DarkRebel69:


.... The truth is that many Nigerian parents are mentally and emotionally unfit to raise children.


.... yet the physical and/or verbal abuse of children is seen as a non-issue which invariably is followed by moral backings that draws from a silly quotation in a silly book that says, "Spare the rod and spoil the child"?

Did you know that in the US, a parent is killed everyday by their own child? And that one of the causes usually is when a severely abused child gets pushed beyond his/her limits? Tell me, how much longer do you think it'd take before African children begin to toy with the idea of parricide?

Inasmuch as d write up makes some sense, u r totally wrong, at least as far as d African context is concerned. In d US or UK, d govt spend billions of dollars rehabilitating deviant children in their prison system yet dey prohibit d family system from imposing discipline in diz kids. But it's different in d African societies. What is d essence of our cultures? From where i come from, it takes a whole village to bring up a child. So how cud a whole village get it wrong?
We don't need bestsellers on child to know how to raise our kids. Guess what, most of diz bestselling authors don't even hav kids! Or want any. We were raised up d traditional ways...pampering, discipline, luv...see how we turned out.

Oh, he just murdered d "made in Aba" shoe industry! Aba shoes already gained world recognition, daz why u see d Chinese shoe makers wanting to associate wit d brand. Now, dey r bringing stiff competitors who can aggressively promote & market themselves. Now, d local shoe makers cannot compete so dey end up working for d mega show company! Who knows, dis may just be d governor's personal biz venture, only fronting d Chinese as a cover. If u beliv Abia State will benefit from dis venture, u will beliv anything....

Op, how do tell dat a product is cheap, its model or price?

He had no choice. Imagine since 2013 & i believe he must exhausted all normal avenues to collect on d debt, especially since d debtor is strategically dodging payment.
Free advice : either u pay up or d debt will follow till u fall...causing damage all d way

Bros, u KNEW all diz issues but u married her anyway, so why d raggae music now?
It's not a mistake u made, it's a decision u took, so live wit it

"Home, sweet home...no place like home ". He went d same way he came!!

U date a girl for more than 4yrs & after ONLY 2 weeks of separation, she's dating somebody else already? Either she's loose, desperate or d guy is super cool! Unknown to u, she may hav been double dating on u before. U don't need to convince or persuade her not to see d guy anymore. She must hav involved with d guy deeper than u think to still hang out wit d guy. Lesson No1...neva leave ur partner if u still care.

Advice: Think like a woman & act like a man....MOVE ON cos u r only an option at dis point. If u don't get d hint now, she gon' drop d bomb on u

Dude, u r d man! But to be brutally honest wit u, u dont hav a wife. She's more like a domestic staff who, aside from doing all d house chores, also hav babies for u. If i gave my wife a fraction of my monthly income, it wudnt nearly almost a 'SALARY'. Apparently she realizes her actual roles in d house than u do, probably why she augments her 'SALARY' every chance she gets. If u dont wake up & change how w things work in d house, she's gonna walk away from doz 'duties' once she achieves her financial target or wen u lose ur job. & guess wot, it wont be her fault cos u programmed her dat way!
But u claim u luv each otha, so i guess dat can still make it work. Gud luck, man!

Yes, but I'll neva will

Under d current economic situation of d country, dis had gotta be dumbest policy of d CBN. I'm beginning to beliv dat d CBN is deliberately pushing d economy towards a depression. Instead of losing my hard earn money to fraudsters (banks), I'd ratha convert my money to hard currency & keep in a cool, dry place.

Aside from d obvious benefits of owning property in an estate ie...securty of land/life, facilities, etc, dere r fixed & general levies dat u hav to pay to d estate management monthly and/or yearly. Also u will be subjected to d terms & conditions & rules of d estate. Bottom line is...u r more or less a tenant in ur own house in an estate

soberdrunk:
... Dear ladies the consequence of a night of "jiggy jiggy" is a man's responsibility 'only' when you are wearing his "ring", if not its an "open market operation' and the receiver bears the cost........

U r so very wrong...UR CHILD is UR RESPONSIBILITY no matta d circumstances of his conception. Cos d mother is not ur wife now makes d child any less urs? U can waive ur responsibility to d mother but u t OBLIGED to cater for d child in different capacities as d father. If ur luv (or lack of it) for d mother, determines ur relationship wit d child, consider urself self centred & selfish. I'm not judging, just being real

This post may be quite a "writeful" but if u can patiently read thru it, u will begin to realise how how d country slipping furtha into coma.


What John Zibiri said about Nigeria:
I worked and lived in Abuja for 18 years. I ran my own private company from 2001 until 2014.
Two million of the likes of Buhari cannot change Nigeria.
Everything is wrong with Nigeria. The Director won't give you contract except you pay up front .
The banks won't give you loan except you concede a certain percentage. .
The man supervising the contract won't pass the job except you play ball. The clerk won't pass your file for payment except you rob his palm.
The accounts department won't raise your payment voucher or cheque unless you see them. I can go on and on.
The worst thing is that it has become a norm that nobody sees anything wrong with. If you think otherwise, they begin to think you are sick and not normal. If you try to stand in there way, you put your life at risk. If you get killed there is no justice system in place to seek redress and bring the perpetrators to book.
The police is corrupt , the Judiciary is the same. Even the religious circle is not spared. Everything in Nigeria revolves around corruption. Nobody cares about anybody. No law and order. I looked from my left to right, everybody is only desperate about one thing "money".
They will kill anybody and anything that stand between them and money. I am an electrical engineer with MNSE and COREN.
The system don't care about my qualifications. Distribution and transmission jobs are given to alhajis, pastors, friends and relatives without any basic skills. I started asking myself, how do I convince my kids that education and hard work is rewarding? When fools, agberos and touts are running the country from the local govt to the Presidency.
Is this what my four sons will also go through? In 2014 I decided I have had enough. I decided I was leaving. I migrated to Australia with my family. Don't put yourself in harms way for any reason. The problem of Nigeria is in the hands of Nigerians living in Nigeria.
Try starting a gate house in your village, everybody wants to profiteer from it. The bricklayer, the carpenter, the mason and even your brother who claim to be supervising on your behalf.
They are corrupt, morally bankrupt and selfish. Everybody there thinks about himself and nobody is thinking about Nigeria .
You don't have to be the one to go there to change anything. Let those under the hammer start the revolution. I beg make you hear word.
This post is gonna anger a lot of my followers. I'm still gonna post it anyway.
Analogy of OPPRESSORS & FOOLISH CITIZENS. (A case study of Nigeria citizens & their elected oppressors).
During the Soviet dictatorship of Joseph Stalin. He was a brutal dictator with mind of his own. On one fateful day, Stalin came to Politburo meeting with a live chicken. Standing in front of audience, He started to pluck the feathers of the live chicken off one by one.
The chicken trembled in pain, blood tricking out of its pores. It gave out grievous cries, but Stalin being a cruel dictator continued without remorse plucking the feathers out until the chicken was completely naked.
After which, he threw the chicken on the ground. The naked chicken was staggering in pain. Stalin goes into his pocket and from his pockets, he took out some chicken food and started to throw it at the poor & hapless creature.
The poor chicken in pain started eating and Stalin started walking towards his seat. As he walked away, he kept dropping some feeds on the floor & the chicken followed him and sat feeding from his feet.
Joseph Stalin then turned to members of his political party leadership. He said, "This chicken represents the people".
"You must disempower them, brutalise them, beat them up, starve them and then leave them".
"If you do this, go into your pocket & give them peanuts when they are in that helpless and desperate situation, they will blindly follow you for the rest of their life, worshiping you".
"They will think you are a hero forever. They will forget that, you're responsible for their sorrowful situation in the first place."
Breath taking, isn't it ?
Now! Take a look at all the people somemost Nigerians are busy defending on social media.
Take a look at those they call their heroes. They are the people who plunged Nigeria into the situation she is. They are the same people who are responsible for their predicaments.
Did you see the numbers of people that throng to Saraki's house during this Christmas period to go collect peanuts? Your guess is as good as mine.
Nigerians kill those they should defend and defend those they should kill!
Share to all your contacts & let your govt know that we know.

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Now i know how Tinubu was involved in dis whole Gambian situation...11 million dollars...It's all about percentage

If na only one soldier man, na ur Bleep up say he use u shine. Bleep d soldier & Bleep his uniform. Take him on one on one & see how lazy & helpless dey r. But always play safe cos dey r zombies wit guns wen dey r upstaged

Dis wasn't a mistake at all....just Boko Haram elements in d Nigerian Army accomplishing their REAL mission.
Read between d lines, folks!

In dis kind of circumstance, it wud be a fatal mistake to shift blames, sling mud or even make hasty decisions. U sound like a decent person who loves & wants to keep her family. So all u need is a solution, a way forward for ur family.
So d way i see it, everything is now up to u. Ur approach towards supporting ur husband to seeking help will determine how cooperative be will be. Implore him patiently, like u wud do a small child. U also need to do a little research on home remedies u can adopt to see if d situation will improve. Just consider medicals as last resort. U need to love him more than ever before. If he knows dis, he'll do anything for u. U need to dis charge d thot of cheating cos nothing gud can ever come out of dat. And above all things, pray continously cos daz d master key.
Gud luck to u

Nigerians...just ignore her age, colour & stuff. Aint diz d most adorable Mother & Child pics lately?

What kinda eatery calls itself "Butholes"?

No wonder military school/barrack types are confam igbobians & omila

ObiOmaMu:
After several months of sourcing for funds for the survival of their child, the Sam family has lost 13month-old Michelle Sam to Symptomatic Heart Disease...

During elections, banks & politicians can donate hundreds of millions of Naira to ALL d candidates without being solicited, but not a dime to save a life.
Our hearts & prayers wit d family

Dumbest shit ever heard! Do diz thief ass politicians think we r retarded or something?

Nigerians NEVA learns!!! I guess we ain't sick & tired of diz nonsense happening over & over again, othawise we'd stand up & take necessary action.....
"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke

D state gov is d biggest fool of all. Waiting on papa-go-slow aboki to safeguard ur indigenes..dumbest thing i ever heard. Empower diz poor folks to defend demselves & see if diz fulani herdsmen attacking villages will not automatically stop. Do u ever wonder why diz crazy fulanis hav not attacked villages in Delta state?

It's just a pic taken at d wrong time. No "activity" there...a passing glance aint enuf to 'swell ur ego' no matter how deprived u 've been

Progressive01:
Lovely comment by Umar Alhasan Alkali.

I could bet my last breath if he were an American or a Western European, some how, some way, they would have released him to his government to serve whatever sentence they pass on him on his home soil- and that sentence certainly won't be death.

E go beta.

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Save ur breath... Americans, British, French & Australians have met their deaths in diz countries for d same time offense. Their govts cud only cry blue murder. Malaysia, Indonesia etc NEVA compromise their drug laws no matta d nationalities involved. Even doh i dont approve of capital punishment, i stil feel their pain to check out like dis. But if truth be told, they had it coming...they knew d law, yet they risked it

Frankly Tolexy, d way u always hav a ready made answer to d comments u get, i don't think u need any advice from anybody regarding ur insatiable girlfriend...simply use ur 'know know' to handle ur issues with ur girlfriend na

Well i dunno about FREE cos anything 'free of charge' in Naija has no value wotsoeva. I wud suggest dat running diz 'church schools' non-profit wud achieve d best of aims.

Why do Naija mentality hav to be so damn obvious in evrything? R dere rules & regulations regarding dress codes for 'churching'? As far am concerned, d only rule regarding dressing up for church is one simple word - Modest.
Wen Nigerians dress up for church, it's usually an overkill. Eitha to exhibit their lavish wardrobes or to show' who is who'. No wonder some folks skip church services cos dey dont hav something 'befitting' to wear. No wonder also churches r such brisk bizness for pastors. Dis is d exact reason Christians really dunno d essence of christianity.

Afterthot:
Now i un'stand d 'reaction' in church wen a very poor person or beggar come to church

ConcNiggress56:



.. you think it is easy to be laid off a job and get another..



a girl's got needs.. and i am Ms independent. i dont want a man helping me in cash.. he's going to demand for kinds..


i have no bf coz it is their free ticket to getting cheap sex.

If u treasure dat job too much, u will give in to him. From ur post, i take it u r a Christian? So why do u sound like u r only surrounded by doz kinda guys? If u keep dat kinda mindset, u may may actually end up wit DAT kinda guy!
Be very careful NOT to end up in ur own trap cos dere r diff ways to sleep wit HIV+ woman SAFELY

Just pray...when u r trapped between d devil & d deep blue sea, only prayers can make a miracle happen for ya.
However sometimes, u need to walk away from d environment (d man, d job) cos their presence cud influence u into giving in cos u reason dat u cant afford to lose d job & stuff