I don't really like tems. She sounds really funny to me. I wish her the very best.

One of the things that prompt me to make some decisions is putting myself in the shoes of whom i want to help ,perhaps about to help is
"Would I be happy if someone hold back something than would have been beneficial to me"

Anyday anytime without expecting anything in return, I'll prefer someone who I have relations with to benefits even if I can't; that's why I prefer cutting deals with family and friends than an outsider.

It's another banger for you know who it is
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Nice write up bro.

The image below sums up what most men benefit from a relationship.

If and only if I confirm she's a virgin.

In the business of music you need to study the general populace and write songs which fits the general belief. Since the majority of the men in Nigeria are seeking female approval and women worshipping, it's necessary to sing songs that follow that pattern.

Some of these guys may be redpilled to the core and won't even act out their own lyrics. It's a blue pilled and SIMPlistic world out there, going against the trend would in the music world would only get you sidelined and you won't make a penny. They also need this type of lyrics to appeal to their female audience, everyone knows how women love attention, being put on the pedestal and how most men act like women are oxygen.

This is why most musicians sing songs about asking out women, telling those women they've got enough money to spend because that's what's happening and that's how this society has been conditioned. Money buys women; but that sh*t won't buy love or a semblance of it.

It is what it is

Damnn, it's crazy how Nigerians are betting on things to get worse in this country.
The saddest part is that everything right now points towards it.


As for the Op, I don't really have any Advice for you but I honestly pray the Lord guides you and irrespective of the decision you make, I pray everything works in your favour and you get a happy ending. Good luck bro

soundOsonic:
Destiny is what you are meant to sacrifice to be what you are meant to be

Holding onto this line

Destiny is what you are to sacrifice to be rather than what you're meant to be

The more I think about death, the more I'm motivated to live since death is an inevitable constant, do the things they make me happy, keep my way straight and stick to God even closer.

It also makes me to be kinder to people and enjoy every moment because life na countdown

Omo, this life is a suicide mission; Nobody is making it out alive

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By Gods grace
I must go pro

Zabiboy:


C'mon man...
Grow some ballzzz.
Why do it codedly Whether you do it openly or codedly, she'll still throw some useless, baseless and harmless tantrums when she gets to know about it....
Those tantrums she throws is not because you dont trust her but because you are AWARE and have clipped her wings in that area...
Remember: Nothing is as simultaneously fear inspiring and arousing for women as a man she suspects is self-aware of his own value and doesnt take Shiittt --Rollo tommassi

Omo see this guy sha
Shey na everything you dey allow woman know.
It's important to look naive and oblivious to what can happen. Look blue pilled but be redpilled to the core.
Even Matthew 10:16 approves. Always know you're in the midst of wolves, be wise as serpents and look harmless as doves.

Be a man, she doesn't have to know your every move.

MJBOLT:

This is some sad sh*t.... Irrespective of how much I trust my wife, I'd still do DNA test codedly.

This is one of the best posts I've read on nairaland. It's just sad that meaning articles like this don't make it to fp.

Nice one Op

I had to use WAEC as an excuse to cut ties just because I didn't want to be attached to any babe when I got admitted into the university. It's been over 5 years now, I'm in my final year and I never dated anyone so far.

To the guys saying billionaires have Potbelly; you guys are dumb asf. Look at Zuckerberg, musk,bezos; those guys are billionaires in dollar yet, no Potbelly.

It all boils down to lifestyle and genetics. Just hit the gym at least twice a week and watch what you eat

Ikillbrokehoes:
Yeah! got it brand new from a friend that ordered

Thank you... Planning on getting one when dollar decides to chill and heaven knows I'm in no rush

Ikillbrokehoes:
It has one of the best camera on a phone, got it at 170k.

From Amazon?

Ikillbrokehoes:
Samsung S20 ultra and Google pixel 4a, this phones serves me well, I do everything with both like a pro

Bro,How much did you get the pixel 4a? and how's the camera?

chrisifeanyi:
No be small thing. I dey pity dem. Please I need foreign used Lexus RX 350 2009. It must be very neat with good title

Oga, check out this 2012 model

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I won't even bother fantasising about not aging, I'd rather pray and work towards aging with grace; Work in the sense of my lifestyle. Your lifestyle coupled with genetics can make you look 10 years younger than your age. You gotta exercise, eat right, worry less, smile more,learn to avoid people and things that'll stress and stop this incessant chase after money after a while and enjoy those you've accumulated, Do some good; those are things I can control.
The rest na prayer make God give pesin healthy long life because at the end of the day; it all depends on him.

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Anytime I look back about how I bragged on how I should be done with school by this time and I'll be in camp ,I can't help but laugh. God must have had the best laugh; God saw COVID19 and ASUU strike coming when I didn't.

At the end of the day it's all Proverbs 19:21.

Nice one Op. Maybe I'd find the post useful next year

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It might just be in your head, other than this;
It's important you engage your body daily in order to ensure you don't lose muscle mass easily. I'm aware of the fact that you might not be opportune to hit the gym everyday but find a chair and do these programs
Close tricep dips 1 set 25 reps
Open tricep dips 1 set 25 reps
Incline push up 1 set 25 reps
Decline push up 1 set 25 reps

You can also do countdown from 25,20,15,10,5

Just engage you body daily.

The guy messed up by letting her know that it hurts him; Talking to her about it isn't the issue, the main problem is that, she's trying to justify what she's doing as innocent and making the guy look insecure, paranoid.

If I'm that dude, I'd just go on dates with multiple ladies too
Then flood my status with those images.
Two can play that game...
It seems she knows that she's the only one the guy's dating; na why she had the audacity to do that type of shit.


Op, it can happen to you, it can happen to anyone; You can't buy loyalty, it's either they are loyal or not and there's nothing you can do about it.

dukeprince50:
My greatest regret is putting all my strength and mind in schooling that I never planned for life after school. putting all my hopes on my parents that they will support my dream while I try to make them happy by going to school, after getting a very high CGPA, I was frustrated as they refuse to help and I had nothing to hold onto
I will never do that during my NYSC.

What's your dream? If you don't mind me asking

Find a balance. Just do the math, you can try to save at least half of your salary,use the rest to buy the things you like and chop pepper soup, chop asun, drink hollandia yoghurt every once in a while, don't hesitate to spoil yourself at least once a month. Please read Ecclesiastes chapter 2, Bible is the GOAT of books.
Lest I forget, Jesus loves You.