Music/Radio › Re: OFFICIAL Request Naija Music Thread!!! by Imani(f): 9:20pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
If any one has Nel Oliver's baby girl song, I am interested.
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Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 9:13pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
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Literature › Re: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Wins £30,000 Prize For Her Book, Half Of A Yellow Sun by Imani(f): 8:57pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=58003.msg1183111#msg1183111 date=1181314262]Isn't she lovely?  [/quote]  Are you sure you are there not much more to this? [s]Did you have to pull out her most unflattering picture[/s]? |
Travel › Re: Travel To The Uk by Imani(f): 8:47pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
Vicjustice: Imani, Vikiviko is not the bad guy that i thought he was, i've investigated him and i saw a humble sincere man in him. He's now my pal, and i see no obvious reason to oppose him. It wasn't ironical when i said that he (Vikiviko) knows better, i meant it, he actually knows much about immigration issues and embassy matters, so, i'd expect him to contribute here: He won't be pissed off because, he knows i'm for him. Can you see that i've withdrawn my posts about him? As for Armed_lion, he is my pal in Greece. Good to see you here, how are you Amani? Glad you and vikiviko have made up  . Any chance with papabraowne? I am ok. Well, Armed Lion is your friend. Is that your wife on your profile? She looks lovely. |
Romance › Re: Virgin At 35! A Curse Or A Pride by Imani(f): 8:43pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
An unmarried lady at 35 is not necessarily a curse.
Most women at this age will want to get married but for some reason, is just not happening.
That doesnt mean that they have to start sleeping with just anyone.
I really don't know the benefit of being a virgin at 35, but for some people, it may mean a lot to them. |
Politics › Re: Patricia Etteh: New Speaker Of House Of Reps by Imani(f): 8:35pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
debosky: the problem is not about male/female its about[b] political incompetence [/b] in general
we are hailing her as a potentially successful Speaker because she has been trained in the trenches of hairdressing, what could be wrong with that? 
Ngozi, Dora and others were not called hairdressers, maybe thats why their grammar was too much, Madam Ette should be more down to earth, hopefully things will change for the better. Glad you know that incompetence is not defined by gender. |
Politics › Re: Patricia Etteh: New Speaker Of House Of Reps by Imani(f): 7:41pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
@Debosky and I-man
It is not your fault.
Nigerian men complain about everything. When women are trying to be a force to be reckoned with in politics and Government, all they get is comparism with trivial issues like hairdressing.
No wonder the nation is upside down. I wonder where thugery exhibited in the senate house is learned from? Could it be the beer palours, barbershops, peppersoup joints etc?
Please let her at least start the job and her performance can be reviewed afterwards.
With the many years of male dominance in the political environment, i wonder how come we still haven't seen the light. |
Romance › Re: He Denied The Pregnancy, What Do I Do? by Imani(f): 7:27pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
@Topic,
Please have a paternity test when the child is born. |
Politics › Re: Patricia Etteh: New Speaker Of House Of Reps by Imani(f): 7:22pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=57823.msg1183600#msg1183600 date=1181320439] And you know that Nigerian women are very difficult women.If you can fix their hair satisfactorily,you can fix anything on earth  [/quote]How sexist  |
Romance › Re: Virgin At 35! A Curse Or A Pride by Imani(f): 7:16pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
nossycheek: @Topic
It is not impossible as I have 2 sisters in law aged 33 and 37 respectively who are claimed to be virgins and it seems to be true especially the older one. They have no boyfriends but impatiently waiting for the right man to show up. In fact, my husband have to ask the older one who stays indoors most of the times to show her face outside so as to be noticed by men and married off. The younger one frequents wedding occassions in order to be noticed but no boyfriend. They claim to get married as virgins. The older one spends time doing midnight prayers may be to get a husband. I know it is not easy but they are determined to keep their virginity at 33 & 37 Wow, that is a very interesting story. Sometimes, like your husband suggested, ladies need to be more outgoing, this may clash with different personalities. Praying and fasting doesn't solve all problems, what is the point of a prayer warrior who is not approachable to men? |
Politics › Re: Okiro Now Police Ig by Imani(f): 7:03pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
Donzman: NO, You can deny being Igbo all you want but that does not stop the FACT that you're Igbo. People from my village didn't have to tell the British they were Igbo before they were classified as such. If you speak Igbo and do things like Igbos do, I'm sorry but you're Igbo.
What exactly makes Egbemas/Ndonis are non-Igbos?. . .It's on you to prove the British and people who have done these surveys over the years are wrong. They speak the language, answer the name, organize their communities the same way, what else could they be? So they were Igbos hundreds of years before 1970 and suddenly they stopped being Igbos?
Stupid people abound!
I mean look at Ishmael's reasoning, he already exposed his motives before the argument got started. Igbos want to claim oil, yeah like the people who it's currently on their lands are benefitting from it. I don't recall claiming to be Igbo  |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 6:51pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
@debosky, Sorry if my posts implied that you are a serial, chronic womaniser.  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Will Thierry Henry Leave Arsenal. by Imani(f): 6:46pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
damoche07: Will THIERRY HENRY leave ARSENAL? If the price is right. |
Travel › Re: Travel To The Uk by Imani(f): 6:41pm On Jun 08, 2007 |
@Vicjustice, There is a difference between stating your opinion on a matter and witch hunting. There is no need to target particular individuals. People make mistakes and get over it. @Armed lion How come you always use vicjustice's comments or always defend him?. He is either your close friend or alter ego. Can people please stop using multiple ids?  |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 12:35am On Jun 08, 2007 |
debosky: that one no be big grammar oh, na laywer I-man tish me oh 
me ladies man? lai lai, I am innocent of all charges. I need a woman to loff me oh!  What of all the battles for female nairalanders  Being goodlooking doesn't mean you have to like all the ladies. If you need a woman to loff you, maybe you should start by loving one and see what happens.  |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 12:22am On Jun 08, 2007 |
debosky: this love thing is just too nebulous for me, who can truly 'know' they are in love? how would you define this so called love? Please reduce the big grammer abeg. I have read some of your posts and looks like you are a ladies man, which may be why you have have issues with the love thing  |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 12:17am On Jun 08, 2007 |
While i will use my God given brain in choosing a patner, It will be someone i know i love without any doubts.
I am surprised at stories of people marrying their spouses only to discover they were never really in love, maybe it was the personality, charm, charisma etc they loved rather than the person themselves.
However, sometimes, the love sometimes "goes away or dies". I keep hearing "true love never dies". But i am sure it is the need for companionship that is still keeping many relationships together rather than feelings of love. |
Sports › Re: Westerhof Should Be Our Next Coach by Imani(f): 12:07am On Jun 08, 2007 |
Must we have foreign coaches to believe in ourselves? |
Music/Radio › Re: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by Imani(f): 12:06am On Jun 08, 2007 |
Pass the dutchie - Musical Youths |
Family › Re: Will You Forgive Your Girlfriend If She Sleeps With Someone Else? by Imani(f): 12:03am On Jun 08, 2007 |
kingsley i: if my g/f sleeps with another guy, no matter the circumstance, it's all over because am not willing to take what i can't give. I know i cannever do that to her that's why i can't take it from her. IT IS ALL OVER NO GOING BACK. AS FOR ME IT'S QUIT. QED.
SHE SHOULD FACE A BETTER LIFE WITH THE GUY SHE IS KISSING If the shoe was on the other foot, how would you plead? |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 12:00am On Jun 08, 2007 |
debosky: I don't know about 'beyond' any reasonable doubt oh, all these feelings based love is crap mostly
people say love is a decision, you can make it, but it may not be beyond doubt. You may have a point. For me, falling in love is the foundation of a relationship. However, one cannot live on just foundation. The foundation needs support. I may love someone that may not be right for me because the other dimensions of the relationship are not right. I look at the total package (physical, emotional, mental, financial, etc maturity). While i may not always help who i fall in love with, i can choose who i want to be with. It is all about choice and raking an amount of risk for me at least. |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 11:48pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=8312.msg1181202#msg1181202 date=1181256416]That is a major problem  [/quote]What problem?  |
Music/Radio › Re: OFFICIAL Request Naija Music Thread!!! by Imani(f): 11:45pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
Nana,
Please help the brothers in need. A friend in need------ |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 11:43pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
debosky: yes oh, they believe that the 'love' never dies, it just ebbs to a lower intensity.
I have been in love (I think) but it built up over time. I think I can end it at any time, I may be depressed (due to being in it for a long time) but I'll get over it. maybe I'm not truly in love then?  If you are truly in love, you would know it beyond every reasonable doubt. |
Music/Radio › Re: Oliver Neils Song Baby Girl by Imani(f): 11:32pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
Layi, please help us |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In Love? by Imani(f): 11:29pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
kemoade: my first love was a medical student then now a medical doctor, l was seriously in love till we parted. l will forever love him What of your future husband? Will you love him less than your ex?  |
Music/Radio › Re: OFFICIAL Request Naija Music Thread!!! by Imani(f): 11:25pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
debosky: laughing nana, what are you looking for here? 
Imani spill the secrets please, what lie am I lying now? and you didnt answer me - do you have any Faze tracks?
@ lai-lai can you send me the tracks via YIM? Sorry, i dont have any of the tracks on his new album. I am not really a faze fan. I downloaded a few from esnips. Someone may have uploaded some tracks from the new album. Try to check it out. |
Music/Radio › Re: OFFICIAL Request Naija Music Thread!!! by Imani(f): 11:20pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Many Single Women Above 32yrs by Imani(f): 11:18pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
[quote author=nimi-k link=topic=57281.msg1181084#msg1181084 date=1181253987]@ Imani Don't be sorry. Are you underaged? If you are mature minded it wont matter. By the way who painted that picture or did you pick it up from the web?[/quote]Ask I-man, or rather coco29  |
Music/Radio › Re: OFFICIAL Request Naija Music Thread!!! by Imani(f): 11:12pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
debosky: badmann I need faze's album, bzz me on YIM when you see this, either through esnips or using pando aight?
thanks bro
or anyone else in the house who can send me the album online  Do u mean the whole album and not a few tracks?  If you are based in Onitsha as you claim, i am sure you can get a copy at the local market  |
Family › Re: Will You Forgive Your Girlfriend If She Sleeps With Someone Else? by Imani(f): 11:10pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
[quote author=I-man link=topic=54012.msg1135436#msg1135436 date=1179859105]This is what I don't get.If I loved someone and the person becomes an ahole,my love will vanish.I can't love someone who doesn't love me.That is just how it works.I don't understand people who love someone who doesn't love them[/quote]In an ideal world, we all want to be loved by people who we also love.
However, sometimes, things happen and love may be unrequitted. I know people who loved someone that could never love them in that way. Even after having a child together.
But i agree with you on one point, i have no time for any man who doesn't feel anything for me. |
Romance › Re: I Cheated On My Girlfriend: Now She Doesn't Respect Me by Imani(f): 11:04pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
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