₦airaland Forum

You have made some good points

dominique:
Still no correlation. According to you, someone that wants to repair planes doesn't need to go to school, all he need to present is his experience at fixing keke and the job is his. What manner of reasoning is this? That some people have made it without higher education doesn't mean we should discourage others from going to school. That's outright wickedness

Your problem is the job seeking mentality, rather than the job creator mentality. Note that Formal schooling is not the only way of getting educated. Learning goes on in various ways. Those earth shakers who made it without higher education were also educated in other ways. They acquired special knowledge and skills which made them break new ground in their chosen fields.

dominique:
"I want him to repair aeroplanes in future so he can rescue me from poverty". Very stupid statement to make. So it's by fiddling with a keke napep that he will learn out to repair aeroplanes right? You need to get him to love maths and physics not get his hands dirty under a keke. Besides it's your duty not your child's to take yourself out of poverty. African parents, mounting unnecessary pressure on their children since 1722

That was an uninformed comment. The wilbur brothers who invented the aeroplane were bicycle technicians who were high school dropouts. Dont be fooled by fake nigerian book learning.

Yo!

KEEP QUIET ALL OF YOU. DON'T BE FOOLED BY THE IGNORANT/MISCHIEVOUS PRESS AND THE CORRUPT POLICE. It is the same unlettered press that labels Nigerian street gangs and campus fraternities as CULTS!

What has been reported is nothing but charitable ADOPTION HOMES that take in homeless teenage mothers and take care of them during pregnancy. After delivery they are free to choose to give up their babies for adoption by willing families. This is strictly a work of charity. The police, after failing an extortion bid on them raids them with the connivance of an irresponsible press in the name of baby factory.

Do you you know what is baby factory? Where is the coercion in what has been reported? Where are the evidence of money paid for purchasing babies? Are the teenage mothers not destitute and being helped? Now that the home has been disorganized what will be the fate of the pregnant mothers? Who will take care of them? Who will take care of the babies when born? Is it the police? Or adoption still?

Testosterone!

...but hope you didn't lead him on, only to have last minute change of mind. That one can cause this temporary loss of sanity!

Chai! This may be the work of the herdsmen

modsfucker:
He didn't appoint a DGSS outside his zone... He appointed Ita Ekpenyong, a South South man, as the SSS DG. We're taking about secret service, not some police or military.

My friend, they are complaining of ALL the security heads being from one section of the country. Now that is exceptional, ok!

Na GANG, GANG, GANG, GAAAANNNG!

Christ! Stop the confusion. Stop saying cult when you mean gang.

Vote Kingsley moghalu for president

They are practicing the real thing, not the hypocrisy of the rest of the world. Men and women live in different worlds. The world of women is different from that of men: fact. Men and women cannot really communicate with the same language. As a man you say something and the womenfolk understand a different thing and vice versa. Different languages may have solved this problem - if you want to say what the women will understand, you use their language and vice versa. Chikena.

Sagay, you see your life?

Christ;

lovethchioma:
It is not the goal of every woman to finish school, get married and have children. Our lives are not all centered around just getting married.

For some of us it is to build a good career, have our own money and of course get married to the right person when the time comes.

I want to believe life is all about priority and we pursue things according to what's more important to us at the moment. and Priority differs for everyone.

Don't get it twisted.

Marriage, kids, career. Strictly in that sequence. If you know, you know.

present day era musicians need to return to the lagbaja mold, add meaning to their music.

A good hard punch delivered straight to his nose might reset his brain. Try it.

Yeah...'Change' begins with you!

This discovery is very significant

nahzyla:
The Op is a Nigerian man that lives on Nigeria so I am giving him advice accordingly. Supposing he lives abroad I will tell him what pertains to foreign countries.

Gbam! On point.

Eketem:
You should have discussed finance before marriage in black and white. Who does what? Who pays for which bill?

It is wicked for her to spend all your money while " saving " her own shebi you cannot save?


It is sad that women will want modern men who can cook and clean but when it comes to money matter they remember that a man is the head of the home.

Renegotiate your terms, do a household budget everything light water, food rent etc should be included then agree on who will do what based on income earned not based on who is a man and a woman

If OP attempts to renegotiate, she will break down the marriage irretrievably, because she will prefer going it alone (now the world knows that she is married) than sharing her money with a man. OP has been scammed. There is nothing the OP can do now except follow through on his own advise to himself - move out until his finances improve. Too bad, but that is how it goes. It's unfortunate.

Small boys have swamped Naira land!

Benblaq:
That was the power of God's anointing at work.

Where did you read of alien ship?

Or stroke. Some types of partial stroke can cause that perception of blinding light and sound. Dont take my word for it. If you are a medical expert, you already know. If not, Goggle it.

What is really happening in this country? This country has turned to a jungle. Or are we at war?

mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!

Thumb up! Man, Are you one slick Machiavelli!

Your advice would probably not be taken by most. Until it is far too late.

lenny12:
it's Like You Don't Know The Saying Ooo, A Fool@4o.Is A Fool Forever

...Or, there is no fool like an old fool

Daboomb:
That is where you get it wrong!

its like saying 'You will only die if run over by a train, if you only beleive so'.

......though, unjust curses (or curses without reason) will not manifest.
Some of you dont even beleive their are spirits that roam around us daily?
Anyway, Indomie generation, wetin una sabi sef?

You see and feel the train. Who has seen or touched or proven the existence of the spirits. We Africans need to emerge from superstition and join the rest of the world in logical thinking, science and technology.

Davidfash10000:
Davido Show Off Cars Worth 400 Million In His Garage As He Beats Wizkid, Tekno



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeK5atN8kls

Please desist from derailing the thread with irrelevant nonsense. Does David know how to change even the breakpad on those cars? Encourage the youth to create wealth through technology acquisition and not these crazed lust for objects of oyibo craftsmanship.

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soberdrunk:
All of you supporting this "killer", if i personally Swear for you people, "Hot Engine oil" will be hungrying' all of you to drink. What is wrong with Nigerians? When did the punishment for domestic violence become 'death'? Someone killed a human being in cold blood and you people are trying to play 'the victim card' are you all okay!!! I will have been able to understand if it was a struggle and she pushed him then he fell down or hit his head and died but to pick up a knife and stab someone to death!! I am not buying this 'self defence' rubbish, if all the ladies experiencing domestic violence in Nigeria start to stab their husbands to death do you all know the amount of murder cases we will have. According to them the man was a 'useless' man and he wasn't contributing anything except 'beating' so why didn't she leave?

THANK YOU.

Straight to Ajannah?

Meajor:
Some men are just beast...how can you beat your wife, who mean you good?? I respect my dad, no for nice has he ever lift a hand on mom, one thing sweet thing he taught me is, no matter how angry you are, just go out...shikenan, before you come back temper go low

What if you wan commot, and she block the door? Or lock and hide the key? Its not easy with some women.

MiddleDimension:
look at you as if you did not keep more than one boyfriend when you were younger!

men and women all cheat, and none cheat more than the other. it is only a question of whats stage in life one is at that moment.

before marriage, women cheat more this is because they are in their prime and are most beautiful. in marriag, it is men and thats because at that time, men begin to look more attractive to women because they now have money to spend.

in marriag, women dont look all gorgeous anymore and as a result, have few men coming for her. her huaband becomes the only option she's got and ofcourse, tell me who that person is who wont protect their only option in life even if it means not cheating so as not to lose their only option of free seeex and constant companionship?

so the whole idea that women are more faithful in marriage, is not to say that they are more moral than men and could respect the marital institution more, but it ia just a matter of hat which we can understand.

Kudos. Your head dey there!