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RedHotChic:
Sometimes you think a woman that is not particularly preety or hot will be an easy lay but the more you delve into her affairs, the more she plays you. The more you think about your trap paying off, she keeps shifting the anointing day and keeps increasing her monetary requests that may range from pay my rent to help me complete the money for a new car. Do you really think any playa will have the heart to back off before reaping from an investment like this?

You are very funny!!!!! Playas don't date freeloaders.
U really expect a geezer who hates time-wasting to date chics that want credits on their oyster cards, fone vouchers, rents, cars, utility bills?
Girls are in abundance. . . . .Matter of fact, there are many single professional women every corner u turn so why get maself involved with a complete tramp who would constitute a liability in ma challenge. No way Jose!!!!!

RedHotChic:
Some guys get drained before they 'score' if i may borrow jackals vocbulary. How do you guys play it when you are spending so much but it seems that scoring is not anywhere near, may be the chic is clever enough to know your game? Count your losses and move on or continue investing in the land till it bleeds oil? I need an answer especially from Jackal.

Very simple answer.

You apply the risk-based analysis.  Is this target worth pursuing or should i count ma losses and back off?
It depends on the goals ones have set before embarking on the project so it depends on the individual.

@ J-girl,

Thanx for agreeing commitment is a serious bizznizz.
That concludes your man-bashing thread.
Thank Ya.

RedHotChic:
I wonder how you guys will feel if women play that kind of game with you. Personally, how will you feel if you, your sister or your daughter fall victim for that kind of game in the name of street credibility? What about guys that follow one chic for 6 months just to score once, is that still a game?

Ulaaalaah, this game probably lasted longer than the English premier season.

It's a GAME.

Never let ur guard down.  
Some men don't take REJECTION lighty so they persevere knowing fully well PERSISTENCE pays.
For a woman, once u say NO to a guy after the first week, u better keep saying NO till your grave(If u don't like the dude in question).

These type of men are ready to wait 2 years or more till u actually think they have passed the test of time.
The moment u fall in love. . . . . .  .Disaster strikes!!!
Use your church mind to figure out the rest.

RedHotChic:
I don't think so. Guys do not indulge in hit and run just to see whether they can get away with it especially in Nigeria because they usually get away with it anyway. I think they do it because their Hot ass has no damn control.

It's not about their asses not having control.
Back in the Uni days, it was a game. You are having a drink with ur mates and a gorgeous diva walks by. . . . . .
The pack picks on a dude and dare him to walk up to the woman and SCORE.
Most times, it's a bet.  This fills a man's ego up and adventure is one of the many characteristics of young adolescents. . . IT WAS FUN.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386555#msg2386555 date=1213751436]Men just need to 'man up' and rise to the occasion when the right woman comes along.[/quote]Committing to a woman is serious business , it's a decision that shouldn't be taken lightly.
Too many men get married for the wrong reasons: they're getting older; all their friends are walking down the aisle; the woman is good-looking but lacks other desirable qualities; or they're scared they won't meet anyone else.

But it's normal to feel ambivalent -- even scared out of your mind -- about signing away all your other options for the rest of your life.
Whether or not a man ultimately wants to settle down is up to HIM, the key is to be aware of the reasons you might be afraid to make that commitment.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386578#msg2386578 date=1213751969]lol - abeg jare!
Try it and come and tell us what happened at the end.
I'm sure you'll go back begging on your knees.[/quote]U reckon?

Busta:
@jackal,
I don't need to prove nothing . . trust me, I am

I trust u.
Especially after the Florida keys experience.

Busta:

The hottest babe in TOWN?
Can u prove this?

If men were not so sexually-aggressive, women would not be able to use sexual blackmail.
If the men stopped having sex with women for days - wait and see what will happen. She'll never sexually blackmail you again.
Men just need to 'man up' and rise to the occasion when the right woman comes along.

Are u sure this works for women? It seems u are still glued to the stone age.
If u deprive her of sex . . . . .There are many Ann Summers shop plastered everywhere in the city.
They now come in different sizes n shapes. Some even have spikes.
Besides, Japan has launched cyborgs that can make love to a woman. . . . .TECHNOLOGY!!!

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here comes the CALVARY: Busta Buss, Stillwater, Debosky.
J-girl, so u went to wake your posse to come tackle me.
I am so ready for y'all tonight.
BRING IT ON.

RedHotChic:
Did you consider whether the resources you lost can can be equated or less than the value of the notorious "credibility" you earned on the street?

How much resources are we talking about here? Hundreds of GB pounds?
Puhleeeeeeaze. . . . . Men lose that in betting shops anyways so the loss is insignificant.
Hit and Run is centred around many motives. . . . Naturally, most men do it to see if they can get away with it.

tope2000:
So why do you seem so uptight. *sighs* i give up

Uptight?
Le Chacal shows no emotions.
Imagine a dog that never barks, walks up to u and just BITE!!!!
No warning, just a fat bite and  . . . .

@ J-girl,

I have a feening u are a LIGER. Don't even feign any innocence here.
Log of wood me ass. . . . . .I know your types.

Get anutha TV? Does that really wash with women?
The spiteful ones would come where u @ and still want to take control. . . . .
She wants u to watch DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES with her and when u complain. . . . . .WAR starts.

Honestly, commitment implies the ability to compromise.  
Ideally a marriage should be a 50/50 partnership in which each half contributes and shares equally.
But to a woman, "compromise" often means "do it my way or you're cut off from sex."
So men are forced into surrendering to this sexual blackmail if we want to get any sex at all, and the result is a terrible loss of male power.

It was worth every penny.

Back in em days in ma borough, that single act earns a geezer STREET CREDIBILITY.
U can do the math.

tope2000:
You really can't take a joke!!!! Wow

Says who? I can take jokes.
I am not a cold-blooded animal.

Already made playas?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

tope2000:
She was talking to me, by the way who burst your bubble. you're sound like a girl on her period. oh boy take time

It seems u twits are really up for a fight.
After desecrating the other thread u wanna extend your excesses to this place.
Anyways, mind the metaphors u hurl.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386489#msg2386489 date=1213749520]What useless freedom are men looking for? They should not marry now!
Why would they want to settle down if they see marriage as a prison?
Oh please - all these are excuses . Why don't you just say men want to shag everything in skirt?[/quote]Men love their freedom. Someone like me has been so used staying by myself.
Do u think it would be easy for me to get a cohabitant who tussles the TV remote with me? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!
I want to watch footie and she wants UGLY BETTY. . . . .Do u know how frustrating that SHITuation can get?

Men naturally crave sexual variety? they should never get married till they've tasted every flavour out there.
The sexual excitement depends on the kind of wife one is married to. If he's married to the woman who is traditional and just loves one position - sorry for the guy. If he's married to someone creative, he'll forever enjoy sex with her till he gets tired of having sex.

Is this a hint for the guys out there to pursue your case aggressively?
J-girl the LIGER.

Men wait so long to marry because they are looking to explore more variety - true or false?

It depends on the individual.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386465#msg2386465 date=1213748419]Marriage is a blessing to a lot of women till the men start cheating on them or till men start causing trouble for them.
The thing is that marriage is a cuss word to some men because they cannot afford to leave their womanizing ways. They want to have the freedom to sleep around without any real commitments.[/quote]Without overflogging this issue, i am going to say this for the very last time: FREEDOM!!!!

Men love their freedom.
For many guys, the very thought of making a commitment to one woman for the rest of their lives is enough to send them sprinting for the hills.
The dreaded "C-word" implies compromise, loss of independence, the sacrifice of sexual variety, and the looming specter of financial devastation.

Men naturally crave sexual variety.
When men commit . . . either in marriage or cohabitation. . . .men willingly volunteer to cut themselves off from any other sexual pursuits.
Sexual boredom can set in, followed by a total lack of desire.
For a lot of men out there, even guys who weren't getting a lot of action anyway, that can be the scariest consequence of all.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=128252.msg2386477#msg2386477 date=1213748845]I guess the word is only acceptable when used by u to address yourself

I no send sha, I've been called worse things[/quote]Where did that come from?
Was i talking to u?

tope2000:
Referring to woman as a BITCH . uhn uhn, how would you feel if women refers to you guys as ASSHOLEs

With all due respect, the word BITCH is not offensive.
It simply means a spiteful or overbearing woman.
Gosh. . . . . . many women call emselves "bitch" so what's your fuss?

@ J-girl,

It's not that simple.
Besides, the freedom bit is just 10% of the reasons why men delay the big step.
Your boyfriend is like every other REAL man out there. I must admit there are many cry-babies but who needs a toddler?

Anyways, anutha critical point is the way women see this marriage thingy with their rose-tinted specs.
Many women look at marriage through Cinderella eyes . . .  for them, putting a ring on their fingers means that we will magically solve all their problems, from childhood issues with their fathers to huge shopping debts incurred on credit cards, to fixing their broken acrylic nails.

Women often submerge their true personalities and agendas until the knot is tied . . .  but when the truth comes out and then we find ourselves legally bound to a greedy, nagging bitch, it's too late.

@ J-girl,

There are so many reasons men prefer to stay long before jumping into marriages.

Men want their freedom. Men are extremely independent by nature.
How many times in the last 3 years has your boy/f come to u to whine like a toddler about this back pain and that neck pain?
We love to make our own decisions and run our lives by our own rules.
Someone like me want to do what i want when i want.

But, as soon as a woman enters the picture, all the options a guy used to take for granted(going out to pub to shoot pool, buying gadgets, playing footie with buddies on saturday mornings) suddenly have to be cleared with her first.
Women being evil creatures will always answer NO to many of those requests. Puhleeeeeeeaze, how many guys cherish that?
Almost overnight, men find themselves "trapped in their spouses' closets".
It's fuckery.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386298#msg2386298 date=1213744767]Don't you ever get tired of bashing Naija women and defending the action of some idiotic naija men?
The financial aspect is all a cover. I've heard of stories where the man starts making his money along with his wife by his side.
Behind every successful man is a woman so why must a man strive to be successful before his woman?
What will make one survive through hard times is the love of his woman.
The best way to secure that love is through marriage![/quote]How can the financial aspect be a cover?
Somebody like u especially will attract a bride price of about $30,000(Secondary school in Lagos, University in Havard)
Where do u expect a potenial Naija geezer to cough that out from?

Besides, men have outlined goals to achieve before walking the aisle with any woman.
What have u got to say to that?
A man needs a house, 2 cars and loads of $$$$$$$$$$$$$ in your savings.
It ain't EASYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=128252.msg2386273#msg2386273 date=1213744298]The reason is that men of nowadays prefer to be playboys and not fathers. They prefer to be free and single when they don't realize that they can be free and married. Also, they believe they can't find good women, when it is that good guys are so hard to find.
There are many reasons - but the koko of the matter is that guys of our generation are not serious or mature enough to start thinking marriage. It's very very sad. By the time, they start thinking about it - most of them reach the age of 30 or thereabout.[/quote]Phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!! Not again.
Don't u ever get tired bashing Nigerian men?

What about the financial aspect of things?
Geezers need to stash paper in their accounts before thinking of marriage.
What are u gonna eat in marriage? Love n Lust?

StephenP:
I know right! I won't have to bother about rising gas prices and airfares. Fly for free (the 3F's).

I agree witcha.

These peops dunno how to make the most of ugly situations.
If ma gurl/friend tells me she is a WITCH, i would be smiling to the bank in a space of one month.
I would turn her into GANDALF. . . . . make her visit all the banks in ma borough at nights and get the $$$$$$$$
Whats more. . . . . .It means no more useless queues to get into airplanes and protocols at immigration and customs.

tope2000:
ROFLMAO!!!! . Every1 had better be careful about the reply una dey give because the girl might use her witchcraft power on all of una oo. hmmm me i dey warn you o.

No chance!!!!!!

I wouldn't mind having a witch that can fly as a gurlfriend.
Its a perfect chance to make good money.

Have always wanted a new girl friend, so as to go ahead in life; this is true, as it is already one year since my ex-girl broke up with me, because of distance relationship.
It all started in January 2008, when I sent an on-air text message to Music Africa, seeking for a serious relationship. Yes I got many messages and winks, but one triggered me. She was so confident, and sure of her self. I had already started to like her. We meet, and things worked out perfectly as expected. Our relationship grew into heights, in different forms of love including sexual.

Three months had past, and the relationship was kicking; it was one fateful day, when she came to my house, accompanied by her best friend, that I discovered some part of my money was missing. Money had never got missing in my house, as I live with two of my elder brothers. I was shocked and surprised, and well, been curios to know the were-about of the missing money. I was forced to call her (my girl-friend), and explain things to her, Of course, I was demanding answers from her; I needed an explanation! But lo and behold, she came up with a story I never imagined!
Firstly she said she didn’t take my money, but what she could say was that…
When she was between ages 4 &6, she had a “cat and dog” as parents. This made her to be lonely and always sad. Then a girl probably at school walked up to her, and gave out an offer. Offering to be her friend so she wouldn’t be lonely. Not just a friend, but one that would provide anything that she ever wanted. But as we all know, a prize has to be paid. She has to vow about something; so my girl-friend vowed never to have other person’s as friends, especially getting to have a boy friend (lover). This continued for long, until now that she is 18. She claimed to be a witch!
Although I was frightened by her story, but I insisted on what has all that got to do with my money?
She continued that her fellow mates were behind it. They wanted to make me get unhappy with her, so that I could call off the relationship. At first, I was stunned, but like some people would believe ‘na time to start to save my head! I started to ask questions about my self, and kept the missing money pending. She swore that they (witches) had not done anything to me, and they won’t dare, caz she has not permitted them to. In fact that they don’t hurt people, but you there not step on there toes. It was already too much for me, and at that time, I was confused.
I rushed to my phone, and called a pastor friend that lives next to my house. The guy came out, and I told him all that had happened. I was expecting him to start binding and casting immediately, but he asked the girl some few questions, and asked her to go home, and come back to his church 2days after . The pastor, then consoled me, that “nothing dey happen”, but I should avoid such person, because she could be dangerous, and people like that lie allot. He went further to say that he doesn’t think she is a witch, they she is just a liar, and might have evil spirits disturbing her. The pastor later sent me a text message, saying that , I should bring the a new key and its padlock to his church, so that he would pray, and then unlock my destiny wherever they have locked it. “Hmmmm I smelt something fishy, the pastor want members, or he want open office for my head! I just jaaaaaaa” so that’s where I forgot about the pastor.
Now back to my so called girl friend, I told, her that I did not believe all what she, said, and that she should open up and tell me the truth, that she was lie. I was ready to accept her back and forgive her, but she stood firm. That all she was only telling me what she told me, because another man of God that was helping her out of her Dilemma advised her to (she now sees been a witch a dilemma; because she was already enjoin having a sexual relationship). So, I told her that I will call it a quit, since she was adamant to her tale.
After 3weeks, I am seriously missing her. Her affectionate love, soft voice, beautiful brown rare eyes, and most especially the sexual pleasure. I sent her a text that I wanted to see, her, and she came running. But unfortunately, I could not see her, caz some stupid law creating police officers held me in there station for over 5hrs, because they wanted to see my custom papers for a new tokunbo car I was driving yesterday.
Finally, I am posting this, because I need some advice, and I want you all to learn from my tale.
Yours Sincerely,
Innobluks

Don't despair!!!!!

You have a perfect opportunity to turn this to your advantage.
Your gurlfriend is a witch? I envy u, hombre.
Cajole her to fly to the nearest bank at night and pinch money off their vaults.

@ Dayokanu,

They both have 2 UCL titles now. . . . .
The decisive factor now is local titles they have won . .
Taking that into consideration, Hitzfeld cannot even clean the shoes of Sir Alex Ferguson.

P.S. Your Abidal has disgraced you yet again.

@ Debosky,

U are a saphead!!!

Nuthing is competitive as far as Man Utd are concerned.
We have excellent youngsters with hunger and panache. Take a look at the bookies and see the huge odds that favour Man United.
The difference in the 2 periods are Americans who can put their feet down to say NO WAY, JOSE!!!!! Geddit?
It's one thing to have twats like Kroenke and David Gill in one's board, It's anutha thing to have Avram/Joel Glazer who don't give 2 phuckz!!!

Fergie lost the player not because Chelsea muscled him out of it. . . .Mikel was the one bearing the brunt.
At the end of the day, the end justified the means. . . Fergie channeled the funds properly and got Nani and Anderson.
What has Mikel won since he moved to Chelsea? FA cup and Carling. No league title, no UCL.
Ignoring the titles. . . . .Mikel would have developed more into a great player had he stayed at United but what do we have today? A DUD.
I will be surprised Scolari does not flog him to Corinthians or Vasco Da Gama next season.

@ Debosky,

So u wanna compare African talents to South Americans/Europeans?
How many African players have actually defied all the odds to become great after featuring for Nigeria in age-grade competitions.
Compare Messi to Mikel. . . . .Bojan to Chrisantus. . . . Agahowa to Ronaldinho. . . . I can go on and on.
Player development of African players is the worst production line(It's in the guiness book of records).

Vela has played for national team? Where? In a world cup competiton or at the Olympics?
Any Arrow can play for country in friendlies or qualifiers. . . . . That does not count here.
Apache is a brand in Latin America . . . . Continent's best player for 3 seasons in a row is not ma idea of an emerging player.

Respect El Apache. . . . . . He is god!

@ Debosky,

Please restrict your professionalism to your thong-washing.

United globe-trotted to Saudi last season and won the European double. . . . . .It seems you have no retentive memory.
In 1999(the year of the TREBLE), they globe-trotted and won the intercontinental cup in Tokyo and retained the league.
Continue to revel in your fool's paradise again by winning with the tip of your tongue.
Up yours, schlepp!!!

As per Ronaldo, it seems u dunno the meaning of PLC and a club that is now privately owned.
Go and dust your corporate management skills then come back here to argue properly.
Fergie lost Mikel? He bought him for 4 mil and sold for 16 mil to Chelsea. . . . .If he lost him, Chelsea wouldn't have coughed out an extra penny.
Do i even blame u? Following footie in Canada must be very hard. Stick to ur ice-hockey or better still, hand-washing of female lingerie.
U obnoxious piglet.

debosky:
Carrick 'winning' but no place in the English national team - a winner indeed. Real players want to play footie, not sit on the bench and 'claim' titles ok?

I see your stupidity is still very evident -- Becks, Ruud, Andy Cole, were they bought as 'squad players' or people intent on getting into the first team? Quaresma would have been a bencher like Carrick for the most part, hence his reluctance to come, even if offered. YOu get to a certain stage in your career that playing a bit part is no longer sufficient.

how was Tevez 'big time'? He was playing with all due respect in West Ham before coming to Utd, lets leave his S/A experience out of this - in that regard, he was still an emerging player not an established core player with numerous Titles under his belt. But I forget, this is the recto-cranial inverted Jackal I'm talking to.

You are still a fool even after all these months of ma relentless tutorials to train ya on how to analyse. Shame on you!

Carrick was always a team player. He was always starting with Scholes in the central midfield and has improved considerably since joining United.
A player that had 52 appearances which includes 33 league appearances and 12 UCL is not my idea of a bench player unless one is as stupid as Debo.
Playing for the national team can sometimes be political. How many times did Elber play for Brazil, u doofus?

Quaresma wouldn't have been a bencher. Carrick was never a bencher when he joined.
In his debut season, he had 31 league apparances and a total of 48 appearances all season. . . . What does that tell u? Mr muggins?
Tevez is a big time player, if u don't know. .  now u know!!!!
He went to the world cup with Argentina and his national team manager prefers him to Crespo. How can a player who has represented n scored for his country in the world cup and olympics be an emerging player. . . . . You are more foolish than i initially thunk.
Restrict yourself to your professional thong-washing and leave footie for peops like us.