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keep looking, sure u'll find something

I'd rather assist someone in need than give the money to a church, i think the church is already rich enough.

i give to charity and try to help people out whenever i can, to me that is my tithe paying.

it'll hard for me not to, if i have a gun in my face!!!!!!!!!!!!!i'm just being honest here,

exactly,

nah, i dont do anything complicated, but yeah, i come across a lot of them.

There are a whole lot of men around lekki, where i live, with wives and kids abroad and them here alone in naija, they travel rather often tho and their families come down for the holidays, a lot of them use a better standard of education for the kids abroad as an excuse to keep them there, trust me, it works for them!!!!!!!

he'd become fat, had a pot belly and his hairline was receeding too, i wondered what i ever saw in him.

Some men actually prefer that kinda thing, you find men in naija living alone while their wives and children are in america, its called being a "married bachelor", Sons of b*****s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

its not a big deal, as long as he and his baby mamma hate each other's guts or she is married or engaged to another man , dont want no drama in my life, abeg!!!!!!!!!!!

my dear, she obviously had no plans whatsoever to marry you in the first place, you were just a meal ticket, there's nothing you can do, accept it and move on, its not the end of the world, over time you'll get over all the hurt and pain.

best of luck!!

hell no!!!!!!!!!!!

chatterbox!!!!!!!

ganja man,

cheeky!!!

I like the way you **** me, no digitty!

That's sum freaky sh.it!, that would be a no and dats d last time he's seeing me!

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Nollywood rubbish!!!

Looooool!, @ pharisee, wickedly funny!!!

Five cutlasses, electric cables and a gallon of acid, looks like the tools of a serial killer to me!

I still feel bad about this but I was a child and didn't knw any better, my oldest sis was so strict when we were growing up, she never hesitated to punish you if she felt u'd done wrong, for a long time I thought she hated me. Anyway, one time after a rather painful "angle 90" punishment, and I had bawled my eyes out, she sent for me while I was jeje in the room trying to console myself and asked me to go get her a spoon, I went to d kitchen, picked up d spoon and for sum reason had a crazy idea to dip the spoon in the toilet bowl, which I did and gave it to her, she didn't suspect a thing, I stood there for a while watching her eat and smiled all the way back to my room, it was evil, but I felt a whole lot better,

Its totally inappriopriate! You get to an age where you're really aware of your body, it becomes kinda awkward to sleep in thesame room with your brother, but then again if you're poor or live in a 1 room face me -i- face you, then ure left with no choice.

Only once when I started my monthly thing (she didn't do a good job, she only ended up confusing me) and my mum sat me down for a very awkward mother and daughter bonding session. she said "now ure a woman, u must not talk or play with boys or you will grow a big stomach like uncle dele" her beer loving, pot bellied brother, for a long time I looked at my uncle funny, u can imagine what I was thinking!

What's with the contact number?

Doing it in a subtle way is cool, but oogling kinda gives me the feeling ure saying to yourself, "Chei! If I catch this girl ehn, the kain thing wey I go do am", and that's pervy!

People have different weird quirks, mine is that i cant sleep in any room that has a ticking clock going tick tock tick tock, it drives me crazy!!!!!!!!

looks like just sum regular mad man on the streets of lagos to me,

My dear, what's the point in loving someone who doesn't love you back? Its a no brainer, no one needs to tell you what to do, u know it already,

After all the advice, its up to you what you want and who you wanna be with. He sounds like a great guy, but you seem to be thinking without putting your future into consideration. You've got children coming you know, seems to me that's where the wahala will start from.