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You pulled guns in front of kids for this part of the world we they na big offence.... Na jail straight for all those officers

BeeBeeOoh:


So, you mean this common, ordinary, simple praying mantises dey do all these things wey you just post??




Nawa oh! Imagine, common Osu Ökpö??

You funny die lol

amstamon:
Wahala be like Doctor wey Wan hepp u nack ur wife

Why are you so insensitive?

Nomorelove:
Why do babies stay in the womb for nine months but ain't nine months old when born?

Nigeria na cruise walahi

Because it takes them 9months to mature into a day old

Only 2mil u want to open massage business? That 2mill wont even open a nice boutique talk more of massage business

Amotolongbo:
and flying high like a kite

You 2 just got a nice lyrics now

Jceeee:
let me add this : for those 11 years I waited for him , he has also had 2 children here , a girl born in 2006 and a boy 2010 but I didn’t know about those children until when I joined him in 2013. He has only told me about the boy born in 2010 buy he never told me about the girl born in 2006 , so I came to found out about the girl in 2018 via Facebook when the mother of the girl who is an African but not Nigerian messaged me on Facebook with the girl photo , she looks exactly like my husband in everything and she and my first daughter look alike too , I confronted my husband he did not denied he has told me if he had documents in this country , it was because of the girl because after having lots of rejection things were hard that’s why he decided to cheat on me and get the lady pregnant and after the daughter was born , he and the mother went to claiming that he now have a child born in this country so he was allow to get his documents through the child. After getting documents the mother started making his life miserable and he has to leave her and child and never looked back to her. I know him having children outside of our marriage is forgivable which I had also forgive him but I know when he found out about mine , he wouldn’t be the same , he will make it looks so bad forgetting that he has done the same which I forgive and forget about it.

Madam you and even your mother are evil. Like mother like daughter. How can a mother have the heart to hide evil like this to even her own husband . You are a cursed evil child . I just pity that man that called u his wife . Gosh! I just pray this your story isn't true

Jceeee:
Hello everybody ,
I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .

I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.

My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.

I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .

I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.

I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .

Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.

Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.

I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.

Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .

please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do

How evil you are ...you are not worthy to be called someone wife. I spit on u.

grandlexuz:
Lol. We can all never have thesame composure because we are men. Afterall no two pennis have same colour, girth and length..Lol

That said I understand the shortcomings of the OP. Despite being badly treated by my woman I never contemplated suicide for once. I love my kids so much to see them grow up without the stigma of a father who left by suicide. Besides I love living, one of the reasons I beat the odds during a time of severe hardship.

Still I dont expect the OP to have my resolve. Though he didnt throw much information if the text messages were explicit enough to show sexual content, I suspect that was the case. There is that much you can't throw online.

I think it's wrong of him to contemplate suicide but depression has varying effects and consequences for different people. That he is still alive is reason enough that he is holding strong despite the odds. I will like to have a more personal chat with him to encourage, and know the depths of his problems. We can and should always be our brothers keeper.

Well said my brother .

berrystunn:
How ..?
How can you take charge without money?

This a weak man question. For a man to ask this question it means u suppose be gay not a man trust me

grandlexuz:
I am sorry to hear about your issues. Believe you me a lot of people on nairaland are insensitive and stupid. I know what it means to throw a sensitive issue like this on nairaland. I have been through the lions den. Being maltreated and abandoned by my wife when I was severely sick.

Forget about all those condemning you. I do understand your problem both from self experience and a medical perspective. If you really need someone to share life experiences and talk to contact me on whatsapp and you will never regret it. I live in Cameroon. My number is 237. 653 924 176.

Your case is different brother don't encourage men to act weak like a woman. Is he sick? Read this guy write-up it full of errors. First he complained the wife cheats but never admitted he caught her cheating

Secondly he jumped to the fact the wife love money

Then to the part the wife don't like him spending on him self

...again, she don't have time for her family.

All this she been doing to you for 7years. Then you as a man what you been doing ?

Believe me this guy is the problem of him self not the wife. Had it been he caught his wife cheating that's a different story

MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

Oga no vex, did you catch your wife cheating ? Based on her phone chats u read did you see anything that she actually having sex with those 2 men ?

Apart from if answer to those 2 questions is "yes" then I can advice you on what to do but from all your write-up it seems u just suspecting she might be cheating because you are broke . (Hustle my brother)

We men do complain too much when we put our selves in mess . Didn't you date this girl before marrying her? I bet if u did you would have known she like money cos women no dey hide that part no matter how they try unless the man is too blind to see.

No marriage is perfect just do the ones u can and leave the ones you no fit do. Like I said, unless you have 100percent evidence she cheats on u I will call u a fool if u thinking of suicide option

mike8804:
All na permutations....trust a Nigerian politician at your peril.

But you trust APC when they shouted change?

BIGGESThead6:
NA DANGOTE alone get this Country.
Children of hate go come Dey talk rubbish now. God punish all of Una, where Una papa dey when Dangote dey HUSTLE LEGALLY?


North Amaka.

Yet north account to 90percent of Nigerian poverty rate . Go hustle lazy man and leave dangote wealth

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
Bunch of untalented moda fuckkers
Including my sister called cynthia Ikponmwenosa(cynthia Morgan)
Not to talk of that untalented moda fuckkker called davido who uses too much voice enhancer in the studio and still dishes out dogg shitt to his fans

Until Nigeria artistes comes up with something good
My play list will remain like this
cole
The weekend
Imagine dragons
Sia
Burna boy
2face
Katty pery
Passenger
Bruno Mars
WizKid
Avicii( rest in peace)
Twenty one pilot
The Chainsmokers
Dig the kid
Cold play
Khalid
Maroon 5
Calum scot
John legend
Selena Gomez
Post malone
Ellie Goulding
Christiana aquilera
A great big world
Rita ora
Clean bandit
Dua lipa
Martin garixx
Major Lazer
The night
Edsheeran
Taylor swift
One direction
Lewis capaldi
Sam smith
Ariana Grande
Kehlani
Billie eilish
Camilo Cabello

This nigga is back

@Op what did you smoke? Apart from "how star do" all na trash and mi mi never hear ani

Egein:
These are Americans, not Nigerians.
They are of Nigerian origin, but not necessarily Nigerian.

Read you won't read. Didn't you see where it well stated when they moved to USA? They were all born and schooled in Nigeria

thesilentman:
My signature? Oh I didn't remember thanks for that. What's paining me is that I think he feels that am too small ( young ) to have such a beautiful young wife. Only heaven can help me now.I just wanna teach him a lesson.Am no gentleman.

Oga no go kee ya sef cos of woman ...those bitches ain't royal. Any secret a woman reveil to you there is hundred if not thousands she ain't telling you

Better behave no go kee for a woman cos when u behind bars yo eyes go open cos that ya pretty angelic wife u see now go dey chop yo best man.

So my broda just dey soro woreey no loseguard

Openbusiness:
Women and cheating na 5 & 6
you are poor, they will cheat on you
you are rich, they will still cheat on you
you are a commoner, they will cheat on you
you are an emperor, they will still cheat on you
you give her nothing, they will cheat on you
you give her everything, they will still cheat on you
you don't marry her, they will cheat on you
you marry her, they will still cheat on you
your d**k is small, they will cheat on you
your d**k is big, they will still cheat on you
you are ugly, they will cheat on you
you are handsome, they will still cheat on you
you are a civilian, they will cheat on you
you are a military, they will still cheat on you
you are alive, they will cheat on you
you are dead, they will still cheat on you.....
Is there any type of man that women don't cheat on

Yes the single ones

RAYMOND0753:
Rip

This 9ja bet thing again?

When I reach that age I will kneel and thank God for a life well spent. Rip

Amotolongbo:
Nothing is good here.

Each man should man his territory and no need for interference in another man’s territory.

Who told you that there is political advantage for us to set up Amotekun and OPC in the north?
They have more advantages than us setting up security anywhere in the country. Hence, the need to fend them off setting any security in our land.

If u don't know he is an agent of demons... Just ignore the bastard

IDeyNL:
That's good.

We will also set up Amotekun and OPC in the north

Nonsense! Stay your North we stay our south. Wicked set of souls

I guess this may be why the first coup took place. This wicked politicians play games with human lives. And the soldiers pay for it.

A soldier suffer bullets and many of his men die in battle and later apprehend terrorists and the government feed them and send them back to the society.

What a wicked world

omokab:
I dont see any reason inviting obla to this investigation. The issue of all allegations level against magu does not surface at all. Reading through the lines, the lawyer bribe his way to win the case. You paid 5m unknowingly that the judge also have interest on said building.this is a typical lie. Ago salami should not let malami use him to nail magu.He should be very careful in handling this matter.magu is not a saint but the allegation were fake.Another case there is the 75m for winning a case, the money is too much.

How stupid u people think. So you foolishly think the money is too much now and u never thought It was an agreement before the lawyer accepted to handle the case?

If I wish to charge you 1billion to win your case and after winning u then realise it too much? Oga fear God

No be only exodus, they will soon reach revelation

oshe11:
How did OBJ kill Rain?




It didnt Rain in Nigeria during his tenure

Me too no even understand how the man kill rain

@op I never seen where rendering help is a burden cos u call it help. If u don't have it u don't have it my friend.. U are not mandate to do things above your capacity.

Secondly, are u dating this girl (or is she sister in the Lord) if u dating her well I weep for you cos u will soon cry(don't ask me how)

Draw a line and make up your mind based on your capabilities ( I won't ask u to stop helping someone in need) but never to your detriment.

You have a life far ahead of you... Plan that. If u love this girl and wish to have future with her go meet her parents and make things official so that (no woman no cry)

I wish u all the best in your decision

hopefulLandlord:
This can't hit front-page. It's an atheist that's being "prosecuted" if it were a Christian it'd have hit

Why are you allergic to sense?

This exactly reason why media trial should be a crime... People should allow justice done in the right way.

Go to police, report a case, police file to court and you accuser arrested.

I can never pay attention to media sympathy nonsense posted by any oloshi. I don't even give a damn about the quality of the crime. Go to police and get justice

How do you damage someone image first and then request the person to start proving his innocence?

Xisnin:
Civilians don't file rape or any criminal cases, the government do.

Don't you think the same should apply to all crimes?
Perhaps we should start jailing police for every case that court exonerate a suspect
and also jail the person who reported a crime such as armed robbery or car jacking.



This baseless argument have been made since the 15th century.
Yet, here we are with rapist facing more penalty(not lesser) and backlack everyday.
Rapist defenders will never ever change their mind regardless of the merit of the case.
The good news is that their opinion is inconsequential as it won't affect the real legal case
if any.


England actually made now-defunct laws to protect against "false accusation"
but it didn't stand the test of time because no other crime is afforded the same protection
and it allow rapists to operate freely.

Suppose you live in a shared flat and your newly bought iPhone XR got stolen.
You decided to report to the police and the likely suspect got interviewed but later freed.
Should you be jailed or harrassed for "false accusation"?
Should everybody who ever reported a wrong suspect be thrown into jail?

How about journalist and people who comment online about "corrupt politician without
"concrete" evidence. Should they also be thrown into jail?

Did u read my comment well before quoting? Must u start media trial before police can pick up your case? Relax Oga abi madam, pray you don't fail a victim of media one day then u might understand.

Like I said, rape is a serious offence and very emotional one I can never defend any rapist such way I can never defend any woman who falsely accused a man of rape cos to me its equally a serious crime.

Now let's say a woman accuse a man falsely and somehow the man found guilty (which such case I seen) what do u say to this situation?

My stands still remain why tarnish image of someone online when court never find the person guilty? What's your mindset before reporting such a big case online first before reporting to police? If not for fame and human sympathy

This exact reason I always say all this social media trial will only damage image of rape case

All this oloshi them dey use rape accuse dey do play play as if its a game. If u can't file a rape case with tangible reasons beyond doubt pls better hold your peace and allow your faith cos accusing such case put doubts.

Rape is a serious crime not just a crime but an unending emotional one. The way media trial of rape in going in Nigeria in future will start putting so much doubt that will soon bring laws that may somehow frustrate real rape cases.

I strongly think anti media case rape case should be put in place. If u feel raped, go straight to police or file a case in court and don't start media trial first.

Am sorry if my comment offend anyone
. Just try read it in a reasonal manner u may get the point

Am 18yrs older than my wife

My milf is 15yrs older than me