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one man's food is another man's poison. i no blame u at all

stop generalizing, how about you teach your babe how to cook. abi you no sabi cook too. if not then eat the noodles or go out n buy food, don't come on here generalizing, i be calabar girl n when i cook for my husband, he eats way too much n regrets it later lol

idupaul:
hw old were u when u married, I have to determine if it was as a lack of opportunity or u chose to be a virgin.

23.5 almost 24

I was a virgin til i got married, it was my choice and not the lack of opportunity like sum1 said, my parents were so proud especially my mom because she knew i was a virgin, based on my culture i got a huge ass goat lol. it is a good feeling though, and my hubby knows he can trust me.

Love never dies, people just change and have different perspectives on especially when they are not getting what they want from a relationship. though a relationship should be 50/50, people end up expecting too much and if their expectations are not met, they seek it elsewhere. so love ain't got nothing to do with it

nothing but it depends on how the guy approaches the girl, if he approaches her promising to buy her the whole world then why shouldn't she collect on that promise

yeah its pretty sad. "Loli-pop" and "I got my" were great songs he produced.

my hubby calls me, babe or my wife. im not so much into calling pet names. when he calls i say hey how are you doing and when i call he says my wife how are you.

lol did anyone watch his sex tape with kim kadarshan

CH3COO:
topup, your ex lied. that "found the perfect girl wrong time" statement is a classic breakup line. look at you feeling all fluffy. irreplaceable indeed.

i gotta agree thats one of the clasic breakup lines guys use just to make you feel better about him dumping you.

giorgie:
i think the reason, why people post threads about "who is more handsome than who " is as a result of lack of exposure to the international/western world. When you leave the shores of Nigeria, and you ve lived in a vast continent filled with people of extreme beauty who are of mixed race, western black etc, the likes of ramsey noah and van vicker will look pale in your eyes. This is because your eyes is already sore with handsome and beautiful looks, and you are beginning to accept all these beauties as normal, and ordinary.
It therefore amazes me when someone considers people like ramsey etc as their standard measurement for comparing beauties. The truth is that everyone is beautiful, if you know how to re-package and comport yourself.

don't read too much into things, has nothing to do with exposure or lack of exposure to the western world, its all about seeing 2 men n finding out who is more handsome, we know everyone is beautiful in their own way, thats why the thread is about comparing 2 handsome men, no one said one was ugly ok. hun relax n have fun ok.

i say tell your hubby now b4 he finds out and thinks you have been cheating on him.

i can only interfere when i see him treating her bad. for example my younger sister had this controling boyfriend who always wanted to know where she was and if she was cheating on him. i remember one day we went shopping for xmas gift for my dad and we were in a men suit store when her bf called and she told him where she was, he was shouting at her saying she is buying a gift for another man, i collected the phone and told him not to call my sister again and hung up. i will hate for my sister to end up with a controlling man. but anyway i talked my sister into dumping him, which she did and has now found someone better, but her ex keeps calling her.

Na wa o, with the heat wey dey naija dem still want make person run. makes you wanna ask yourself, how much money is worth risking your life for.

Go back to school dumb a s s Bleep . if you can't read obviously you can't


and by the way i am Married to a Nigerian man, was a virgin when i got married so don't say things you don't know shit about. thats why you will never find a wife, cuz women cannot deal with an idiotic dumb a ss like you. dig a hole and jump into it. it would make the entire world a better place if idiots like you don't exist

outlaws:


To:NJ11:
I am not disrespecting African ladies. If you read my post carefully assuming you can read, you will notice that the lady I came close to choosing was African not Hispanic. So that should tell you something. I know that there are many divorces involving inter-racial marriages but you have to understand that there are many inter-racial marriages that exist without a divorce. If an African guy doesn’t want an African lady or African American lady because of their bitchy attitude and lack of interest in learning from their mistakes, then they will remain in that state. African ladies get jealous when an African guy chose a White lady. Some ladies are already trying to give Hispanic ladies bad names.

I have had Hispanic and African lady friends. The Black ladies are the worst to deal with. They will insult you, criticize you, even want to get into a fight with you, unlike the Hispanic ladies I have dealt with. The point is Black ladies are the worst ladies I have dealt with and they never seem to want to learn. In a house there is only one leader and most of them don’t seem to comprehend that.

There is this stupid bitch named Ima1 on this thread, stating that I don’t live in a better state. Who gives a Bleep what state I live in. I just don’t live in the state I live in the biggest and most advanced city in Oregon. Portland is not always in the news but is one of the best cities in the US. Because you don’t see gang bangers, drug dealers, prostitutes roaming the streets and hotels every day doesn’t make it a better place. I guess this stupid bitch are one of those ashawos that are always disturbing African men that have married to White ladies. She doesn’t seem to have any respect for her self or others.
Hispanic ladies may cut you but African or Black ladies will shoot you. So which one do you prefer? Giving Hispanic ladies bad name only shows that you are jealous and more of you stupid bitches are left out without a chance of marrying an African guy abroad because they have settled down with the ladies they feel comfortable with, one that’s is not going to give them headaches every day.

you see how stupid you are, where in the world did i mention anything about state. you need to have your head examined b4 you start your stupid rantings, if you cannot read well then go the Bleep back to school. and don't call me a bitch if you can't call your mother a bitch. I live in Los Angeles California which kicks portland's ass so shut the Bleep up and stop disrespecting your mother because i am sure she is also a black woman. idiot.

check out the pic of miss nigeria stephani oforka, that went to miss universe, too bad she did not win, but she is pretty

http://www.nbc.com/Miss_Universe_2008/delegates/ng.shtml

I love her passion for wanting to be a mommy.

@poster what are bitching about. if you haven't found the right woman keep on looking don't come on here saying shit, you don't want an african woman, or asian or watever, no one gives a Bleep who you decide to marry, na you go live with the person no be us. what was so funny is that you refused someone because she was working in the health profession, lol that was the most lame excuse i have heard, i think you refused her because you know nurses make alot of money and you don't want a wife that would make more money than you.

you need to get it together, because you are not every woman's dream either, its guys like you that end up marrying village girls and then come on here bitching. please no one give a hoot who you decide to marry so get over yourself eh,

i say pay him back in his own coins, go on with the wedding but do not say i do, when the pastor asks then let everyone know he cheated. as for me if my hubby gets some girl preggo, there is no way i am staying in that relationship

jim iyke abeg. i like his extra crazyness in his movies

I think usher is a better singer and dancer, though chris brown is a equally good dancer, but usher has the voice. as per album sales i think chris brown is much lilely to sell more albums than usher cuz he appeals more to the young at heart. but usher's album is for the grown and sexy.

i say Ikechukwu,

no he is not dead. tell your twin to get his/her story right abeg, no give us heart attack 4 here

KarmaMod:
The topic is black women not Naija women

and i don't see the difference between those who marry women for papers and women who do all sorts of crap just so they can give birth in foreign countries all in the name of using the babies to gain stay.

Not sure why any black woman would be proud of accepting "ajeku" aka leftovers.

well a nigeria woman is still a black woman, take it or leave it.

lets face it, the only reason most naija men marry white women is because they need papers, they think white women are the best in bed because of what they have heard, most of una here never even Bleep white women so if you aint got experience to compare i suggest you shut the Bleep up.
we know you guys run back to black women because una mama black and you will always want some naija women so don't open you mouth and call black women loose because you are still the idiot for leaving your white wife who you talk so highly about in bed for a black woman. and which white woman knows how to cook serious egusi, afang soup wey go turn una head.

you need to sit your husband down and explain things to him, basically you need to slap him at the back of his head so he would wake up and see that someone is taking advantage of him. if not then give him an ultimatum, you or his friend.

well i agree with the girl in question, if he couldn't keep it in his pants, wat makes you think he will in the future. she has forgiven him thats why she wants to be friends,

thats the sucky part, you never know but if he is cheating you are bound to find out one way or the other.

kokoye:
Let's think outside of the box here:

She could have send him a text msg that she was in class.

Maybe the guy was in a terrible situation at that point and really needed her help - I'm sure this has happened to everyone before.

ya but you don't end up calling 28 times, after the first 5-10 missed calls you should have known the person is busy and find another solution to you issue. why did he not text her.