James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..


That's not your dad you're seeing, that's a guilty feeling from your subconscious manifesting itself in your dream...

Your dad has gone to rest, the rest do not bother with worldly debts, least of all to a religious institute

Remove the feeling of guilt from your mind and he will stop appearing to remind you
How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.

Islie:


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Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

LordIsaac:

Obviously, you are destitute of the ability to comprehend. Don't mention me again.

LordIsaac:

Do you know how many conclusions you've arrived at without pausing to know what is actually happening? Never carry that attitude into marriage lest you regret it. It is because of people like you the scripture says, "judge not"... And the law provided for nemo judex in causa sua as well as audi alterem partem. Be careful!

LordIsaac:
... The picture above ehn...

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Don't marry them....it will end in weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

Rabbi4real:
Earlier this month, a bride Anna went for no makeup on her big day. Anna not only ditched a makeover but also bridal accessories such as ear rings, jewelries and more yet she looked stunning.

She looked so stunning that guests wondered how more beautiful she would have looked if she adorned on makeup and bridal accessories.

Congratulations to Anna and her groom, Harrison!

See photos below:

Source: https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/31/ghanaian-bride-weds-without-makeup-and-accesories-yet-looks-amazing-photos/

EmekaBlue:
Nkiru why na...Husband snatcher

but just look at d wife...African women wont learn to keep fit after marriage, how do u xpect d man not to look outside when u be looking like a whale in d house

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

EzendiEgo1:
sharap there

What's wrong in sending nudes to people.

This is how they will be forming hijab, I am a child of God but check their phones you will see hundreds of their nude.

Rubbish women

jacarantha:
Which of the TV's? What size? They are not smart Tv's....
Settee's still available.

ChiefAzubuike1:
That boy should be freed and allowed to go in peace. Reports has it that girl was a sex freak and nymphomania. She only died due to the boys' sexual prowess. Its not his fault he took a concoction of doro webo, kick and start, dadabule, baby oku, ogidigba , alomo and la liga to impress he girl. He was only playing his part as a real strong man he ought to be.

MISEDUCATIONS:
you're just being mean because my words hurt you.

MISEDUCATIONS:
just date a younger, prettier, richer, lighter, thinner girl and your Ex will be begging you to come back faster than you can say "envy is a woman's weakness"

DrinkLimca:
The wife must be summoned by the councel of elders, for publicly humiliating the man and shattering his ego..

She should have told him privately, instead of calling him out in the open..

This is an insult to men worldwide, she must apologize or go back to her parents..

thesicilian:
Just she and her husband at home, no children and yet she still felt the need to have a complete stranger as a maid at home, despite her husband's objection.