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acidtalk: thumbs up.
Guy it appears only a hand full of us actually reason on this forum (Nigeria as a whole).
And yet this same people sit and watch hundreds waste in various state of the North each day.
Sit and watch people being kidnapped and killed in the South East and South South.



I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THIS GENERATION!!!

Met people like you on my way up....all noise & no action.
Act like babies in real life & then suddenly become grown ups in faceless forums attacking everyone & everything in sight without presenting an option.
Open a thread on protests in naija and what you want to agitate on & stop derailing the the thread joo

shymexx: Protest against Aluu community because of the death of four people..

But too cowardly to protest against the ruling elites over the death and improvishment of millions of Nigerians...

Cowardly and silly Nigerians - you guy have the lowest IQs on this planet!!!!!!

Most people are protesting it not because of the deaths but the manner of deaths.
People die everyday & CNN doesn't report it but to kill people like they were less than animals should make any normal person to pause & think.
And it has nothing to do with IQ. Just human compassion.

ebukaeze00: IM SO LOVING THIS

1 where do you get your infos from.....dude iphones stopped scratching from the 4th generation ie iphone 4, 4S and 5 dont scratch
2 did you just say camera back off the iphone 5 is in retina display and has a 8MP camera 3264x2448 pixels, autofocus, LED flash and can shoot videos up to 1080p,so calm down and stop bluffing
3 hmmmmmm okay about the non expandable memory, you have a point there.... but you can use remote servers such as Dropbox
4 stop mentioning resolutions here..... the iphone 5 has a resolution of about 640 x 1136 pixels
5 Bluetooth? is that your problem? well theres a solution to that.... with a jailbroken iphone you can exchange files over bluetooth with iBluenova or ibluetooth(ios 2&3)then celeste bluetooth (ios 4&5) but all these would be done via cydia

6 Slavery to itunes? hell no once an idevice is jailbroken you can use a file manager tool named ifile to browse through your files so you can copy and paste from your desktop or use applications like xilisoft or ifunbox

7 conversion of files is just a waste of time bro.... theres a VLC player for the iphone so all you need to do is paste any media format on the vlc player via flie sharing and thats it

8 i've explained that already......you can watch any media file on your iphone through VLC Player.....

9 why buy music from itunes store..... install safari download manager plug-in with the help of cydia and download anything on the go from the internet

10 with all ive just said here i wanna let you all know that almost everything is possible with your iphone and if you wanna get to talk to me more or if youre having any problem with your idevice or you wanna perform a factory unlock for iphone 4,4S or 5 (AT&T only), jailbreak or get as much as 200 Apps and games (FIFA, PES, ASSASINS CREED, NFS etc) holla at me

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1. Iphone 5 scratches. Something that has to do with aniodised surface.
2. Iphone 4S camera is better. You can read these 2 points in reviews.
3. Resolution on the S3 is higher. The only reason it has a lower ppi is because of the larger screen.
4. Cydia is not pre installed and jailbreaking ur iphone voids warranty.
Plus all these stuff costs extra money.

ebukaeze00: IM SO LOVING THIS

1 where do you get your infos from.....dude iphones stopped scratching from the 4th generation ie iphone 4, 4S and 5 dont scratch
2 did you just say camera back off the iphone 5 is in retina display and has a 8MP camera 3264x2448 pixels, autofocus, LED flash and can shoot videos up to 1080p,so calm down and stop bluffing
3 hmmmmmm okay about the non expandable memory, you have a point there.... but you can use remote servers such as Dropbox
4 stop mentioning resolutions here..... the iphone 5 has a resolution of about 640 x 1136 pixels
5 Bluetooth? is that your problem? well theres a solution to that.... with a jailbroken iphone you can exchange files over bluetooth with iBluenova or ibluetooth(ios 2&3)then celeste bluetooth (ios 4&5) but all these would be done via cydia

6 Slavery to itunes? hell no once an idevice is jailbroken you can use a file manager tool named ifile to browse through your files so you can copy and paste from your desktop or use applications like xilisoft or ifunbox

7 conversion of files is just a waste of time bro.... theres a VLC player for the iphone so all you need to do is paste any media format on the vlc player via flie sharing and thats it

8 i've explained that already......you can watch any media file on your iphone through VLC Player.....

9 why buy music from itunes store..... install safari download manager plug-in with the help of cydia and download anything on the go from the internet

10 with all ive just said here i wanna let you all know that almost everything is possible with your iphone and if you wanna get to talk to me more or if youre having any problem with your idevice or you wanna perform a factory unlock for iphone 4,4S or 5 (AT&T only), jailbreak or get as much as 200 Apps and games (FIFA, PES, ASSASINS CREED, NFS etc) holla at me

appleprokid93@gmail.com
BB PIN 290BBA54
08033847320.... Thanks

1. Iphone 5 scratches. Something that has to do with aniodised surface.
2. Iphone 4S camera is better. You can read these 2 points in reviews.
3. Cydia is not pre installed and jailbreaking ur iphone voids warranty

1. The samsung doesn't scratch while the iphone 5 does.
2. The camera is better on the S3 than the iphone 5. Even the iphone 4S has a better battery.
3. I've used up the memory on my iphone 3gs 16G since & have to keep deleting stuff on it everytime I want to add stuff. Non expandable memory is a problem.
4. 326 & 320 ppi are both the same thing to a naked eye so resolution isn't much to brag about.
5.No bluetooth connectivity to receive files like pictures & music on the go in Iphone
6. No slavery to itunes to do everything from adding a picture to loading music.
7. Its basically not for someone who isn't a tech savie....lots of format need to be converted on itunes.
8. Video formats like divx & others not supported.
9. Can't even go into other features like the warped maps on iphone 5, purplish tinge to the camera and the fact that the itunes store isn't a fully functional one in Nigeria(& I don't expect anyone to reply to this last statement unless you're using an iphone personally & I've tried to buy music from their store)
10. Can't exhaust the list.

djkaneo: a tithe of 35million.....that's 10% of 3.5billion!!! Where does he work....FORT KNOX?

Two extremely unintelligent & subliterate conclusion.
10% of 3.5billion is 350million.
Fort knox is an army post & quite different in more ways than one from Silicon valley to which you could have intelligently alluded to.

naijalien: First and foremost, understand that ignorance is not an excuse under the law. The facts are clear that stolen money was paid to the Churches. It now behoves on all Churches and religious bodies to take necessary due diligence to avoid money being laundered through them in the name of tithes and offerings. There is nothing that stops a Church for instance by insisting that all tithes and offerings above a certain amount say N50,000.00 be made payable in check or bank draft. Besides the Money laundering law makes it an offence for an individual to make a cash transaction of more than N5,000,000.00 and a corporate entity more than N10,000,000.00. So it does not even make a good case for the clergy men to say that N45m cash was paid as tithe without resorting to a financial institution for such payment (Money Laundering Act 2011, Section 1).

The Churches must put in place safeguards to avoid bringing shame to itself like in this instance and that is called "Due Diligence". In a society like Nigeria with so many corrupt politicians and fraudsters, it is the right thing to do to avoid this type of embarassment. Let they that have ears, listen!

Your post reeks of ignorance & verbose talks that's why you're the only person I'll be replying.
The law doesn't say that transactions above that amount shouldn't hold.....it mandates the Banks to notify EFCC of such transactions.
The fact that u make transactions in the range of 10k to 50k doesn't mean that there are no legitimate transactions that run into millions AND billions.
And you need to read up the definition of money laundering yourself.
Hope I've helped you though

Why there's no gainsaying that even the whites, the Jews & the Arabs don't neccesarily see the blackman as their equal,the blackman shouldn't personally earn the right to always feel victimised everytime.
Don't know much about WHY they were deported but I'm sure its cos they dint fulfil some criteria.
Nigerians are getting so used to cutting corner mentality & "it doesn't really matter" that everytime the law is made to bear its full weight on us....we see color discrimination everywhere.
Nigeria as a secular state will be much beneficial to the masses than a religious one. Thousands of xtians & muslims jostle yearly to be sent on holy pilgrimage without any criteria being used. Some peoplehave been there 5 times whilesome are yet to go in a country where nothing is through a fair process.
There's no reason why they shouldn't be deported if they dint fulfil all the requirements & that doesn't call for any names calling.
NB: would have thought this post would have been about castigating our govt about improperly thoughtout policies and not throwing abuses along religious & ethnic lines.

People get sacked for less than this in 'decent' societies & I'm not even talking about xtain or the western world.
That's like asking that you'll pay someone for murder. Why can't he go there himself & kill him with his own hands or he's too big for that?
Don't know how people expect that their beliefs & sentiments should be respected in a superior country that's over 5,000 miles away from you & which operate under different law & belief system.
People like him give islam a bad name.

BetaThings: So what are Nigerian christians doing in UAE, Malaysia etc
Who tagged Islam dangerous? People who misunderstand it?

Ask yourself, are christians peaceful? Did Muslims start WW1 and WW2? Did they cause Bakassi problem? Who championed apartheid?
Am I to believe that christians hate oppression and violence only if not done by them?

This issue of "what are christians doing in ....." Or the US attacked ....is so lame & gets tiring really.
So if the US meets life in the moon & conquers them....they're propagating christianity there?
These so called people discovered America & more than half of Africa....they dint come there because they were Muslims. They came because they were new lands to conquer.
The US can't owe anyone any apology if they're predominantly christian and all their acts gets termed as a religious conquest.
Islam came as a late comer into the game & can't expect to catch up witha religion that's has been on ground for centuries in one day.
South Africa gained independence when? I'm sure it would be a case of xtian oppresing someone if they were majorly muslims.
This world would be a better place if most people(esp Muslims) realise that countries in the west take decisions secularly & not as a christian nation....and they should be happy that way cos wiping the whole of the Arab world from the face of this planet isn't something that would take a whole year to do if the so called "christian" western states decide to do that.

Akson man: Some Nigerians r FOOLISH. The US version of this song was single handedly banned by many US tv stations, including BET. Some self hating Nigerians dont know the meaning of dignity,even in poverty. So, just because ones body is full of sores,he should walk around unclad for the world to see...afterall it's the truth.
God bless the likes of Bollywood's Amitab Bachchan who came out and condemed Slumdog millionaire cos it was grossly one sided and it was produced by a British director.
Look at M.I, a Nigerian artiste that is addicted to wearing American clothes from head to toe,allowing his editor come up with this sh1t. Maybe if people like M.I patronized more made in Nigeria clothes,it could help a tailor living in lagos slums out of poverty.
Is it the government that will give jobs to every single poor Nigerian?
Many Dumb Nigerians do not know that Rick Ross used his 'Hold me back' Nigeria video to send a message back to the US people that banned his original version.
He's telling them,"You thought my portrayal of US poverty was bad? Check out what goes down in Nigeria."
And here we have some silly Nigerians praising him. Mugus

Lovely inference....
Your reference to Slumdog Millionaire is out of the way though...Amitab is entitled to his own opinion & if he feels the film dint represent India well.....then he needs to step out of his circle.
Amitab isn't God by the way & his opinion of the film doesn't even move my empty wallet. This same film had 8 Academy awards...the whole 4 Golden globe awards & 7 BAFTA awards & someone somewhere is still talking about insulted sensibilities.
Wondering if there would be any rancour if Rozay sat down popping Rozay in a ranch style Banana island crib.
And all this talk about the international community.....as if Nigeria was ever a tourist destination. The only reason the whites come here is to rip us off pure & simple & this idea of re branding our self doesn't go anywhere in the outside world.
& don't expect MI to dress differently from you(he schooled in the US dude)....I'm sure you don't patronise your local tailor too.
You can't be portraying what less than 5%of the population enjoy as the other positive side...Nigeria is quite big & less than half of a dollar a day for most Nigerians is very real friend.

Blackteeth: This is not really about a video portraying the truth about the situation of Nigeria. But the fact is that the video should have portrayed both the positive and negative together so that it wouldnt look as if Nigeria is 100% slums. Some foreigners may think Nigeria is 100% slums just watching that video. And thats not really nice. Things like this is what fires up racism and portrayal of the black man as sub-humans.

Calling a place the town of the blind doesn't necessarily mean everyone in the town is blind but when there are 10 people in a town & 9 of them are blind....calling them. The town of the blind isn't out of place.
Even the so called decent aren't what they used to be.
Abuja barely has a working traffic light(& that's the national capital).....driving there is chaotic at its best.....even the road is almost back to what it was before it was decided that it should be the national capital(don't know what it was then actually). The road to Silverbird in Abuja is actually worse than the road to my house & my house is still doesn't have the top 200 roads in my state.
There are not enough positive aspects to this country like that unless he decides to shoot his video in peoples living room or lawns.

madridguy: most of christian have been brain washed. read this and know some things about the 9/11 attack.

http://whatreallyhappened.com/WRHARTICLES/fiveisraelis.html

http://www.washingtonsblog.com/2012/03/secret-service-failures-on-911-a-call-for-transparency.html

http://shoestring911..com/2009/12/90-minute-stand-down-on-911-why-was.html

http://911research.wtc7.net/disinfo/alibis/bush.html

about the boko haram here. ask yourself about the 3 christian trying to bomb their various churches.

So we should believe everything read here as against the fact that the plane was flown by known terrorist.
We should disregard Osamas claim & call him a liar?
We should disregard the obvious & look for the conspiracy theory behind it?
The only obvious thing....America was bombed & Afghan had to suffer for hiding a terrorist.
Ame way we should ignore the death of four people in Benghazi & look for the hidden riddles....we should overlook the burning of embassies in Libya & untuly demonstrations in Other countries & blame it on what again?
So if a yoruba man shows the Fulani the inroad to his village & they whole village is plundered & raped....that means the attack is carried out by a Yoruba man right?
Read thru this....take a nap & go thru it again & if it still doesn't make any sense to you. Then enroll in an Adult Education programme cos these things aren't even Rocket science

Yomieluv: The western world are the cause of problems in the world,mostly Africa...Africa is more peaceful beFore the coming of the westerners..bringing confusion to the world...they never wanted our unity at all..I hope people will be wise enough to know this,and avoid any form of chaos,and destruction..God bless Africa.

If you have the time & the understanding.....read about the rise & fall of the Sokoto Caliphate & the Ottoman empire & you'll understand that war & strifes & rifes had always been in Africa before the advent of the whites & even any foreigner at all.
May God bless your ignorance

Builder: What conspiracy is there in my statement.. the USA have invaded more countries and enslave more people in the world than any other.. their handiwork in there everywhere to see, dont u read history or dont you listen to news at all.. in the same breath islam have done alot of baberic killings and other forms of damage to question the "religion of peace" mantra . Lord help me, must everything be conpiracy theory to u or u just dont know the meaning.. it baffles me why people cant argue objectively. u better start using ur commonsense while its still legal

Logical thinking.
But US is not a golden sceptre of christianity and they're not fighting a religious war Bro. They're mainly reaping you off for being backward & a lil retarded....Same thing the Lebanese engineers are doing here....& the Egyptian Doctors in Nigeria.
US is not the seat of christianity...it is in the heart of christians everywhere.

shymexx: So rich, they can't afford where I'm from in Lagos, and they had to settle for somewhere on the mainland lol... Like I give two fvcks about those clowns - I don't even see them..

Yo, eat a dyck!

Keep living in ur self induced world of stardom. Hiding behind the anonymosity of the web to spew us thrash about ur imagined world of opulence.
Keep competing with brand names in ur dreams. Like ur next street neighbour would recognise you on screen even if they had ur name spelt out.
Why not buy the whole island if you're that rich.
We're more interested in what comes out of that box on ur neck(which is obviously crap) that where you come from dude

vedaxcool: Lol You are begining to sound like Rommny, I said what I said . . .see how your statements are hunting you, your logic is summarize as follow, Human avenging on God behalf is showing God as being incapable of defending himself yet when God mandated the Jews to stone to death blasphemers the humans were avenging for God, no? lol! the same line of reasoning simply implies that God can decide to use human to avenge for him. After quoting your real master Paul, I ask why did Paul contradict Jesus? Clearly Jesus said he did not come to abolish the law, now you then say make irrelevant i ask what language are reading the bible in? Are implying Jesus is lying or contradicting himself? How is it with the same mouth Jesus said let me put it in your terms, I did not come to abolish the law but to make it irrelevant, dude something is just not right with the way you guys reason!

Your power of deduction is amazing.
You cover up your ignorance with satirical comments like you're in a theatre.
Do you really have to make anyone reading this section to be so bright?
How can you pick a whole book...read a couple of lines, base all your intellectual & not so intellectual arguments on that & keep repeating yourself like a broken record against voice of reason. Andromida, Tor Gunn & others still have the patience to keep pointing out facts that will even be obvious to a Mongol(that's a derogatory statement for a retard by the way) & you keep expecting everyone to think that you're not just bright enough to understand it?
You need to drop all these childish acts really. Its just not cool anymore
And see these as a constructive advice........unless you're expecting me to literarily come & mold you

vedaxcool: Lol You are begining to sound like Rommny, I said what I said . . .see how your statements are hunting you, your logic is summarize as follow, Human avenging on God behalf is showing God as being incapable of defending himself yet when God mandated the Jews to stone to death blasphemers the humans were avenging for God, no? lol! the same line of reasoning simply implies that God can decide to use human to avenge for him. After quoting your real master Paul, I ask why did Paul contradict Jesus? Clearly Jesus said he did not come to abolish the law, now you then say make irrelevant i ask what language are reading the bible in? Are implying Jesus is lying or contradicting himself? How is it with the same mouth Jesus said let me put it in your terms, I did not come to abolish the law but to make it irrelevant, dude something is just not right with the way you guys reason!

Your power of deduction is amazing.
You cover up your ignorance with satirical comments like you're in theatre.
Do you really have to make anyone reading this section to be so bright?
How can you pick a whole book...read a couple of lines & keep repeating yourself like a broken record. Anromida, TorGunn & others keepg points that will even be obvious to a Mongol(that's a derogatory statement for a retard by the way) & you keep expecting everyone to think that you're not just bright enough to understand it?
You need to drop all these childish acts really. Its just not cool anymore

musKeeto: Was that necessary? I'll let you off today, sha...
Please, show me a verse where the Bible says Christians should marry as virgins? BEWARE: Make sure I do not have to think rationally to understand the verse.

Sorry about the wrong use of words....was carried away The mortal man still takes over at times
The idea is not being a virgin(that wouldn't leave room for repentance for those that have already lost it)..it is not to go repeat the same things you did as a carnal or worldly person again after becoming spirit filled.( The use of the carnal & worldly & spirit filled is to prevent any rational decoding of the words here as you humbly asked for)

gbadexy: Big deal, is It only france that one can be successful?
@ frosbel, what is violent in hackers taking down a website? Prejudice makes one stupid and incapable of objective reasoning.
I expect any rational person to condemn unnecessary acts of provocation by greedy people trying to make sales at the expense of innocent people rather than attacking Islam.
If muslims say they don't want people insulting their religion and prophet, is it too much to ask? Why can't people respect their wishes too?

People condemn acts of violence & irrational thinking of course.
We don't want criminals & murderers amongst us.....does that mean they won't show up?
Its quite pathetic for a lone voice shouting to billions of people telling them not to cause "provocation". As if people always listen. Even when there are death penalties....people still break the law. And you in ur small mind now expect that whenever there's a publication on Allah....it should be termed as a provacation & the provocatuer sentenced to death. Shame on you
You come to the West to build Mosques & live there comfortably enjoying this same freedom of speech & religion & now turn around when its being used screaming that the West & their useless Freedoms should be curtailed.
Have you ever wondered why no Muslim has benn murdered in the Western countries since the beginning of all these incessant religious turgado? Why people will still demonstrate on the street of London in the midst of the so called western hatred & aren't afraid? Why the millions of Muslims in America haven't been attacked yet even after killing their Ambassador?
1.Because the Govt believe in freedom & protection of Human right.
2. Because xtianity is so deeply entrenched that its just not normal for a xtian to do such.
That should get you thinking why Muslims are afraid of xtians & their churches & tries as much as possible to tear down churches in their own part of the world as opposed to the open welcome they get from xtian dominated areas.
Ponder on the reason why there are Mosques in Rome & no church in Saudi.
Xtians believe in leading by example....Islam is all about shrouding people in ignorance & illiteracy. That's why they're always afraid of their children being westernised. BECAUSE THE DIFFERENCE IN THE TWO IS ALWAYS GLARING.

alkadriyar: you are all fools and ur hearts will continue to be darkened by the western policies.
Did muslims call for this or the publishers of such cartoons and videos? And tell me where the God u worship encourages u to provoke others. Will that make peace or violence?
Continue to chase shadow.
U people will neva succeed Inshaallah.

God bless your ignorance
Succed in what?
This is what happens when people refuse to be literate......they appear so dim that they make others look too intelligent.
Not all conflicts are religious.....people will always be people. The fact that someone put up such picture doesn't mean he's a devout xtian or that he's even a xtian at that.
Saddam turned biological weapon on his own people....does that make him anti islam? But if it was a xtian...it would suddenly be the xtian against the Muslim.
Its not anyones fault that the Muslim world is behind.....international politics has a far wider reach than religion.
The 1st & 2nd world war wasn't about religion for crying out loud.
Anyone can post a picture & the fact that he did it & he's a xtian doesn't mean he's representing xtians or xtianity as he won't have any scripture to back it up which is different from the other religion where every hate crime & violence is backed up with the Holy Script.

musKeeto: What's amazing is how y'all think that it's only Xtians that remain celibate till marriage... That's a complete fallacy. Xtians are just better at pretending.. So if u're going into a relationship cos u want to remain virtuous, I wonder what would happen after all 'the knowing'...

You're really not the brightest crayon in the pack are you? The idea isn't about going into a relationship cos you want to remain virtuos.........its cos that's what the bible tells you. Unless you don't believe the bible which is a different topic entirely.
Thinking rationally doesn't explain these things......they're spiritual things that require spiritual understanding.

[color=#990000][/color][quote author=Okija_juju]I've been hounding the Muslims in the muslim section o.. Finally got my a-ss banned till christmas.. Lol[/quote]Lollllllll. Can't help laughing at it.

lat4real: How can you portrayed me as something(that you know it's a lie and deplorabe) and be expecting to be singing your praise? Mehn! i wonder how some people think atimes. You came from no where and called me BASTARD in front of my parent and (in order to avoid violent), my parent should aplause you or keep mute? SMH for some people sha

That's the utmost disregard for HUMAN LIFE I've read about. This people that were killed are human beings like you & I without an inkling of who made the film & what the film was all about.
The argument would have made more sense if they had even killed the guy that made the film but.....
Its sad

shymexx: Who's this pygmy?

Did you just read that word Or you forget to take ur med?
Go back to ur primary school(guess twas the foundation that was faulty) & ask for a refund. and stop acting like someone with a recurring urge to be silly cos you're actually getting better at it everyday.

shymexx: Fam, stop sounding ignorant... Can't you see the guy wrote that song? If not - why do you think he was allowed to sing two verses? And his part actually made the song...

Shallow thinking.....& it was those two verses that pushed P Square to limelight? . You need to think with your brain oo....that's why its up there.

shymexx: Fam, stop sounding ignorant... Can't you see the guy wrote that song? If not - why do you think he was allowed to sing two verses? And his part actually made the song...

Shallow thinking.....& it was. Those two songs that pushed P Square to limelight? . You need to think with your brain oo....that's why its up there.

shymexx: Can they sing for shyte? - they're just entertainers just like 99% of Nigerian artists, nothing special...

But why are they blocking a guy, that can actually sing??

So what do you want? Funeral songs? Listen to Bach or play the New York Harmonium but don't hate. Don't even know May D but if you're so much in love with him...buy his album for blads sake.

[quote author=Duke_Nija]People have different reasons for ending their love relationships, and these reasons ultimately determine the level of communication or friendship between both parties.(No need to explain this)

I am friends with my ex's. They call me. I make them laugh.
I've been talking with one of them for the past two days. She says she thinks bout me. She has a new dude [/quote]That's why there have to be boundarieS......because keeping in touch everytime makes room for someone to fall back in love believe me. I have my exes as contacts & we talk once in MONTHS but keeping close touch(whatever 'friends'mean though) isn't healthy for anyone.
This is someone you've been every intimate with...you know their weak point & you were once on fire for them. Sooner or later...someone will start feeling the spark again. Not wise in my opinion except as a contact on a phone.
The 'wise' ones will talk about being matured though, like they really are when it comes to love things

@OP. Somtething like this happened recently in my family. My Mom & Dad have been married for over 35 years & they've always been the ideal couple to me.
I hear lots of stuff at work about infidelity in marriage & all but never hadthe experience first hand.
My mum caught my Dad cheating with a woman who's his junior employee in his place of work and she went ballisitic. She called us all(the children) explaining how he has ruined her life & dissapointed her & all.
They had to go for marriage counselling and even had to inform the church Pastor to pray.
Head & tail is that she still feels bitter about it till today & looks for every opportunity to mention it & really....I don't care if it was right or wrong anymore & so. Do the other children.
A lot of people will advice you to tear the whole house down....inform your Uncle or parent or the president. The truth is....HE TOLD you himself(though I really doubt the wisdom in that action itself) & I'd like to assume its a restoration path for himself.
The least you can do is to forgive & as hard as it seems....you just have to learn.
I've seen what it can do first hand to a loving home but I'll advise you to now love him more.....put in an extra effort to show more care...& ABOVE all else, Try as much as possible not to dwell too much on the past.
There's usually the first stage of repentance & remorse....but then whenyou keep bringing it up...you then buildup resentment cos then he'll start rationalising that peeps do it everyday(half of the folks dropping comments on this thread have or their spouses believe me) & keep wondering why you're adopting this saintly attitude even after he told you himself....& the last thing is that he'll just not care what your opinion is anymore.
If you keep on reminding daily that I'm a thief cos you caught me stealing...it'll get to time that I'll tell you to go to hell & do ur worst.
I pray you to please work on yourself & make things back to normal knowing though that its one of the most difficult things to do justto forget it like that.
My parents are still together & are doing fine now(outwardly) but I still hold on to the memories of what I know. My dad took care of us well...I had my first car just after Sec school & my Mom was well taken care of by him...its still a dissappointment even to me but I still feel that he made a mistake he's obviously regretted & I still feel happy I never grew up in a broken home.
I'm 31 now & rather young to be giving advice on such but you have to consider the future of your children...yourself AND your husband. Nobody wants a broken home & I strongly feel that you don't too. Anyone advising you to inform your family so that they'll act as support is only misleading you.....make a personal decision to make it work and above all...FORGIVE HIM & try as possibleto forget(not easy though)