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There's nothing you can do for him at this point, because he is an adult that has refused to grow. You can only leave him to his parents to live with what they created.

You need to face you life and probablymove out. If he decides to sell everything in the house and your parents cannot do anything to stop him, then maybe they don't need the items he is selling.

35yrs old is too old to try to fix. He needs to be willing to be fixed or else, all the efforts of your family will be in vain.

Klass99:
I am tempted to say keep ignoring him and avoiding the toxicity but I worry for your parents, your father in particular, your mother.....not so much because of her role in creating the monster you described.

It's good that you intervened during the A.C. theft, but what happens if you move out or you are not around during another rogue incident? I genuinely feel sorry for your father.

Blood is not thicker than water in instances like these ooo and I don't fault you for acting the way you have. Your brother is a stark reminder of why I sometimes laugh and smh when people say children are a blessing, I guess they don't think beyond infancy/toddler years when children are sweet and cuddly.

The problem is that a lot of parents bring up their children to have an entitlement mentality, with no sense of responsibility or consideration for others. And this usually happens with the first child (especially boys).

I was even dealing with an issue this morning of one. His case is not as serious as the ops brother. But he's also exhibiting effects of lapses in upbringing.

It's a tough job being a parents. I pray we don't make the same mistakes.

RichProminent:
U can now have peace of mind

You mean he's no longer idle. He can now do something productive with his life. Great!

RichProminent:
U bursted me he's now in the U.S.

Ok??

RichProminent:
He is dead

Expensive joke. Stop joking around.

RichProminent:
Yea exactly, thesame person as ObamaMessi.

Oh I didn't know he was Obama...

What has he done this time?

RichProminent:
For me to clearify you, answer this question: do you know VictorUSA?

The one who creates threads up and down to bash women. Yeah

RichProminent:
Heathrow44 na VictorUSA get ChoCho54 Beautygoddesss and Fcmb2022 Uniquetani1 ImaIma1 now Sapphiere again. That guy na woman rapa.

I'm confused here. What's happening?

New222:
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Though it will be tough, I wouldn't mind keeping the baby. It's the girl I'm worried about. This will end things between her and her family. Her education too. Thanks for this though.

You didn't think of all this when you were having raw sex with her. A 19yr old girl that you should have advised to face her studies...you were busy pleasuring yourself and leading her astray. Now you have put a pause in her career/education because you could not exercise restraint.

You are the "guys" her parents warned her about. Just be ready to marry her if her parents send her out. Now that this has happened, you two will fashy sex and think clearly.

Very sad. He lacks integrity. If he takes that money, it will finish and will need help again.

Daddy Freeze has hijacked this thread.

assetsovermoney:
Marriage-shame you how? That's a legitimate routine that will make a man forget other women exist. I'm not kidding.

You are obviously single and clueless. Don't worry your head about what marriage entails for now.

assetsovermoney:
When men lie, you complain.

When a man says the truth, you ask him to speak for himself.

Na u sabi.

Just remember to suck your husband's dicck and cook for him every morning.

Spending time on NL won't add anything to your marriage.

Your truth is not everybody's truth Mister. You will sleep with anything. That's who you are. You mustn't project it on everyone.

If you think you can "marriage-shame" me, then you are even more foolish than you know.

My time on Nairaland should not give you restless days or sleepless nights, neither should my marriage.

Live your life, drink water and mind your business

when2:
Some of them are possessed by the Spirit of Lust.

I don't doubt that.

assetsovermoney:
Anybody that reasons like a human being know that men will fvvck anything if not for religion and moral conscience.

Fvvckin another man's wife is equivalent to the feeling you get when you beat a man to death.

Human beings know this.

But when they get on the internet, they'll have to pretend they don't.

Not men, but some men. The ones without any form of restraint or control. You don't have to assume that all men are that way because you are like that. Speak for yourself bro.

TechbI0gger:
so because a guy is taking to you and probably complementing you, for your mind now he's chyking you
You no get sense

Guy if you don't know the difference between when a girl is flirting with you and when she's just talking to you, that is you own situation not mine.

ahnie:
Someone also said...one even had the effrontery of chasing his pregnant sister to her husband's house,that they had to lock the gate then gave him a very sound beating.

That one is beyond normal.

assetsovermoney:
Broads out here sounding like they're that special to be wanted. He wants to straff. It's not that deep

It's not that deep. So for you, the craving can make you have sex with anyone even a pregnant married woman?

Do you even know if it's for diabolical means or a fetish? You are here talking about "broads being special". Please get off your gender bias horse and reason like a human being that you are.

ahnie:
I have bn longing to create this topic for some months now,but due to my busy schedules as I barely have time.

For some time now.... I have bn noticing a particular pattern going on and couple with some experiences which I ain't cool with.

I don't know if other married women finds it cool,but to me it's very disgusting and appalling.

Sometimes I do wonder if those wondering phalluses no even get eyes to see that the woman they're chasing is even married sef.
Aren't they seeing the little kids with the women?

You become a target if they by any chance noticed your husband isn't based in same state with you and comes once in a while and God epp you if you're beautiful and always decently dressed.



Recently I had another experience....I was somewhere with my daughter picking some items...when this man with his bend bend legs like pastor gbejero walked up to me and said he likes me,that he has bn noticing me for sometime,he was even twitching....

I just looked at him then laughed,I told him to take a walk.....few weeks later I saw him trekking under the hot sun going from store to store with his bend bend legs like oshodi octopus.

One sick one even had the impetus telling me...I go dey chop like thief from corner oga nor go know.
Before he even finished the statement...a powerful slap landed on his cheek,yes I can be mean and bold at same time.

Surprising these men would go back home then pretend to their wives,them no go tell them say....them dey run after people wives.

On-line isn't even different......


So men...chasing people's wives....how do you sleep at night?

I can relate.

Imagine being evidently pregnant, with a ring on my finger and a guy was chyking me. I was beyond shocked. Some men don't know what they are looking for.

cavreek:
People should be careful with their actions as some tins can be settled amicably
The more u continue depriving him without taking action, a time will come he will seek for alternatives and mind u some people dont care wether or not he is clean
Atleast u can start with taking a shower with him

He can go and have sex with a fellow dirty person since being dirty is more important than his marriage.

Emma2Seconds:
No Sex No Money !!!

I'm sure you were expecting likes. This one is not about gender bias. Everyone must have sense.

gfon:
no need to be biased in this situation,how would you come back from work all sweaty and dirty then demand for sex without taking your bath? Abi you think it's only females that smell down there? Guys too!! The werey fit dey even request for BJ from the woman.Abeg let's be logical and not sentimental.

Thanks for being objective. Not everything should be about gender wars. Some things are common sense.

immortalcrown:
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Getting Permanent Voter Card (PVC) is not enough.

Voter card is important. But voter card cannot solve the problem in Nigerian elections. The choice voters make is the problem. If only ten persons have PVCs and the majority (at least six) of the ten persons votes wisely, good leaders will emerge. If 100 billion persons collect PVCs and majority of them votes foolishly, bad leaders will emerge. “Get your PVCs” is the only piece of advice trending. Why are we not talking about the tribal, religious and nepotic factors that have always jeopardized our political progress?

When a wrong ideology dominates the society, increase in the number of PVC holders can only result in more votes for the wrong candidates. A situation in which electorates’ choices of candidates are always based on tribalism and nepotism, how can PVCs guarantee good governance for the country? Number of PVC holders only favours tribalism and nepotism. It does not influence voters’ choice of candidates in elections. And tribalism is not good in politics. A good leader is good to all tribes. A bad leader is bad to even his own tribe. If electorates vote wisely, a good candidate will win and treat everybody well not minding how many votes he got from other tribes. If electorates vote foolishly, a bad candidate will win and treat everybody (including his own tribe) bad even if most of his votes came from his own tribe. Jonathan and Bubu are proofs.

Each tribe is clamouring for PVCs just to possibly make its son the president. Igbo people are shouting PVCs hoping it will make Obi win. Yoruba people are shouting the same thing to give victory to either Tinubu or Osinbajo. Northerners are doing their own thing to make a northerner the next president. Some analysts say Obi is the best candidate. But only few persons from the South and the North are drumming support for him. Most of his supporters are Igbo people. We are in a world where majority of youths abandon their own brains and rely on the brains of social-media influencers. How many social-media influencers of Yoruba and Hausa origins have aired support for Obi? This means majority of northern and southern youths who have PVCs will likely vote against him. Can votes from Igbo people alone outnumber the votes from the North and the South? Remember how majority of Igbo people chose Atiku but the votes from the North and the South worked against the same Atiku. Do you now understand why and how voters' choice is more consequential than voters' population?

Also, what about the perennial constraint to free-and-fair elections in Nigeria? Having PVC cannot help Nigeria when electorates do not have the safety to exercise their franchise. A situation where armed deadly thugs disrupt elections, how can “Get Your PVCs” save the nation?

Rigging and prejudice are other problems bigger than low number of voters. Whether 2019 national election victory was by legitimate votes or by illegitimate votes is still an unanswered question. Between those who misused their PVCs and those who had no PVC to vote, who are responsible for 2019 election result? Also, what about the case in Imo State where someone who came 3rd or 4th in an election later became the governor? In the Imo case, the figure used in court does not correspond to the figure provided by INEC. Is low number of voters responsible for that? How is getting PVCs the major problem?

I do not discourage people from getting PVCs. I myself have my own PVC. But as we encourage people to get PVCs, let us not ignore other things that deserve our attention.

You are the parrot without human brain. That is why you did not see where I said I have my own PVC. That is also why you did not see where I said I do not discourage people from getting PVC.

See all the story you typed on top...get your PVC

Chopchopfine:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dovx_QL17RM

Is it too late to make eba?

FemdomQueen:
No make me laugh all these services are suspicious. I tried them and never again. They cover X-ray but when I tried to use it they said only broken bones. I needed a test and even though it was on their list as covered it had a fine print and made them not cover it. Reliance is a scam. I will never recommend

It depends on the plan from your office. I was in charge of the HMO my colleagues. There's Red Beryl, Alexandrite, diamond and Red diamond. Red Beryl is the lowest. So it depends on the plan your company subscribe to.

Mine covered my delivery which was CS. Hubby and I used the spa option and my colleagues used to go to the gym. Confirm first before you conclude.

Besides, it comes with a list of what each plan has. It even covered monthly prescription delivered to the office or a pharmacy close to you for those with HBP, etc.

JovialJune:
The difference between you men and sane women on this forum is that, we are capable of discerning evil from good and commenting accordingly and in fairness without bias, we are not like most of you dings that tend to ask foolish questions with your "I must support my gender at all cost" mentality, especially when there are undeniable evidences that points and proves that men in domestic violence or rapists are guilty, get that into your skull today.

Don't mind him. For them, it's all about supporting their gender regardless of if they are wrong.

If Depp were the guilty one, with undeniable and clear evidence against him, he would have supported him still just because he is a man. They expect us to act the same way and support Amber just because she's a woman regardless of the fact that she is guilty.

He's trying to project his own mindset of you. Not everyone is bias and prejudiced towards the opposite sex.

reddingtonblack:
Yiimu !! suddenly they're all feigning happy whats happens to men are scum

Before you jump into water, you should ask yourself first is if it is all women who believe that men are scum.

KiNg0G:
not possible, it's my house

Who is paying the rent?

Great news. Really happy for him.

Stormtrooper11:
Because Gemini ♊ traditionally are nice people. I'm not generalising but most gemini are not an emotional wreck. They communicate not all those gaslighting and narcissistic behaviours.

Hmmm...interesting. Probably why I don't swing moods and wonder why others do.

If it's true, it means he doesn't provide up to 220 monthly. He might be a free loader trying to generalize the issue.

Stormtrooper11:
I'm leo looking for a Gemini or Aquarius

Why Gemini?