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progress2:
I understand every bit of the contributions on this topic.

Way forward please.

progress2:
i understand u.

suggestions please!

Looks like you don't[b] understand [/b] what people here have been saying as you claim.

There is nothing wrong in bringing your wife as your dependent, but it is very unlikely for it to be as staightforward as you think.

If you really want her to come for at least "two weeks", the easiest route like someone already suggested is a visiting visa. While she is here, you guys can speak to solicitors and find a way forward.

I doubt nairalanders are equipped to deal with the technicality of your questions. In this regard, it will be better to speak to an immigration consultant , if not, people won't be able to advice you or tell you what you want to hear.

Goodluck on whatever you decide to do. Even the "seasoned" advicers have avoided this thread obviously that tells you something!!

somze:
Less than impressive huh? nice way to put it though

Rebuilding? Asspipe Whinger has been using that age old cliche' for some time but i never knew he made you guys believe it.

Why am I not shocked? . . . coming from a chelski fan

Thanks for taking panadol for Arsenal's headaches When you lead more medicine, let us know - we will gladly surply more.

crasniplet:
i am tired of arguing wit u just accept

Accepted

crasniplet:
wearing  dresses that are transparent   its easy 2 see all god has given 2 her instead of covering it she has made herself a a star by getting peoples attentn  wit what she put on   i wonder how a guy should b asking me this question

We all have different principles that we live by. I agree with you that some of her attires are just over the top, which is because i am conservative but can not impose my level of morality on others. Moreover, she looks comfortable in what she wears and gets the men's attention. Simple marketing strategy

tpia:

1. some parts of Plateau state also seems to have a high rate of extra-tribal marriage, from what I've seen. I've had some friends with Plateau relatives, in the past.
2. And yes, at the end of the day, the gap doesnt really seem to have been bridged. In many parts of the country, the children of inter-tribal marriages are raised solely in one culture, mainly ignoring the other part.

1. Really? Why is that so? I wasn't aware Plateau had a high inter-tribal mix. But i hear that Jos is nice.

2. That has been my observation too, especially with our culture of "the father owns the child".

But i think things are changing and people are begining to realise the importance of peaceful co-existence with other tribes and cultures!

crasniplet:
@michelin   i am not jealous i am never d type   go wit me or don't gene is just okay lik all normal beings nd only attractive wit makeup nd cloth that are bad  she is apublic figure nd need 2 dress in a decent way but without makeup ini nd omotola are just

She is paid to act and not be a public figure. Therefore, she is entitled to live her life in accordance to her wishes. However, the kind of society we live in places unrealistic expectation on the shoulders of artistes, that is why a lot of them keep their private lives private especially when they can not keep up with the expectation or image required of them by the public. Then we get shocked when some of the private "stuff" are exposed. Let people live their lives freely and let the fans decide who they want to emulate.

[quote author=I-man link=topic=16992.msg1212067#msg1212067 date=1182111845] Outrage! Nothing to do with that club.Its for masochists. I'm always here because of the schadenfrauede I feel in the thread of an underachieving club   

Madrid equalises [/quote]Did you just say underachieving? All because we have had 2 less than impressive seasons?

Dont worry, we are rebuilding and when we are done, we will mesmerise everyone like we did in the year of the unbeaten run. i hope

Muki, Muki, Muki? How many times have i called you?

you are beginning to drive our men crazy. . . . .

Abeg choose one, and let the others try the next "door"

@I-man,

Are you sure you are not a closet Arsenal fan? 

You seem to get on[i] very [/i] well on the Arsenal boards .

@Topic,


The best tribe is most likely your own tribe. . . .because everyone acts in their own self interest.

And in a tribalistic society like ours, it would be "suicidal" to suggest otherwise.

I just hope we attempt to get to a point where we begin to see beyond the tribe issue.

Mamajama:
Look at this pic and tell me its morally justifiable for press to put this on the front page of national news paper?

I really don't know what journalism code in Nigeria is but sometimes, the images shown in printed media are just shocking. I won't even get started on television images which can be equally disgusting. This particular image of the deceased is at least unsavory. Looks like there is no dignity for human life either in life or in death. No gory image can be in the interest of the public.

The same goes for showing alleged naked people who are alleged to have committed crimes. At least they should be "innocent" until proven "guilty" and not subjected to inhuman treatment and have their nude pictures published no matter the crime.

ThiefOfHearts:
*sigh* I love REM

you got good taste

Donzman:
@Imani

What was my post about?. . .Wasn't it about zoning?. . .If ethnicity didn't matter in Nigeria, then there would be no zoning. For the mere fact that there is a zoning arrangement, that means that ethnicity does matter. Now read properly before you reply, thank you!

I can read. Thank you!

My post is not to say ethnicity is not important but to suggest that, despite the fact Donald Duke is a Cross River man and not one of the "usual" Igbo or Yoruba southern candidates from the South, his record and popularity may have blurred that ethnicity barrier to an extent as he probably would have had the backing of most of the southern tribes. This is just my opinion so you don't have to accept it.

REM - Man on the moon

Nigeria is not ready for e-voting. The manual system is being sabotaged by unscrupulous officials so imagine the scale they will be able to perpetuate their atrocities with the aid of the Internet.

We need to get our priorities right. This is similar to the setting up of an "open" university when the "physical" ones are currently in shambles.

There are more pressing issues to be dealt with.

Is there anything like best tribe




If Donald Duke was from the North, he would have become President by now. He has to wait for 8 years to even get a chance, all because of his ethnicity.
[quote][/quote]Could that also be because there is some kind of "zoning agreement" with respect to the presidency? The South had been in power for 8 years and it was only "fair" for the presidency to "revert" back to the North. I am not saying this system is right. In order words, If it had been the other way round, with the North in power for so many years, i believe the presidency would have been zoned to the South and Donald Duke would have been one of the best candidates to represent the South and would have had a very good chance of being elected.

[quote author=I-man link=topic=59162.msg1210298#msg1210298 date=1182033232]I'm a bit reclusive.   The world is a dangerous place. 

Seriously,I need to know my neighbours.Just realised that recently.I want to travel and I need  them to take care of the house.Its a measure of the hectic and unsociable existence we live in the West.[/quote] You only want to know your neighbours so they can do stuff for you. How convinient opportunistic

Anyway, some english folk are very nice. My family have left the house key with one of our neighbours several times. Some neighbours have help others look after their pets in their absence.

It does foster community relations and minimises friction when people at least know each other casually. It's just a shame their is no culture of "cummunity" due to other pressures such as work.

[quote author=I-man link=topic=59162.msg1210255#msg1210255 date=1182032047]My neighbours? I won't recognise them.Don't know what they look like[/quote]Why and how can that be? Except you are a hermit or don't live around other Nigerian folk  or one of those people in the UK that just turns up his nose when greeted

michelin89:
VIVA JUVENTUS

_{I don talk my own finish!}

Look here   What has Juventus got to do with the Gunners?

BTW, welcome back to Serie A.  [s]and try not to be involved in match fixing in the future[/s]

Dis Guy:
isnt that a good thing?

Not Really.

I like the concept of balance so while sometimes i may like my own space, it is also "ok" to have neighbors that at least show some concern and care about my welfare and vice versa.

The trouble is with Nigerians. Most of us are a bunch of noisy people, especially the older generation. It is no different whether it is Nigerians in Nigeria, or those in diaspora. Sometimes, people need to be sensitive and just observe rather than be involved in other people's matters.

MILITIA:
@Topic
10% compared to their foreign counterparts of course! For the Naija man it is more physical that mental. pre-intimacy is even "by force'! Take a survey for example[b]. When your are in bed what does a Naija man do first? Take off his "dross" and reach for the toilet paper. He is already drippin "slime" everywhere! They are already waiting for the "end results" without thinking of how to get there![/b]

You have nearly finished our naija men . start to run for cover

Some people feel she was justified in her reaction, because some of beuticians and even medical and dental people are just careless and why should she pay for someone else's carelessness just like what happened to Yinka Jegede Epke?

nnenneigbo:
iman and imai u guys got me confused here tonight, but i think i know u are 2 different individuals.

Imani and I-man are completely 2 different individuals. 4play "became" I-man . And Imani has always been Imani

[quote author=I-man link=topic=59927.msg1206921#msg1206921 date=1181936521]She should cover them though.Butts are best appreciated when they are clothed.The mystery is lost if they are bare. [/quote]@I-man,

Get off my case and get a life

lucieo:
@imani

I am still online. I am having a difficult time reading your posts. I keep getting email notices but I don't know how to access the posts. when I go to the page the only thing I see is the last post that I sent. if you can help it will greatly be appreciated,


thank you so very much


lucieo

I think you can uncheck the box that sends all replies to your email by modifying your settings on your profile page.

Tried buzzing you but not reply. . .

[quote author=I-man link=topic=59927.msg1206893#msg1206893 date=1181935713]@Topic

That's a hugeeeeeeeee butt [/quote]Stop being sarcastic! You looooove that butt

lucieo:
@imani

I don't have any family, they are all deceased. it is just me. can we chat on yahoo instant messenger instead of here. my id is lrodriguez1128@yahoo.com

thank you so very much

Just saw your post. You had already logged off.

Hope to chat to you some other time.

viee:
danniecool, it was actually taken in last FO
she lost the game to Henin

and ya, she is koolllllllllllllllllll

The guys all aggree with you. for obvious reasons

debosky:
I wondered how long it would take you to reach here. shameless butt lover

Look who is talking .

[quote author=I-man link=topic=59927.msg1206832#msg1206832 date=1181934342]How small is your head? [/quote]Oga I-man, my head is moderately sized . no defects

But if Serena's butts turns you on, be my guest

Come to think of it, i have seen bigger butts in nigeria

Sorry guys, maybe i was too harsh in my last post.


I just keep remembering some picture of serena in one mag and her butts were something else.

Dis Guy:
those are well toned heavy duty butts!! they make marriage last longer trust me on that one

I still don't get it!

One of her pair of butts is bigger than my head and you love it?