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Pataki:
What role will your Pastor play in the relationship? I am still confused about that. . . .

thank you o, that was what i was wondering, if you guys end up getting married you do know you will have to worship in your husband church right, except if you both agree on where to worship, if not you will be asking for trouble with the husband n wife going to separate churches.

badoski101:
but can't u ladies do without cheating on your guys?is it all ladies that cheat?think d answer is yes.lady bam, its a lady's world.but if you're dating a guy like me, u cheat on me and i nab u,just leave d country

stop making generalizations, its not all ladies that cheat, i know i have never cheated on my husband, wats the point of cheating, if you don't want to be in the relationship then end it instead of cheating.

the thing is people always want to take from you and when you say no, the label you as stingy and selfish. i got that crap from my family telling me i was selfish and stingy and i asked them to tell me when they asked me for something and i did not give it to them, i am the kind of person that puts myself last, if i have it i would give it to you, when they could not come up with a reason then i told them never to call me selfish n stingy, bcoz i am not gonna kill myself for nobody.

eldee:
I'm still demanding an explanation for Hitler's punishment for the Holocaust
And why Abacha died such an easy death too

And if Mr Karma could help me explain what the Damilola Taylors and Rhys Jones' did to get killed like animals, I'll be really grateful

can't say about Hitler, but atleast Abacha is dead, thats a much deserved payback don't you think.

i think once you cheat on your partner n he/she forgives you, you are bound to do it again, its human nature. i know i will never cheat on my husband, but he knows it will be over between us if he does cheat. i'll forgive you but there is no where on earth i will take you back n suffer the pain and memories of you cheating. i don't want to have to worry, what he is doing when he says he is going to work, or out with his friend. so its a no no for me.

@poster

na by force, just because he doesn't want to see your pastor doesn't mean he doesn't love you. will the pastor stop you guys from getting married.

lady bam:
@ poster

the answer is simple. since you said you don't love him anymore, boot the idiot and move on with your life. what are you waiting for

totally agree

one of the best rappers there is. i gotta say the loli-pop song is one of his best.

he is jobless, 28 calls lol he for just make am 30. he is insecure and thinks his babe might be with someone else, for a guy to call 28 times he must be really controlling or really insecure.

I think in one way or the other you reap what you sow. might take years but the past always comes back to haunt you.

then create distance between you guys b4 you guys do something stupid. you have a wife no need to be close to another man's wife. if she starts to talk, excuse yourself and find something else to do, stop being the listening ear

i think she is just greedy, stop giving her any money or buying anything. play broke or she will run you dry

thats a hard one cuz i personally wouldn't marry a man i am smarter than (EDUCATIONALLY) no matter what. don't care if he is rich or not. especially if he cannot speak english

depends on who the actor is.

what do you think about usher's new song "Moving mountains" i'm in love with this song, watch n seee.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64EjuSEXsYg

Van Vicker
Michel Majid
Wenthworth Miller
RMD
Jim Iyke

too many to name but im already married.

ajah.:
I read this story in The Sun Newspaper of Sunday. She denied the story saying ''God forbid''. How could she get married to a guy like Timaya.

lol she no know say she fugly, abeg he is doing her a favor by marrying her

Hell yeah, thats why i don't have close friends even the married ones cannot be trusted. i trust my husband, but no need putting temptation in front of a man.

not if you want to dig your grave and jump into it. i don't even trust myself not to talk of trusting someone else, i only trust God. i trust my hubby to a certain level. i try to get along with my sister in laws, got 4 of them but i try to keep them at arms length.

wife of course, i've only been married for like 5 months n my parents are asking for grand kidz. i told them when i get pregnant i will let them know so they should stop bugging me.

i do not think you need an endless fight, i was in that situation, i did not break up with my ex when i left naija but after 5 years of no contact we grew apart, when i went back home 3 years ago he came visiting n it was clear we were facing different direction, there was no spark, no love, nothing. early this year i went back home got married lol didn't invite him to the wedding, then i got an email saying why didn't you invite me to your wedding n im happy for you.

so there is no need for a big fight, with time you will both grow apart.

still looking for someone to treat you like your mama, man grow up cuz all this shit will be out of your system in a few years and pray you don't end up marrying an older woman, so you wouldn't cheat on her when the "looking for my mama" syndrome is outta your system.

your babe is still a baby, playing such tricks. once she cheats n you forgive her, she will do it again. dump her

@poster

i say ask him to set up a meeting with both girls so they can realize he has a woman and therefore stop calling him. and you might need to get off his case about these women calling him, for a while to see how things turn out. if his phone rings in your presence, ask him to answer it, the way he behaves will let you know if he is actually cheating or not. you just need to make it known to him that if he is cheating you both are done. just never show your man you are jealous, might be good sometimes but it could show that you are insecure.

not sure about the visa through employment offer but it might be possible. here in california nursing is a huge thing everyone wants to study nursing, as an RN you could earn as much as $5000-$10000 a month ($5000 if working just 1 job and $10000 if you are working 2 jobs with lots of overtime) but you have to pass the california nursing board exam, so you will need your certificates from school and transcripts. but nursing is a huge thing in the u.s especially california.

http://nigeriafilms.com/content.asp?ContentId=2717&ContentTypeID=2


It is no longer news that the actress Empress Njamah is dating dreadlocked musician, Timaya, nor is it news that the reason the actress frequents Bayelsa State is to be with her man. Those who know Empress say both have taken the relationship to another level and have allegedly decided to become one in name.

Gist has it that “Anytime Timaya is in Lagos, he stays at Empress’s house in Festac. He was even told of her peculiar habit of disappearing with things and the man still swore to love this actress forever, irrespective of whatever label is placed on her.

When they are together, she is the one who picks his calls and tells the other person on the line she is his wife.” God be praised, I am assuring everyone who has ever labeled this actress that when she eventually marries Timaya, she will become a new person in Jesus name.

We pray that a wedding date will soon surface for this union in Jesus name. Here’s wishing Empress all the best. May bad press never see her break light again(Amen).

davidylan:
nah, witnessed it a couple of times. hehe

I don't think we both faced the same issues, the chic actually loved it! She only started crying about sin AFTER the act. The easiest way to tell was she'd start standing on her toes and could kiss for minutes non stop.

what kind of women do you kiss

davidylan:
The number 1 reason i've had to contend with has been primarily religious when it comes to Nigerian females. Many are so afraid they'd lose control that they literarily start crying.

you are kidding right

because most men do not know how to kiss, we don't want you shoving your tongue down our throats in the name of kissing

it is not a miracle, he use to be a woman. God is not to be mocked. an man can never give birth to children, thats a womans job.

@poster

take heart on the the fact that God knows and has a reason for everything that occurs, and he would not let things happen to us that he knows we can't handle. i feel your pains and would be devastated if i was in your shoes, cheer up God is still in control and working in your favor hun.