speak out when the man does his worst.
Most times after the man sends them packing.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Ramadan Moon Sighted In Saudi Arabia, Fasting Begins Saturday by Heavance(m): 7:52am On Apr 02, 2022
Abeg, make una allow our Muslim brothers and sister peace during this time.....
Lent dey, as a Christian (I don't care your denomination), if you are not fasting, then give these guys a break.
Don't tell me you are Pentecostal that's why you are not fasting, Lent is the time for Christians to fast for 40days, then come Easter celebration to remember the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. So at all, if you are not fasting right now, you are neither a Christian or Muslim, and if you are any, at least let those fasting do and finish it, so that we all can gather and celebrate.
Plenty men marry wives for Bible and Quran.
Plenty people misbehave, make we no dey form p.a for God.
Just do your thing and prepare ahead to answer your God according to your religion
Crime / Re: Kenyan Man Kills His Wife's Lover After Catching Them In Bed In His House by Heavance(m): 7:18am On Apr 02, 2022
kingphilip:
Until people get sense them go continue de go jail for wetin ordinary walk away go fit solve.

He should have just walked away and come back when his head is cool to decide to send his wife away than staying there and carrying out this action to rot away in jail.

Now the woman will continue without watching her back while you face a life imprisonment or death. People sha no de like use their head.
It's easier to say, till it is your turn.
You saw how Will Smith acted right? There is this thing that is difficult to control when it your woman

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Family / Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Heavance(m): 1:48pm On Mar 13, 2022
Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?
Who are you guys getting married to these days?
What do you people get married for?

Pre-wedding photos?
IG, Twiiter, Facebook likes?
Aso-ebi?
Pepper Dem?
Like, what or how do you people do it? I think everything about wedding now is fantasy, people just want to take pictures and isha Allah.
I don't even feel happy seeing people getting married again, because of things like this. Wtf is wrong with all of you now?
Politics / Re: LAGFERRY Begins Operations Along Ajah-Lekki Axis To End Traffic Congestion by Heavance(m): 4:37pm On Mar 04, 2022
FreeStuffsNG:

a prestigious University of Lagos(UNILAG) that has produced notable Nigerians like the current V.P ,Prof. Yemi Osibanjo,SAN, beaches, great folklore traditional Yoruba & contemprorary Yoruba Afro hip-hop music , the city of Grammy Award winners and food!

In Lagos, you and your investments are safe and your invsstments are guaranteed of great returns.

Thank you.
Except this is an advert.
Even the College in Katsina that has produced not less than 3 head of states/President no make noise.

Investment is safe?
What happened during the Xenophobia attack around Lagos, or you were not informed?
And during Endsars shooting, what happened all round? Has anybody been compensated?
Family / Re: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Heavance(m): 6:45pm On Feb 28, 2022
Sir, this is a terrible disaster waiting to happen.
A terrible one, a disaster she won't recover from.
I have never heard a good story from those who tried this, even those who decided to make it temporary pending when they iron out the challenge which brought them to sich family house.... All the people I know, and got to know mutually, the story is same disaster.
In fact a colleague who experienced such gave me his experience, he was almost knocked down by a vehicle (he never saw it coming as he was lost in the daily battle with his wife and mother).
So I repeat, it is a disaster waiting to happen.
Your niece is at that stage where love means all, she can barely see anything after the wedding, she doesn't know what it means to face such battles (waiting for her)....
Please, remain firm in your decision if you don't want to see her premium tears.
For me, it's a capital NO.

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