₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
Isn’t protecting him from humiliation more important than your own peace of mind?

You know as a lady, you’re not a person.

Just an object whose responsibility it is to make the actual human being (the man) in that relationship feel good at all times.

If it's anyone's fault, look towards your maker, woman!

New King James Version
And the LORD God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”

panpan:
It was okay for the Chief of Army Staff to ask religious leaders to eradicate ideologies which encourage insurgency.

However, including the phrase "Spiritual Warfare" in the title and theme of his message was an error, which was obviously going to have various interpretations and result in him being quoted out of context.

You are quite right. The COAS should have used philosophical, or psychological warfare, or even religious warfare. Our people ( further confused by the press who should have enlightened them) are always confused by the word spiritual. Just like they confuse fraternities with cults. And the press is not helping.

conductor250:
Then what is this? This failed shithole is a den of liars.

My brother, that's not what it means. It means changing the spiritual attitude of your opponents in other to defeat its ideology. It's a fundamental principle in war

It's illiteracy that is killing us.

The application of force alone, without moral support based on a spiritual concept, can never bring about the destruction of an idea or arrest the propagation of it, unless one is ready and able ruthlessly to exterminate the last upholders of that idea even to a man, and also wipe out any tradition which it may tend to leave behind.
Any violence which does not spring from a spiritual base, will be wavering and uncertain. It lacks the stability which can only rest in a fanatical outlook.
Every form of force that is not supported by a spiritual backing will be always indecisive and uncertain. Such a force lacks the stability that can be found only in a "worldview or philosophy" which has devoted champions.

- Mein Kampf

If you know, you know.

The big question now is: who will take care of this homeless pregnant girls now? The police?

This should be on front-page. Mods!

... Christianity is a personal encounter with God. When you do encounter God, you will be living by his directions. If He tells you to drink, you do. If otherwise, don't.


THESE WORDS OF YOURS SHOULD BE ENGRAVED IN MARBLE.

"...Flesh and blood has not revealed this to you..."

They are all pranks. Nothing serious.

yazga:
You are still young, and do not understand life yet

There's nothing wrong or young about the poster. A single mom by definition is a mother raising a child by herself alone, not just a woman who has a child but of which said child is under upkeep or being reared by the woman's parents or near relatives, or even by the child's father. Except such a woman is gotten very early in age and goes ahead to have many more children for the man, such a man will be in a losing relationship because women naturally care about their offspring and does not give a damn about their romantic partner. She will frustrate your ambitions to co-parent the child with her, especially when you attempt any manly discipline. At the end of the day, the real father will show and lay claims on the now matured product of your sweat and you will be the loser.

rosebowl01:
I don’t think you guys got the manipulation in his statement. He said Herdsmen should not be moving cattle from North to South, but he did not say that herdsmen should not rear cattle’s in the south. He ended the statement with the need to build Ruga - this by implication and summary is; he wants government to seize lands in all 36 states to build Ruga for his people, and he suggested that cows will not be roaming between the regions.

It seems you lack simple english comprehension ability.

ubunja:
true. the Subconscious compares memories.

this write-up was actually longer but I cut out a lot of technical stuff that I later judged not to be relevant.
as you say EVERYTHING is in there deep in the subconscious, I had a paragraph that The proof that we see more than what we "see" or remember is when under hypnosis we reveal details we didn't think we knew. thats the subconscious giving up it's data.

thanks for your detailed response.

Good response, Ubunja.

The subconscious is not a magical pool of infinite wisdom, but only analyse existing registered information albeit unavailable to the conscious mind. What it means is that intuition is not infallible and must be used with caution. That caveat stated, in the case of relationships and similar situations, there is already too much registered information that could not be processed by the conscious mind alone, so Intuition is almost always right! No doubt about it.

I think una don tire to hide the truth. I thought una say na bandit and illegal gold miners. Rubbish!

One of the greatest corruption institutions in Nigeria is the press.

ubunja:
you disqualified yourself when you chose to quote what supported you only.

you were opposed to my Thug Love thesis and I set you straight accept correction and move on.

On the contrary I am happy that your theory has been qualified in the record for readers to note and be guided and not think that it has universal application. Next time don't just copy and transplant western ideas (red pill, mgtow, etc) here without tropicalizing it, ok.

ubunja:
you seem to think Yahoo Boys are not thugs because you've a distorted idea about thugs. thugs are hustlers. go read the section of my write-up titled Thug Love Baby. you mistake thugs for Gangsters. and Jobless Bums. they're different. thats why in my writeup i dealt with them separately.


the Economist article you quoted on divorce rates has the following parts you conveniently left out:

Official statistics suggest that divorce is exceedingly
uncommon in Nigeria. Just 0.2% of men and 0.3% of
women have legally untied the knot, according to the
National Bureau of Statistics. And well under 1% of
couples admit to being separated. Yet such counts
exclude the vast majority of Nigerians, whose
traditional marriage ceremonies are not governed by
modern law, says Chief Robert Clarke, a barrister.
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Nowadays, Nigerian couples are separating more and
more. Separation rates in 2018 saw a 14% increase
across the whole population. When you look closely at
the modes of separation, you will agree that the process
and conditions leave much to be desired. The Nigerian
government needs to think over its approach in more
detail because the termination of marriages in the country

source:
https://www.thecable.ng/the-rate-of-divorce-in-nigeria

I left out the bolded because it is simply conjecture. No one is able to count the number of traditional marriages and divorce because it is never documented. The quoted overall separaration rate increase of 14% in 2018 could not have been obtained in a credible way, and no credible study is quoted. But what I quoted is from the authority of the National Bureau of Statistics making use of registers.

To be successful in deciphering the workings of the universe it is important to have 'intellectual integrity' - that is, if faced with incontrovertible evidence are you ready to revise your most cherished thesis in the light of the new information?

There are no absolute 'truths' in the universe.

Note that I am not opposed to your thug love thesis, but only seek to qualify that in a culture where most are still struggling with basic human needs (food, clothing, shelter, security), it may not apply rigidly to the way you described it because most successful men in that society must have your thug mentality to make it.

ubunja:
you really are clueless

When the Yahoo boys were hogging all the women?
Go to Google and research the divorce rate of your country

Yahoo boys hog the women because they are rich and generous with their money. And Yahoo boys are University graduates or undergraduates and hardly fit the thug mold.

You, also google divorce in Nigeria and research instead of declaring me clueless over something I am seeing very clearly in my own country.

The National Bureau of Statistics has said that divorce is rare in Nigeria

- Some of the reasons for divorce are hilarious and include complaints like penis and breast sizes

- Divorce is certainly not rare among Nigerian celebrities with famous divorcees including Tiwa Savage, Funke Akindele and Toyin Aihmaku


The Economist has published a report by The National Bureau of Statistics which states that divorce is a rare phenomenon in Nigeria with only 0.2% of men and 0.3% of women deciding to end their union and 1% recognizing as being separated.

ubunja:
with the rising divorce rate and the fall of marriage rates I beg to differ.

Look around you and see the record number of babymamas. Who are they sleeping with? Not responsible provider men who Will act right and take responsibility.

They sleeping with thugs

Not where I am looking - Naija. Marriage rate is not falling and most women will never divorce because the law does not protect them - if they divorce they go with nothing and the children is kept by the man according to traditional culture and the law.

The existing babymamas were made so by the wealthy, or at least richer than the woman, or celebrities.

Here in Naija, in a more primeval society than the west, the qualities of what you call "thug", will usually catapult the holder to riches, power, or fame. A poor thug is a failure and no woman will go near such.

Do your research, there is no one size that fits all. However I'm an ardent follower of your writings which highlight important red pill facts. However many African societies have not yet been fully corrupted by the west and these teachings will help men to be on their guard to not succumb to the negative Western values.

ubunja:
look at this pained hater

On the contrary, even though the poster may have ill motives, your write-up as regards thugs may not apply to many African countries. Because standard of living is at it's most basic, most women can't afford the risk of acting as u described even if they wanted to. Even men who are supporting a woman are only able to do it precariously, women have no choice than to ensure every sexual encounter also give material dividends.

Lordneez:
Why do they keep dropping the cut off mark�

SIMPLE. TO TAKE MORE CANDIDATES MONEY FOR POST UTME.

CORRUPTION OF THE HIGHEST ORDER

I concur. Right on point. It's not to the advantage of a female to date a broke guy.

Sorry for the bad news guys. You have to up your ante. Be focused on your purpose, on your mission...and you will find yourself almost drowning in pussy if you don't take care.

Na was o

wacuc0:
I support what you are saying. If you can not manage N1000 how can you boast of managing N1b Naira project. Aba an existing city can not be made clean and beautiful, how is it possible now to start a new city and build it to a modern level. It is totally impossible. b

All you need to do is to Believe. Some times somethings can not be repaired and you must start from a 'clean slate' so to speak. Back to the drawing board. That is the case with Aba, and even Nigeria, if we can accept it. No man is ever defeated until defeat is accepted as a reality.

Both pro and con commenters are somewhat right in their assertions. It might be difficult for most to visualize the state govt succesfully midwifing such a city. For it to be a reality Enyimba Economic City must be strictly private sector driven by the cream of igbo intelligentsia by the Grace of God, Inshalla, amen. All hands should be on deck to support this vision. Let us eschew the pull him down syndrome and work for the common good of all.

When trouble sleep... Abeg they should not come and go and awake the sleeping dragon o...

daddytime:
Na wetin get original Dem dey fit duplicate.

This is a counterfeit to the original "palm greasings" that takes place in every sphere of our National lives.

Gbam!

ValCon888:
But 73 will not. Those 73 guys are experts.

My nigga!

There are 3 types of lies:

Ordinary Lies,

Crazy Lies, ...and

Statistics

hammer6F:
Sultan is all of there fada...


Nobody dares the Sultan.

Abacha deposed sultan dasuki and coronated machido

Na wao

Dudeweedlmao:
Some guys are psycopaths

O boy! better sympathise with the guy, because it could be your turn tomorrow to fall where your betters have fallen since the dawn of time.

That simp who wrote all that crap over a girl should be flogged 24 strokes of the cane until he regains his senses. Nonsense.

Gentlemen, please abolish the cloak of secrecy concerning the true nature of male/female relationship and 'love', which most men know, usually in the twilight of their years. If the young men know these things, the above pathetic case may be avoided.

Older men keep mum about the sad truth of courtship and love affairs out of a false sense of machismo and futile arrogance, instead of preparing the young. Tell them the truth for the truth, as they say, can make men free.

seunmsg:
My post is very clear and unambiguous. Awudu was appointed by GEJ. He has lasted this long in office because he was able to compromise some officials of the current administration who have been protecting him from getting sacked despite various reported cases of corruption against him. I’m not absolving the Buhari administration of blame. In fact, we heard from grapevine that Abba Kyari is the one that has frustrated all attempts to get him sacked.

But if he is sacked, he must not be replaced by a northerner. It must be a southerner like him, else it will look like witch hunt. No be me make am so, na wetin we see for the country be dat.

tesppidd:
is that kwonkwoso's palm on the ground that you should feel sorry for him?
Kwonkwoso is right now in his mansion sipping wine of 5 million naira or lodged in a 5 star hotel reminiscing on the just concluded election.

instead of you to pity the man who just lost his palm you are talking Kwonkwoso.

Thank you my brother.

Hmm!

BaluBalu:
Why are you Christians so wicked and intolerant? .

Modified: some assholes are quoting me and telling me to not mention Christians but you all are fast to mention Islam and the whole Muslim ummah worldwide when only one person does something wrong .
You people are so useless

Two wrongs dont make a right, ok? You lead by example.