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I'm curious sef, how did you make it all alone to this stage ie final year with no guardian, parents or relatives

If you can pull through on your own for 27years, I believe you can go all the way. However, if there are things bothering you or you need a family unit to attach to, you're emotionally depressed, why don't you go to your church pastors wife?I believe you are a Christian. Be warned, having a family, biological or not does not guarantee happiness, the key to happiness and unconditional love lies in you. You start loving yourself, decide to be happy with your lot in life and everything would be ok. Goodluck!

^ the second paragraph is superb! Aptly put.
80% of married men I know are extremely happy, proud of their wives and would do it all again if given a second chance.

This is beyond terrible.where is the country heading to

Wack lyrics but cool beats. Me likey!

Well done guys!
Donations of clothing and sundry items are welcome too.

^Rofl.

Hahaha,Odunnu i si na ibu onye ebe di?Amu na asokwa m.
Odenigbo,kedu zi ife "Nkisi Aroli" putara?O bu ofu ife ka Iba Aroli?
A likerim Odenigbo,a nam akpo di m 'Odenigbo,Odogwu na Agu nwoke' ma m choro i napu ya ihe ma o bu m cho ka o mesie m ife ike.LOL

Hmmn.The kind of things one hears happening in this country.Like someone said,next we'll hear that he has disappeared from detention or a like story.Same old shyte!

Girls still borrow blouses?
He who goes a borrowing,goes a sorrowing.

Qwundus.it has a lovely meaning but. . .

Drove past adeniji twice today,i didnt notice any mayhem.

Pro choice for lyfe.I'll start by giving and teaching her how to use a condom.
@Topic,parents especially moms would do well to maintain a very healthy,free and open relationship with their daughters.A girl,no matter what she has done that enjoys a good rapport with the mom would confide in her mom as opposed to peers who might lead her to the abortion table.

Pregnancy is not a sin,illegal fvcking/fornication is.

Disappear from the scene

Pensioners are dying daily. A pension scam and syndicate was recently unveiled, how many people have resigned ?

Same for the oil subsidy scam and all the numerous scams, probes and failed govt institutions.

Elle est belle.she looks quite young.

Lol.
Funny OP.

I'm quite confused now. I have to go through the thread again.

Odumchi, enu onicha is the collective name for all the villages in onichaland (?)

Lovely, menek!
May God continue to bless the works of your hands and give you more wisdom.
You are a divine and positive project.

Ofcourse, she should take them along or who she want leave them for ?

When did "white/church" weddings become part of an Igboculture
@OP,if you and your husband cannot sort out a simple wedding venue site without problems arising i think you guys need to review the marriage plans.
Why must your(u and him)parents pick the venue or even "chouk" mouth inside the mata?Please go meet ur hubby,u both sit down and decide on a venue that would suit the 2 of you factoring in hall rent,proximity to both parents,friends and relatives.
Na wao for todays marriages.

There is actually Onicha-land though its not as popular as Ngwaland.Its known in the town as "enu Onicha" and thats where u get the indigenous villages et all.

I think dede Andrews reply captures it perfectly.

^Okwa otu aka na ukwu ekelemere Odunnu jiri chilie ukwuya abuo n'elu ekele Nri Priest.lol
Udi ekele nke a dikwa 'behuge'! Ngwanu umunne m ukwu na aka m nile di n'elu na ekele.
Ka Chineke kasie umunne anyi nile ndi umunne ha nwuru na ihe mberede ugbo elu mere n'izu a.

@OP,if u take a trip to the creeks and villages in Bayelsa and other "oyel" producing states,you will cry an ocean.
Your case is not strange by Naija standards.Have u tried writing your LG chairman to inform him(not like he doesnt know) of the plight of your people?It would work better than creating threads here.

kilokeys: All well said. At least we hv a common ground.
Independence + submissiveness = homemaker
total dependence + submissiveness = housewife
independence + arrrogance = bad wife
dependence + arrogance = crazy woman

You are a clown.
rofl

Johndoe100: She either killed him herself or helped those that did. This is an old scenerio with local flavoring. Under proper interogation she will confes.

LOL
Funny but loking at the OP's last post,i cant help but agree that this is a possibility though there are more unanswered questions.what happened to the corpse etc?
If my husband missed for an hour,the whole of my neighbourhood wont know peace.lol
Btw,don't they have children?The man has no relatives?

Everyday, "choose choose" mentality,why not believe u can have it all,atleast to an extent then make up with compromises and sacrifices
@OP,when are u expected to resume work?
when are u getting married?
Have u and ur husband made efforts or making an effort to get something for u in abuja?

If i were in ur shoes,i wont be thinking of choices,which means one has to go for one to stay but i'd rather be looking for solutions that would allow me have both. . .to an extent.

Chante,where in Lekki?
leave contacts too and please no hide and seek or BS.thanks.

This is devastating!
Lost 2 former colleagues.

Would you take 1 year for the S/C ? we can seal the deal next week.

Expose them! thats what to do instead of moaning.
I know they can get new usernames and repost their shyte but if you have their nos and office address u can as well post that to warn other members.
There was a time i needed a BQ or S/C in lekki for my adopted daughter,i specified what i want but these highly annoying and dubious agents on here still tried their funny moves on me,it didnt work and trust me,i mentioned names.