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Aonkuuse:
Bro you have no idea about this thing. Do you know that many people will prefer they have a wayward child than adopt a good child that is not their blood??. This is in human nature, Abraham was blessed and was riches to adopt any child but God preferred to give him his own child at old age, even having a child with his maid wasn't enough. Bro as far as Christianity is concerned, your true offsprings comes from your blood, not from an adopted child. Let people seek for their own children in peace. The order is from God himself.

Which order from God?
The same Abraham that adopted Lot is own cousins?

Skyview01:
For our society to thrive and succeed, we need to have a mentality change and a complete paradigm shift in our thought process . Culture should evolve to meet the needs of our society. The people I pity the most are individuals who help adopt children of relatives and help train kids for lazy relatives. In short we desperately need a positive cultural evolution for our society to thrive.

The biggest mistake you will ever make is to adopt children of relatives, it backfires 100% of the time. You can help relatives from afar off but never adopt their kids.

My eldest sister was the first person to mention this to me. It's mostly backfires.

The children often times turn out to be ungrateful, any misunderstanding with them they will threaten to return to their parents, same with their parents they will demand for their children especially if its a case where the adopted parents are barren.

I will love to adopt from another country self.

Victoria938:
Our Africans mentality is the problem. When it comes to adoption , Africans are still behind , many stigmatize the innocent children they make them less privileged in the society.

I have a friend who is looking for a child for the past 8ys, she is almost developing mental issues because of it. What stops them from adopting and regaining their sanity? I have stopped listening to her lamentations, Na Dem sabi.


My happiness is those around me don't have that backwards african slavery mentality. The world has moved on without African wrapped sense of view.

I don't hold grudges. Forgive and forget but I won't assist you in anyway.

There is a reason the bible says "you reap what you sow". Na bible talk am.

ghettochild:
Yes ooo correct guy...
Even Eskimi sef

I enjoyed eskimi that year. I met an angelic soul through it.

Broke men will always critize the lives of the cream de la cream of the society.

Poverty indeed is disease.

EmekaStanley:
I hired a lady last week Monday and fired her on Friday same week. I concluded she was not ready yet.

This lady came almost 2 hours late for interview without communicating her reason. If she was going to be late, she should inform the interviewer. Red flag.

I ignored that and decided to proceed with the interview. I decided not to conclude on her based on the interview outcome. I love giving people chances.

I offered her the job, she was excited. She was sent an offer letter which she accepted. On resumption date, this lady came late for work. First day at work. I was like 'Is this 24 year old lady innocently naïve or what?".

On Friday last week, this lady came to work by 10.55am. He work time is 8.00am, and she is an office admin. I was on my seat and sighted her walking in, I had to call her and told her to go back home, and that was it.

By the way, she lives like 15 minutes away from the office, and her route is always against traffic.

I wouldn't know when she resumed from Tuesday to Thursday because I came quite late on those days due to field engagements. When I resumed, I met her sleeping twice. After that, she abandoned her work and stepped out to answer a phone call for almost 1 hour.

My experience with this lady made me understand that a lot of people looking for work are not ready for/to work.

ES

Where you looking at her breasts during the interview?

isabi2lof:
The lady dodged a bullet

Serious bullet. May God pursue bad people bfrom his children.

mechanics:
Maybe the bride to be didn't tell him her past life and he was able to find out.

Must it be about the woman? That is a method used by some men if they just want to bed a particular lady at all cost. That is why the bible standard of morality will always be the best, girls will never hear.

A former friend of mine did exactly same thing to a lady, the same church pastor stuff.

Today he his paying his debt because the second lady he tried it with tied him down and he is currently fighting for divorce. We have all abonded him and his problematic wife.

Pepperdemisback:
No mind the mumu, e Don forget Peruzzi. Gistlover say dem still catch am cheating with Ralph of ASAP even 1 month after Davido's father Parlour wedding. Dem sweep am under carpet.

The one wey you go out for house or u don already put men never finished her before now?

Calibrator:
I downloaded and stockpiled movies for like two months and just recently started watching them... Put my SD card in my card reader and plugged in to my TV USB port this morning so my Sunday be lit, memory card has becomed unreadable on both TV and phone.


HT score: Village people 1 Calibrator 0

Same thing happen to me weeks back it was most of my good movies I haven't transfered to my laptop that was erased. Since then immediately I download is straight to system.

Skyciel:
Guy, you get time o
All this write up on top of rumors?

It's only when you know my movement you'll see something to gossip about. I got so much on🤧

Change ur circle

I am screenshooting this.

GboyegaD:
Due to my nature, I used to be bothered not just for myself but my family in all. My mom taught us early that "if you ignore them, they will learn to keep quiet". She also taught us that "Jesus who is the Lord is dead almost two centuries and they talk about him, so who are we that people wouldn't talk".

This, my Astoria is that I don't care.

Same statement always used by my mum as well.

JeffreyJunior:
Silence in public and loud laughter in private, that's how I handle them.

Some have said my dad put me in his "cult" before he died. My pops was never a cult man just that he was not naive in matters of religion eventhough he was a knight.

Many others once said that the gay country affected me and that I could be one.



Another set said that oyibo woman don born pikin for me which was why my mum haff not killed herself over my matter then.

The last trending one was that I died, my mum arranged for me to be buried abroad and covered it up so that umunna people would not take over my papa properties.

Sometime ago, I called my uncle and asked him to do a task on my behalf but he was kinda insisting I showed up fess. I never knew the reason until I went home and visited him in PortHarcourt afterwards. He knelt down and thanked God saying his enemies had been put to shame. He then told me that the rumor was why he was dillydallying. I asked him about my calls and he said if oyibo could clone human being, na my voice go come hard them to forge. That day, I laughed like I was on cheap drugs.

Your last sentence got me laughing really hard.

ItisWell22:
Once person get money, or dey connected to money; the person don become reasonable, responsible, skillful, mentor to all and respected! 😉

Regina husband is an heavy Investor in nollywood besides she is talented acting wise.

I lend money to only my siblings because we have always had each other's back. If I want to give out money I give to those who I noticed are really struggling without them asking me for it.

My friends knows it especially the married ones, lend them money sorry is your case.

Seven kings must die: 5/10.
Love the ending.

toluxe0075:
You will like the trade more. It’s from the same director. More like the story of Evans the kidnapper. The acting was great (especially the lead) and the story was well executed.

For me, it’s better than the gangs of Lagos. I feel the gangs of Lagos got better pr.

The trade for me is ,3/10.
It was poorly executed. Poor casting, poor action sequences, hungry looking police men and their dirty office.

finalboss:
Gangs of Lagos : 1/10
I hope nobody involved with this film will ever be able to make another movie. Actually, I don't even want them to take a selfie.

I will rate it 6/10.
The characters except for Bimbo ademoye nailed their roles. The action sequences were good, Adesuwa fighting skill was top notch.

I love the ending especially.
Nollywood improved on this one.

Operation.Fortune.Ruse.de.Guerre. 8/10
Pathaan 7/10

Please if I am downloading from Netnajia the speed is usually slow like 2hrs for a file of 400mb. Has anyone experience it recently or is my device? Any solution?

BluntTheApostle:
Perhaps, you have forgotten the story of the thief crucified alongside Jesus Christ.



Only horrible criminals were crucified in the Roman Empire, which means the thief must have been a very horrible criminal.



Yet, a moment of change of heart brought him eternal life.

Says who? Was jesus a horrible criminal before he was killed? Study the Bible deep.

BluntTheApostle:
Last prayers do a lot.



Condemned criminals get the opportunity to say their last prayers before they are executed. In fact, they allow them access to a priest.



I hear assassins ask their victims to say their last prayers.



Keeping our hands and consciences clean is not an easy task. As long as we are flesh, temptations would always abound.



Which is why we pray for grace.

After commiting evil and destroying the lives of people/things not to mention willfully disobedience to God and his principles then during the last minute of life you think a few minutes prayer will appeased God?

If a righteous man will be saved with difficulty what hope is there for the wicked?

Temptations will always abound that's why it is written that "whoever endures to the end is the one that will be saved".

God is not to be mocked, if a man sow with a view to the flesh he will reap corruption.

Rexymania:
They look poor whilst carrying money... It means they are not the real owners

You see those rich looking people shi shi nor dey their pockets, na forming. Go inside market and see poor looking women the account balance alone na entire meeting money.

The main money bags rarely look it.

BluntTheApostle:
That is the problem.



Yorubas have a saying: "The person watching you is smarter than you".



If someone has 100 guns, the person stalking them has the advantage even if he has just one gun.



One thing that chills me about AKA's death is that it came without any warning.



He did not even see it coming.



He certainly didn't have the time to say his last prayers.

Last prayer does nothing.

Keeping our hands and conscience clean at all time is what will save a person because most times death issues no warning.

toluxe0075:
Especially Indian. Anything with Shah Rukh Khan Khan, Salman Khan, and Aamir Khan in it will bang.

Not anymore, Indians no longer care about stardom. Bollywood is undergoing a serious bycott of big names by their fans.

The three names you mentioned above are experiencing a serious drop in their box office numbers in the last recent years. Its just the recently released pathaan by shah Rukh khan that has help to salvage his dying career.

Justbehave:
I was the one that raped your mother last night and she enjoyed it.Sorry I couldn't rape you too because your father was raping you already when I came in so I had to rape your mom.

It it fortunate that not all father's are depraved rapist like yours.

It's easy to spot demented bastard sons who are product of an unapologetic rapist bastard male lineage.

Dignifying a wasted specimen of a failed father with further replies will be an insult to my person.

GloriousGbola:
Happened when I was in boarding school. One 14 Yr old Hausa girl. Her dad died and the uncle immediately took her and married her off.

It happened to a childhood friend of mine too.

She was in primary six while I was in jss2 when her dad married her off to a grandfather with 3 wives (they were muslim) because of the man's political connections in Lagos not that they are poor.

She cried bitterly the day they stopped her from going to school, she was damn beautiful and intelligent.

Two years after the marriage and with a baby girl she left the man with serious fighting and helped from her female aunties, she returned to her parents home and the same father remarried her off to another wealthy man.


It was the second husband that eventually killed her. Till date I still can't forgive her father, especially anytime I went through my old albums.

Justbehave:
Ooh. Now you all are at work. But if it's about a rape post against a man Una no go dey for work.Lol

Useless rapist! I have always known you are one. Hand go soon touch you.