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IF MEN ARE CHEATING, I PRAY, WHO DO THEY CHEAT WITH? Extra-terrestrials?

PrimadonnaO:
From the entire writeup, I can deduce that your wife is being swayed by her own family, her sister and mother, especially. But there's surely a reason why she's listening to them. There's another problem in your home, something she isn't telling you about. My guess is that your financial condition isn't settling well with her. There are other men asking her out and her sister seems to think it's okay. Your wife also, feels she could have pitched her tent with someone better.

So, she's looking for every possible reason to walk away. But she loves you...and she's married. That's why she hasn't left.
The onus now lies on you to put your marriage back on track. Don't allow anything you don't want. Keep ALL the in-laws away for now.

Gbam! Your head dey there!

Ok

Na wao

hakimi1974:
so saudi arabia and arizona that is hotter than any place in naija they remove their thermostat abi? mr man change that your quack mechanic, and stop missleading people.

Those places are just dry deserts in temperate latitudes. Dont confuse dry with hot. If you spent a night in those places outside a shelter you will face biting cold of 5 to 10 deg centigrade.

ow11:
1. The temperature in 'oyibo climate mimics African climate' for three months every year

2. Engines run around 90 degrees C which is twice as hot as the hottest ambient temperature in Nigeria

3. A Thermostat's role is to ensure the temperature of the running engine is constant for optimal performance. Any less and there will be noticeable problems like described in the original post.

4. If your car is overheating, the thermostat needs replacement not removal

5. You should have paid attention in Integrated Science class

With an ambient temp of 40 deg centigrade, it takes less to no time for an engine to reach 90 deg. So for Nigeria humid and hot climate, thermostat is unnecessary and the fan needs to blow continously to maintain engine at the designed 90 degrees centigrade.

The proof is that cars are running successfully even for a decade without the thermostat and without any engine problem whatsoever.

id4sho:
your vehicle has hidden issues which will come up sooner or later .How about vehicles from TEXAS and DUBAI that's hotter than Nigeria. Do you know that Peugeot assembled in kaduna come with thermostat. check innoson

Please those places are not as hot as Naija abeg. There hottest temp DURING SUMMER is equivalent to our cool days.

Originalsly:
Does all this really boil down to the winner getting an educational grant? .and really?...all schools are required to send 6 participants? ...and how is this going to resuscitate the education system? Wayyy too much froth too little substance.

There will be competition in each school for the emergence of the six

teflonjake:
You are a fool

What did he say that warrants you abusing him?

WORDWORLD:
Would any of us live FOREVER if the world NEVER comes to an end? "live your life as if you wont exist again the following day" Is the reality called DEATH, that INEVITABLE we so much ignore . Thanks for the advice, its a good one.

@the bolded, good question. For all of us, THE WORLD HAS ENDED FOR US AT THE TIME OF DEATH" EVERY LIVING THING MUST EVENTUALLY DIE. MAN MUST RECONCILE HIMSELF/HERSELF TO THIS FACT AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.

What a coincidence! We all have thousands of dreams year by year. Statistically, some of them are bound to come true Just by the laws of probability alone, nothing else.

Gbam!

Mixola:
I really wish I can answer all these questions. I admit that I brought all this on my self (her too). I had been careful all my life til I met her. I was only taught about commitment in marriage. Love/passion/ affection/friendliness were secondary until few weeks I signed the dotted lines. We have two kids. Their age difference is quite much, almost four years and it's simply because I don't wanna father another child in this hapless harmony. Courtship was a disaster. I felt my real self was mummified. Despite all these, I wanted to make it work but there was no oil in the mill. I feel terribly bad cos I broke up with ladies amicably when I observed things I couldn't cope with. This caught me pants down. I take responsibility even though there were pastoral influences. Persons i respect in the church but I can't start to blame them.

Like the other guy said, I don't get any erection on sighting her. I wouldn't go violent. I will rather drive to sambisa. I was considering divorce but for the kids and my old mother. My mum raised five of us alone till adulthood. I was 5 when dad passed on. Divorce will shatter her even though my wife has little or no regard for her. My mum will call her and she will never pick or acknowledge or return the call. I keep in touch with her parents and siblings yet mine are abhorrent to her.

I don't know why I am still here really. Death seems sweeter though I can't initiate myself. I really wanna be free

Hey! Be a man and take charge of your life, stop whining like a baby. Discipline the woman in your life and make her take instructions. Do not be afraid. she will give u the respect u deserve when she has cause to fear you. If she wont respond to discipline, intensify it until she succumbs or runs away. If all fails boot her out, or you walk out of the relationship. Be relentless,. Remember, the harder you are, the more love and repect you get from your woman. Don't use violence, but never shy away from using THE THREAT OF VIOLENCE! That is your only advantage in the sex war or love game - if u want to give it a sweeter name.

The name "shylock" gives the game away! Wow!

Ossyglobal:
Yes, witches and wizards exist. last nyt too, i encountered one. i have the gift of seeing them. At exactly 2.30am after my midnyt prayer that ended around 1.10am. a witch came into my room and sat on my bed but because i was laying upward, i was able to see her face. she is an elderly fair woman who was just sitting comfortable at the edge of my bed. mind you, at this her presence there had already freesed my movement and i was struggling to free myself or call out the name of Jesus, but i could'nt.

i was feeling exhausted and suffocating untill the grace of God came in and subdued her.
do witches exist? the answer is yes

You must be schizophrenic

You have written a long one. This is a complex case as the power relationship between the sexes can be intertwined. Some affirm that men may rule the world, but Women are ruling the men who rule the world.

All these cultural attitudes you have enumerated were defined and instituted by women in the first place for their benefit and protection and to preserve their God given natural advantages over men. Women define future cultural attitudes since they are in charge of child rearing (both male and female). The staus quo today was defined by women and benefits them. Is there any woman who would rather trade places with a man, and give up all her natural advantages? Never.

All the expectations of society on women you wrote about as impositions by men you should have substituted WOMEN for the Men you accused. Who taught you the role of women in the kitchen etc? MOTHER and other women. Who taught you from childhood to see yourself as a 'beauty' object? MOTHER and other women. Who is scared of Feminism producing sex liberated women? Certainly not Men, but majority of women who feel that would cheapen the chief weapon of female power and render it less potent. Feminism is riddled with hypocrisy. There are only very few true feminists espousing an ideology whereby men and women enjoy equal and non exploitative relations in society.


Most feminists are not really serious about it. For those of them that are dead serious, their enemies are the majority of their fellow women who love and benefit from the status quo. Most men would welcome true feminists as real sisters and companions and not the liabilities, burdens, slave masters most women become in traditional relationships.

Coldfeets:
I don't know.

Maybe you are speaking for yourself but I don't see how women have enslaved me.

If you are a weak man or you wholly decide to subject or allow yourself to be enslaved by a woman, just know that it is your choice.

This female power you're kind of hyping here is pretty much limited as it is primarily based or related to sex.

Remove the sex and the woman is totally inconsequential in the scheme of things in your life as a man.

@bolded: exactly! Remove the sex, then what else is remaining in the life of a Man. Procreation is a most potent force, the raison d'etre of Life itself.

By the way, female power is not just simply sex, as you put it.

Female power manifests in three spheres of a man's life and is hard to escape or control:

Mother power - the power of mothers to condition the behaviour of male children during child rearing.

Bride power - The power of women over men with uncontrollable libido.

Wife power - the domination of women in the nuclear family.

Coldfeets:
Totally DISAGREE.

Reason why?

Women cannot handle power!

Reason why?

Women lack the basic rationality that is expected of leaders!

Reason why?

Women are wholly myopic.

Case closed.

Next!

Women cannot handle power? Wrong. They are adepts.

Women lack basic rationality? Wronger. They are very cool headed and composed.

Women are myopic? Wrongest. They are long range strategic planners, far more than men.

All these defects u noted are clever ruses the womenfolk has traditionally used to pull the wool over the eyes of men, to the fact of the very clever control they exert on men, and how they ruthlessly use men to sustain and maintain themselves in relative comfort while the men suffer and slave for them in the mistaken notion of machismo.

for more info, go to Chinwendu's "ANATOMY OF FEMALE POWER", and u will learn the truth of your enslavement. U may be able to download scanned pdf copies from the web becaused the book was banned and wiped off the bookshelves by the female controlled authorities.

Obalende:
@ mynd44.You have not addressed the topic. Also please note I am neither leaning right nor left just presenting the topic for discussion.

If women commit less crime then they should lead men in that regard and teach them the way to less crime.

No?

Go through your points again carefully. You have noted that the proceeds of the male crime are spent on women. If women are the ultimate beneficiaries of crime, it means they are the cause and instigators of the so called male crime.

You should be calling for a re education of the men folk to stop slaving for the the women. Let them work for their living. Nature has blessed them with too many powers already, forcefully giving them extra powers in official government is uncalled for and will amount to killing off the men who are already enslaved enough, and that will create an imbalance in society. Women are already exercising all the power they want in government from 'za oza room'. They dont want or need official power to influence society. The situation now is that men may be ruling but women rule those men.

Yes to TRUE feminism. Men and women should work equally for their living. Men should be reeducated the ways girls are educated to curb their libido, and women reeducated to stop the sexual exploitation of men.

enonche85:
At list his presence saved a life. Only God knows what would have happened to the woman if he was not there.

I believe u have sisters, pray when it gets to their turn someone will be there to protect them.

Nothing bad for happen! The man must have been missing his wife, anxiously awaiting a bleep when she showed up with another man, frustrating the husband from having access to his own wife. He should count himself lucky for still having his life. Is he the married woman's blood relation? So why is he harbouring a married woman? If the married woman faced a marital threat doesnt she know better than to go to her parents house or to another blood relation, or to the husband's relations? Whats the proof that she is not having a relationship with the stabbed man? With a good lawyer the stabber will escape conviction.

franksam2009:
I don't believe this fake story because it is a one side story, tornu house don turned to a shelter for runaway married woman? Is he now her bodyguard? I think they are having an affair that's why the lady's husband inflicted this amount of injury on him.

Gbam! You must be correct.

dataking:
See how foolish you are. You don’t even know how to argue. You shot yourself in the foot. So by stopping muslim immigration and wanting only a Christian Europe. Isnt that a political motive.

Christian fanatics like you are just filled with hatred and will never call a spade a spade. Brainwashed lots.

Terrorist.

Brother, present day Europe is not Christian! It is secular, if not atheist or agnostic.

dataking:
Framed cause you didnt hear Ali or Ahmed. Yeye people. Always shifting goal post. Was the Norway Christian terrorist that killed and injurer hundreds framed too. Not to talk of other similar cases in the last decade alone.

You are all hypocrites

Did the Norway terrorist kill to further Christian religion? Or to protect his SECULAR way of life? Did he mention jesus christ or God as any of his reasons? If you answer No, then he was not a CHRISTIAN Terrorist, just a terrorist for his own political objectives, perhaps to restrict muslim immigration to his country.

Iamnobody:
This makes no sense. Someone killed at least 59 people with death toll assumed to be higher and your still concerned with his religion.

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery mehn.

Terrorism shouldn’t be about religion. Every terrorist is a nut job.

You can’t be sane and take people’s lives.

Wrong! Then those fighting the various wars in the world are all insane? Terrorism is politics gone bad, not even about religion as you rightfully said. Islam is a special case because the religion integrates both faith and politics as one. Islamic terrorists pursue the political aspects of the religion by unconventional methods. There are no Christian terrorists because christianity has no political aims ("...give unto ceaser what is his, and to God his own...", ..."the Kingdom of God is within you..." etc

If stephen paddock had no political objectives in his action, then he cant be a terrorist; just a mad man, and the event must be treated as an uncontrollable natural disaster like earthquake, wild fires, or tsunami etc

dabiton:
It seems to me that the Igboz have allocated to themselves the right to hate and denigrate every other human being in Nigeria... Yet they expect everyone to massage their superiority complex infested egos.
How do you explain calling every other group in Nigeria ANIMALS and ZOO occupants and hypocritically expect LOVE for Igbo's?
You cry marginalisation but you openly display your crab culture and inhospitable disdain for every other non-igbo in your enclave. Yet you want be embraced and romanced.
Who started the dirty fight of insults and dehumanisation on Radio Biafra?
Yet like children of rage you beat the drums of war and openly try to forcefully annex other tribes to form your Biafra, yet yhr Igbo are yhr victims.
You said you want out of the zoo... The animals in the zoo said leave by 1st October and now you want to turn story on its head and once again become the victims.
When Igbo's insult and even maim other humans, it is peacefully unarmed struggle of the innocent.
I can only think of two phases: rage boys and cry babies!

In this your rant, wherever you typed "igbo", replace with "IPOB"; and do not ever commit that sin of generalizing the acts of a handful of people to an entire ethnic group.

No be madness be dis?

Nasiruddeen:
ON THE ALLEGATIONS BY IPOB THAT THE NORTH IS A PARASITE ON NIGERIA' S ECONOMY

Augustine Timipre Ebimone used facts and figures to address the ill informed Igbo brothers and sisters as follows. You are saying that the North contributes nothing? Please note the following facts..........

At least 15 million southerners, 5 million Igbos live & trade up the North for their daily bread.

Limestone mines Benue: Kogi, Sokoto, and Bauchi supply 40% Nigeria's cement. Zero cement from Niger Delta but they live & work in cement buildings.

Kogi iron ore mines supply 80% of local iron & steel in Nigeria from Ajaokuta.

100% cow meat, 95% groundnut, 60% potato, 60% rice, 80% yam, 50% maize, 20% fish, 90% tomato onion pepper, 50% milk, sugar, salt , 90% of beans to feed 180 million hungry Nigerians every day all come from the North!

100% hydro electricity that powers Nigeria when Ijaw militants bomb gas pipelines to power stations putting Nigeria into darkness. How many times have angry Northern youths cut off power from Kainji, Jebba, Shiroro, Zungeru hydro dams to throw all Nigeria into darkness?

The North can cut off food supply and starve Nigeria to death. They can also cut electricity to put us into darkness.

You guys are a bunch of fools, as if only oil & gas plus open shop trade jeans & shirt is what keeps Nigeria alive. Fools, North contributes to Nigeria more than East. How much agricultural & mineral resources does Igbo land share out to the other 31 states of Nigeria? Kidnappings, drug peddling, fake spare parts or what else?

Enough of all this bile, please. You are on point. Hence the clamour now for RESTRUCTURING. Let each state or region have control of its resources and contribute a % to the Center, instead of the reverse situation that now obtains.

erico2k2:
The external temperature of your car has no direct effect to an internal combustion Engine, its a closed system, heat is generated and taken care of from within is why the Thermostats open when teh water is HOT enough, at high speed your fan sometimes stop working as the water iscool enough to go round your block due to wind action. The Only way the external environment effect the temp of your Engine is the rate at which it takes to reach normal working temp. Those super fast cars have a mechanism to heat up fuel and coolant to reach this temp sharpish.

Don't you think the 2 bolded sentences contradict each other? Your 2nd assertion rhymes with what we are saying. The engine takes a shorter time (than in colder climes) to attain operating temperature (88°C for the toyota sequoia V8). Without thermostat, the water constantly coming in from the radiator is about 50°C - 60°C, gets to the engine and rapidly rises to 88 degrees before moving on to the radiator.

erico2k2:
I think you are a bit LATE to class, the issue of thermostat has been trashed since 2007, anyways, teh thermostat is just a valve device fitted with a special metal that reacts quick ot change in temperature, it has only two way flow in and out and there is not electrical function just manual.All car Engines has an ultimate temp thats when your dial is in the middle,Now the only variable to this is how long it takes the cooling system to rise to this temp.This was where the Idea of warm the Engine came from.However in modern cars there a systems in place to speed up this process ie teh webasto in range rovers.
If you remove this thermostats this will hapen
It takes longer for you Engine to reach max temp to function %100
Your cooling fan wont know when to stop blowing air(Cold water might be trapped where its sensor is and it thinks the Engine do not need cooling) thats overheating,
Imagine running on cold Engine Oil.
Now to quench the myth about Nigeria temperature, try the temperatures in California Desert, some places in Italy ans southern France and spain.Is Nigeria hotter than the UAE?

I know and accept all you have said. I am more interested at the bolded. Yes, Nigeria lies very close to the equator b/w latitudes 4° and 13°in the tropics and as such the sun is almost always overhead all year round. These other areas you mentioned are all above latitude 30°, part pf the temperate regions of the world. Note: The sun can never be directly above your head anywhere above 30° latitude. Those places you mentioned, there midday sun even in summer is like our 10am sun. Nigeria is far hotter than those areas. Thats why our skin evolved to black and they remained fair.

honmusa:
Design of an efficient cooling system with consideration to engine operating temperature
During combustion process of a Internal combustion engine, a large amount of heat is being generated and the temperature in the combustion chamber can reach up to 2,500 C so cooling the area around the cylinder is of paramount importance so that the engine doesn’t get destroyed. So an efficient cooling system must be in place to remove enough heat (not to eliminate all the heat totally ) to keep the engine at a safe temperature(operating temperature) for optimum performance.
So the design of an efficient cooling system must be such in a way that that the optimum operating temperature must be maintained at all time .Engine Operating temperature for most asian car is around 89-99 degree C which is around the middle mark on your temperature gauge on the instrument cluster .

Importance of running the engine at optimum operating temperature
1.0 Engine Optimum performance: This is the condition where the engine is giving out the best power output and lowest emission (best fuel economy) .So in other words, engine optimum performance is function of engine operating temperature I e you can get the best power and fuel economy from your engine if you are running your engine at the operating temperature and to prove this you can check the graph below:
From the graph above ,you can definitely see that the engine power and fuel economy are increasing at a certain range of temperature increase .
Also ,to drive home my points ,i have personally undertook some experiment procedure with my scan tool (maxisys). Attached are two sceenshot of live data of scan data for a toyota yaris for two different extreme temperature for low (30 degree C )and engine operating optimum temperature of 91 degree respectively .let see where we get the best fuel economy
From figure 1A which represent low temperature condition(30 degree c) ,The PIDs representing fuel consumption indicators are :the injection volume 0.155 ml and injector port 4.22ms .
From figure 1B,the temperature of the same car is now allowed to build up to optimum temperature (temperature 91 degree c) and the the fuel consumption indicator have drastically reduced to injector volume 0.071ml and injector 2.43 ms.
From the comparison above we can see the degree of percentage gain of fuel economy achieved just by running the car @ operating temperature rather than overcooling the car at low temperature
So a good cooling system must be designed to achieve the operating system as quickly as possible to achieve best fuel economy, best emission control and peak performance.
2.0 Adequate lubrication protection for your engine:
Water (H20) is one of the by- product of combustion process i.e.
2C8H18 (fuel ) + 25O2(air) = 16CO2(carbondioxide) + H2O (water )
From the equation above we can infer that for every pound of fuel burned in an engine, the combustion process also generates a pound of water!!!
At low temperature water can mix with suphur (another by product of combustion ) to produce acid which can damage engine bearings .So also engine oil needs to be at least 90 degrees C to burn off all the deposits and accumulated water vapor as Cold engine oil causes excessive frictional drag on the bearings and cylinder walls causing wear and tear on the engine .what will this eventually result to is engine exhaust pipe giving out white smoke.

3.0 Protection of CAT :Catalytic converter is an emissions control device that converts toxic gases and pollutants in exhaust gas to less toxic pollutants.It is a very expensive device because of the nature of the material it is made from (platinum ) which is the reason for it being commonly stolen .
Catalytic converter efficiency increases at optimum engine operating temperature however damage can occur if the engine is running ‘’rich’’ for prolonged period of time .Running rich condition usually occurs when running the engine perpetually at low engine temperature .

Final Note
So from all the points listed above, we can infer that running the engine at optimum temperature is compulsory to get the best from your engine and for maintenance purposes.And which is why I strongly condemn the barbaric act performed by untrained mechanic of removing the thermostat and running the fan direct in a bid to resolve overheating issue .What they want to achieve is to drop the engine optimum temperature so that the pressure in the cooling system can reduce drastically. You are actually paying them to destroy your engine if are allowing them to abuse your car this way !!!
Subsequently ,we will discuss the the design concept of mechanical and electrical portion of efficient cooling system.

References
1. http://www.volkspage.net/technik/ssp/ssp/SSP_222.pdf
2. http://ffden-2.phys.uaf.edu/211_fall2002.web.dir/David_Giessel/basics.html
3. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalytic_converter

Your article is quite informative. I have been following your submissions and I must say kudos to you for excellent professionalism and scientific attitude uncommon in this part of the world.

From your article, I am yet still a bit uncertain that removal of the themostat in certain cars operàting in a tropical climate like Nigeria can OVER COOL an engine. Maybe overheat, but over cool? For instance in your test case you compared an engine running on 30°C. How is it possible when room temperature in Nigeria is 30°C and many hot afternoons reach 40 to 50°C ?

And from experience, on certain smaller engines and single cell radiators, removal of thermostat does cause overheating in Nigeria, usually when the car is idling or in holdups.

Secret cult or fraternities are indispensable for the organization of society, maintenance of culture, law and order. For instance, the ancient africàn societies were held together mainly by the glue of the named societies. The societies are àn enclave of the best talents of their time - the 'natural aristocrats'. Our problem now is that our values have been corrupted and twisted by an "indiscriminate" adoption of western influence, so these societies no longer represent the finest and are now a caricature of their raison d etre.