Bradford111: We didn't fight she is always busy of recent helping her mom with some market duties so we don't always see except on Sundays and she was supposed to come visit this Sunday and couldn't make it only for she to send me this text
Are both of you really young as insinuated by others? If true, it could probably be her parents that warned her off you. Don't take it personal if this was the case.
Petie33: Did you know that I used lambata market and I sell foodstuffs too she was like today is lambata market but I think it should be tomorrow so I try to correct her but she just attack me crazy I guess I don't like typing its kind of boring to me but I need some company for the night which she is
It was today actually. She got some stuffs for me there too. Guess you were both cranky .
Petie33: This is not even all of the things that you named she is too rude and never take correction but want you to cover her up
Guess you were too harsh and she struck back. You didn't have to label her as a thief when you don't even know her or transacted with her before. She might have naively used someone else's picture when she started (which normally raises a red flag truly) but it doesn't still justify the fact that you labelled her a thief (not even alleging). That's wrong on your part and you should accept that.
Mr Petie33, drop it. You don't have to attack her without justification. I am one of her customers and I know she has never cheated anyone before. As for kulikuli matter, kulikuli get grade and that's the truth. Cows have different prices too. You can even ask the same Shariff you quoted and he will school you. There are cows of over a million naira and there are baby cows that may not be up to 100k; it all depends on your choice.
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The mudu issue was a misunderstanding on OP's part and has been resolved. She uses 12 cups mudu unlike the generally known 8 cups. 2 12cups mudu will give a paint while 3 8cups mudu will also give a paint. That is where the confusion is @poshestmina.
freemantic: I know this man. He was based in Lagos 26years ago, and was doing well, then he had mental issues and was destroying his brothers properties. He then was diagnosed with schizophrenia. Instead of seeking medical help,normal naija mentality, the family decided to take him to the village as if there is one special medicine for schizo in the village. Over the years his condition got worse and he was stealing people's goats and properties in the village. Again, instead of seeking medical help, village people and their illiteracy. They banished him to the bush. Now when hunger hits a mad man, what do you expect, he becomes a monster. It's just sad.
gloryhomemaker: Season the meat with seasoning cubes, salt, onion and pepper blend and start cooking. Blend the tatashe, yellow scent pepper and onion. Remove the seeds of tatashe, it gives a bitter taste. Blend the groundnuts and crayfish, crayfish loosens the groundnuts when blending. Wash and slice the vegetables: I used scent leaves and Uziza leaves, so nice. Wash and debone the Kpanla fish and Catfish. Get back to the meat, it should be tender by now. Add in the blended tatashe, onion and pepper. Add in salt and seasoning. Taste and adjust seasoning or salt if need be. Add a little palm oil, cover to cook for 5 minutes. (palm oil is optional) Add in the groundnut and crayfish, stir occasionally for 10 minutes. Add in the fish, cook for 5 minutes. Add in the leaves and cook for 2 minutes. Your soup is ready.
More details in the video.
Is there any other alternative to uziza leaves for Yoruba people like me?
massmediang: I traveled to Osogbo in Osun state and tasted gbegiri soup with small ewedu and Amala for the first time. It was wonderful and I kept eating it throughout my stay in Osogbo. Gbegiri soup is made with beans and it's a popular delicacy among Yoruba speaking people of Nigeria. Well, I tasted it for the first time and discovered that the taste is universally friendly.
yusman14: Do you mean this shitty trait is part of women naturally? I've seen quite a number of women that are always open to correction and take responsibility of their actions too.. Just that majority of Nigerian women love lies.
Troubledman: I never wanted to involve parents or friends. But she brought them in, in a spate of anger in December last year. When I saw some incriminating things on her phone and left the house. She called all my family, my friends, her family. Reporting me for leaving the house.
When my family tried to get involved then, I told them to stay out of it as it was my family issue. So my own family has never been involved. They're involvement now is because we've been paying a visit here for about a week now and she decided to act up in the presence of my mum.
Other times she waits to get into the room before shouting, but yesterday was really a shock to me. Shouting at me in the presence of my mum.
Ironically, she's going about telling people that I was the one shouting at her, which is a big fat lie, I swear on it. I respect my mother too much to shout in front of her. Heck even in the middle of the night. My mother still told me to apologize to her and I did. She made me apologize thrice.
Your mother must be a very good woman. As for your wife, she will soon get the message. Probably she is the firstborn of her parents and is used to being assertive and shouting her way through issues.
@ OP, I am really scared for you because you said all these things happened in 2020 yet your wife received funds from him more than once this year. It is obvious one of these is happening: 1. He is still having an affair with her (which I am not too sure about) 2. He really is the father of the child that your wife was pregnant with when it was confirmed that they were sleeping together even while with child, and he sends his children's upkeep allowance to her.
The only way you can confirm that the kid(s) is/are yours is by going for a DNA test which is expensive but essential at this point (unless you don't mind them being someone else's kids and won't use it against them in future).
Arysexy: Attention seeker and Bible twister. Clapping is a way of appreciation.
If everything must be done based on Bible, I wonder why u use social media, IPAD, micro phone etc. These things are not in the Bible, ndi sola scriptura
It's in the Bible. People will come out with new truths different from the truth which we have known. It's called Nicolatian doctrine.
NuclearWinter: Idiot probably bought the land or property itself from scammers and the real owners showed up and instead of him to see how to mitigate the issue , in typical Igbo fashion took the matter to court where the real property owners was revealed.
He isn't serious. He should go and buy a space in the cemetery, have it dug to standard, install a headstone and buy a coffin and relocate to his new permanent abode.
Claiming victimhood as usual.
You started with a possibility and ended with a certainty .
Osama2478: As for me, I don't engage in any private discussion with my friends' girlfriends let alone wives.
For any man that engages in private discussions with his friend's wife without his knowledge and to the point of sending money to her especially when the man is not around if nothing is happening at the moment, it clearly showed that he has got a plan. That was my conviction. These are the kind of people that will keep pretending to care for the woman because her husband is not around till they get in between their legs.
Funny enough, this was a guy that was owing me money and never talked about it again because I have traveled abroad.
Women cheat a lot....It's just that they're very secretive....
I see no gain in marriage these days....It's not an achievement and it ain't worth it
OP,you did the best thing and please don't have anything to do with that ratchet hoe you call a wife
He didn't ask you to insult his wife! Why did you have to insult his wife like that? That was very rude and disrespectful of you. I don't blame you; I only blame the man for bringing his issues out in the open to allow his wife get insulted.
@OP, it is possible that your friend is trying to woo your wife (disturbing her for extramarital) and it is also possible that he was just being a friend. Though there might or might not be an ulterior motive to the money sent, that is not a fact or a certainty that they have anything together. Try and look for way to take your wife away from here, most especially if you have trust issues.
Attit: Lol. We absolutely don't value what we have. Those Nigerian Dwarf goats are rated high milk producers for tropics among normal goats. Also, I prefer the cos they are the best and healthiest meat for me as far as I know presently, except I am not aware that small scale local goat farmers too are already using steroids or chemicals to grow them. These breeds are in North America and EU.
If you want to start, bro, start with a good Nigerian breed. You may even buy different Nigerians breeds. You will still sell them off. Use them to learn about goat rearing. This same breed you posted if you feed it well, and you can get free pastures (you may even cultivate plants for it too), you will do well when you want to expand. You wont need to consult any of those hungry consultants around like .......I have 1 million naira...bla bla bla...give me agro investment ideas threads that scammers operate to lure newbies. I used to burst those kind of threads in those days, but when I realised that NL mods are criminals, I backed off.
If you know you are genuine and also not trying to use a coded style to bring forward goat foreign breeds you dont have so you can sell invisible breeds, then, follow the advice you have been given.
Start with Nigerian breeds at your backyard, and get foreign breeds when you have the money and technical ability to maintain them. Going for those foreign breeds when you are still at backyard level is absolutely not wise.
Goodluck!
I guess he was talking about acceptability between the northern goats and our very own "common" Nigerian dwarfs . Honestly, as someone who bought both Sokoto red northern goats and our own local goats, I will advise you to start with local breeds and learn the ropes before going ahead to get the northern goats if you still want to. Reason is that our own local goats rarely fall ill or get affected by weather and are visibly stronger than the northern goats.
By the way, our common West African dwarfs/Nigerian dwarfs are more rated overseas than here in Nigeria. They are even being sold as expensive pets .
Nala22: I am not a supporter of Tinubu but please you guys stop attacking his age and illness, we all pray to grow old someday.
We have aged patents too, agr comes with different types of sickness.
I am OBIDIENTLY YUSFUL
They are attacking his age because he kept lying about his age. Someone who looks like that can never be less than 80. Joe Biden was 80 when he became president and people still voted for him; he didn't lie that he was 60-plus. If he had lied, Americans would surely have laughed at him and made jest of his presidential ambition.
Attit: I need someone who can assist here. One of my growers is moving to the capital of Osun Osogbo. I have started researching the place.
--- Vegetable Sales --- So, is there anyone who can let me know vegetable sales in Osogbo and its surrounding? Ede, Ofatedo, Okinni, Aba Adi, Ido, etc... even down to Ilesa...and its surrounding.
Is it possible to cultivate an acre of cucumber and sell it there? What about sweet pepper.
I will be glad if anyone can help out here.
--- Vegetable Farms--- If you have info about leasing or buying farms in any of these towns, could you let me know?
--- Residence with extended compound --- If you know a residence with a plot or more space inside with borehole, could you also let me know? I am looking for a place already fenced. Perhaps, I can have someone start a garden there also. P
I live in Osogbo. I will try and help you research and then get back to you. Though, it would have been better if it's on phone.