₦airaland Forum

saintkel:
what is dis one saying?

Kobojunkie:
So Life is brutal is the excuse he should use in taking away her virginity in this case?

She is likely going to be devastated and desperate and may want to sleep with him...take the gamble. And so because life is brutal, it would be OK for op to take advantage in that case?

Kobojunkie:
What a bloody heartless suggestion. Would you equally allow your own daughter or even sister to be used as a test dummy for fertility in such a way?

Would you allow your own daughter to be tested in such a way knowing the chances are equally there that the man would simply walk away and leave her with nothing after it all?

Sit her down my arse! Op should leave the relationship, not use the girl to wash his dick's fixation on her virginity before he then abandons her.

Lorazepam:
Because she has PCOS doesn't mean she won't be able to conceive. It just may be more difficult. PCOS is one of the most treatable causes of infertility. Most women with PCOS will eventually be able to carry and complete a pregnancy although some will need some medical help ranging from interventions like weight loss, ovulation induction meds, other meds, etc. It's good you already have a diagnosis now, that way, you're able to start working on it as soon as you marry, that's if you decide to proceed with the wedding. She's still in her 20s so age is on your side. I suggest you read up more about it to make an informed decision. At the end of the day sha, na your choice.

Pakute:
SE Governors collect federal allocations, security votes, some collect 13% oil derivation, yet nothing to show for it, instead, there has been a ridiculous increase in the rate of migration out of the region yearly. Who bears the burden of this migration? of course the welcoming hosts. These hosts across the Southwestern and Northern region are heavily overburdened with migrant population every year. With the exception of Lagos and SS states, everyother states collect almost an equal amount of allocation. The SW and Northern Governors cater to too much population in their respective states than the SE Governors who do nothing but to divert monies into their private pockets while their little population are being neglected. With a little population and a large expanse of empty and ungoverned areas and a large number of empty and unoccupied buildings scattered across the SE, it is safe to say these economic burdens are being transferred to the Governors of others regions. These Governors need to be compensated

KwuoteYourFada:
Anambra people be pressing necks since 1600 century

Agbado people hate Igbos especially Anambra people like us

Do we care ?

Newsflash! No!

DKM123:
It's not about morality alone.
IT IS ABOUT DOING WHAT IS RIGHT AND NOT HURTING ANOTHER.
Someone is going to be hurt when you sleep around with married men. When his wife finds out, she will be hurt and you are a part of the hurt. The family could crash and you are a part of that crash.. The kids could have a divorced parents and may have psychological effects on them and you are a part of that divorce....

Do not hurt another for your selfish gains. Unless ofcourse the wife or husband doesn't care and it's business as usually in thier home when either partners cheat. For example in open marriages or marriage that has already gone to the dogs.

Bendeco2020:
Taraba indigenes should never feel weak or conquered. They should retaliate to save their land. If the number of their people killed is ten, they should kill ×3 of that number. Fulani has proven to be animal and they should be treated like animals without mercy.

These are the people that Yorubas prefer as allies over their fellow southerners because of just political gain. Yorubas are one kind deceitful being.

Shey they claim fake love for the North?. You will never see their leaders or mumu followers condemn this kind act.

So far they are in presidency, no issues. They can side with the devil

DoTheNeedful:
LOL @ the bolded. There are sincerely very few honest Nigerians. Many of you that call Tinubu all sort of names are not any better given the half-truths, misinformation and intentional misunderstanding of simple facts that you have espoused over the past few months.

You are here referring people to American movies. Now you know that the American system is different from Nigeria's. When CSU said certificates in America are ceremonial and have no value, I am sure you must be one of the people saying they were covering up. Many of you don't have principles. You just want to pick and choose whatever narrative that suit your agenda, Yet, you are the ones who claim to be championing a new Nigeria.

Zandena:
Let him make his threat a reality!
He will learn the difference between Hamas/ Palestine militia and a country with one of the sophisticated military.
I just pray that the stupidity of Israel should drive them to attacking Iran! The rest will be history

Emperor5:
You are not making any sense.
Umahi is the one of the most smart politician in east, ugwuanyi and Ikpazu was in PDP, can you mention any of their achievement.
now they have loosed their political relevant, umahi play politics of inclusiveness not regional politics.
In today Nigeria politics any appointments allotted to east most be approved by umahi.

ednut1:
making conclusions again. Almost every tribe in africa don't like some clans of their tribe . It happens in my own state/ tribe too.

A minister and ex governor said this. Is he lying tho 😆🤣
https://gazettengr.com/ebonyi-people-marginalised-by-igbos-well-never-be-part-of-biafra-gov-umahi/

ednut1:
this is you reinforcing the stereotype.

ednut1:
after propagating the theory in your first paragraph you then go ahead to accuse me of being the one propagating it hahaahha. I served in a village in abia and i saw some people that looked like this man. Make una rest abeg.when the military guy ogalla was appointed some of you guys said he wasn’t igbo enough 😆🤣

ednut1:
Some igbos love to propagate this stereotype that you all are fair skinned . But in reality there are many igbos that look like this man. Also early colonial pictures of igbo mostly look like him too.

Delight21:
Imagine the disrespect, a whole Will Smith...
You and Will Smith who is even looking more younger and healthier?

Tallesty1:
Idiot advice.

Is this the man who was trolling Obi?

You gather hundreds of people together and marry them off, even paying bride price for the men. Now, tell me, how can someone who can't afford bride price raise a family? Who will train the children?

How about you tell the men not to do things that will hurt the women when they check their phones? I don't understand how a married person can't easily and comfortably check their spouse's phones without fear.

What is there?

What are you hiding?

Why is it there?

If you're not working with DSS, EFCC, FBI, NIA, CID, etc., then what in God's name are you hiding?

sheeda995:
I am writing this because of a post I saw on Frontpage where a woman said she married as a virgin and she lived chaste but unfortunately she is not enjoying her marriage

If anyone reads the comments,you will see how the men were bashing the lady and saying virginity means nothing. This same males would be the one to comment on other posts that only virgins should be married, they will say "young, virgin" etc
This contradiction shows that a woman should never listen to what a man wants or what the society wants, it should be what do I want and what do I need to succeed in life

Being a virgin or being chaste or a good girl will not result in anything other than you not contracting STDs.

Women should also know that marrying young is a ticket to suffering if you are from a struggling family. Don't marry until you are well educated,and with the ability to fend for yourself, that should be the yardstick and not age.

I have learned that life is a game, success is a game you have to play to win,it doesn't mean you should be bad but you must be wise.

All the girls that seems unserious would be more successful than you if you are living a holy life and you are segregating yourself andclaiming some girls are bad. You need to mingle with everyone,good or bad,learn from them, remember to be wise and NEVER LISTEN TO THE SOCIETY

If you want to be a millionaire, you need to have variety of friends to learn from including prostitutes.
You need to look your best all the time, you need to have CLASS, buy yourself a CAR at a young age,wear hills, play games with those men disturbing you, don't yield but don't thrash them either.
If you have a class, low class will not even ask you out, be friendly with everyone.

Never insult anyone,have as many casual friends as possible but never let them in your privacy. Do not bring them home or tell them your secrets(both men and women), learn to smile, never argue or fight with anyone.
When you are in a conversation and it's getting hot, smile and agree with the other person even if they don't make any sense.

Dating and Marriage

Never show a man you can take care of responsibilities, or you are hardworking. Show men you are lazy and spoilt, don't ever do housechores unless they ask/beg you. Spoil yourself always with gifts,cars,clothes.

Remember if you decide to do all chores in the house in Marriage,you will become poor why the man will grow because to make money you need time. Time to plan, time to do your business, if you waste all that time cleaning and cooking, while he uses his own time to think of strategies to make money, thesame him will say he's hustling for money while you don't bring in income to the family. Learn to share house chores with the man or make him hire a cook,nanny,maids.
This is possible if you have shown him from the beginning that you are lazy, you can even fake sickness when you do many chores.
All men can wash dishes, sweep and cook. The best cook in the world is a male.

If you are a young girl,learn to tell men that you are attracted to men that can cook. This is what I did personally, mine is true though as I love men that can cook and all through my life till now, men usually offer to cook for me, including those we never dated, just my friends. When they cook nice foods, praise them and say you hv never tasted foods as good as this,appreciate their hardwork.

Im not saying be a parasite as I also help people in return, I am rich enough to borrow people money,drive them during emergencies, be emotionally supportive as I am a therapist.

If you can utilize these advice, you will make it in life and have good happy home and everyone would like you, those that hate you out of envy won't be able to harm you
I wish I could mentor girls but too busy but hopefully,one day I will have that time

chopnaira:
BRIC are siding with Palestine.while the West are siding with Israel.