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Money is very important, maybe not a lot, but it makes sense for a woman to be at least a bit financially stable before marriage. I don't ever want a liability on my hubby's neck. It feels good and you feel valued when you can actually contribute and add value to a relationship or marriage.

Tnx, but no tnx, Undergees are not my style!

Lol! Better not allow one of your wives catch you!

Nerdy, geeky looking guys.

Gold finger in between your legs

love lust

hate love

american gigolo, in between your legs!!

It's kinda painful to have that said to you, but i guess in the end it makes sense to tell someone you dnt love them anymore, if you feel that way.

what a way to break up tho!

Richfella:
We do not nag.

yes you do!!

some of you are worse than a fustrated housewife!

my best friend: my girl, d one I share all my secrets with, the one person I can tell my man problems to. The one that cheers me up when my man is acting up.

My boyfriend: d love of my life, the one I look forward to spending the rest of my life with.

Both of them doing it behind my back?

it'll be hard to forgive either.

Accompany a brother in the church to monitor a pastor in  a club?

He then paid for a guest house, where he forced himself on her in the middle of the night?

As much as i like to believe her story, as you know these kind of unfortunate things happen, her story stinks.

But, u never know, why dont you try reporting the matter to someone higher up in the church, that way he can be called to face a panel and then u'll find out if your woman has been telling porkies or not.

Now i see why you would rather sit back and pretend it never happened,

I feel for you and ur baby, i really do

Have you tried sending him a text message? See if that'll gear a response from him,

poster, u seriously need to get over yourself.

Omalichanwa:
Hw can i let my marriage go down the drain like that? What will i tell people? Hw can i bear the shame? Can i let another woman break up my marriage? What abt my baby? What if i just pretend like it didn't happen? Aren't all men naturally cheats?

, i cant believe you just typed what you did.!!

Your husband disrespected you in the highest way, by staying away from you (his wife) and kid for weeks, didnt even bother to call and then put hi ho on the phone to disrespect you even further and then you sit there in denial and blame her for your marriage break up.

You better fix up and look sharp!!!!!!!!!

na wa for some women o, pretend like it never happened, my ass!!!

That wasn't god, that was you having doubts about your relationship!

Love without trust is madness!

I'm not going to have someone tell me he loves, yet can't trust me and vice versa, dnt want no one calling me at odd hours of the day, going all james bond on me and asking all those "where are you", "why, how, when" questions, abeg!

Yep!

I have an aunt who can't cook to save even her life, but she's the nicest most accomodating person I know. Whenever I go visiting her and her family, she spoils me silly wih all kinds of food, (obviously made by the cook and supervised by her, or so she claims) but yeah! She's the best.

And best of all, my uncle doesn't see it as that big a deal.

Not saying its a good thing for a woman to be useless in the kitchen, only that sum pple are just that way but it doesn't mean they don't possess other qualities that make them good wives and mothers.

Not all single men, a few shallow ones tho, the minute the relationship starts getting deep and serious, they then start going all funny, looking for flimsy excuses why they can't commit. Like "my mother doesn't like her" or "she no sabi cook egusi soup"

Nonsense!!!

I don't see how its anyone else's business but yourself who your choice of a boyfriend should be.

It's your choice, do whoever or whatever makes you happy.

My cousin (male) once told me "when you're in a relationship, create room in your heart for any phuck ups, coz most likely it will happen"!

Most of the time, cheating is not even because the relationship is lacking excitement, you could give your man/woman your all and they might still cheat on you.

So coz of that, I can't fit to stress myself over anybody, the moment he cheats, I don begin condition my mind already. No need for any reaction, ill just know to myself that it marks the beginning of the end for us.

Oh yes!

Especially the clingy, attention seeking type. (Yes! Such men exist).

I'm actually currently being "toasted" by one of such, I swear he makes me want to take a gun and shoot myself in the head!

Hope you know say one day she'll wake up chasing you with a weapon, wondering how the phuck she ended up with you.

Nothing lasts forever, least of all juju influenced fake love!

I would obviously be seeing red at the time, but I would take a laugh it off and calmly tell her to tell him that for his sake and for half of what his sorry ass owns it had better be a joke!

i miss u, at least that could actually be believable.

Auto transmission Kia Soul: 2.9m naira.

Colours available are: midnight black, sunset orange, java brown, stone blue, sweet red and titanium silver.

Cheers!

The kia rio models (made for the nigeria market and distributed by dana motors) do not come with airbags, they are instead ordered with seat belt pretensioners, this is obviously to minimize cost, i get a lot of schtik from customers, wondering, "in this age and time, a brand new car with no airbags"?

but what can i say?, since there is no regulatory body in nigeria for such things, major distributors are free to do as they please,

Its really unfair to the consumers, but you will be surprised to find out that a lot of consumers dont really mind the absence od airbags in the rio, its still our highest selling model funny enough.

Most people that buy "kia", do so because of only one factor: price! they are less expensive than a lot of other brands, kia consumers are not looking or buying luxury, all they want is a car that can get them from point a to b and will not give them the kind of problems a fairly used vehicle will, they are looking for fuel efficiency and cheap to maintain, that wat kia offers,

i drive a Rio funny enough, for me its an easy drive, dnt spend much on gas, gets me wherever i want to go, thats all i need in a car for now.

@ poster, Honestly, the age thing is really "mind over matter", if you both dont mind the age difference, then it doesnt matter,

But i think your problem is that you're just not ready to settle down , or maybe not with this particular guy.

it's totally disrespectful, i wont even slap my hubby in private, not to now talk of in full public view,

That's coz at d end of d day that's wat it boils down to, when pple complain about a change in their partners, they dnt stop to take an inward look at themselves and wonder if they've in any way contributed to the change in their partners.

Take for instance, sumone I knw was complaining about how his once quiet,meek and loving wife had become a bitter, nagging and angry woman (implying dat she hid her thru colours at d early stages), without even considering d emotional truama d poor woman had been thru as a result of his many extra marital affairs.

In this case, would you blame the woman?

Weird stuff, wat if ur body itches whenever you jog or walk long distance, usually from d waist down to the legs and it only happens whenever I travel abroad in winter.

Sorry poster, I didn't wanna create another thread.