That's a very unfair treatment. If your wife cheats, leave her if you can't forgive her. Period.

This is not the punishment for adultery. If the woman has liver she can sue him in court for abuse and unjust torture. People will shout that she should be ashamed but law is law. She will win. The man can not claim that he reacted on impulse. In fact I think it's something else that is paining the man

ststyreal:

Do to others as you would they do unto you.

That's a better way to put it.

Thank you (and I seriously mean that)

iamleumas:


Thanks so much...
Please who am I unto?

Are you afraid because I called your name? You think I don't know you because you are hiding on nairaland....

Continue

iamleumas:


What do you mean?

Why are you giving out your number on a public forum? Go and remove it joo.

iamleumas:


Call/whatsapp 07064272729

Samuel stop that nonsense. You hear?

UjuJoan2:


And you are somebody's husband?

Yes, I am. That's what i said earlier. You have problem with that?

Safiaa:
Why go through the stress? Stay faithful.

Thanks. I do try. It's not like I'm that randy o. In fact old age is catching up on me already so I don't play these games as such. I'm just voicing out my opinion.

I swear I have never and will never use any of those lines. I am pretty honest about it, I don't even lie that I want to be your friend.

I tell them straight up - I am married with kids. I'm not looking for a wife and I don't do girlfriend or mistress runs. I'm just looking for friends with benefits. We just take care of each other in different ways.

Generally, You don't have to hop into bed or get down with me but don't form for me either. Don't tell me to go and meet my wife for sex when you won't go and meet your boyfriends or parents for your wants. I can supply your needs if I see that you are truly in need but as a matter of principle I leave girls alone when I am helping them financially. I feel like I'm getting paid for something I should just do for God.

Why am I saying this self? Guess I'm bored

Iseeit:


Dear, I have answered that question over and over again... I said I work in building sites, but couldn't make any savings because the work doesn't come always as I use my savings to feed when we don't have work. The cycle has been repeating itself till this moment. Anyone who serve mesine can understand this more.

Is that mason you tried to write? Where did you graduate from? I think you should simply look for money to feed o. Just apologize for harassing and deceiving us and I'll get 10k to you on Monday

1. Why would you threaten total strangers with your death? If your folks don't care why do you think we will?

2. How can you be asking for money online without dropping your account number? You wan collect the money for dream? Is it that you are dumb or i am blind?

3. It's not enough to drop some ambiguous stories. What is your name? Where did you graduate from? Can you share some details? If you're desperate to contemplate suicide, sharing personal details should not be an issue.

4. Post your account details if you're serious. Let's start from there.

Adebimpe231.... good try. At least you're smarter than this poster. Wetin you wan take the money do sha?

mofeoluwadassah:
she should have cut off that thing dangling btw his thigh

Are you for real? Thank God you voiced it out sha.
Caveat Emptor!!!

Danielmoore:
I pray he doesn't start fvcking customers

If he fvcks customers, he's a gigolo. If he doesn't, he's gay. Na proper catch 22 be that o.

The girl is GREED personified.

I would just have told her to go share the airtime with her siblings.

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SamuelAnyawu:
Aswear this Oshimole wife fine die

But my Fiancee is Prettier

If your fiance is prettier than person wey "fine die", where does that put your fiance? I nor talk anything o but be careful with your comparisons.

chimah3:
Let me comment on this from another angle...


Parents should start learning to treat these househelps with love...so they can treat their children properly when they are not around!!

Your comment is from a reasonable angle. Some of these so called wicked househelps learn their wickedness from their masters/mistresses. Many of them are already bitter because of their portion in life, the least we can do is to show them that you can still treat other people fairly and with dignity even when you're not happy with them.

Few of them will not respond to love but we'll definitely have less of these issues.

Do as you would be done by. Beat or correct them with love, give them hope, don't mess up their dignity or self esteem. You may be a beneficiary of whatever they turn out to be.

She "COLLECTED ..... on behalf of ..... " may actually sound better.

Abeg nor vex if you nor like my correction. Who English epp self?

I can't cancel the wedding for this reason o. Na only food we go chop? There are alternative arrangements that can make up for deficient culinary skills. However, if she says she doesn't know what a condom is used for....... then na wahala. I'm not saying she must have used it but at least she suppose know. Otherwise, her naivety no go get part 2. And there are not many godly alternatives for deficient bedroom skills.

My point is that funny enough, I'll pick the girl that doesn't know what a pestle and mortar is used for ahead of a babe that will tell me she doesn't know what a condom is used for.

Nice try @OP. At least you got some attention. Don't listen to naysayers in life. Let's know the outcome of your mail to nyanfunyanfu. Also follow up on the link provided by dazzi. Please let's know how it goes.

Raayah's response is not totally out of place. She's just blunt. So I ask you again. What happens to your family if you get the school fees and can not do business to raise money to support your family. I'm really concerned about that.

All the best.

APCLyingBastard:
Crude is projected to crash as low as $20.

How will they fund this deficit reckless budget?

I don't know if someone had time to reply you but from my simple understanding of the budget, oil revenue is 820 Billion naira out of total projected revenue of 3.86 trillion naira. That is about 21.2% of the anticipated revenue. Therefore oil price shortfalls will have a direct effect on that part of the revenue. They'll be short by maximum of 388 billion naira (considering that the oil price will not fall to $20 on January 1 and stay there till december 31). Of course we can't rule out indirect effects but the outlook is not as bad as if they had focused on oil as the major source of the projected revenue. They are already planning to borrow >2 trillion naira so the shortfall may easily find its way into the borrowing too.

PS: I'm not interested in GEJ/PMB politricking. They are all the same to a large extent.

In a real world, people like the driver and their employer will be charged with recklessly endangering other people's lives. They will be made to pay for damages to lives and property (public & private) as applicable. Their insurers will sweat and their financial bottom line will feel the heat.

This is one of the reasons I'm still considering reading law.

Although I don't really believe the report, it's a good feeling to know that I got my first degree in the No. 1 University and a Masters Degree in the No.2 University.

Jagabanthelion:
Enough of this 2.2 rubbish. If uve got a 2.2 and u are not confident enough of yourself,then go into your room,lock yourself up and cry at least 5hours per day till u regain your confidence. A firm denied u an opportunity because of your grade,dat now means everybody with d same grade shd join u and cry? Do u know how many 2.2s I know are gainfully employed and doing well,driving jeeps,without using connections to get the job? I also know many 2.1s tired of staying at home jobless. I know some big companies who only ask for your certificate after handing u their offer letter. They just document it. Notore Petrochemicals is an example. I will advise u to takeout the 2.2grade from your CV,so that u can bypass those coys who disqualify people at d sight of 2.2. Just put "Second class honours" its enough. If u are called for test,go there n prove your mettle. Apart frm Shell,Chevron,(d very top players),bakerhughes,halliburton etc and some Dragnet organised tests that insist on 2.1,most coys accept 2.2,provided u do well in their tests n interviews. Start small,get d experience n apply for any experienced position with your 2.2,n get to see yourself at d top. Its just time that distinguishes grades. Experienced jobs don't ask for 2.1 or 2.2,research it yourself. Get over d stigma u have placed on yourself and get busy. Apply for all jobs,in your field and let the company decide if u are eligible or not. Dnt disqualify yourself by yourself.Its not your duty,but that of the company. Peace.

Good responses @ Jangabanthelion & Fried plantain (though I didn't quote you).

I had a 2.2 but I think I can look back and say I have tried for myself. These are some of the things I did and I'm not saying it will work same way for everybody but hey say LUCK is when OPPORTUNITY meets PREPAREDNESS.

1. I prepared hard for aptitude tests - I actually started preparing during my youth service even before I started applying for jobs.
2. I added a higher degree - Luckily, I got a job not too long after my service. I had started a masters degree but had to abandon it since I had to change location. I started another masters program in an area that is in my list of future interests and completed it.
3. I am still developing myself - 19 years after graduation but I'm still reading. one additional MSc (making 2) a couple of Certificates/diplomas (not two weeks classes o) with serious demanding online learning contents.

One last thing is that I never really felt comfortable with myself. I could afford not to bother about 2 and 3 above because my first salary (per month o) was more than what either of my parents got as gratuity payment (roughly 3 years' salary) after serving government for >30 years. However, it was not enough to make me forget myself. That salary has grown in exponentials but I'm still improving myself.

Again, maybe that's my own way of keeping myself happy so it may not apply to everyone.

I blame her totally. However, I saw a nugget in the write up that I will share with all the ladies around me......

"  do not love a man too much and forget that you are special too."

The converse is also true. Some men pursue love so much that they forget they have any value.

Even though this is a one sided story, I only see callousness on the side of the woman and the husband. Many questions came to my mind from reading this story....

How come we did not see the woman tied to the Urinal pipe, or chain marks on the hand that was tied to the urinal?
Did the hospital management release her to take this picture or she has always looked like this even before the incident?

If the man is saying nobody discussed fees with them, How come we did not read that they offered the hospital a token sum that they thought would cover the treatment? Or is he saying he thought CS in a private hospital would be free?

Some people just like to play the "rich oppressing the poor" card too much. poverty is not an excuse for stupidity.

DedeNkem:
Heat can cause perfume to evaporate, so she did the right thing if she has no AC at home.
A room with AC is good enough.

She is supposed to be a billionaire's wife. Her room should be cool anytime of the day. They can afford it. So na mumu and oversabi dey combine to worry am.

Storing perfumes in the fridge That is a combination of poverty and ignorance.

Do perfume retailers keep their stock in the fridge? NO. They only provide a cool environment, which I think a multi billionaire's wife should be able to afford.

An average dude that can not afford an excellent air conditioned cooling (supported by uninterrupted power supply) can use a 30k - 100k fridge and start show casing it. But the wife of a multi billionaire I beg to differ biko.

I don't know anything about her creams but perfumes shouldn't be in the fridge in a very rich man's house.

It depends. She can support the husband to "finance" the wedding. For her mind, She go still know say na she dey marry herself sha.