₦airaland Forum

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

It is very sad that at this age of civilization people are still this backward mentally. So because of a particular gender they turned themselves into a baby factory producing above what their income can carry comfortably. It is a shame that the woman is still yelding to take more risk of child bearing in this country with her life. My wife has never bordered to know baby gender during scan because our sole interest is a heathy child. It is obvious both of them haven't seen many praying to just have one child, half or even mischarge to give them hope. It is a funny world we live in where people create none existence problems for themselves.

sapientia:
The army general knows Nigeria is on auto pilot.

Very obvious

maynation:
Oga Army general, go to sambisa and flex your muscle.

He would rather use the power to oppress instead.

It has always & will forever be the political elites vs other Nigerians. The later always busy themselves defending & fighting over those guys that don't even care whether or not they exist.

Ah

AfroKnight:
Rejecting?

Lol.

Question should be are they getting any suitors at all.


Traditional women are increasingly in demand. These man-haters hiding under the umbrella of feminism don’t have suitors.

Hmm. They will surely come for your head for stating the obvious. Lol. Last last many end up marrying the available & ready not necessarily who they truly desired or perhaps a baby mama as been the current trend.

Tim16:
You are working, but he doesn't have any job yet. He comes home late everyday at 12am. You clean the house and provide food for the family, upon that you don't nag, and you are good looking.

Madam you married a very very irresponsible man, and people like him always engage in careless sexual activities with random girls/prostitutes. Most times he could probably be in one brothel having fun. I just pray he shouldn't someday infect you with HIV. same thing happened to my aunty, her husband was living this kind of life and infected her with HIV and both of them died of AIDS living their 4 young kids miserable. It will only take a Divine intervention by the Almighty to change such a man and make him live responsibly... I pray God to come to your aid and touch your husband's heart to become responsible and respect his marriage. I will advice you to become a prayer warrior because of this for there is nothing God can not do. You don't only talk to him you also back it up with fervent prayer I bet you you will see result. May God bless your home. AMEN

You quickly believed what she said at bolded and concluded thus. Now to the reality, how many African women being the breadwinner of the family easily maintain calm? Even most men who have full housewife sometimes unconsciously complain of their wife of not keeping the house tidy enough as that is their only job. Secondly, I am yet to see a nagging woman acknowledging that act. Let's assume none of the mentioned is obtainable here. Do you know how it feels for a man to remain idle & watch his rule shifted to his wife all because of joblessness?! He could have just leave home to job hunt or just a way of appearing to be hustling instead of just seating at home without the sign of making effort. Tell the man to always come home early or not to even leave home when he got no job hunting. And see the same woman come here with a different title: how to make an unsupportive man become more financially responsible or at least make efforts.

What a wastage

oz4real83:
this isn't hatred as u make it to look. Sharia laws are being preached in most northern states especially sokoto, the place of the sultan. They lay more empasis on sharia laws even more than the Nigerian constitution. Why didn't sharia laws catch up with these people? Are the sharia laws only for the poor and low class citizens in the north? Your attacking my statement is a confirmation of the hypocrisy I spoke about in my comment.

Nice reply. The law is definitely for the poor.

DaFlash:
One of Nigeria's problem

In a saner country this guy should have been history or exiled.

I couldn't agree more. But here he is been made elderstateman for contributing to what the country has become.

LastSurvivor11:
When will these northern zombies understand that buhari is absolutely nothing without BLAMES

I wonder

lekkxydinho:
FTC. Wow! This is a massive achievement 4 me and my ancesstors wil be masturbating on this uncommon feat. I hereby dedicate this to my future unborn wife and future ancesstors. May thunder fire every spirit of buhari that's making me to say this nonsense.

Take it easy man

Reality is beginning to set in. When you tell people that insecurity isn't selective of it's victim they will think you're been sentimental.

Mrrationalshop:
You have spoken well

Why won't he after indirectly supporting & encouraging a bad system you go to church to pray for a better Nigeria, forgetting that someone is directly showing you: electricity, good road, hospital, school, security even allowances for the unemployed as cars. There are several businessmen & even artists who have similar cars but no one will question them because it is their legitimate hustle, they have product & services they sell to make their money. But what has your man got outside been a senator?! Notice that he didn't address the source of income rather the choice of what he likes which is less important. Initially the problem of Nigeria were solely the politicians who stole the future of the citizens but now the major issue is now the citizens whose basic amenities are stolen supporting them because they have sentiment for PDP or APC, same religion or ethnic, etc. And at the end it is the politicians and their immediate family that enjoy alone.

nameo:
How?

Do not allow the blood of people killed indiscriminately all over this country fall on your head cos of silly partisan political considerations or loyalties. There must always be a line.

Personally, i find it dufficult to openly ask for replacement of Service chiefs or commanders so as not to give terroists the impression that they are winning or worst still that they can influence decisions in the country. However, at this point that is just the only option we have. These group of Service chiefs can no longer do their job. There is too much lethargy everywhere. We need new blood. New ideas and newer way of defeating the humongous security cahllenges we currently have in this nation.

People are dying. Change the Serviec chiefs. Change your strategy. Politics be damned!!!

Whether or not the service chiefs are changed it won't make any difference as long as it is politics based insurgence.

Citytrend:
I remember when Oshomole was the Nigerian Labour Congress Chairman. How he changed overnight is still a shocker.

Money + power=

abercrombie:
Churchill's abeg leave her she's frustrated

Seconded. He should rather blame what drew his attention to her.

BruncleZuma:


I wonder what MURIC would have to say about this...


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philip0906:
Naso...Where the real equality struggle should be fought. This is exactly where the concept of feminism makes sense...not overfed people in the free world enjoying everything but disturbing our ear drums with chants of feminism and you wonder what exactly they're fighting for.

Superiority

Mistaicey2288:
That man is a huge disgrace.. See how God humbled and humiliated him with the Bayelsa saga... And to think that there was a time i loved this particular man so much when he was NLC Chairman years back.. He fought for workers' well being then. But as they say, power and money change people. Same thing is what that Aso Rock weed smoking talkative Femi Adeshina is doing also at the moment...

NLC was just a cover-up. He had always been who he was and Obansojo knows him well. Hence the reason he installed Prof. Osumbo against the innocent people's will before Yar'Adua gave him back. If you go through all those Kangaroo declared strikes. You will notice that OBJ always had his way. I.e. fuel price increase from #30 to #100. Meanwhile the real intended is #50 even with Osho's alignment. Then he will go public with all the drama. And fuel is supposedly reduce from #100 to #50. And at the end a win win for the both. Check, no disagreement has ever been fully reversed to the normal. Another question is how he became so rich after NLC & governorship without trace of business before those time.

OgunLaakaye:
Tinubu is the next president of Nigeria!

Are you for real, old recircle politicians haven't and won't help the country. There are more exposed, digital and dynamic young qualified technocrats. But no it is doing the same thing & later praying for a different result.

chatinent:
If arrest be done on Beauty Scam, all ladies are guilty. They all have fake faces. Besides, Hauwa is NOT beautiful.

At bolded I thought I was the only one that noticed. Perhaps beauty is indeed in the eyes of the beholder.

Flyingngel:
This Bode and Tinubu wahala e be like say na the death of one of them go end am oo.
But on a serious note, I doubt Buhari and his cabal handing over to Tinubu.

You've stated the obvious. It will only take the grace of God for power to leave the North let alone Tinubu.

Eife:
Aunty Cossy olosho retirement message.

You nailed it

emeijeh:
Abi he go join queue to collect January 30k stipend?

Least I heard, they haven't paid them this year.

With all the news of insecurity you expect him not to skip. Even when the C in C was given warning on where and where not to visit in Nigeria that he was supposed to be governing.

September13:
O better

That's how some will be blaring siren in their Hilux especially in traffic, they will want to climb you over, give them way finish, u go see say na private plate number dey d car



Idiot pple

The beating one of such driver received last December was legendary. There was traffic yet the lunatic was driving like he was acting Buhari. He knocked down someone yet he didn't even come out of the car to give help or be apologetic. That angered the people around and behold a very good fluging and beating of his life. Funny enough he was supposed to be a man in his 50fts.

tribalistseun:
the thing pain you sha

nor be small. The guy dey work very hard to defend the #30k.

Fountainofyouth:
As for the sex thing, you are stupid for fvcking her, when you know you're getting hard on and whatnot with the friend, why didn't you move out and live with a friend or hotel till your wife gets back? You clearly have no tangible reason to have fvcked her mister, tell your wife and free yourself of the guilt.

Don't mind the ops. He actually desire to bed her. He got married for just 9 months and has already started what was inbuilt. Even if she slept in the same room naked and so what?! Eating what you want consciously and ignoring what you reject makes you a man. If he was a lose guy, he should have put up elsewhere pending when the wife returns making his reasons known to the wife.

Okay

gabinogem:
It's natural for humans to have sex whether val or not... nothing so special about this valentine's day. If today is special, then every single day is special as well. Humans just complicate their lives by themselves.

I wonder for this people oh. As a businessman, any day I make lots of sales with minimal expense. That is my Christmas, val or whatever day that is celebrated. Everyday is important.

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm... Mehn... This life seem really long and at the same time short, one's youthful age would just pass in split seconds.... Your saying at the end's so true..



It happened to my neighbour too.. She's got two daughters, her husband went to the UK after they did their wedding.. He came home just once and that once was like after 10years... He travelled back shortly... He later sent a text saying that she should find somebody else, he specifically said she should find someone that can satisfy her sexually... Imagine.. I never desired abroad based relationship ever since.. It's either we go together or we should manage Naija like that...

that is the reality of life commonly referred to as inside life. So many marriages have indeed suffered & broken up against their initial desire just by one wrong move let alone dating relationship. It has only favoured a very few hence the risk isn't worth it most times. The best way is hustle together get enough funds and move together. My cousin's wife had moved 3 years ago. He has been making plans on joining her. And now this recent visa restriction. He won't be able to join her soon nor she visiting as a none citizen. Na God go save homes. And help those yet to get married from marrying the wrong partners.