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FactorChic:
I'm sorry, UR FRIEND TURNED GIRL? what d heck does that mean? , she u sed to be a guy, now she's a girl?

ya that got me confused too

well u knew she had someone else n u still wanted to date her, why would u want someone who is unavailable. abi u thought she would leave the other guy 4 u. stop dreaming n get a life.

wats the meaning of ur post

iice:
Is it recent? Thought that has been going on for years

abi o, what should we do, wait for u guys to use n dump us before marriage? abeg

well thats a freakin long story but thanks for the details!

In my opinion, i think you need to give her some space, there is a huge possiblity that she is cheating on u, of course she is lieing to you, she couldn't even come up with much better excuses, cuz a woman has to be really close to a guy that he has the right to change names on her phone and her excuse about forgetting to delete it is bull because he has been sending her messages.
there are 2 solutions here, you can either breakup and find someone better or make her jealous by finding more female friends, not paying her too much attention **cuz a woman needs some space once in a while** but i am leaning towards breaking off the relationship and finding someone better.

depends on if u knew he had aids before u met and u both decided to date with the risk involved, in that case then maybe, but if he got it after he cheated then there is no way marriage will be involved.

they are sexy alright

well there is a chance that if she told u it was ur baby u would deny it and leave her, but where were u the entire 9 months that u didn't notice she was pregnant.

lol he has way to many girls and is a lil bit confused

before ya'll start jumping into conclusions, what did the guy do in the first place, did he cheat, cuz if he did they he needs to be banned so he doesn't pass on any disease, but if its a minor quarrel then they both should make up and start sharing one room, lol then the wife can ban the husband from the other side of the bed, dividing it with a bedsheet or a tape.

but the husband needs to apologize n stop involving a 3rd party

ThoniaSlim:
point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

thank you,

n to think people say love is blind, people dey complain about more serious issue and u dey complain about ur gf height, how tall r u sef,

i believe someone already posted a similar story

why would other guys be calling u n why would u have love messages on ur phone, he has every right to be pissed off, n im sure u will be if it was the other way around, doesn't really have anything to do with self confidence when its right in front of you that ur partner might be cheating on you,

dump him n move on hun, he only just wants to sleep with u

who cares

Oba-j:
@ ima 1
God doesnt send u a man or woman who would lie to u about themselves for two straight years,Aba

and ye who have no sin, please cast the first stone.

nobody is perfect, and please ur idea of God not sending a man and woman who doesn't lie is baseless because everyone in this world lies, so does that mean you will never get married to someone. even you self dey lie i bet God would not give u a wife,

davidylan:
You're just going to throw away a good girl and 2 years of love just because she was too insecure to tell you her real age?
What about you look at it from another perspective . . . if i were you i'd be more worried that for 2 good years she didnt trust me enough to handle the truth about her real age. How free is she with you? Can she trust you enough to know that she can tell you anything in the world and you will stand by her through thick and thin?

All through the 2 years she must have respected you and treated you as the leader in that relationship for you to have been unaware she was older for so long. This is your fault dear, don't let your ego get in the way of something wonderful . . . she loves you and is willing to submit herself to you not minding the fact that she is older. . . can you put that fact behind you and encourage her to be more open to you?

One thing you also have to be mindful of is that by your actions you have just shattered her confidence . . . even if you take her back she'd be even more afraid to share anything with you not knowing how you will react.

I have always believed one thing, my girl must be able to trust me enough to tell me ANYTHING under the sun. If truly you love her, you'll be willing to correct her with love and let things go.

Take her back asap, i dislike men who seem to enjoy watching their women cry and grovel at their feet to take them back. that's not the sign of a real man.

i totally agree, she hasn't disrespected u in anyway or made u feel less of a man so get over it, everyone lies about their age, don't really see the big deal if she's a good woman. breaking up with her now is taking it too far, n who knows she might be the woman God has chosen 4 u.

Rob a bank

lol, i don't think that is a naija club in places like abuja or lagos, i bet thats a wacked up village club, looked like they were in a church with all the white chairs. n the girls have no shame, letting a guy rub up on them in public

lick_69:
what are the things that makes u consider someone a gentleman ? don't get me wrong o because i am also a gentleman,offcourse i regard ladies very much but don't u think it ought to be reciprocal??

if u are already a gentleman then u should know

lick_69:
well, simple, i just walked up to the babe and i told her; oh baby , i really want to know whats up and i was wondering if me and u could get together someday. oh baby, u look so delicious and tantalizing. Baby tell me, how would u feel because i would like to take u to places where u only see on the t.v and buy u things that u can't even pronounce. All you have to do is come take a ride with me in my uncompleted mercedes benz. Please baby i really want to be your man., the next thing, she started laughing oo. please what did i say wrong? You people are not helping matters because u are not giving me any latest lyrics,

lol thats the most wacked up pick up line i have ever heard, lol wats with the oh baby and uncompleted benz, oh boy ur line dates back to the 1920's not 70's, why don't u try getting to know her like talking about stuff like the movie she saw in the cinema, ask for her name what she does and listen to pick up interesting info about her instead of making useless promises,
na u say u go buy her things she can't even pronounce, hope say u even fit buy things she fit pronounce, e.g recharge card.

At age 15 i don't think being in such a relationship is appropraite, at that age u shouldn't be worrying about heart break and stuff like that because ur relationship with this guy is complicated, how old is he anyway, and im not saying u aren't old enough for a relationship, but hun u should find someone that cares about u and wouldn't give u the silent treatment over stupid stuff, n u have a huge life ahead of u, don't let a guy ruin it ok.

MoOdYLaDy:
Someone posted this quote on my facebook wall and have decided to share it with your
1. Men are like , Laxatives , They irritate the sh%* out of you.
2. Men are like , Bananas , The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like , Weather , Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like , Blenders , You need one, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like , Chocolate Bars Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like .Commercials , You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like Department Stores , Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8. Men are like , Government Bonds , They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like , Mascara , They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like , Popcorn , They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like , Snowstorms You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like , Lava Lamps Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like Parking Spots , All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped

thank you i agree 100%

Seun:
Apologize. I'm surprised that you still have your job.

i totally agree, just hope n pray her papa no find out cuz i doubt u would end up with a job, you need to apologize for beating up a woman, if u dey work for her papa wey dey pay you,you need to apologize n i'll suggest u stop feeling big, cuz u put urself in that position

Men, why do it if ur not ready for the baby

her can't come to the U.S except if he wants to pay child support, heard he got 2 women preggo

she needs to dump him imediately, no woman wants to be with a man that cannot protect n fight for her

Why would you want to kill a human being, i don't see why men suggest abortion because they are not ready to be a father, its not like u did not have ur brain when you decided to do it without a condom, or you are not old enough to know that fucking leads to pregnancy, don't blame it on the drinks, you knew what you were doing, even stupid people have brains,
please grow up and be a man, you never know that might be the only kid you will have in this world, i doubt you would want ur child's blood on your hands, stop pawning ur kid on another man, and just destroying the kid's life.
don't blame this shit on women, men too are responsible, afterall its ur sperm that mends the deal, take responsibility for ur shit, and please suggesting abortion could destroy ur friends life, are you that selfish, you just care about urself and no one else, everything is not all about you, cuz all i hear is i can't be a father, i am studying for my master's, so how about this, stop fucking if ur not old enough to be a fucking man,

please grow up.