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MufasaLion:
Dude, live the life you want. My life ain't your business.

MufasaLion:
Sadly for you, I already know.

MufasaLion:
I have very good people around me. Next?

MufasaLion:
Damn! I'm very bad at checking up on people.

ahnie:
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He wasn't used and dump...she simply RECYCLED him.

blackpanthar:
THIS GENERATION ARE SO MYOPIC.... because they didnt read the right books and learn the UNFAIR LAWS of LIFE and RULES OF ENGAGEMENT.

BRO, learn this ONCE AND FOR ALL.... your FRIEND IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT... how you feel does not MATTER and WILL NEVER MATTER IN LIFE if you ever want to succeed.

NO BODY OWES YOU ANYTHING..... NO ONE.... I repeat... NO ONE.

the arrogant FEELING OF ENTITLEMENT is what has made people offended instead of challenged.

Our youths these days can not be CORRECTED without claiming it is TOXIC or WICKED.... see bro, it is time to GROW UP.

now let me help you with 5cents of balanced insight... so you stop seeing things from your emotional lenses

YOUR FRIEND HAS ONLY HEARD BADLUCK AND BADNEWS about your life from you..... NO WONDER HE WON'T HELP YOU... your BIG MOUTH CLOSED THAT DOOR ALREADY.

LEARN IT TODAY.... TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS IS NOT HELPFUL MOST TIMES BECAUSE 90% OF THE PEOPLE ARE HAPPY YOU HAVE THE PROBLEMS AND WILL SPREAD IT TO OTHERS.... 95% of the people CAN NOT HELP YOU.... AND the few ones that are really concerned and can help will have helped you before you ASK.... If your friend waited for you to ask... THAT IS NOT A CLOSE FRIEND. Be warned.

Now, let me speak from your friend's point of view... HE IS DOING A BUSINESS and HE IS SURVIVING, MAYBE NOT THRIVING, EVEN IF HE IS THRIVING.... then he sees another friend who is always complaining of setbacks, roadblocks and badluck often coming to want to JOIN HIS LINE OF BUSINESS.... and be his COMPETITOR....
HE WILL SEE YOU AS A THREAT NA ...He will also feel you will reduce his progress or may secretly feel you will do better than him.. SO HE WOULD NOT HELP.

HE HAS A LOT TO PROTECT.

We must be very careful in this life, to know how people see us before we trust them with anything... EVEN JESUS HAD TO KNOW HOW HIS DISCIPLES AND OUTSIDERS SAW HIM.... this is another sacred law of life.

YOU MAY THINK HE IS YOUR FRIEND, AND HE MAY LOOK AT YOU AS AN UNFORTUNATE ACQUAINTANCE.
Lastly, YOU SOUND DESPERATE... to even go further to reach him on whatsapp is desperation and that fake friendship will end this month.

Thank God for teaching you BITTER LESSONS that will make your life sweet.

NOW HERE ARE MY LITTLE SUGGESTIONS FOR SOLUTION

1) Disappear for 6 months or more(IF YOU CAN O) and create a NEW LIFE time table for yourself
2) get books on practical businesses, join whatsapp groups for free teachings- learn something you can start with no or little money
3)IF YOU ARE 101% SURE THAT YOU MUST START THE BIZ WITH MONEY... get 5-7 loan apps and borrow a sum of 100k from them(this should be a last resort else you life will go down) you can check nairaland for business ideas to do with little or no money, or just look around your area and FIND what is LACKING AND MEET THAT NEED.
4) START.. LAUNCH THE BUSINESS AND START MAKING INCOME like you calculated in your planning phase.
5) Don't buy luxury or even so much basic needs till you pay back the LOAN, so you can have peace.
6) before doing all these steps, FORGIVE YOUR FRIEND but NEVER EVER IN YOUR LIFE FORGET THE BITTER LESSON THEY TAUGHT YOU.
7) USE THE PROFIT FROM THIS FIRST BUSINESS TO MAKE THE BUSINESS VERY STRONG-get lawyers, accountants, assets like land,etc
GIVE BACK TO THE SOCIETY BY FINDING SOMEONE WHO IS WHERE YOUR LIFE WAS IN THE PAST MONTHS, THEN UNLIKE YOUR FRIEND, REACH OUT AND HELP THE PERSON OR PERSONS TO RISE.... But be wise because PEOPLE ASKING FOR HELP DON'T HAVE LIMIT O... so know your giving limit.

HE IS NOT A GLORY HUNTER.... infact he is trying to protect his little success from hawks and hyenas... He is doing it the wrong way.
YOUR GLORY IS INTACT BOSS, ONLY WOMEN CAN STEAL YOUR GLORY through sinful sex.... OR FETISH MEN CAN REMOVE YOUR STAR by taking something from you to a jazz man... but that is spiritual level, ask your alfa or pastor to explain.


I WISH YOU WELL BOSS... you will rise

PROVERBZ:
omo I de Bleep no reason am. But before my girl come I don put thing in other I no the like fall hand. I don buy watin she go chop. I don tell u make u give me chance for so so and so hours. And when we are done i go dismiss the banny jeje as not to cause discomfort for u.
Believe me unless they pay me or na party I no fit Bleep girl for room way person dey.

Better make i postpone the Bleep

itumafriday:
Inbox me to lean Bitcoin currency now that market is cool 08061744064 WhatsApp message only

BusinessDream:
1 year is a great start.... as long as you are good.

Udemy.com has some courses and there is Youtube.com too. 6 months enough if you master it within that timeframe and 1 year is a superb timeframe too.