Benita27: Have been reading the whole story like all day. Inasmuch as the guy couldn't stand rejection, the girl was also at fault here. Why would she lead him on if she wasn't interested in having a relationship with the guy?. You define your relationship from the beginning, and spending on you would be his call to make to avoid being indebted to anyone.
A date doesn't equate to relationship. You can spend or don't even have to spend on a date. A date is just for getting to know each other better. If the girl likes you she can start a relationship with you.
Would really appreciate some words of advice please. I'm really sad. No judgmental posts posse.
I conceived my first child when I was dating my boyfriend, now husband and then we got married shortly after I fell pregnant. We had planned to get married even before I got pregnant but when I got pregnant, we then decided to bring the date forward. It was a very difficult period for me because my mum really made me feel bad. I repented to God from a heart of genuine sincerity and sought his forgiveness which I received by his grace. I fell short of the glory of God but God forgave me and had mercy on me.
Fast forward to a year plus after my wedding. My son is now 6 months and we would like to dedicate him in church. We have however been told that the church will not accept him for the regular dedication process where the parents dance out to the front of the church alongside close relatives and friends. What the church has said is that we can only do a private dedication service in a different room after the service. I'm devastated.
My son is innocent and pure. He was conceived from a sinful act but God has forgiven us. I've now been happily married to my husband and father of my child for more than a year. Is it therefore fair for the church to treat my son like he's an outcast and not worthy of being celebrated openly and publicly?
I feel so humiliated and wanted to cancel the dedication and do it in a church where h will be openly celebrated and received as a wonderful gift from God which my darling son is. My husband has accepted it but I'm struggling to do so. The church is supposed to be about love. What is the biblical basis for saying that my son cannot be pubclily dedicated?
Would really like some views here. Should I cancel the dedication and do it somewhere else or go ahead with the private/ secret dedication?
Many thanks for reading.
The Church of God are the true Worshippers of God all over the world. Don't get worked up about some people in one building or location. After all they aren't much holier.
The real dedication is dedicating time in letting your child know Christ and not be religious like them but be forgiving and love everyone.
Anyway, stop paying tithe, offering etc. If the Church can't forgive then they the ones going contrary to Christ.
It's so sad but this is why Church has lost Christianity
omenkaLives: I think you are wrong. You should have checked the akpu you used to starch the cloth you wore.. I'm very sure that was the starch mixed with sweat and announcing itself.
Snakes are scary. Even small ones—the way they move, the prospect of venom, those little forked tongues—can send chills down your neck. But did you know that some snakes can eat human beings? A tragic incident in Indonesia recently reminded the world of this fact.
A 25-year-old man named Akbar disappeared on Sunday when he was harvesting palm oil on the Indonesian island of Sulawesi. By Monday, his fellow villagers were searching the jungle for the man and, according to local police, the search party found “scattered palm oil fruit, a picking tool, and a boot” near a 23-foot-long reticulated python. The villagers chased down the snake, cut open its gut to their horror (as well as the world’s) they found Akbar’s body inside.
“It seems he was attacked from behind because we found a wound on his back,” Junaedi, an official in the village of Salubrio, told the press. Here’s a six-minute-long video of the villagers gutting the python, if you feel like throwing up today:
So, to recap, an able-bodied man in his 20s was working in the fields and a snake the length of a city bus attacked him. The reticulated python, the world’s longest snake, got ahold of the man with rows of teeth that turn inward toward its stomach and then likely squeezed him to death before swallowing him whole. Still alive, the snake chilled next to its poor victim’s belongings before a group of villagers killed it and sliced open its belly to reveal a corpse covered in digestive fluids. Experts say that it’s extremely rare for pythons to swallow human beings, but as we learned this week, it does happen.
Were you planning on sleeping tonight? Sorry, this snake story will haunt your dreams for weeks to come.
Nwodosis: To be honest, Jonathan took all the blames when he was in power, Buhari shouldn't be an exception! Based on this facts, I'm with PDP on this, Buhari is responsible for the suicide dives!
shellworker: Can you provide a concrete proof that Dino Melaye is not a graduate of ABU Zaria and that he has no certificate? If you can convince me over that then you are a true Nigerian.
For correction, Dino is from Kofi State, even though Kogi has a Yoruba speaking part.
The Ministry of Finance, says it has so far received 2,351 tips from whistleblowers bordering on cases of embezzlement of government funds, looting of assets and contract inflation, among others.
In a statement signed by Mr Festus Akanbi, the Special Adviser, Media to the Minister of Finance, Mrs Kemi Adeosun said the tips came via text messages, calls, email and forms filled on the ministry’s website.
“We have received 95 feedbacks through our website, www.whistle.finance.gov.ng, 1,550 tips came through calls on 09098067946 and SMS, 412.
“Also, 194 people sent us emails on whistle@finance.gov.ng)
He said that out of the 2,351 tips, the office was currently following up on 154, it deemed actionable.
“Some of the tip include: contract inflation and conversion of government assets to personal use, ghost workers, payment of unapproved funds and embezzlement of salaries of terminated personnel.
“Also, improper reduction of financial penalties, diversion of funds meant for distribution to a particular group of people, especially farmers and diversion of funds to personal commercial bank accounts to earn interest.
“Further more, we are following up on cases of non-Remittance of pension and NHIS deductions, failure to Implement projects for which funds have been provided, embezzelment of funds received from Donor agencies and violation of TSA regulations by keeping funds in Commercial banks.
” We are also looking into violations of FIRS (VAT) regulation by adjusting Value Added Tax payment, non-procurement of equipment required for Aviation Safety, money laundering and diversion of funds meant for approved projects,” he said.
Akanbi said that top on the Minister’s agenda, as the Chairman of the Whistleblower programme was to investigate illegal sale of government assets, diversion of revenue (IGR), concealed bailout funds, Illegal recruitment and violation of procurement Act.
It will be recalled that late last year, the Federal Government set up the Whistleblower programme to make it easy for the public to give information bordering on violation of financial regulations, mismanagement of public funds and assets and other financial malpractice.
The Federal Government promised any whistleblower whose information leads to the recovery of up to N1 billion Naira, five per cent of the amount.
While for any amount between N1 billion and N5 billion, the whistleblower stands to get 4 per cent commission. Any amount over N5 billion, will attract 2.5 per cent reward.
onomemike: what do you need my login details for...or do u think i am operating a joint account with you? if you dont believe...no wahala...like i said 'try it and see if it works for you' ... i never made it mandatory....its ur choice. thank me later
"If you don't believe...No wahala" is what a scanner would say
Ok show a video from login to your GH and an a millisecond timer by the side. Then I'll believe.