Soulflai:
just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through

Are you idiot....is that how you want people to give you a candid advice... Runforyourlife.

nlfpmod:
As shared by Feli Nwa, a Nigerian Twitter user.



https://twitter.com/feli_nwa/status/1550769933830815744?t=EHwOzhZjNd4Px-IjQW7zqQ&s=08

Thank you for this information. Is it the same process for expiring passport or there is a different link for it.

Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha

YOU ARE READING MY MIND...A LIKE D MOVIE TOO

tayo60:
Don't do it ! She wants you to disvirgin her so she would be free to chop other dicks, that's her intention.

I THINK THIS IS REAL CASE

Lukgaf:
There is a societal trend to limit the invitation to people of affluence and of a certain 'social standing'. The ordinary poor, weak and downtrodden people of the community are not considered to be part of such functions. Such invitations are disliked and contrary to the Sunnah.



Darul Ihsan

Given my experience.....astagfrilah. our scholar will also share part of the blame as the event as now been turns to an avenue to collect money. to the extent that times were wasted on this most of the time. so, if the poor's are now the majority in cant imagine what the atmosphere will become.

lawrenzooo:
It was back in 2020 i was with a friend that was into MTN sim registeration when the scammer called after the back and forth i told him guy find another person to scam and he replied "idiot na your papa be scammer" i just told him make i show you say my papa na scammer.

Then my friend was activating his preregistered sim so we would put N100 and call the scammers number and i wouldnt say anything the man just kept on shouting Hello Hello and i was mute after like 30 seconds i would terminate the call and call with another line. I did that with over 50 sims, on one of the occasion he was telling his patner tha Omo e be like say my phone don spoil, then i replied him that your phone no spoil shey u say my papa na scammer i say make i show you wetin scammer pigin fit do and below was his reply

Ahhh bros so na you dey call me with different line... I know say i don offend the gods today. No vex abeg.

Lol

DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.

Let me listen to people`s advices perhaps it will go along way to rebuild my similar situation but different scenario.

Was swimming designed to show off your dick....

Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

Apparently you are not the first wife and probably you are a side chick turned wife...KAMAL IS AT WORK.

doctorexcel:
It is not the clothe, it's her physique. No bi every clothe they fit body

How much did she pay..do you even bother to ask.

How about the toxic comment?
Here na jungle,na who get tactics go fit survive,I am the king I rule this forum.
You all should bow before me.

ABI U DEY POPO GARI...NA WHO CROWN YOU. AM THE KING OF THE KINGS.

BareFacedLies:
How will someone give her doggy style sef?

she will go on her knee ni

MamiTer:
Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.

Telling the other guy you have had sex with the new guy in other to set him off is not a good idea....Giving the fact that he attacked you on your formal shared secret. My advice is that if you are breaking up with a guy..do it with your full chest and not on and off......the consequence is catastrophic.

yongLord:
Don't know if this is the right thread but I hope it gets to the right audience. Pardon my English. I'll try to make it brief

A very close friend just got an apartment and moved in late December, the house was gotten through the sister (to the owner) who monitored the construction of the house. The house hasn't been registered with the electricity company and water isn't running as at the time he paid (190k + 40k (commission &agreement)) the water.

On Saturday, he said the owner came and the wife attended to them outside as they were discussing some other things about the house while he was praying inside. Before she left she even played with his children and gave them #200 also took their picture.

Fast forward to Monday, he got a call from the husband to the sister saying all sought of abusive words to him claiming the owner of the house wasn't attended to properly, they were supposed to let her in even without the consent of the husband since she's the owner of the house, therefore they should move out at month end. The wife called the owner of the house and she said the same thing then the another of their brother called again saying the same thing. They claimed that their remaining change will be refunded.

The question now is, should he stand on collecting all of the money or the balance as they said?

Base on baseless thing..na full i go collect or else we court..what right does he/she have to enter my apartment even if he is d owner.

drakeli:
I don’t know what you mean by catch cruise unless you explain. A security outfit is a job that comes with professionalism. That singular act of dancing can cause the security company that employed them a lot of money. If I know the name of the company, I don’t want to do business with a security company whose employees lack professionalism on the job. So many business owner clients would see it that way. That’s how business lose money.

Dancing on the job as a security officer entrusted with display of professionalism is a stupid cruise to catch. I don’t catch such

This dancing of a thing could be a brief expression of joy and not nonsensical.

Omicronvaccine:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mOCFjlUJ40



https://fb.watch/bCiSA8BhSs/

its someone`s destiny that helped the others.....may God send my helpers to me in due time.

kreativenaija:
Did you play this yesterday...
If Yes congratulations to you

Are you sure todays..??

Blunttruth:
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So what's our business. Would you prefer her to laugh?

Can you imagine her laughing during the pounding...you wont like it though.

GUY U NEARLY COS ERECTION FOR HERE OO...I LIKE THE EPISTLE THOUGH/

justwise:
This is Part5 of the UK visiting/tourist visa thread

Part 4 is here https://www.nairaland.com/5233246/general-uk-visa-enquiries-part

Visit this link for application and other info https://www.gov.uk/standard-visitor-visa/apply

Good luck

Hello dear nairalander. Can we talk in private pls.

[quote author=Lazycyndy post=92720439]Op the English is too high for them abeg reduce it so that the children can learn. THANK YOU.

tejiri4:
It's a good one but you can accept a girl that is working and able to take care of herself even though her family is not too okay, you can support her with little if need exist.

ITHINK I BUY INTO THIS IDEA OF A FELLOW NAIRALANDER. YOU HAVE A VERY GOOD POINT THOUGH. ITS INFACT, AN EYE OPENER SOMEONE LIKE US. NOT because WE ARE GREEDY OR A GOLD DIGGER BUT, AT A POINT YOU SUD HAVE SOMEONE TO RUN TO WHEN U ARE DONW TOO.

darkstar6971:
Hey Nairalander pls I'm here purposely for advice
I have a girlfriend of mine which we have been together for quit long time and we share everything together even reach a level of buying her an iPhone 11 while I'm managing my Samsung phone... So one day some incident happen to me that lead me to prison for almost 4 months yet for all this period this girl has never try to pay me the reason... after winning the court trial this girl come to me and kneel down asking me to forgive her for what she did yet I have been forgiving her for the previousmistakes,
Guyss pls I really need advice is she manipulating me or is a love?

Are sure you are in your right senses.....oku obo

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

A normal person will take to her heel i must confess. You havent even married and you are already placing her on a tight end. I will advice that you abolished that plan totally, it doent work for someone who want to raise a good and healthy family. if she goes with your plan and eventually she lost the job, what would you do then.

MufasaLion:
There's no crime in what he's done as long as hes qualified. This is the reason they do let their kids get the best of education and experience.

If I were to be in his position and I had a son, I would do the same!

correct.!

Coded081:
What were you filming

aint a bad thing to film or taking pics....

Ebubechuwku:
If you are not from a rich or wealthy background, stop looking for love at age 20-28... thats your prime age, that you have all the power, strength and you are agile, use it make your life meaningful and leverage yourself above poverty.


U no get money, u wan use all your youthful age chase love, if love come, wetin u wan use maintain am...

Nice food for the heart but difficult to be stomach by soul.

chatinent:


If trust dey, bro, water no suppose boil fish.

Like i never hear dis b4.. More wisdom bros.

Kuriosmynd:
Now, don't assume you know this young man well enough. You just barely met him.

You will know him better after you guys have sex 3x to 5x. I guess he already fvcked you well, otherwise I don't get your desperation.
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You sound like a good innocent girl. I think I like your person. But I also feel the guy is trying to take firm control of you and do you as he pleases. Thread carefully. Those words he throws around shouldn't be taken lightly. There are often truth in light jokes.

You still need to understand his psyche, don't ask him openly, but during conversation and subtle question, u will connect the dots. U need to know the kind of girl he really wishes to marry. I mean In terms of look, endowment, age, family background and tribe, u must see if u fall in that category...else it's good to start being sceptical.
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The truth is, sometimes, we guys might be dating a great girl, yet we are not convinced she's our want/spec.so we end up doing her as we please and dump her, and she starts to doubt herself.
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Again. You need to know where he really wish to be, I mean his dream and plans; see if he's in that direction. See if he's content abt his present state, otherwise some guys might want to be headed toward their dream before giving marriage a serious interest. Forget about what he father has.Try to know where he wants to be.

Then reduce ur desperation and see how he responds to your unavailability. Note his words and don't be blind to his actions.
And lastly, don't showoff u have money..lol Guys will eat you, especially if he's not that committed to you.
Keep observing, as you never really known this guy. Later, you can ask him his plans for marriage, there's nothing bad. You need to know this guy's psyche abt marriage, otherwise u will be traveling in a boat without destination

Fortunately for you the guy is hearing.. lol. Let him go. from your outburst here, u seems to be okay. meanwhile, dont think you are too old, take ur time the right guy might just at your finger tips all you need to do is create a little space for the right guy to walk in...Dont take a red flag for granted.

ImoleNaija:
The infamous lady, herself.

I really hope you don't tour the path of olosho/slay queens in your next life.

This wahala sef is enof to kill someone. The babe sef for don nearly die with this up and down.

AbelAbdul:
Good morning everyone.

I was here on this platform in 2019 seeking for advice concerning Transportation business.
I eventually went into the business and it was a sad experience. You can read my previous threads for more information on the business.

After the collapsed of the transportation business, I venture into money lending business.

I lend money to people with the hope to get a refund with interests.

Since 2019 I went into the business, I have lent money to over 20 people and only 5 have refund the money.

Those 5 people who refunded the money, it was a fight before the refund. Obviously if police has no right to arrest over debt incurred, then, people should think twice before giving out your hard earned money to people.

Before I lend money to people, I make them sign T & C documents.
Some signed the hard copy others signed the softcopy.

When it is time to pay off, they refuse to pay. I have called them severally. At a point I told them to pay only the capitals and forget about the interests.

At a point some will make statements like "Don't disturb me. Even Federal Government owes. It is debt not stealing".

I had made arrangement that this December I will arrest some of them.

But recently I read on this platform that the police has no right to arrest anyone over debt.

Please how can I get them refund my money without involving the police?

Obviously is police has no right to arrest over debt incurred, then, people should think twice before giving out your hard earned money to people.