₦airaland Forum

Realguyman1:
@ the bolded.

E done tay wey them dey Edo State na, just that media nor dey carryout most of the atrocities wey those guys dey comit out for Edo State.

Na them just get that Benin Auchi road wey u read for the news so. Traveling from Benin to Auchi or Abuja, is like also travelling from Abuja to Kaduna or Katsina. U nor dey ever get rest of mind for those road until u reach ur journey, because anything arm robbery or kidnapping can take place at any seconds for those road.

And na so them nor dey allow most farmers for Edo State farm in peace again. Na everytime then dey kidnapped farmers for Edo State, but media hardly carry the news. And the government and the Nigeria police force like am as media nor dey carry the news, So that people around the globe nor go know how useless they are even in Edo State too. Them always want us to live as if everything is ok, whereas nothing is ok in Nigeria again, especially areas with big bushes and forest. Na because say this ones na Catholic priests that's why media carry the news.


I pray for the safe return and well being of the priests.

Hillard:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/11/17/blood-will-flow-nigeria-may-disintegrate-primate-ayodele-releases-fresh-prophecies/

BigIyanga:
Most Nigerians are ignorant and loud.. There is no marital rape status in Nigeria. It’s not prosecutable. Keep the same abusive energy on our lawmakers to change the law. Your state legislature can make this happen.

Donald3d:


I am about to go very raw, kindly permit me, I haven't gone this raw here before, but you need help, so here it is.
I hope this doesn't change people's perspectives about me sha , we Nigerians like been mute about sex. Its an important ingredient in marriage, no matter how spiritual you are.

The best way to solve any problem is identifying the source or root of the problem and eliminate it .

From what you have said, she enjoys pre-intimacy , I would have loved to ask what type of pre-initmacy to help find a solution, but I also understand she is your wife and you can't be too explicit because this is a public forum.

Anyway, as I said earlier, let's tackle the source of the problem, which is FEAR, she is afraid, very afraid, so we need to eliminate the fear.

She is also pressured because you are "reporting" her to people, keep this between both of you Sir, please stop involving other people, fear and pressure is a very dangerous combination.

Please don't give her any sedatives, you really don't need it.

The issue with her fear is closely related to why lubricant aren't even working, the internal muscles of her privates would contract making it tighter because she is afraid, her natural lubrication won't also be discharged because her fear is making her mind "switch" it off, coupled with the fact that you are also scared of inflicting injuries on her privates.

There are two possible ways to eliminate her fear

1.Trying to convince her not to be afraid (easier said than done)
2. Introducing something that would involuntarily eliminate her fear.

I assume you have tried number 1, let's go to number two.
There are a few things that are greater than fear, but we would be sticking to the subject matter.
In this context and with the peculiarity of the situation, there is only one thing I believe can exceed that fear ...... Pleasure , Excessive Pleasure, when a human experiences excessive pleasure, the body releases pain killers and anti-stress chemicals.

So what should you do ?
You need a non-invasive pleasure mechanism, proven and tested , the most painless sexual activity. Guaranteed to give utmost pleasure .
You guessed it , O r a l Sex.

Its isn't just about putting your mouth there , you need to do it right (forgive me as I am about to go a bit raw).

You know your wife more than anyone, you know what turns her on, her pleasure spots. Use your mouth very well on those spots.
You need to understand that there is a mission here. O r g a s m
But there are some "hot spots" common among most women

1. The nipples
2.The clitoris

I would focus on number 2 ..
1.Make sure the bed is well made, clean sheets, turn on the AC , if you don't have one, turn on the fan and leave it running to cool the room. Make sure no one else except the both of you is in your home, she needs to be comfortable.

2.Ensure you both have a warm bath and wash each others privates before you commence.You wash hers, she washes yours.Try and start up a conversation about some funny experiences you've both had, how you met each other and fell in love , how much you love her, all while washing each others privates. You are psychologically manipulating/distracting her with this.When you are done, dry each others body and carry her to the bed.Careful, so you don't slip and fall oo, you can leave that part out, but women love it !. You can back her like a baby or carry her in your arms, whichever you are ok with. Make sure she is unclad, but put on a boxers short, this eliminates her fears of seeing an erect instrument.

3.Its important you place a pillow under her waist to elevate her lower region, it allows for easy access with your mouth and with your instrument, when its time for insertion. It also ensures you don't feel neck pain and can breathe well during the process.

4.Use your mouth on the clitoris till she "explodes", don't stop no matter how long it takes, but you have to be careful not to be too hard on it as you would get the opposite of the desired effect, you would give her pain instead of pleasure. You need to be gentle and firm(I know this sounds contradictory, I would explain), use your lips as they are soft tissue, that won't cause much bruising, suck on it, in and out, grab the whole of it (the clitoris--- I have attached an image for easy identification, its that slightly protruding part of her privates that looks like a mini peeeenis) with your lips and gently slide it out of your mouth, without it leaving your mouth completely, make sure your lips holds unto it(this is what stimulate it and gives pleasure), but not too tightly, you can use your tongue as support to put the clitoris in place, if the clitoris is slipping out of your mouth. Keep repeating this back and forth.

5.Now, its important to hold her, so you can feel the "rhythm" of her body, hold her sides, or her laps, start out slowly, but not to slowly, gradually increase your "sucking pace" as you notice the rhythm of her body starts to change . This method ensures you don't bruise her and you also don't get tired easily.It also ensures a natural flow and gradual increase in pleasure.It would get to a point you might have to go really fast, this clouds her brain with pleasure, do this only when the rhythm of her body tells you to do so, when she starts to slightly wriggle or when she asks you to increase your pace.

6. Do this till she "explodes", and wriggles in pleasure, most likely at this point you are also erect, its important you take advantage of this moment, because at this point, you have killed three birds with one stone. She is too climaxed to notice her fear, her body has released enough chemicals to considerably reduce pain and she is properly lubricated for relatively easy insertion.Don't waste time !!!. Slowly (not too slowly), insert, before she comes back to reality . Make sure the pillow is still under her it ensures her lower region is elevated, so you can see clearly for insertion , I assume from the beginning she is already lying flat on her back, spread her legs out gently, this also relaxes/expands the cavity of her privates.If you still find it a bit difficult to penetrate, manually use both hands to spread the outer privates open for easy access, glide in back and forth as you both copulate to produce a wonderful seed that would bear fruit in 9 months.

7. You might need to do this more than once to be successful at it .
8.The fact that you did all this doesn't mean she might not feel pain, it just reduces the pain, it also might totally eliminate it.
9.Once you start have it in mind that you must see it through till the end.
10.If she is in excessive pain, stop and repeat the same day or another day till you get it done.


NOTE: Please stop reporting her to people, apart from the fear she is feeling, reporting her or telling other people about it, is putting her under additional pressure and stress, its adding to her Psychological lock-down. Please don't be upset with her. Buy her gifts, make her feel loved, make her understand you aren't judging her or upset with her. I am sure this steps would work for you

NB: I am married by the way, in case anyone was wondering.

UPDATE !!!!! :

OP is making progress !!, I can't wait to chop naming ceremony rice

DriggityDre:
I didn't sign an oath b4 I stepped in here but they would place it on every mooslem thread

ipreach:
...“As a citizen of my country, I have the right to serve the nation just like every other graduate has. They insisted that I wear this trouser or leave the camp. During the camp there were lots of insults and humiliation – one of military tore the skirts I was wearing on my body.”



https://www.believespot.com/2020/01/group-protests-wants-skirts-included-in-nysc.html

Rhea:
I still do not understand the rationale that makes a skirt decent for a woman and a trouser indecent.
If you were attacked by a rapist, which would you rather be wearing?
Skirt or trousers?

juman:
I dont think its possible in anyway apc got votes more than pdp in that state.

orbis:
I got it fixed for free when I took it back to the dealer where I bought it from. It's a Toyota issue and they know about the problem. The torque converter needed an updated software to match the transmission.

orbis:
Comot the pink make we see ya fine face oga

themanderon:
We just love deceiving ourselves in this country. The age of consent in the south is 18yrs while in the north I have seen a girl that is not up to 12yrs getting married. A funny nation with two sets of laws.

qwertyboss:
Alhamdulillahi ala kulli hal! morning hopefuls!

seunmsg:
So far so good, it’s looking like Dino will be joining Shehu Sanni in the blogging business.

SENATORIAL RESULTS FOR KOGI WEST.

Kabba/Bunu LGA
APC: 15,037
PDP : 8974

Ijumu LGA
APC: 11627
PDP: 7647

Kogi Koton-Karfe LGA
APC: 14,168
PDP: 9,786

Mopa/Muro LGA
APC: 4,874
PDP: 3,704

Yagba-East LGA
APC: 6,683
PDP: 7,745

Bucky001:
Commentator calling a game shut while the match is still on ���

aro1:
Is this country cursed or what? Which kind of camera and viewing is NTA using,they cant even set up proper matchday camera system

AkhereOkaka:
We should stop this faith issue please, if you know your faith(Religion) does not allow you to wear such attire why coming to participate in NYSC, he/ she should have applied for exemption. Is high time we get this into our head law is law

Osobi32:
Religious fanatics!

Ladiesdoctor:
That's what the southern Kaduna people have been facing. Shortage of polling units with large number of voters. And in the northern part of Kaduna where every community or hamlet has two or more poling units. Just like how Kano is been jammed pack with lots of local government that are as useless as anything that is bad. A polling unit in southern Kaduna can boast of more than 5,000 eligible voters.
Create more polling units for southern Kaduna.

KikBuhari2Daura:
We The People of Chikun in Southern Kaduna are calling on all Nigerians to help us plead with INEC to supply the shortfall of ballot papers in most of our Polling Units .

How can a Polling unit (031) with more than 4000 voters be supplied with just 500 ballot papers in other units election officials are yet to arrive by 12 Noon

we are in queue we will not leave until we get ballot papers to vote our choice.

We have been Calling INEC pls help us here are the hotlines.
#NigeriaDecides2019
Hotlines: 0700-CALL-INEC (0700-2255-4632)

09050858629, 09050858675, 09050858649 08180958715, 08180958717, 08180958709 09025038466, 07086945927, 08120183063 07062896047, 08105119010, 08146697603





https://twitter.com/inecnigeria/status/1099180953191231489?s=19[/quote]You should be ashamed of yourself. The maximum number of registered voters per PU is 500. Where did you get the 4000 from. You must have been planning to rig

Koltech:
May almighty Allah restore peace in Kaduna state.