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PoliteActivist:
Well, the guy said this:



And you replied with this:



That's what my post was addressing

The start of polygamy (adultery) is a leading cause of divorce. Not everyone subscribes to sharing themselves.

Good news. Marriage thrives on love, submission, forgiveness and closing your eyes to a lot of things you see. Happy Married Life is more than a wish or prayer, it is work. If you don't work on your marriage, it will grow weeds even if you are married to Jesus (Love) literally.

PoliteActivist:
I see you're really into this topic. Well, the guy actually has a point about polygamy or informal "polygamy".
There is something fundamentally flawed and unfair in expecting a very successful young man in his prime to stick to only one woman. Especially when he is also a celebrity with girls all over him. A man works very hard to make it, denying himself, women not giving him a chance (they're busy dating successful men). When he finally makes it and can have any woman he wants, one woman wants to claim him all to herself and herself alone!

i am talking about successful marriage, not about fundamental flaws and celebrity logic. If you want a successful, happy married LIFE, you follow the clear steps. If you want celebrityhood, you can study fundamental flaws.

Okhuadams:
Before I answer tell me the cause of their divorce

There's really nothing to answer, i didn't ask you a question but just made a comment on your post. i am not aware of the reasons for their divorce but experience shows that happy and lasting relationships have more to do with the factors i mentioned, practical love, submission, and forgiveness.

Okhuadams:
The man suddenly tested a new Pigeon hole and finds it more sweeter while the woman saw a bigger plantain that made her go gagalicious gagaly

Marriage is not only about sex oga, make e clear for your eyes. Practical love, submission, forgiveness must be constant for a marriage to keep working fine.

Konjiboii:
Polygamy will solve 95% of broken homes and divorces.

The same polygamy we know or another one?

Ofadaman:
If you live long enough, you can become everything you detest or even the same thing you laugh at

If you leave it long enough, not if you live long enough. You need to keep working at it, no retirement or retreat. If you leave land not cultivated for weeks, it will grow weed instead.

Marriage is work, like health, like food, it is not automatic. You have to keep working on it else it goes stale.

Lagos is the smallest state in Nigeria. All other states should be very ashamed of themselves if they don't respect and acknowledge the achievements of Lagos.

The genesis of SAS brutality...... pic.twitter.com/kmkgbXRi2M

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) December 26, 2022

Obi the SARS enabler that ordered police to shoot criminals at sight is here claiming messiah. lol.

Why do i feel pity for this lady instead?

Onelove508:
Let's end it here.

U are gaslighting me bro. Mhen!

How u guys can manage to explain explain for, and defend this man showing obvious signs of dementia and waek cognitivity is amazing.

Lol @ gaslighting. Like we've been hearing, go and verify.

Onelove508:
And it's ok to always make gaffes?
Is 'four years course for four years job" not gibberish?
Was he like this when he was governor?

He doesn't always make gaffes and his gaffes are very negligible and even comical so far. i don't rate him or anyone by 10 to 30secs in something done for over 20 to 40mins. i consider everything in entirely. His past is better and incomparable with the other two or three candidates. His present work rate, engagement and plans is still ahead of the others. His team is also a world ahead of the others.
i didn't follow or listen to him or any politician that much before. i looked at the 3 or 4 sorry candidates before us(i know their past so i know they are all sorry thieves), took time and patience to listen to them and it's so simple a choice to make. i can't for the life of me choose a rambling story teller, or a clear untrustworthy liar. We all know the jobs created in LAMATA, LASTMA, LAWMA and co. These were all started by Tinubu. So anyone listening to him talk about job creation and looking for four years job isn't in touch with reality.

LordReed:
I said reminds.

Of course, the Bible taught you.

LordReed:
Well I guess Chris Oyakhilome is not a Christian or Paula White or any of the other divorced Christian ministers.

They obviously don't believe the Bible.

Onelove508:
C'mon bro!
Not being an orator doesn't mean talking out of point and constantly saying gibberish in public. Was he like this when he was governor?

Goodluck, Ahmed Lawal etc aren't orator but they don't say gibberish or talk out of point.

I'm sure u are educated, u know the whatup, u are just being sentimental.

Tinubu makes more sense than those guys you mentioned, I guess he seems senseless because of his 'funny' illustrations. He doesn't talk out of point, in fact he is more on point than Obi or terrible Buhari. He also doesn't say gibberish but makes gaffes. Anyone listening easily knows what he meant to say.
As a governor, i always looked at/perceived him like someone who is high on something.
Perhaps because i don't really like him. But ohh, between him, Obi and Atiku ehn, i will choose him 11 times out of 10. They are all that bad. i am not voting BTW.

LordReed:
So threat to life or abuse or even adultery is not sufficient reason to end a marriage according to Christian or bible beliefs?

Yes they are not according to the Bible, they are all resolvable. Separation is allowed, never divorce.

LordReed:
Yes. It reminds me that no matter what I get in this life I will die one day. Same with every other person.

Good for you, we know that already though. It's appointed to man once to die, after this the judgment.

Power of institutions and blueprints.

LordReed:
As if Bible believers don't get divorced. LoLz!

They don't believe the Bible then and are covenant breakers. It is what it is.

LordReed:
No but I don't need to be an undertaker to acknowledge that someone has died.

Okay oh, you almost always acknowledge death on the FP. fascinating.

Obi against Obi. Is that not the daughter that told him to buy house for her in Panama or did Obi buy the houses without her knowledge?
His wife carried him to live in Lagos.
His son wears any hair he wants and the whole University knows. His son continued the lamba in Hollywood as lamba talent cannot just waste at home. Madman tells Obi what to do. Ipobic elements hijack his campaign and tell him he can't even say he's not campaigning. A man whose beliefs and decisions are driven by random WhatsApp messages.
This is the sissy that wants to change Nigeria oh. If you didn't ask Buhari what kind of change, are you not going to ask Obi again?

LordReed:
Valar Morghulis. Rest in peace.

Are you an undertaker?

Lazyreporta:
Just use sense.. Tinubu initiated the projects.. And he brought his successors who make sure its done.

Just read or watch documentaries. Stop being foolish intentionally

Obembet and co, don't mind the naysayers. Even Sanwo says Tinubu started the project.

Governor of Lagos State, Mr @jidesanwoolu speaking today at the Business Lunch with the APC Presidential Candidate, @officialABAT, Mr Governor explains the history of the Rail Line Project he completed yesterday with a Flashback video of Asiwaju as Governor#BIZForwardWithTinubu pic.twitter.com/LjUPQt5jle

— Jubril A. Gawat (@Mr_JAGs) December 22, 2022

seguno2:
Are you by chance from Anambra and the rest of Nigeria?
How long did it take to build the 12 kms of 3rd Mainland bridge? Is that in Anambra and the rest of Nigeria where you are from?

How long did it take to build the Abuja-Kaduna railway?

LoLz, your shamelessness is forgetting to compare Federal government to State government. Have some shame na.

seguno2:
Since 1999 is over 23 years, innit

We hope Anambra's own and the rest of Nigeria doesn't take this long.

Congrats Lagos. Nigeria is so far behind that this such a great accomplishment. It's like a person in coma raising a finger, we'll all shout and cry for joy like we won World Cup.
So much work still to be done. The remaining 6 or so phases, the Red line rail, issue of security, people stealing equipment, damage and vandalism, effective ticketing, how to stop people shunting and manipulating tickets, how to effectively determine who is elderly and below 6years old, women rights, overcrowding etc. Nigeria is such a facepalm really.

BTW, due credits go to Tinubu for initiating this project. Is it not a baffling wonder? The Governor Sanwo Olu doing the project credits Tinubu, but people blinded by hatred say Tinubu has no part in it. But they are quick to ridiculously include Ambode and Lord Lugard in the project.

Onelove508:
U seems to have answers to every questions.

Please, why does he always say gibberish in public?

Because he's not a great speaker. He's very good at throwing jabs and taunts at opposition though. The Tinubu i know has always been more of action, vision and strategy, not really oratory. People like Fashola and Osinbajo can talk, they are speakers like Obama. But i don tire for talk talk. Obi don talk rubbish my ear don full.

richidinho:
The question is why must it be Obi and not kwankwaso or kola Abiola?

He's more popular as a former governor, he's from the south, igbo and his online mob have been the ipob gang from start, he's a professing Christian. Clearly more religious and ethnic undertones than anything from Obi.

bot101:
Good health is a criteria for leadership? Would you elect a mute person if he/she runs for presidency?

Yes, if he has better vision than his blabbing fellow contestants. Actions speak louder than words.

freeborn02:
Lolz. He is always having problems with his knees.

Of course, it is expected that an 86 years old man will consistently have arthritis.

Okay.

freeborn02:
It is a sign of good health.

It's a sign that Tinubu is very sick due to old age.

You know this; you are only pretending

Okay.