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Na wa o! How dey manage come out for purdah? I thought they belong to the kitchen, and za oza room?

hisexcellency34:
Reminds me of the poem " An Irish Airman Foresees His Death"

William Butler Yeats. " ...a lonely impulse of delight". You are not alone my brother.

Antichristus:
IGINLA MEANS BIG ROD. OSTENSIBLY, THE GUY HAS IT UNDERNEATH HIS PANT. OTHERWISE, WHY WOULD TWO WOMEN BE FIGHTING OVER HIM.

I NEITHER BLAME HIM NOR THE TWO WOMEN FIGHTING OVER THE BID ROD. I BLAME THE GULLIBLE CONGREGANTS. THE TIME FAST APPROACHES WHEN THESE CHURCHES, LIKE THEIR ANTECEDENTS IN BRITAIN, WOULD BECOME DESOLATE.

AMEN

indigene:
Your knowledge is highly limited.
Late George Bush Snr 41st American president. Handed over to George Bush Jnr 43rd president of American, (Served as governor of Texas) His Brother Jeb Bush was governor of Florida. George Bush Jnr handed over to Barack Obama Bush, Who wanted to hand over to Hillary Clinton Bush, until Americans saw the drought game

HABA! WHAT IS THIS? barrack obama bush? Hillary Clinton bush? Jesus!

IntrovertedK:
SS is a joke. She's married to a Yoruba man, have business in Lagos but she's a member of parliament in Delta. Give me one reason why she has to fix Delta? Once she lost out, she's returning back to her business in Lagos. Smh

No. Its no joke. Just cultural difference. In Delta a married woman never reliquishes her membership of her fatherland, hence at her demise her corpse must be brought back to her father's compound for burial. She will never be buried in her husband's hometown but her father's hometown. As such she is still a bonafide delta woman despite marriage outside the state.

Volksfuhrer:
You really want to know? Well, here it is ina rubbadub stylie...

They plundered everywhere they went and stole everything in sight including the identity of others! They were originally nomads who stole the civilization of others and later claimed what others invented as theirs. There's nothing cool about them as a race please! Even their poster boy Alexander of Macedonia was so wicked he sold women and children (nay, an entire population into slavery) as he plundered cooler civilizations much older and more advanced than his own!

I will always respect the Chinese...yea, those ones are truly cool. When they were on top centuries ago, they were sailing around the world trading peacefully. They had the might to seize "living space" for themselves but chose contentment over unbridled greed!

Such enlightenment is very rare.You are well informed, my brother.

Timisamd:
bro no be the matter of falling in love easily.. Tue thing is that na your prick no gree you commot face

Gbam! Na lack of self control be that. Wetin be love?

For failing to add 'insha Allah', you have doomed yourself. For all power belongs to Allah.

Preshy561:
This is what happens when a man treats his woman right.
Respect, love, submission, prayers, and all things will.come naturally.

It is impossible for a woman to love a husband or boyfriend. Respect and submission is all she can give, which is what this woman has given.

SiobhanMeadow:
Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

A woman cannot love a man. It's only a man that has the capacity and duty to love. The only thing a woman can do for a man is to submit to him since her nature forbids her from loving her husband. A woman can only love her children, and perhaps other blood relatives, but never her husband or boyfriend. This truth is sad to many young men and they will never accept it and be guided by it until it is too late.

The Bible is clear on the matter:
Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

missyblissy:
Coming from a man, am so disappointed i pray you dont have a wife that grtd pregnant with many issues such as bed rest, morning sickness, cant take smell around and eat specific foods. If you do. You will come backe here and apologise.

It's all fake and make believe to bamboozle and control the foolish men. Pregnancy and childbirth is as natural as eating, sleeping, pissing, and shitting. For heaven's sake All female mammals do it, even without assistance. It's not different with female humans.

Elsah:
It's not everything in your head you must voice out. What you said is an obvious fact, but it is outrightly disrespectful to say it out loud. Sometimes, you can learn to keep things to yourself, if you don't have anything positive to say.

By responding to the post, you are also guilty of the same thing you accused him. Sometimes, " Silence is the best answer for a ..."

Saffi:
If you’re not providing for me what is your use? Do you want to be cooking in the kitchen and cleaning the house since you don’t want to make money? The physique men have was created for you to work and lead in the household. Yet most of you want to switch the roles and behave like incompetent fools. Yet you demand respect and authority in the house, when you want to live a contradicting lifestyle. Most of you are normal in the head.

Lol! My sister, tell them, abeg.

Women and lies - 5 & 6.

mogbojaiye:
There is another guy in d picture already that's why the girl has d boldness to say she wan comot from d 3 year old relationship........op never smart for woman matter

Correct. You are very experienced.

haladadon:
nobody knows the name of the driver.

no one is talking about the driver.

oh God no make me come this world to escort person.

What of even the abducted friend

LagosWharf:
Madam OP.You story is bent. It is clear that you added a few sentences to garner pity. E.g "I was willing to move to Nigeria permanently and forget about London completely. It was time to do the traditional marriage now, he said he’s not doing anymore."

Those are lies. You came to Nigeria to divorce him and move on with your life since the guy was deported. But since you are married legally, you are stuck with him. You came to divorce him but he is refusing.

Don't lie. Come clean. Say it as it is and I will help you with direct steps to take and where to go if you come clean and say it as it really is

Gbam!

No smoke without fire

..."The only thing that changed in Mr. President is his physical structure, and this is because he is ageing. Apart from that, there is nothing missing or part of his structure or attitude that has changed."

THIS STATEMENT BY DAURA MAKES ME VERY SUSPICIOUS

Hmm

internationalman:
The story is fake..

Who would suspect his wife having sex in the room next to him and not have the urge to barge in..

Exactly. Nonsense kids on nairaland spewing trash from their sex starved minds

Na our wastern states be that

Jesus Christ!

Mods...Abeg close this thread so that we don't show case our ignorance of basic arithmetic here.

The deadly foolanis

They should tell the truth and shame the devil. Which bandits? The so called "bandits" are they not the foreign fulanis imported to fight the battles of the Nigerian fulanis. After doing the dirty work, they settled down to ravage the country side as you couldn't settle them.

Cattle rustling my foot! Is there any group that deals on cattle apart from the deadly foolanis?

The chicken has come home to roost. It's Fulani Vs Fulani.

zionmde:
All the guy needed to do was to dissolve the marriage and move on. Nothing is worth more sacrificing for than freedom.
I advice people never to take any action when they are eaten up with anger

You have spoken like a black man.

Explorers:
The topic says 'DURING' not After rape.

A woman/girl will defend herself with anything(gun/knive/bottle) to avoid being raped, that's normal anywhere in the world with evidence(cctv footage) except lawless/racist societies.

A man/boss trying to rape a girl , she picked up an object to defend herself and the man died from the hit(That could have happened 90%)

A masked man broke into my home in the middle of the night and i have a gun. I will attack first, i will shoot him even if he's not armed.

That's normal, i wont wait till he pull out his weapon.

Noted: No right thinking authority would have convicted her if the scenario was as you have outlined. However, the news is ambiguous whether it was during a rape episode or the intermission between several rape episodes

"Indonesian maid Tuti Tursilawati was executed by Saudi Arabia after she killed her boss who was raping her. "

It must have been a premeditated murder to settle scores.

armadeo:
You sound as if rape is not a crime enough to get murdered for. You sound as if the reaction of the woman was extreme.

If you've ever talked to rape victims and see how they've been shattered you wouldn't sound this way.

It takes away part of thier soul forever. if she killed him in self defence trying to avoid rape then she did no wrong.

@bolded, I HEAR U WELL WELL!
RAPE is very bad, but is not equivalent to murder. The legal punishment for rape is never the death sentence anywhere in the world.

Kingosytex:
they shouldn't have executed the lady because she acted on self defence

Self defense of what? Was she about to be killed? And this from a mother not even a virgin. You don't take human life because of rape. It's just like stabbing someone to death because the person slapped you.

Oyibos!!

Let them invent something useful like the oyibos. No be book we want. You fit chop book? Who book help?

Invent cure for cancer. Or more powerful solar batteries at cheaper cost. Or cheaper solar panels etc etc