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privaldo:
What consequences will it have on the society? Also, what is the consequences of what she is talking of?
I never faulted her for speaking against what she feels isn't right rather I am against trying to make those who did it look evil.

Really? Are you aware that unfulfilled sexual desire is one of the stimulators of rape and other sexual activities that are considered unacceptable? The silhouette challenge is pornography in disguise.

Imagine a person who is sex starved and has no legal means to fulfil the urge decides to view those scenes, he gets frustrated and is left in an unfortunate situation with someone he/she can forcefully maneuver or take advantage of, how do you think things would play out?

A few days ago, I saw a thread where someone said he used up to 50GB just to watch the silhouette challenge. What does that tell you? The young ones are going to be utterly victimized.

privaldo:
I care about people but I don't try to influence their choices/decisions.

Even when you know that their choices would certainly damn them?

privaldo:
I actually felt she was trying to make people change their choices simply because she/sociey feels it's not right, and this are against my primary beliefs as a human.

Isn't that the point I've been making? Did you consider the consequences of what she's speaking against? Have you considered the impact it will have on the society at large? What is wrong about her speaking against what she feels is not right and telling the people to desist from it? It doesn't seem like she's enforcing it on anyone.

privaldo:
I never said it deprived me of a conscience. I am not from a Christian background, I am from a background that lets people choose their life and face the consequences, so it has more to do with my previous religion than me being an atheist.

It means you simply do not care about people, that only indicates a red sign on your conscience.

TheWalkingMind:
What's your idea of wrong and right?

I'm going to have to answer this with a question. Is committing a murder right or wrong?

privaldo:
Yes, not making decision for them is exactly what I was driving at. You're free to air your opinion to them, and it is up to them to choose to follow it or not, and not you forcing it on them.

So why the attack on Mercy?

privaldo:
I don't believe in the Bible nor any God, I am atheist. I allow people make their choices and face whatever consequence come with it.

Being an atheist doesn't deprive you of a conscience.

privaldo:
I believe in allowing people make independent choices and face whatever consequences that comes with it.

That should come after you've said a word or two to them. Don't make decisions for them, just tell them what you feel [in love], then the rest is entirely up to them. Love has to lead, and love is caring.

doxijaw:
Another thing I've noticed, most of the girls that do these things are irredeemable.

They will curse you if you dare tell them anything.

A girl who regularly posts nudes on Instagram was asked why she does it, her reply, i have no future anyways so i don't give a damn.

Well we are glad to see you the way you see yourselves, worthless sexual objects with no future and you better not object to this

Nobody is irredeemable. All it takes is just a mindset shift and the change will come.

privaldo:
She should rest not every one is religious like her, some of us have chosen a different path so let us enjoy it. Everyone doesn't have to be religious, learn to accept people and the character they exhibit, stop forcing people to act in a way they are uncomfortable about.

Everybody in Nigeria is religious yet we are one of the most corrupt countries, so who is responsible for the corruption?

Live and let live.

It is sheer wickedness to see someone going in the
wrong direction and not tell them about it. I thought
y'all want love to lead? Now where's the love in that?
When you feel that something someone is doing isn't
right and you tell them, it's not for your own good, it's
theirs. It shows that you care and nothing more. It all
depends on how you say it.

TheWalkingMind:
What's with people telling others how to live their life. Can't people just mind their goddamn business for once. Like shut the Bleep up?

It is sheer wickedness to see someone going in the wrong direction and not tell them about it. I thought y'all want love to lead? Now where's the love in that?

sanpipita:
Men joined the challenge too, I don't see anyone advising them.

Btw we were all born nude does it mean we are worthless z nudity isn't a sin as far as I'm concerned.

Then burn all your clothes, go out into the streets and walk naked. Silly!

meobizy:
This one knows nothing. I wonder how she knew about the challenge to begin with.

It's all over the internet na. How did you get to know about it?

Eagban:
Just understand that if anybody has an advantage over you they will use it. Sentiments and friendships have no place in business. It is a cut throat world... Whenever you're dealing with anybody just get a written/signed agreement and you won't have any reason to despair.

Yeah, you're right. If my assumption turns out to be true, then I must say they were being childish to not have considered a written agreement. However, I think this has to do with a case of betrayal from the guy's part, not the money itself. If it was about the latter, then he would have brought it to the media himself.

YorubaPrince:
How come the hand doesn't complement the arms? The hands seem too small for the arm.

I think his right hand is smaller than the left.

CalliDora1:
Johnny Bravo Junior!!! .. .

On a more serious note, girls don't usually like this "weight lifters" look. Most prefer thick guys.

Hahaha! The first thought that crossed my mind, he looks like Johnny Bravo.

Eagban:
Why did Zlatan not get a written contract/agreement for his dealings with her?

They probably thought since they were friends, they didn't need that. Whether they signed a contract to that effect or not, it still doesn't justify not paying him for his work. If the allegation is true, then Cuppy messed up.

wonder233:
So if this woman hadn't just gotten married, would this story had made it to FP? Cos I see nothing distinguishing her from the thousands that die daily. Or someone who just got married is supposed to have some sort of immunity against death?

Death can come at anytime, it doesn't matter if you are preparing for an important event in your life, or you just achieved your dreams. So don't get yourself worked up when things don't go as planned. Death can come anytime.

That's the message from this post and many others like it. People need to see them to remind themselves about some important details about life.

gypsey:
I see nothing wrong with nakidness, it's nature, adeboye should go and sit his peverted ass down.

Your shallowness is mind boggling.

Coronavirus84:
Daddy G.O a.k.a Assistant Jesus abeg shift make we see road joooor, Fulani herdsmen wahala dey everywhere for the country you no put mouth, na wetin no be your business you dey put mouth. Na your unclothedness

Why accord to him the responsibility of tackling the herdsmen terrorism? Is he the president or IG of police? Do you people always have to look for ways to make the truth seem impotent? Whether you like it or not, the truth must stand. If you like, spend all your data on top silhouette challenge, na your headache.

SouthSouth1914:
Apnea not a possible cause since she is not overweight nor obese!

I experience sleep apnea sometimes, and I'm not obese or overweight. In fact, I'm really slim.

MrNipplesLover:
When a team is having problems, it's not always the fault of the coach.

I told some people that Chelsea didn't sack Lampard because they saw him as the problem of Chelsea, they needed a new spirit (new coach) to refresh the team.

Lampard should not feel bad for getting sacked.


Here, they gave us Tunechi.

Dude relax, it's just his first game with only a day's training. Wolves packed the bus throughout the game and you expected Chelsea to break past them that easily? Man united who are in a better form than Chelsea struggled against them and got their goal in the last minute. Besides, Lampard lost to this team in December so what are you on about?

odehaj:
ManU thought they have won the league when they beat Liverpool with that overrated Portuguese fraud ,B.Fernandez

Guy, my hatred for Man united knows no bounds but please, don't ever say B. Fernandez is overrated. That guy is pure class and fully deserved every POTM award he has received.

joshmee4real:
Yes there's a clear difference but nothing to show for it so far, with respect to goal chances. Lampard also enjoyed ball possession but couldn't convert it to goals

Wolves sat back all through the game, they were solid at the back. I think the Chelsea players played with a little bit of confidence and intent. To think that they had only one training session under the new manager prior to the game. We can only imagine what is to come with more training sessions.

Osyxcel:
Lineup:

Mendy; Azpilicueta, Silva, Rudiger, Chilwell, Hudson-Odoi; Jorginho, Kovacic; Havertz, Ziyech, Giroud.

Subs: Kepa, Alonso, Zouma, James, Emerson, Pulisic, Mount, Abraham, Werner.

It's a 3-4-3 system, but looks more of a 4-5-1 to me.

I don't see how this is a 3-4-3 formation. It's clearly a 4-1-2-3 or 4-3-3 with Jorginho holding the midfield, and Kovacic and Havertz playing attacking midfield to give options to the wingers, CHO and Ziyech. Please explain why you think this is a 3-4-3 set up.

His dream eventually became a nightmare, even though he may not want to admit it.

Mynd44:
This mentality needs to stop. A woman is not a cook but a partner

Every partner has their roles to play. The goal is to build a good home, that cannot be achieved if the roles are not defined. Just as it is naturally the man's duty to provide for the family, so it is for the woman to be well grounded in the culinary aspect.

Both parties can do well to support each other in these diverse roles [among several others]. That is why it is important to be versatile, so one can render assistance when and where it is needed. I think you should change your mentality.

This must be Saidu Mmanne.

So basically, your life depends on how people see you?

Mayordanny:
Name 3...

Ziyech
Kante
Silva
Kovacic
Pulisic
Werner
Havertz (I'm sure you've not seen this guy at his best)
Mount (Very few people see this, but this guy is a top player. His beastly side is yet to be revealed).

You asked for 3 and I gave you 8.

Teejaney88:
lol...

Lmao! Peter Drury is to me, the best football commentator. He makes the game so lively that I get slightly discouraged when he doesn't feature in big games. His partnership with Jim Beglin makes it even more delightful.

GeneralPula:
Lampard isn't the problem of Chelsea..

First 5 years of Ferguson in Manu, I heard him no wan anything..

Chelsea as a team hasn't come back to its feet yet, fully since that ban happened !

The question is; did he have the right players? Besides Chilwell (who is overrated and a slightly upgraded version of Emerson), Chelsea has quality players who are capable of making their opponents tremble, but that was not the case under Lampard. Minimal creativity, no fluidity in their playing, just back passes, defenders are not confident of those attacking because there's no confidence in the team.

Look at the likes of Liverpool, Klopp brought in most of them as average players and groomed them into men. Now they're a force to reckon with, not minding their recent poor form. Imagine a coach like Klopp or Guardiola in a team like Chelsea, then you'll know that Lampard was the problem after all. I feel for him, but he's not yet fit to manage a club like Chelsea.