₦airaland Forum

Is abortion an achievement?

Make una dey try to dey shame small.
U guys have been through immorality and back. This is not only barbaric and but a myopic view of what a true relationship should be.

Well,I didn't just come in here to talk to u but to scold u for even dating a girl like that.

Una go see wahala dey call am love. Like mother,like daughter. Be careful before u will enter bigger trouble with such a lose girl.

Oxb90:
He also deserves death.

Thank God for his brother who did not try to shield him in the manner of some are but promptly reported him to law enforcement.

Expose evil and it runs away from near us.

His type might have been planning to kill his brother.

MGeey:
Please what is the current interest rate of stanbic IBTC MMF? I just got told 4.7% but thats not what i am seeung online.

Also which bank is offering the best MMF now in Nigeria?

ARM IS CURRENTLY AT 8.46.

This story is not complete...tell us why u dropped out and that would help us to understand the angle u are coming from.

For this one sided story,your father can't be wrong because of your gory past.

Listen to your parents and live long.

Baba u failed this country and I pray your retirement would just be the way and manner u left this country.

swagficient:
Hello here, I am really sad right now, I'm confused. My daughter's teacher called me to tell me she's not coping in class, she even said she organized extra lesson for her. She can't tell the difference between figures and number, she can write figure one and letter A. Nothing else. She doesn't come home to recite poems or anything but she sings those songs she hears from other kids or anywhere. Just not the school ones.
I love my daughter, I adopted her at age 1 and since then I have been trying to make life easier for her, I got a tab for her at 2 and half, She has toys, bikes, everything a kid should have for mental and academic growth.
I make sure she doesn't get mentally stressed. I love to make her comfortable. She's very active, smart ( in my own view). She operates my phone and her tab just fine, She understands complex conversations.
I make learning fun for her, I've tried everything.
Please, parents, teachers, experienced adults. I need your help here.
I don't know what being tagged "a slow learner" would do to her mental health. I need her to catch up.

U might need to take her to another school.
My daughter experienced this kind of behavior at the same age,what I did was to take her to another school and she improved tremendously and today,she is the best in Maths and also good in English and her writing is in top shape.
Sometimes some class teachers can dull a child beyond understanding and still complain that the the child isn't doing well...because they may have bad mouthed the child making her feel low of herself.
This was what happened to my daughter before I took her present school.

MadeINchenzen2:
It depends. Marriage is a monumental scam in Nigeria. If you must marry, don't expect too much... the worst thing that'll happen to you is when you marry an ugly short, dark and mannerless idle woman... who will bear you ugly children that hates education.

Just find a beautiful naive quiet woman and have cute babies with her. Dissolve the marriage when u get bored and hook up with a portable apple butt ashawo with 2 big calabash hanging on her chest.

Thank me later

Just no kill us with laff/laugh.
U are just wicked, tall me should marry short woman to complement the children's height. E get why.

asthmacoughend:
. A River is said to be a home to a big ,deadly Crocodile which have been killing many People ,A stranger got to the Driver asking if it's true .U said Enter The River first ..Na wa for U ..To enter first not the Solution ooo .Na to hear from People that have Experienced it before ..

NO MARRIAGE IS NOT A SCAM
I am 38 years old and a father of three.
Marriage is the best that can happen to a man or woman out there. This is 6years I got married to my lovely wife.
Even in relationship there are uncountable fights and quarrels and if u think u will marry and not have cause for quarrel,then u are a big liar.

See,yesterday I had some kind of misunderstanding with my wife and she alighted from my car when I insisted the talk should stop and she angrily ask me to stop my car and I drove home. But as misunderstanding is a normal thing in marraige,this morning I had to help tidy up the interior of her car and mine at the same time and she left may be still angry.

I later called her that this night we go do oh... and she laughed and that settles it.

My dear,marriage is good as far as u didn't marry a stupid man or woman who does not value the principles of marriage.
I still stand to say marriage is good and sweet.

Hope say u never go meet fake pastors them.?

But in case u want to hear my version eh.

She is a fantastic witch.

Women always at the receiving end.

As if u don't have your past too...this investigation should have been done earlier on. In fact men have more horrible past than women yet we always smeared their name just to be correct.

No be men like us they impregnate women causing them to be single mothers...oga,go and continue to marry your wife and live in peace and stop this yeye investigation.

Google Overian cyst and know why most women are carrier.

This guy scammed this woman both in marriage and finance.

This is the extent they go just to tarnish the country's image.
How would any country respects us when boys and girl are into yahoo,yahoo plus,rituals and all sorts of evil for money?
This is one case China or Ghana here would not joke with but we chose to allow this fool to use his so called connected brothers to evade justice.

Jay5mie:
My simple advice to my innocent brothers out there considering getting married is...



DON'T DO IT!!!


No talk say i no warn una o

Is this an advise or an opinion?
Someone gave birth to you and now, this is the only thing u have to say.
Don't worry,it will get to u.

Because not every man here is poor and not everyone married when they had nothing.

Hmm,this is the man who started the campaign against Jonathan before others followed. When the Northern leaders met Obama in the US. He Obama asked them what they wanted,he reportedly told him that they don't want President Jonathan to lead the country again.

He didn't stop there, they all decamped just because they hated the man in power and there after,he became a loud mouth that Jonathan was depleting the population of the North using Bokoharam.

Today,he is politically irrelevant in the Nigerian politics and Niger state has been over ran by bandits and no one is calling on the President to stop what they all started.

They all gathered to rubbished a good man un known to them,more evil awaits them all.

He started speaking truth to power. Mr laud mouth.

Same mentality was what killed my cousin...he died a miserable death.

He was a Buccaneer at 3oo level but he was wasted like a rat.

Whether they don't look for trouble or not,when the fight starts both the innocent and non innocent shall flee. And if u are caught in the process,u are already a goner.

Everyone has to be in the driving seat of their financial journey and today,many prefer to live larger than life.


Note: every one naira count.

I am indeed, a living testimony of what a few thousands can do.

Your uncle is the type that sees women as properties.

At old age this your stupid uncle will live to regret his actions. He feels he is full of life now,time only will reveal more.

See,this place u came to seek for advice is far better than that prayer house that is full yahoo pastors.

If u want to destroy your destiny quickly and sharply,prayer houses would offer such to any vulnerable fellow out there. 99% of them are yahoo pastors. They have no solutions to your problems avoid them and have peace.

Good luck to u.

I just hope say Abia governor dey see how useless he has been for the past 7years?

Na one bridge that one still dey battle till today,he has not finished constructing it.

SanctifiedSista:
Call for a meeting with family member and pastor she respects and let them talk sense into her. If she doesn't change, pray abt her attitude..she will come to her senses.Holy Spirit know how to deal with her

Women and Nigerian pastors.
Must u people mention pastors before anything becomes good in this world.

U have nailed it very well...

After all your complaints you finally agreed that u witnessed all these troubles before hand and went ahead to marry her. I guessed u married her out of pity.

The only thing I see here is that,u hate yourself. If truly u like you who u are,I don't think u will commit this kind of blunder.
Remember,it is forever together both in bad times and in good times.

ElectronicMoney:
Write to CBN and tell them what? This is not a case of fraud or impropriety on the part of the bank

If u don't know how banking works keep quiet and stop making it look like without fraud u can't report a commercial bank or any bank in Nigeria. Any failed transaction should be reported to CBN on or before 72 hours.
Their regulatory functions are vast such that many Nigerian who like follow,follow can't understand or read to understand what CBN stands for in the nations financial system.

ElectronicMoney:
Write to CBN and tell them what? This is not a case of fraud or impropriety on the part of the bank

If u are regulating a body and they don't do their job who do u report to in cases like this?

Go online and write CBN about this transaction.

Great to hear this!

The best for that woman is to leave that man.

A gambler is worst than any social vice on earth. Even if the man builds a house,he would rather sell it and bet more money. They can only change when the bet shop has been closed which means it will be very hard to change them.

I only pity that woman because she has alot of work to do but the best is to leave that man,because any man that cant provide for his family is an unbeliever.

Onlinebar:
What is the nature of the side hustle please

It comes from both salary,side income,investment e.t.c

victooman:
The way graduate paint this job of a thing one will think it is a way to financial heaven,,how much is the job even paying self,? most jobs will hardly give u 100k in a month, for seven years what business did u build, dont even tell me there is no finance because 19,800 Nysc was paying then is equivalent to the 33k corp member is receiving now, unless you are the one carrying all ur family problems during service year l dont know why a graduate should not strategies for life after school before finishing service,, l rounded up my service last year, l purposely work my way toward serving in a village so as to Augment my savings, l took a job in a private school were l was paid 7k for teaching 3 times in a week, my ppa paid me 2k this means l makes 42k in a village were both transportation and feeding are affordable,, l no flex, l no carry woman matter for head, l knew the family and the country am coming from so l discipline myself. l was saving 20k ever month and l use the rest of the 22k take care of myself,
After service year l had 220k as my savings because l did not save anything on my first allawee . Before rounding up, l called my friend in Abuja , he got a room of 50k for me ,l got matrass, bought food stuff and carpet.
Immediately after my p.o.p l relocated back to Abuja,, when l got there p.o.s was the perfect business that was on my mind, infact l was having less than 200k after expenses, so no money to even construct a kiosk talk more of renting a shop, l bought umbrella table and chair and look for a busy area , and boom business have started,, like play ,the first day l made 2500 naira and subsequently from October till today market bad e bad l go carry 3k go house, in most of the sales am sure of making at least 4-5k a day and this is because l don't have huge capital yet, if u start and fail it is understandable but most students and corpers will live like kings a forget they have nobody,, it hurts me when graduate lament of jobs,, you mustn't work for anybody to feed in this country.

In the next 5years,u will be very rich with this kind of mentality...I said u will be very successful. It is all about the process and u have taken the bull by the horn.
Your story is similar to mine and today,after NYSC in Kebbi,I relocated back to Abuja with the sum of 360k only.
Today,I have made close to 52million both in cash and assets within a space of 10 years.
U can do more believe me only if u can avoid vices that may affect your ambition. Focus on building your wealth and marry only when your money starts working for u.

HenryDion:
Keep waiting for grace until you end up six feet below. Religion have utterly destroyed you lots cognitive function.

That is what they tell them.
Nigerians talk about Grace more than the children of Israel yet they suffer more disgrace than any group of people in Africa.
Pity.
The writer here knew about Grace yet he knew the importance of taking the bull by the horn,hence his decision to travel down to Lagos and struggled it out all by himself.

FriendsAndFans:
Just like that, it's 7 years already! It's been rough! Very rough and tough but I give thanks to God. Life isn't always as we plan it... Life charts a different course of its own.
I have seen few folks doing ok with their wife (wives) and kids, I have seen folks who can barely stay afloat financially.

My eyes have seen a lot after NYSC. I have travelled far and wide with no roof just to attend interviews. At a point, I slept on the streets of Lagos job hunting and understood life the harsh way.

The last interview which I did and which got me this current job, I had to sleep on a bench in a market, and my bag was the pillow: because I got to the city around 11:52pm or so and my interview was the following morning. A City I knew no one in

An unknown folk in a known city earning sixty
It's a blessing

Thank God u moved.
More blessing awaits u and to all those who are willing to relocate,it is not always easy,but it pays.

I pity all those who are attending his University...just imagine how many students they may have declared to be missing.

Kriss216:
In all these, her only annoyance is they gave her Economy class instead of Business class to return back.

If that is the only thing u understand then,u are very sick in the head. Did he steal the money only to be treated like a common criminal?

Next time learn to have compassion on people. Characters like u should be purged out of this earth for hating and being bittered towards people.