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those are really good, i am a graphic designer too, and i am starting to build my portfolio, so which programs did you use, i have questions for you, like how you designed some of the things on your portfolio, if you don't mind me asking let me know.

Not all rich girls have bad attitude, i know i don't.

suicide attempt over a girl. please you must be stupid abeg move on jare its not the end of the world, n its not like she did something terible like give u some kinda disease. it hurts alot bcoz she is ur first love.

please, give me a break n move on. there is no way he is gonna be faithful, u only see it in nigerian movies, trust me when he leaves the country his eyes go open to the temptation around, n having a long distance relationship doesn't work, i didn't really up with my boyfriend before i left naija, i thought the long distance thing was gonna work, but trust me i've been here for 5 years n all these while he has written less than 10 times and we were in a 2 year relationship, so when i went back for holidays he tried to get back with me but i didn't feel anything for him. all i am trying to say is that you should move on, bcoz he is gonna do the same.

ok you can't just jump into starting a full fledge magazine without knowing what you want in the magazine, i will suggest starting a 2 page magazine or watever they call it, figure out what you want to write about, if it is going to be a weekly magazine i will suggest, having something like a BABE OF THE WEEK page, which should will feature the girl's picture in the from of the magazine, this should draw the attention of both male and female students, and i will suggest making you first 2 paged magazine free to see how much attention you can draw, before you actually start selling it, anyway you gotta be ready to spend money before you can start making some. find good writer's.

i have always wanted to do something like this, anyway that's why i am a graphic design student. i design magazine covers if you need help. goodluck

Because you fall in love doesn't mean you have to be stupid, love is not blind. if i fall for you doesn't mean i would take crap from you, all you gotta do is guard your heart, don't fall for someone blindsided, make sure you know what you are getting yourself into before you absolutely give yourself to any guy.

You know the answer to your question, HE DOESN'T CARE, hun he is using you. stop being his personal MUGU, if he cannot appreciate what you have done for him then he really really isn't worth it

you forgot desmond elliot, he is a pretty good kisser from what i have seen

i think you are fine, i experience a very similar situation befor my menstral cycle and sometimes my boobs feels heavy, the pain should go in a couple of days

i don't see why it is a challenge, except if you are reffering to sex

well before you moves on you should tell his new girl he is involved with what he did, if she is resonable she will dump his a** faster than you can say eh. make him pay, he used u and now wants to just dump you, that is not fair, he doesn't deserve peace of mind. i will really make him regret it then i will move on.

my parents got married 3 months after meeting and 28 years later, then are still together, it depends on if you've found the one for you.

Beat her up, i can't be responsible for my actions but she will be going from fry pan to fire. and the guy i will make sure he suffers for the rest of his life.

no it doesn't matter, its not a rule to end up with your first love.

angelz:
@kheme. your name sounds ugly, hence u must b ugly n kindly kip your ugly ideas about WOMEN 2 ursef. Cant imagin d sort of women u'v got in your , As for you ima1. Y r u tryin 2 impose your idea on him. Rimemba he knos this girl beta dan we all do. He may b confus, please dnt make his case worst. I feel if he wnts 2 go 4 his ex, he has his reasn. D angel u dnt kno is worst dan d devil u kno. Boy your decisn is as good as mine. I wnt mix words in telin you to go 4 your ex. Suces.

i am not trying to impose anything on him, but remember i said untimately at the end it is his decision, you are trying to say the new girlfriend is an angel in disguise, pleaseeee give me a break. put urself in the new gf's shoes would you want to get hurt bcoz some guy can't make up his mind. but hey he and his ex deserve each other, so they could keep cheating on each other.

ok stop making F****** excuse for you ex, if you want to get back with her then do it but trust me u are gonna regret it, there is no excuse for anyone to cheat, if you are not going to stay with ur new girlfriend then tell her now and stop stringing her along. but i keep maintaining this, "what goes around comes around". you obviously want to be with your ex if all you do is remind yourself of the good times, no one ever thinks of the bad times and when you get back together all the bad stuff comes up and you regret getting back together. just don't hurt the new girl she doesn't deserve this and you don't even deserve her.
i hate when guys can't make up their minds, you always want your ex and hurt the other ones trying hard to make you happy, makes me think you guys don't deserve happiness.
everyone on here has said stay with the new girl, they all have reasons for saying it. but at the end its up to you. do watever u want. you can't eat you cake and have it. please make a f**king decision.

ummm im sorry i didn't know u existed

okay i hate when guys do stuff like that and end up hurting the poor girl that decides to give you her heart, remember once a cheater, always a cheater, if you want someone who will cheat on you in the future then go with your ex, but remember what goes around comes around. trust me you will regret hurting that poor girl. anyway i think you should watch this movie on www.onlinenigeria.com, the movie is called FORCES OF NATURE.
your experience is pretty similar.

i will say dump the ex, or you will regret it in the future, and you can't just hurt someone for no reason.

Gay is when you have the hots for a guy, ask yourself if you do, if your answer is yes the you probably are gay. if not then don't mind the girl, sometimes we women use that excuse as a reson to convince ourselves when a guy says no. i mean no be by force

harvey:
Naija bosses are sometimes full of shit most especially when u are a single lady and attractive.here is the plan jougar.try to know his wife draw close to the wife and am telling u he will flee from u.and if he still persist lure him to spit out all those nasty words like (i love u i want u to be my misstress and all that)there should be a camera somewhere or a tape recorder.make sure u are able to gain the trust and affection from his wife.then u8 tell him the name of the game.tell him how u want to play that u;re holding his balls and u are ready to squeeze it if he treatens to lay u off.but if he remains adamant.turn in the tape to his wife and look for someother job.because i know u must have put in so much into that job and u can't just let go like that.also i always tell people,seek the face of the one that gives wisdom that is God through our lord Jesus.

then i agree with harvey, make a tape, either give it to his wife or blackmail him with it. or threaten to cut his balls off he is not gonna bother you, lol he might even promote u

the thing here is that if you get money then you you know life is really better in Naija. me i am coming back next year when i am done with school, i no fit sit down for this country dey bust my ass for someone who isn't even paying me enough money for the kind of job i am doing, i am coming back to naija to take over my dad's business and work for myself and be content and no complain everyday how im not getting paid well.

in my own opinion na people wey no get the money dey think say life is better abroad, see wetin most nigerian for texas dey do, they dey dupe people for money and when they catch them they go sitdown for jail.

my advise is that if you wan come stay for america then study courses like nursing n become a doctor because they are in a very  high demand.
and i go boarding school, and wetin we do na when school don end we dey block all those seniors for outside gate, n you know what happens next. as for me i am coming back next year as soon as i am done with my masters degree, there is nothing for me in this country.

if you are in USA fight for your right, you should sue for sexual harrassment in the workplace and you could get paid for it too hun. i dunno about naija.

ok she could die if she tries to abort the baby, bcoz its already too late, adoption should be her option right now instead of risking her life to kill a baby that someone out there could give a great life to. there r women out there looking for babies. God gave her that baby for a reason n its sad to know she wants to kill the baby. there might be complications n she could never give birth again if she eventually finds the right guy. please abeg tell her to use her brain n close her f***ing legs then she would not have to kill a child for her fu**ing selfish rasons. n 6 months later is she crazy.

the only way i will say america is better than naija is when it comes to education, 247 electricity, good roads and the 911 issue. other than that trust me there is no difference, its not what it is cracked up to be, i personally would have prefered to stay in nigeria, but my dad did not agree.

1 reason why i love nigeria is that in the secondary school, you have nothing like bullies, naija is beat me i beat you, but in american here it is bully me, i bring a gun to school and kill my classmates, the rate of depression in american is alarming, yesteray on OPRAH a guy killed his twin daughters just because he was depressed, a woman drowned her 4 children in the bathtub just because she was depressed and then they plead insanity in court. in American here you see grown men sexually molesting small kids which is so very sick. i admit naija get its own problems like theives and corrupted  people, but in america her the people are just twisted.

Not everyone in america is rich like everyone thinks, most of them work just to pay their bills and they live month to month, they cars and houses they live in is not even paid for, they pay monthly fees every months and end up paying more just bcoz of the interest, and if you can't make your payments the government forcloses your house, putting you on the street without much notice. there is no need paying for something you are not going to own until 30 years from now, what kind of life is that, in Naija 30 years is enough for someone to work hard and make a good living, buy a house probably more than 1 car.

i can't wait to go back to naija because in naija i was never broke, here in america, after paying the rent, bills i am left with almost nothing for feeding. i go to school full-time, work full-time and i get no break at all if i want to live in the house i rent, it is not easy, in naja i was staying with my parents, if i need anything, they gave it to me, the only thing is that my curfew was 6pm which sucks bcoz over here i can stay out all night if i want.

life is only better where you feel comfortable, i love naija, i miss all my friends, in america here, you have to pick your friends with your eyes wide open b4 you pick someone who is doing drugs and get dragged into that shit.

everyone has different feeling on this subject, but i think life for me would be better if i was in nigeria, i was in boarding school, i drank crappy water, i have always lived without nepa, and coming back to naija to make things better for me is my goal.

ohhh thats a bad idea, sleeping with someone you work with is a really stupid thing to do, because when you guys start arguing and you bring it to the workplace trust me it can create a huge mess. that is why jobs create the no dating in the workplace rule. i have seen this happen first hand, there was this guy i was working with and he was dating almost every girl that was hired, this girls became friends and seeing the guy dump them for one of their friends created this huge fight which was sad, friendships were broken and it totally sucked, i was draged to the middle of the fight and forced to choose between friends just because of this guy, ohh i had to take myself out of the equation because i no get time for girl fight.

anyway you should end it immediately before it creates a huge mess and you end up being fired from your job

on a scale of 1-10, how ugly are you lol

10 being that you pass ugly n are now fugly

lol you no fit find naija girl so tey you wan go arab, and you kind of lady doesn't exist, no one is perfect

OH HELL NO, i remember when i came back to naija early this year, my dad wanted to intoduce me to this guy, but i told him it wasn't his decision, i am the one who is going to live with the man forever so why let someone else pick him for me. That is a no go area.

@adcoline or wetin them dey call u this days

now i no even know you and u dey ask me for money, wats the difference between you and the girl. i no even get your time

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imaf1
Your age tells me of someone who thinks its their right to be bought over. It's an embarrasing situation for a girl to ask for money on a first date, not that she needs some help, but because she feels its her right to be given money,
It surprises U why i maintain my position, its because classy girls don't ask for money on a first date ok. But skanks like you do. Guys love to deal with people like you. Pay as u go.

^{my advice is that you stick with your type of girls and i mean the 2 kobo ones, maybe then you wouldn't be here complaining because all she will ask you for is 1 kobo. you broke ass monkey. you are really getting on my nerves.}

I see your view that someone who depends on men for survival is sophicated. I see another Tyna Robertson coming. Good luck

Did i ask you for money, you be original fool, you broke ass monkey. abeg shut the F*** up if you've got nothing else to say. my age should tell you that i am not in our level , and it doesn't surprise me that you defended youself like a broke man. you really annoy me. stupid jerk