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This life sef.

Bloody Idiot. And the wristwatch you laboured so hard to advertise with your fake pose was manufactured by Iya Taiwo locksmith in Abe Igi, Oyo State, abi?

Hypocritical loser. You can't compete with a richer guy's Gucci, so you demonise Gucci. Who is fooling who?

God forbid.
I rather focus on increasing my income than reducing my cost of living.
Some people live like they'll be here forever.

Women can be very delusional and stupid. So you expect someone like Jay-Z to be faithful? SMH.

Hungry idiot.

No matter how hard he tries this guy always ends up looking too Igbotic, Gucci or no Gucci. His posture, deportment, and general look always screams 'Nna Bros'.

Bunch of broke, jealous, frustrated idiots.

If he hasn't stolen your father's money, then what's the fuss about? Is there any complainant? Is there any evidence of criminality against him?

The mere fact that somebody seems to be rich without a "visible" source of income is not a crime in itself.

foxychev:
Your experience with a bad egg doesn't mean lawyers are ripoffs. Though I'm not a lawyer, I have a lot of them and they are wonderful.

Yet, for how many months will he register a business? There is a way to verify online if he is working on it at all, or just posting you.

Working on it for several months? We're talking about four months at least. I'm sure it never takes up to a month to complete the registration process and for one's certificate to be ready.

If he had honest intentions, he would at least make efforts to contact me with updates.

How can I check online for the status?

Deyemmy:
How much can I register a Limited company with 1m shares.. . I don't want to make use of lawyer or any agent.

Had a very nasty experience with a hungry lawyer that has left a bad taste in my mouth. Paid him in full to register a company with 1 million share capital, and since then, for several months now, he has been beating about the bush and running from pillar to post, avoiding my calls most times, and resorting to rubbish stories afterwards. Clearly, the hungry idiot has diverted my money to personal uses without registering the company as agreed.

This is one of the reasons why I'm no longer interested in using the services of lawyers for this purpose. They're ripoffs.

Charly68:
Buhari has turned the tide against Kola Aluko..life indeed is full of seasons

On the contrary, Kola turned the tide against himself with his illusory, provocative and unsustainable lifestyle.

You don't live like a hedonistic, petro-dollar drunk Russian Oligarch or Arabian Sheikh off money acquired in such a manner from a country like Nigeria. I mean, nobody in Nigeria's history has lived this kind of lifestyle, and I stand to be corrected. $100m yachts, $50m penthouses, multimillion dollar mansions world wide, owning a Formula 1 team with umpteen race cars, multiple private jets, junkets with international celebs and the global beau monde from Hollywood to Saint Tropez to Monte Carlo to the Swiss Alps, I mean! Who does that? Who the hell are you? I mean, it was simply too much; too brazen. Such a slap on not only our faces, but also on the faces of those who gave him the money/opportunities (Diezani et al).

It's the worst case of extreme excess that I've ever known, by a Nigerian. I don't know how he will end up, but it's not looking good to me. Even if he eventually escapes arrest, at this rate he will go bankrupt sooner than later. The cash cow has since died, and the money well has closed permanently. Let's see how he can sustain this lifestyle.

This is finishment of the highest order. See how 406 compressed to look like a Keke. Jeez.

May Allah accept their souls.

In this age of smartphone proliferation and citizen journalism, no witness had the presence of mind to capture the drama(tis personae) on camera?

SmartyPants:
You make a good point but as much as i'm tempted to agree with you to an extent, the fact is that rich guys get more girls than broke guys. There is a definite pattern here. For this to be true (which it is), then it means there is something that rich guys have in common that makes them more attractive, and there is something that broke guys have in common that makes them less attractive. The obvious: money--or the lack thereof.

Girls would be the first to own up to this. No girl would say i want to be with a broke guy.

Now you could argue that broke guys don't get girls because they lack some other qualities and i would say that since wealth does not come in the DNA, there cannot be any characteristics that automatically separate the personality of rich guys from that of broke guys. I'm saying broke guys and rich guys are likely to have the same spread of personality traits. Some will be funny, some would be boring, some will be confident, some will be timid, some will be intelligent, some will be idiots.

I put it to you that there are three primal factors that drive all women:

1. Luxury
2. Sex/lust
3. Notoriety

Women are attracted to men who possess one or all of these traits. But when you look at the true average Joe on the streets, he really does not possess any "sex/lust" or notoriety by nature. How many guys do you see out of the thousands who cross your path on a daily basis, who you feel powerfully attracted to? At most 2 on a good day, and 1 a week every other day.

How many guys have that aura of notoriety or power that women love? statistically, leaders and lone-wolf bad boys are outliers.

This means that the average guy really is not notable in his natural state. So let us exclude those outliers--the anomalies--who are broke but have an aura of notoriety or power, or are exceptionally good looking. Let us look solely at the average broke man, and the average rich man who both lack exceptional sex appeal or notoriety/power factor.

Within this scope, we have already established that is might be a statistical fallacy to say that all broke guys have a different personality from rich guys since personality is innate and wealth is not. Take for example most comedians who started out dirt poor (as a matter of fact i hold the opinion that these comedians are funnier when they are still poor). So we take a broke funny guy and a rich funny guy and offer him to 10 girls. 10 out of 10 will choose the rich one, and that is why we say girls like rich guys.

Even where you differentiate between the average broke guy and the average rich guy, by other factors such as intelligence or kindness etc, most girls of nowadays at best would say okay i will be with you for now because i think you might be able to give me the luxury i want at some point but if you don't show any signs of making it within such and and such period of time and i get a better offer, i'm off.

At the end of the day it boils down to money. Even when women say they want a man with vision, it is not as though having a vision itself is attractive to them, rather it is the understanding that having a vision means the guy might make it in life that appeals to them. Thus the driving factor is still money.

Standing ovation.

YelloweWest:
Hiding this sad incident.
Protecting her image as it was not her fault!

Let's be honest this man is foolish for sending his wife away!
Did she ask to be raped?
How can u absorb the man of all blame and them blame the innocent victim by supporting the man?

Would it have been better for the man to stay in the marriage and torment her with frustration and even domestic violence as a result of his inability to achieve closure? We're talking about emotional and psychological scars here, and everybody has different tolerance levels.

If he had kept her at home and eventually beaten her to death out of frustration, people like you would still shout 'why didn't her divorce her if he knew he couldn't forgive and forget the incident'. Cut the man some slack.

YelloweWest:
He is inferior as a man.

He only has power when it comes to woman. He saw his fellow men shagg the brains out of his wife and couldn't do shìt about it!

What would you have done against ARMED robbers, Mr Real Man? Don't beat about the bush. Just tell us what you would have done to protect your wife in that situation.

Bahddo:
Your wife got raped in your presence while your lame cuckold ass watched, and now you are taking out your humiliation on the woman. Shame.

Put yourself in the man's shoes. Confronted with three or four ARMED robbers, wielding guns, while you have no weapon. How would you react? Fight them unarmed? And when you're shot dead, they would still rape her anyway, and then what?

chronique:
Ok. For most men, it's fear of being financially incapable. For others, it's not meeting the kind of women they want. But honestly, if we want to remedy this situation, it's not so much a hard thing. Return most of the jobs to the men and by so doing, you'd be empowering them financially to take up responsibility.

Give the job to a woman who becomes comfortable and starts searching for a partner who refuses to turn up because he doesn't want to be seen as incapable and a gold digger. At the end, he remains single and she remains single.


Give the job to a man and empower him financially to take up responsibility and he gets married and can afford to take care of his wife from it. She gets off the single market and so does he.


Looking at both scenarios, which makes more sense? Obviously the second. But unfortunately, we live in an era where more jobs are being assigned to the women and at the end of the day, the society at large ends up suffering it.

This is a pragmatic argument that I've advanced on several occasions. It's painful to see how so many girls deploy their unfair 'bottom power' and "soft' advantage to get jobs that they can't even perform well at.

You see them everywhere doing yanga, prancing about in so-called office attires and forming working class girls, with nothing but scorn for unemployed or broke guys who are more competent and qualified than them.

Guys need these jobs far more than girls, and society must redress this injustice of assigning good jobs to mediocre females.

Bibi294:
Aunty OP... You're right... The same way I'm afraid making friends with guys in my city... Everybody is driving a car... Everyone of them is living lavishly... Girls keep dying daily,guys keep getting richer... Omo, na to stay celibate o

That was how a friend of mine relocated to another city, he invited me to his hotel room when he came home from the city(an hotel closer to his family house o) he was using iphone7 and a cream worths forty two thousand... I shivered! I kuku told him I wanted to get something outside and that was it... I left...

Guys now are difficult to roll with... My advice for we ladies is to always SHINE YOUR EYE!

Are you alright? In which city is very guy rich? Why not look around for the hundreds of regular struggling guys who do not own a car, but earn a decent amount to get by daily? They are many of them around you at this moment, but your greedy and materialistic eyes wouldn't see them. Keep deceiving yourself.

networkrecharg:
PLEASE TRY AND REFUND YOUR QUOTA OF THE 80K U ATE...

OF WHAT USE ARE YOU IF U EAT HIS MONEY AND CLOSE YOUR FISVIRGTINED....

Careless thought s

One annoying thing I've noticed about Nigerian girls is how they allow you spend your own money while sizing you up, and then make a decision whether to continue or not. In other words, you are spending your own money to 'audition' yourself before her, at no cost whatsoever to her. This one came to chop N80k on a guy's head, plus Tfare, only to then decide that she's not interested. It's just too annoying.

Guys need to retrace their steps in this regard. Girls shouldn't be encouraged to have their cake and eat it too.

Bloody idiots. Forming 'awon goons mi' on top nonsense.

Boys need to have wisdom. It is always profitable.

gimakon:
Well, he sang about his Mum, maybe kids too will remember him for that.

Michael Jackson was remembered for break dance, Jordan was remembered for that Nike Air what ever where he stayed on air few seconds, who knows... He may be remembered for speaking in tounge.

Calm down.

Talk the one wey you know bros. Michael Jackson "was" remembered (sic) for what? Michael Jordan "was" remembered (sic) for what?

Don't trivialise the legacy of the legendary MJs. Those of us who are lifelong fans of both wouldn't take it lightly.

Just look at the lush greenery. Just look at the plush surroundings.

Nothing is impossible though. Nothing at all. But then, everything is only ephemeral. The joke is on us all.

Cessa0:
no it's not just abt being a Nigerian... it's about being sensible... okay what's the essence of renting a mansion nd paying dt much every month when she can get a nice apartment for that amount and still prove the same point??
Everyone knows she's rich and can afford anything she wants so der ws rily no need for this.
I'm a huge fan of Beyonce buh dis is a no-no for me.

nd this is not poverty mentality either.

Abeg keep your local, unexposed, mumu Nigerian 'sense' to yourself and quit sounding like a plebeian.

We're talking about a power couple with a cumulative net worth of $1.1 billion. They certainly don't need your advice.

And by the way, what he did with Davido's Fall, is majestic to say the least. In my opinion, it's the best video by a Nigerian artiste ever.

Sheer brilliance.

sayentease:
I am still wondering what is so special about migos' "bad and boujee" video.

I have watched it 10 times and I am wondering why it's video of the year.

Nothing different to the normal video lines we know.

Girls
Money
Alcohol.


This world tire me
Congrats to the guy sha. But oyinbo mumu

You're artistically vulgar... In an artistic sense, you're a pleb. That's why you can't see or recognise a good piece of artistic work.

The first time I watched the Bad and Boujee video, I could see the sheer art of it.

Unimpressive. Unimpressed.

I agree and disagree with you.

Unemployment and so-called poverty are NOT triggers of career criminality, i.e. compulsive criminality and sadism - the kind of which the likes of Evans and other notorious kidnappers and armed robbers are guilty of. Criminals are mostly born, not made. If you think of how many millions of poor and hopeless people across Nigeria that struggle to feed daily, but would NEVER take to violent crime, then you would understand this fact.

Rather than poverty, the trigger is greed, insecurity, and desperation - fuelled by the sort of 'pepper dem' show-offism, conspicuous consumption, and the attendant societal disdain for financial lack. You see it everywhere. Poverty is despised, criminalised and scorned. Nobody cares about your personality or charms. You're educated, intelligent, and cool, yeah, whatever, but you're a broke ass. Family, friends, girls, and society scorns you. BUT. You are barely educated, speak terrible English, look like an ogre, behave like a barbarian, but you have lots of money, then hurray! You're praised, buttlicked, coveted, and accepted by society and the finest of women. This kind of orientation wreaks havoc in the minds of many men, and breeds desperation, extremism, and even sadism in the quest to forcefully attain what society regards as the gold standard of personhood.

It's not really about poverty and unemployment per se. It's about the ridiculous adulation and privileges accorded to the well to do in our society.

That bra is a heartbreaking sight. Probably a young, old, married, or single female victim kidnapped by the animals - stripped naked, and dehumanised by scums of the earth in an uncompleted building.

Inspiring photo here.

Meanwhile, for the uninitiated, here's a brief profile (or 'inclusion criteria', if you will) of the characters in that rarified gathering:

Aliko - Oligarch - multi billion dollars, preeminent Nigerian 'centre of gravity'.

Femi - Oligarch - approximately a billion dollars, a perennial Aliko sidekick.

Tunde Ayeni - Oligarch - approximately a billion dollars.

Duke - Aristocratic political figure with a big personality: quintessential upper crust 'life of the party'.

Segun Awolowo - Aristocratic silverspoon with a quasi-dynastic heritage. Always welcome.

Otunba Niyi - Aristocratic silverspoon/political has-been, with a self-effacing albeit charming personality.

Sam Iwuajoku - dollar multi-millionaire mover, shaker, influence peddler, fixer, arranger, long time Aliko inner circle member, and man with ways and means. Proven underground player.

Charles Ahize - eminent social climbing and charismatic arriviste, reliable P. I. M. P, social arranger and "supplier', and man about town.

I find this picture very inspirational. Very very.

Meanwhile, for the uninitiated, here's a brief profile (or 'inclusion criteria', if you will) of the characters in that rarified gathering.

Aliko - Oligarch - multi billion dollars
Femi - Oligarch - approximately a billion dollars
Ayeni - Oligarch - approximately a billion dollars
Duke - Aristocratic political figure with a big personality
Segun Awolowo - Aristocratic silverspoon with a quasi-dynastic heritage
Otunba Niyi - Aristocratic silverspoon/political dynast
Sam Iwuajoku - dollar multi-millionaire mover, shaker, influence peddler, fixer, arranger, long time Aliko inner circle member, and man with ways and means. Proven underground player.

MrBrownJay1:
Very true but this man could pick ANY women he desires, yet has NONE....

The way you jump into baseless conclusions without any real evidence is disturbing. Because a man chooses not to upload pictures of himself with a so-called girlfriend does not mean that he is not bunking hot chicks night after night.

If I were in his shoes, I wouldn't upload pictures of any stupid girl too. See the example of advanced playmaker who publicly advertised his dalliance with the Kenyan sluut called Vera Sidika. Having publicly entangled himself with a stupid girl, he now has to be brought down to the gutter.

Ballers who are young , wild and free do not need public validation.

It is only in Nigeria that you would see career civil servants/public servants living a millionaire lifestyle. And yet some nincompoops would think that corruption started and ended with Jonathan.

The entire fabric of the country is messed up, and nothing can change that. Nothing at all.