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did u ask her to be ur gf, if no then u have ur answer

in my opinion as much as this might seem like a good idea, giving nigerian currency more value, its bad news because people will be earning less and possible working by the hour, just like the U.S, people will now earn 20000/yr which totally sucks. so i say make that money now before the change is effective.

justblaze:
@ima1 , how can u chop that story? y r some people so gullible? what are the odds? his phone accidentally dialed you on the day you asked him to holla @ you. hmmm let me see. he forgot but his phone remembered you? and coincidentally a lady in the background,"his sisters friend" was talking hmmm again how u go chop that story? anyways i rest my case but please watch that dude carefully.

by any chance did u also confirm with his sista? although she might cover up for him but dude might also slip up and not inform her.

i don't think i am gullible, because his phone has dialed my number before several times and i haven't asked his sister yet, and don't intend to, i just wanna trust him, yeah there is a 50:50 chance that he might be cheating and that he might not, but i love this guy and no love is not blind with me, if i find out he is really cheating then i'll leave in a heartbeat,

i spoke to him about it, and i was right there was another woman in his house, his phone accidentally dialed mine, and the woman is his sister's friend, when i called and asked him he explained and i do trust him, anyway thanks guys

thanks i appreciate the responses, would a guy be that mean to just dial his gfs # just to let her know there is someone else, y don't he just say it

first i am really sad and angry at the same time because i cried myself to sleep over some stupid guy;

anyway it all started when i called my guy last night and he said he was bored went out for a drive, got something to eat and was heading home, and i said call me when you get home which was in like 30 min, 3 hrs later no call, i tried calling him like 3 times he didn't pick up, sent him a text message that i was worried and he should call me so i can find out if he is okay no reply, i was worried maybe he got into an accident or something, anyway i decided to go to bed and 2 hrs later which was like 2am my time and 3am his time my phone rang and it was him, i said hello, no answer but i could hear his voice and some other chick in the background, this totally destroyed me, i hung up the phone and kept wondering if i was dreaming, i calmed myself down and decided to call him next day and see wats up, now im wondering what to say, i mean why would he be up 3 am with another woman, its not like we were arguing or anything, part of me wants to leave him and never look back and the other part wants to find out why, because i can never be with a man who wants to be with other women no matter how much i love him, i would let go.

now i am wondering what to say or do when i call him, thats where i need ur help. i am so pissed off because i would never cheat on my guy and he said the same thing, this is same guy i introduced to my parents and was going back home to marry

if you really wanna know then ask, hopefully u have the ballz to take it when she says she was a LovePeddler but thats in the past

hun you need to disgrace him in public, go crazy in public and say everything he has done, even add things like his thing is too small and stuff like that, if that doesn't work

i suggest paying agbero boys to beat him up n warn him

tonerro1:
BOLARGE!! while start a jouney and stop half way?

dude you just answered urself, if smooching ends up in sex then why shouldn't a relationship end up in marriage

nope i can't im already taken

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osereka:
@imai
you are not ready to marry then

@osereka
would you marry your woman if you found out she cheated on you during the course of your relationship or the nite before your wedding. abeg no naija man will even continue with the wedding, so its not about being ready to marry, its about marrying someone you can trust and will be faithful to you

rikkyjen:
So the best thing for him is to lie or what?, !!!

@rikkyjen
as long as i don't know about it then we are fine,

depends on how much love n trust you both have in each other, cuz most stupid guys will blame the woman, like its her fault, if your relationship is really strong then tell if not then hunny keep ur mouth shut n make sure the guy who did it pays for it.

where else would he be, he's the one that caused it.

if i found out he cheated during the course of the relationship n i ask him n he says its true, then its over

at 28 if he still lives with his parents then hun he will never be ready for marriage, i'll advice you to move on because you are wasting ur time and letting him use you, love or no love the guy is not grown up.

$$Rhino:
IF he loves you that much, let him wait, else, get another man.
Tell him, he doesn that have to taste the pudding for the relationship to grow

i agree with rhino, guys use that as an excuse to get into your pants and then dump you when they are done, if he can't wait then he doesn't love you, if he doesn't love you enough to wait, keep on stepping hon, he's not worth it.

my spouse comes first, because we are now one, as for him he loves us both the same, but i have no issue being 2nd to his mom,

jump for joy, i so bad wanna have a baby

i don't look at other guys bcoz i know its disrespectful to my guy, well next time he does it i'll call him out on it.

well i don't wanna end up being the bitchy g/f i let him do what he wants to do, as long as he has a good reason for it, but the looking at other chicks thing is just crazy, can't stand it cuz most of the women he looks at ain't got nothing on me.

hun no man would want another man's trash, get out now n find ur own man b4 u get pregnant n he denies the baby, n u r left alone with no man wanting you, don't be stupid, he is MARRIED, how clear can i be hun HE IS MARRIED n will never leave his wife 4 u, don't be a home breaker, remember wat goes around comes around.

Nigeria is not a poor country, its all those people in power that drain naija of its resources for their personal gain

no point fighting the girl, dump the loser and move on, life goes on why waste it on some idiot, he's not the only guy in the world.


but the girl deserved wat she got, don't mess with a crazy woman's guy

have u guys thought that we watch naija movie because it kinda connects us back home especially for us that are abroad, i got my guy to start watching naija movies and he love it, so i don't see a biggy in watching naija movies, atleaset we are supporting our country, so guys stop hating

thanks for all ur post, i don't have a problem with him looking at other women, just not in front of me, i will not disrespect him that way, i understand guys will be guys, but anyway thanks ya'll

He Loves You But Still Looks At Other Women - What Will You Do?

okay this is for the ladies and maybe some guys,

he loves you a lot, planning on getting married, he's the kind that will not cheat, but he still has wandering eyes, when he sees a woman pass he has to look at her, what will you do, just ignore it, confront him or is just a normal male thing, they gotta look at another woman even when they have their woman by their side.

And guys why can't you keep your eyes on your woman eh!

leave her alone if u don't love her, stop using her b4 it comes back to bite you in the ass, you know wat goes around comes around