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@Radiant

<sub>why u so bitter about this situation?   . It's a simple situation.If you have, give her.If you don't have, admit you don't have.  

All this noise here is pointless.  Empty vessels make the loudest noise</sub>

I'm not bitter, because nothing is lost ok.  I see your money-maker mentality. Shake your money maker baby! Why think with your brain while U got some boobs? She already knows that I can comfortably take care of her, that's why she asking for money[color=#990000][/color], but I got my turn offs too.

PLEASE you say you can take care of her but you are here complaining, give me a break, f*** having turn off, that isn't even a real excuse, na now you know say you get turn offs.
i do not support having one night stands but there is nothing bad with it, if you can do it then i give you hand. and 'a girl has gotta do what she can to survive'.

my advice is that you stick with your type of girls and i mean the 2 kobo ones, maybe then you wouldn't be here complaining because all she will ask you for is 1 kobo. you broke ass monkey. you are really getting on my nerves.

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@ ima1
U just write without reasoning. Here is a scenario for you.
You go out on a first date, a guy tells I don't trust girls and I want have sex with you period. Would you come back for a second date?

i would be wasting my time if i answer that n ur not worth my time.

Roscodaddy:
Guy,if you don't have money to take care of a woman hold bodi,no be by force she don tell you right from time say her ex dey help am out before,which kind person you be,go find work do so you go get oni take care of woman than to dey yarn dust,if you can't pay her bill find your level,go look for chewing gum girl.

Radiant:
Brokeass lover. . . .

@Roscodaddy
thank you, that is what i've been trying to tell him, you couldn't have said it any better.

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ima1 

  How do you know when a dreamer is telling the truth, you have never done that, but would vouch for someone who is doing it.   I'm not a LovePeddler  but would vouch for someone who is a hawker.  You have a mindset of extraction or OBT( obtain and by trick .  Why don't you come out in full colour and say NO MONEY NO PHONE NUMBER.   Your posts smirk of someone who needs men for survival.  I date girls who want men,    but do not need men  I'm beating you in your  own game. You have not given any me any damm concrete reason why I should give her money.   Your reasons are too dumy and flimsy for me ok. I believe that someone in this forum is  Ikebe  and  YE2= yeye

well the thing is that i couldn't give a shit if you give her the money or not. and oh boy no you even dey for the level of person wey i go look not to talk less of anything else. what game are you beating me at, dude you asked the damn question. and it is hooker not hawker. why in the world i go even wan dey with poor man like you, god forbid bad thing.

im sorry i wouldn't know but in every relationship one person loves more and hard, guess she is not the one in this case. don't blame NYSC, she's always got what i call the HO-FACTOR. she would have slipped anytime just thank God u found out sooner.

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@ima1.
You naija mentality of a man as a bill payer is still beclouding your psyche. You need to wake up. You are the one who is twisting your point, from assuming that I had slept her with her to knowing her for a million years. The point is that I met her for only day and I have known her for one week. If you have not done what you are justifying, then your name should be "[b]Virginia Innocent Immaculte Mary"[/b]The story is consistent. Someone is a block head or MU2 but not me.

well i can honestly say i have not done what u think i am justifying, call me watever you want it ain't gonna change the fact that you are a total ass. i don't need a guy to pay for what i need okay. just get ur story right fool.

and like i said you are defensive because you turned the story around, oh and to confirm it, she is better off without ur broke ass since she has a job n a good car, so ur broke ass wouldn't even be able sustain her, geez now who is the mumu lol.

@adconline,

i wonder why you even post the question to begin with, you no even fit get your story straight, all this while you have said you've known her for one week and now you just met for a day. i don even tire to dey argue this thing bcoz e be like say you get fish brain, you are just a broke ass nonentity who has nothing else to say but complain, i wonder why you no even fit find better woman. you dey defend yourself like say person go come grab the last kobo wey dey your pocket.
oh and i have never collected money from a guy i was dating, let alone your broke ass. how we sure say you no be the one wey dey ask the girl for money, u come online come dey twist story bcoz as you dey complain and defend so, e show say you no get nothing for pocket.

thank your God she did it now and not when you finally get married, you just have to get over it, she is not worth it.

and you want to eat your cake and have it, if you want a woman then take on the responsibilities that comes with it.

okay what do you expect us to say, don't give her the money. oh boy you knew what you got yourself into and you have issues on your own, you didn't think she was a money grabbing LovePeddler the first time you met her and just because she asked you for money you become all wakko, no one said you should become a bill payer, if you don't want to be in the relationship and take responsibilities then dump her and stop complaining about shit, i wonder how much she asked you for sef. if you are broke just say you are and stop complaining, if you no wan give am the money say NO, no body go chop your head off. i will never have sex with a guy on the first date, and i assumed you did bcoz you are complaining about nothing.

i think you are just mad because you don't want to start spending money on goods you haven't sampled yet. i pity the women wey say they wan waste their time on you.

@radiant
you are right, if he slept with her he wouldn't be on here complaining,

ok don't try to twist this around, i didn't mean men should always pay for sex, you say you've known her for a week, so u went through the period of seeing this fine chick, toasting her and a week into the relationship she asks for your help and u feel, hey i've only known you for a week so i can't give you anything.
i just don't see why you are complaining about it, or why you wouldn't want to help her, except if you are really stingy, which to me it seems you are if you are complaining about it. ok answer this, would it make a difference if she asked you one or lets say 3 months into the relationship. my point is you entered into this relationship with your eyes open so deal with whatever comes with it.

do women get into a relationship for financial up liftment only?
to answer your question. WHY DO MEN GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS JUST FOR THE SEX.

brown, dark brown is actually the color of beauty, is the color of you skin black, (if it is black then im sorry 'your beautiful its true') and (you are beautiful no matter what they say)

No because they are exes for a reason, and u shouldn't impose them on your new partner, its just wrong, if i stay friends with my ex, it will be on a HI - HELLO basis

color of love is actually red, hate will be black, purity will be white, elegance will be purple.

that doesn't exist, it only exists in the movies. its really LUST at first sight

segun odus:
;Dold boy abi u no fine?why are u bothered.[color=#550000][/color]

LMAO thats exactly what i was thinking.

most ladies do that bcoz they no want baby wey go look like monkey

i still don't get your point, you sure say you and monkey no be twins

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ima1

_{oh boy wetin you get legs for but on the other hand if u don sleep with am they she deserves the money, she no be free comodity}

It seems to me that u sleep with guys and demand for money later. I don't pay for sex ok. Sometimes poeple like you don't get it , you are beclouded to think that men would like you because of your legs. As for me, once there is no mutuality, there is no friendship. I can't be paying money for your open and close and still pretend to like u. By the way, I have not had anything with this lady.

oh stop right there, i believe in sex after marriage (if u understand me) so there is no way i am gonna sleep with any guy and then ask for money later, i just think if he has gone there then he shouldn't refuse what she asks of him

chimaze:
See u ebi like say you be thief abi 419

what else would you give to a woman who has stayed with you when you were poor and just bcoz heaven smile at you, you decide to send her away for no reason. from my point she deserves more than half of what you've got, its for her pain and suffering throughout that whole thing you called a marriage.

@mochafella
stop plagiarizing lol

leslie007:
well i actually think this post was made by sumone who has no idea what romance is sista u need to get your head examined because u hav sum gold diggin tendencies romance isnt about material stuff its a way of life so all those illiterate traders that buy women all manner of stuff to show they like them are romantic abi i am so damn romantic it hurts so don't ever make that statement again its not that am a cheapskate oooo but i do buy stuff but its not about romance ciao

oh no u did not just say that lol, u sound like the kind of guy that will buy card, and there is no gold diggin tendencies with me because i can provide for myself, but it would be nice to know a naija guy's idea of a romantic gift, i think flowers (real flowers) are romantic, taking your lady out for a romantic dinner is nice, its not about how much you can spend, its not about the gifts, its about showing you care and if u wanna do it with a gift, just don't buy a card.

none, bcoz i will probably get a better phone than he can buy, n i don't collect cash from guys bcoz they always expect something in return. Now really good chocolate and flowers are a good idea, but not fake flowers with 2 kobo perfume on it

OH HELL NO, I  am not signing no prenup, and no woman should because she deserves half of the stuff after she don stay with the man through thick and thin. its not her fault that the husband couldn't satisfy her. but if i am the rich one then my husband has to sign one, if he doesn't want to then he can hit the road. but i am definately not signing anything, he can go to hell for all i care

oh boy wetin you get legs for but on the other hand if u don sleep with am they she deserves the money, she no be free comodity

whitelexi:
I'm sure the thread speaks for itself, Naija guys r romantic!
Romance is not all about what u can get off a man, that doesnt prove how romantic he is. A card is even more romantic than many expensive gifts u can expect. Finally, u need to go look for work and a guy to shower some cash on, and then come right back and ask me how romantic that would be

geez a card is not romantic, i will only accept cards when i am my sick bed

Britney was stupid enough to get married to K-fed, even when the entire USA were telling her not to, as much as i hate K-fed i hope he sticks it to her and get everything he can from her. i've never seen someone so stupid, why get married if ur gonna call it quits 2 secs later. Celebrities have no regard for marriage but they want to get married.

[Please] don't begin to use and dump our Calabar girls.

But hey, once you go to Calabar there is no turning back. <<language editing>>

LOL depends on how much money you fit spend.
well one tip would be find out what restaurant she likes and take her there and make sure the day is all about her, and i no say make you take am go mamaput just bcoz she like to dey chop for there. buy her flowers (not those fake flowers wey naija guys dey always buy come spray perfume on top wey dey last for one hour) and plan something good, no begin to dey bring i love you card, bcoz i go rather you say the words than some stupid card.

and oh boy by now you suppose know wetin your gf like, which kind man you be.

apology accepted whitelexi. but i still stand by my word, if a guy gives me a card, i go use broom pursue am, if you no fit think of a good gift then no even make the effort.

Abey stop to dey compare your wife with some other young chick, and even look at your excuse "she is younger than my wife" i would think with everything wey dey happen for the world and the disease wey dey fly like flies people go get brain to know what is good and bad, God forbid you go sleep with this woman come carry one kind disease come give your wife, how you go explain that one, just because you no fit keep am for your pants. if you no dey reasonable enough to know that there is no excuse to cheat on your wife after all you have just said about her then you are the most stupidest excuse for a man i don ever meet.
i go pray say make she catch you, and then make she cut off your thing, maybe that time you go begin develop brain.

run b4 she gives u some disease

whitelexi, its not about money, i personally have never collected money from any guy i was dating, bcoz i have mine, which includes naija guys, i workand make my money so i don't need a guy spending his money on me, i can take care of myself. what i am trying to say is they don't show affection, they could come up with a better idea for gifts than cards, i am 22 years and i don't need a card.