So a lady decide giving you an easy access to have sex with her, and you are feeling on top of the world? A woman keeps pestering you to become her sex mate, and you tell your friends "She fell for my swags, let me quickly take a bite"?
Hold on! Free sex is not actually free! When you have casual sex with a woman not your wife, you are actually taking poison that can get you killed.
Let's see things from these two broad angles:
1. Sex is not meant to be free 2. She is either giving you something or collecting something from you.
First things first...
1. Sex Is Not Meant To Be 'Free': In other words, sex is not meant to be a 'playing thing' which you have with just anyone just for fun. And how did I know this? Simply because, the Creator of sex told me so!
God created all things including sex, and He has the right to give instructions on how He wants humans to approach sex and sexuality. God, being the Manufacturer of sex, is in the best position to give a 'manual guide' for sex (since He is the Maker).
And the ultimate rule He has given for sex, which can be found inside the 'Ultimate Manual Guide' for life (which is the Bible), is that: ALL FORM OF SEXUAL ACTIVITIES MUST BE BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE INSIDE THE SAFE CIRCLE OF THEIR GOD-APPROVED MARRIAGE, WITH NO OTHER PARTY INVOLVED
God has made sex a sacred thing that should be between a married couple so He could achieve certain purposes without issues. Look at things this way. God wants to use sex as an instrument that will ensure humans would continue to multiply and subdue the earth (Genesis 1: 28). Now, when a husband and his wife had sex and a baby was produced after some months, a celebration takes place! But when two unmarried people had sex and the lady get pregnant, it becomes a shameful thing which leads to abortion (murder).
Additionally, another divine purpose God had for sex is to continue enhancing the bond between a husband and his wife - because these things are His delight. So, just as you can't handle gold and diamond just anyhow due to their value and essences, you shouldn't approach sex just anyhow you like because of it divine purposes.
Sex is not meant to be 'casual' and 'just for fun'. It is a sacred act that should come with responsibilities - between a married couple. Sex is not meant to be 'let's just do it without emotional attachments'. Sex is not meant to be 'free'
2. She Is Either Giving You Something Or Collecting Something: If you see a lady not your wife that is willing to allow you have sex with her, you should know she has a purpose for her decision. Yes, I'm aware some ladies are loose and addicted to immoralities. However, almost all females that chose to have sex with a man not their husbands, actually have mischievous intentions.
SHE INTEND GIVING YOU 'SOMETHING'
A lady sent a mail to an online platform for women and she said some scary things. According to her, she recently contracted HIV from her boyfriend, and she swore to spread it to many other guys before she die. Can you imagine that!
Guys, many ladies are living with STDs (including life-shortening viruses like HIV), and they are on a revenge mission of spreading the viruses around. To achieve their evil aims, they go about allowing different guys have sex with them, and they makes it easy for the guys to get. Hey guy, what if that your 'new catch' is only interested in ruining your life by sharing HIV with you? Think twice!
How about spiritually? Not everyone you see around are ordinary human beings - many ladies are witches, belongs to the marine kingdom, working directly for satan.
Many guys are suffering today because there are spiritual curses on their lives - problems that emanates from the spiritual realm (which manifests itself in the physical realm). These spiritual barriers are easily passed through sex.
So, when you have sex with a woman not your wife, she will pass any evil covenant on her life to you. Those with evil spirits and powers will also use the medium to drop evil spiritual arrows inside your life. And even if she doesn't have mysterious powers, as long as you have sex with a lady not your wife, you have sinned against God by disobeying His commandments, and you will sure be punished!
SHE IS TRYING TO COLLECT SOMETHING FROM YOU
Physically, a lady that allows you have sex with her could simply be interested in collecting your money, to ride on your reputation (especially if you are a famous person), or to simply collect your sperm with the intention of tying you (or another man) down with the pregnancy. So, is there really free sex?
Most importantly, spiritually, a lady that will allow you have sex with her is likely working for the devil (she is a witch, belongs to the marine kingdom). She is only trying to collect and steal your glory and destiny (no wonder many guys keeps struggling vehemently).
When you commit a sin, you move away from God's hedge of protection, and satan have the chance to manipulate your life and carry out his evil plans for humanity - to steal, to kill, and to destroy (John 10:10)
Please, take these things with seriousness. Take the things of the Spirit with seriousness. And if you have committed the sin of fornication, go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. He will definitely restore you and all what you've lost in Jesus Name.
ChangetheChange: Dozens of the travelers were abducted on Saturday by suspected Boko Haram terrorists on Maiduguri-Damboa Road, security sources have told SaharaReporters. The incident, said sources, occurred at about noon in Kuwa Kauwa, a village near Bulaburin in Damboa Local Government Area of Borno State. The terrorists were also said to have made away with at least six trucks loaded with food items.
zens of the travelers were abducted on Saturday by suspected Boko Haram terrorists on Maiduguri-Damboa Road, security sources have told SaharaReporters.
The incident, said sources, occurred at about noon in Kuwa Kauwa, a village near Bulaburin in Damboa Local Government Area of Borno State. The terrorists were also said to have made away with at least six trucks loaded with food items.
"It was horrible. Dozens of travelers were abducted today. Trucks usually leave Damboa town 45 minutes ahead of the military convoys that protect them. But before the convoy got to the scene, Boko Haram terrorists had attacked," said a security source in Damboa.
The source also revealed that the Army is aware of the latest abductions but the army is yet to make a public statement about the incident. "The 115 Brigade of the Nigerian Army is fully aware of what happened on Damboa/ Maiduguri highway near Bulaburin and is currently working on it," he said.
The abduction was carried out less than 24 hours after three Boko Haram suicide bombers killed at least 22 people and left many others injured in a fish market in Konduga.
The biggest problem Nigeria has is lack of good focus. There is no focus on major or simple problems, everything that is a debate or topic or focus or projects is not what will truly move Nigeria forward. Instead it is one foolish debate after another, one baseless argument after another, one terrible headline and no simple or useful sense to combat major problems from responsible quarters.
The most common foolishness in Nigeria now is criticism of the Church of GOD; Church, tithe, first fruits, Church online offering, Church private jets, Church pastors, Church branches, Church universities, Church testimonies, Church teachings, Church poor members, etc.
The debate is so stupid, so foolish, so flawed that no matter how smart a person may feel, the moment you participate in these kinds of argument, you are in the realm of the obtuse.
Nobody says true Churches are beyond criticism, they are not; nobody says there are no fake churches or feigned Christianity practices, there are. But in terms of many of the arguments against the Church of GOD, conflicted for the role of government, it is complete foolishness no matter who you are.
The mission of the Church of GOD is not to develop Nigeria. The Church is not even as cash rich as major oil, telecommunication, bank or top lotto, companies. The Church is about the Kingdom of GOD and the message of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
So many useless CSR in Nigeria, nobody can face them relentlessly as Daddy Freeze against the Church of GOD. So many companies with opaque deductions and charges with nothing revolutionary back into the country sympathizers of these companies say they are a business with shareholders for profit, not development.
They are exempted, but the Church of GOD is responsible for development, OK.
Entertainment in Nigeria is already saturated. Most contents are low quality, vulgar songs, awkward insensitive jokes, terrible film plots, mediocre football and other sport performance, yet entertainment sponsorship is highest in Nigeria. Entertainment is not development. In fact those low quality, uninspiring, entertainment are not relevant to mental or national development.
Yet, nobody can touch or criticize entertainment. How many songs can a person listen to or movies in Nigeria that will make an individual think to become a better professional? Yet people go to the Church of GOD, learn, get encouraged, and want to be better and ambitious on earth and for heaven. So this true Church is the problem, OK.
In Nigeria, why should you not go to Church, and pray, whether it is answered or not, if the prayer or well-wishing prophecies makes you feel better, why not? There is no security, no hospital, no safety, no light, no road, no money, no water, no order, no guarantee, no fire extinguisher, no law, no transparency, no equal opportunity, no investigation, no justice, fraud everywhere, corruption everywhere, no progress, no quality control, dirty environment, fetidness, direct and indirect prostitution, no sound education, no work, only one state is trying to be functional, no food, and no future, nothing, why should a person not go to Church?
Young Nigerians are leaving the country desperately, some drown at sea, some are stranded abroad, but finding ways to solve all the causes of this problem with the federal and state governments or some very useful CSR is not the case. It is the Church online giving that is the problem, OK.
People forget that the problems of Nigeria drove Church growth, not otherwise. If you want economic and infrastructural development from the Church of GOD, ask the government to pay taxes and oil revenues there. But the Church of GOD does what it has to do for its mission from the Scriptures.
Some people will like the option to pay online instead of cash, if the option is not for you ignore, it is not a reason for cheap shot at the Church when there are other organization options too and so many problems around, with no good sense or suggestion and realistic solutions with your vile platform.
If an overseer, truly called of GOD rides a private jet, let GOD who called that overseer be the judge. But that a Church owns a private jet and it is a reason to connect jet to poverty, sorry, the Church of GOD does not have the political power, policies and resources to alleviate poverty in this oddish Nigeria. Besides, if the worst thing an overseer will do is use a private jet that everyone knows about, it is far better than so many appalling things many kinds of terrible religious clerics do that no one knows about.
There are so many sectors and industries in Nigeria not under the power of the government, but those people there by themselves cannot reform themselves to shape their work to make Nigeria a better place. But from every angle, the Church is adjudged the problem, false, lie, false.
There are righteous rich people in true Churches in Nigeria, they support the work. Those who do not have enough, give what they have, not under any force. The Church of GOD is where true Christians connect with the Comforter, and they come, rich or poor, in joy or sadness. The Church of GOD is a place where lives are touched and minds are renewed.
But this Church is under attack. Not fair attack, not wise attacks, foolishness, and you watch how it has now become normal, on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, by those who opted to blindfold themselves and think the Church should be what they interpret not about the Kingdom of GOD.
Until Nigeria as a country starts to focus on actual development, there is almost no way it will move forward. There is nobody in this world that can turn off the Light of the Church of GOD, no matter the bitter attacks. Christians started in the Acts of the Apostles, and will remain until Jesus Christ of Nazareth returns, to redeem them to Him...
nairavsdollars: Hope that clueless IGP will still call it a communal crisis?
I have said it before. Fulani will become an endangered specie in Nigeria. The call for self defense is rising. Soon people will kill any fulani they see and it will be unreported. Let's keep playing politics with it. DOUBLE SPEAKER... From Both Sides of The VP Mouth ! VP ON IPOB: "IPOB is a threat to Nigeria's unity and we the Federal Executive must crush them and their activities by fire by thunder. So we beg true Nigerians to provide our security agencies with IPOB's information/plans/activities for proper action to be taken immediately!" ~ (VP Prof. Yemi Osibanjo.) VP ON FULANI HERDSMEN KILLINGS: "I plead to Nigerians, Don’t Retaliate Fulani Herdsmen Killings, Pray For Them Instead; just as we the Federal Executive are praying hard now." ~ (VP Prof. Yemi Osinbajo) Credit: Charles Amadasun.
freshkpomo: 5. Get A Book: This works like voodoo!!! Trying to get that sleep and it's not forth coming? Then reading a book is not a bad idea.don't just get any book,try getting a very boring book i.e if you are not the type that like calculations,then getting a further maths of physics text book will shut down your brain in a matter of minutes that you will wakeup next morning asking what happened.reading boring books makes one dizzy and can help individuals get some sleep.
this is the best..Lmao...Books reading is the best!!!!!
Akinfunwa01: Hello nairalanders,i discussed am important issue about dealing with Mr Joe concerning Samsu oil. I once mentioned I have done business with him before but recently he has turned something else i have been a victim of his dubious ways and I still notice some people still fall victim to his dubious act. Just yesterday I got a call from another victim of Mr Joe's fraudulent act....please and please am begging everyone not to deal with him until forward notice. Please be warned....i have contact of some of the customers that can attest to this...This is not a matter of trying to rubbish him His act has stop customers from trusting we the honest and diligent sellers of this product
Earthkumy: 70 percent of young christians does it, but they are scared of talking about it.
My people how sinful is the sin of masturbation? Masturbation is very deadly because it turns an intelligent person, into sex disturbed individual. Once a most intelligent in the family becomes most dull. Person who masturbates every 2days loses focus on education And will have problem with numbers and spellings The person will notice that he or she is not as sound as he/she use to be. Masturbation comes with a demon that makes a person lose self control. The persons thoughts will turn to sex and sex all the time and it becomes a very big problem to the person. When a child of God who masturbates starts praying and casting the spirit of masturbation out of his or her body If the person has the gift of vision He/she will discover in a dream that he/she is vomiting rotten sur from mouth. That's the demon going out.
A person who masturbates will get a spiritual husband or a spiritual wife and be having constant sex in a dream. It has rendered many girls husbandless. And many boys unable to make enough money to marry. The demon make them remain in act & to commit other sexual sins masturbation makes it possible for other demons to enter the person practicing it. It brings with it the demon of near success syndrome. It will make you lazy and you won't want to go and do something meaningful.
Is one of the worst demon to be cast out because of it close relation to the flesh desire
The first step to conquer the sin of masturbation: 1. Hate the act
2. No matter how your emotion forced you into doing it never accept as being ok, confess your weak to God
3. Confess to a spirit filled believer who can help you in prayer.
4. Hate it with all passion
5. Constantly cry to God for deliverance
6. Get something doing no matter how small, stop being alone.
7. Study your bible and pray more
8. Through the name of Jesus Take back the control of your heart.
Don't let the demon of sex turn you into something of regret
Abaddon is the demon responsible for promoting filth in a Christian mind
He is responsible for all the sexual filth and lose of self-conscious. When you pray against masturbation call it by name and cast it out. Do this all the time until you are totally free from it hold.
Note that none of this demons will force us to do anything against our will. They only put pressure on us and we willingly follow them and leave Jesus behind.
If you refuse to obey them, they won't force you
If we are sincere many of us had or still a victim of masturbation. I was once a victim too Until God showed the demon responsible. We all can win in Jesus Christ. If I can stop, you can stop it too
I pray that your love will overflow more and more in Jesus, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding. For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.
total Rubbish..God doesnt solve the issue of Masturbation.. Self control conquers it
Amakavula: I made a thread about how to make men crave you ladies. But the comment section showed something I had suspected for a long time. A lot of guys don't really understand how the woman mind works. So here is a thread for the guys. Below was a cull I took off an article which I agree to a degree with. Enjoy.
A Man Who Will Tell Her “No” - Nice guys, I want you to start saying “no” whenever a girl ask you to do something. Do this for about a week and see the looks they give you change. Girls love a guy who will say “no” and then not explain himself. This is because girls want to be with someone they can trust and they trust a man who will say no because they are being honest about what they want. A Man Who Knows How and When to Touch Her - Whether it’s a delicate touching her hand to accent a point in conversation or wiping a tear off her cheek with your thumb. Knowing when and how to touch her is powerful. She’ll appreciate a man when to be gentle and how to be rough. A Man Who Looks As if He Has it All Figured Out - The reason why women care about a man’s fashion sense is because it is an indication to her on whether he has his life figured out. A man who knows what looks good on him and how to wear an outfit, shows her that he knows how to present himself to the world. This doesn’t stop at fashion. The less clueless you look the more attractive you will be to women. A Man Who Knows When and How to be Dominant - Taking the lead without being domineering is rare skill. You should always look for opportunities to take responsibility during your interactions with women you are interested in. Pick the place the group is going to eat, it doesn’t mean you have to go there, but be the guy who is constantly moving the ball forward. Always try and err on the side of being bossy rather than passive. A Man Who is Persistent but Doesn’t Beg - The way to be persistent without looking needy is to be charming. Asking a girl out multiple times isn’t creepy if you find a way not to be creepy about it. What helps with this is always having a smile, and not looking disheartened if things don’t go your way. Being able to move on and try again is powerful as it shows the girl that you have core confidence and small things don’t shake you. A Man Who Walks Through the World With Ease - No person will make him nervous, no situation will have him looking stressed. He ask for what he wants with a smile, tells you no with a pat on the back. Life looks effortless for him because he’s so good at living his.
Enemyofpeace: Na ibo pastor, I just dey imagine how ngozi, adanma,uche,chigozie,chinyere,chiamaka and all other biafran girls go dey moan and speak in tongues under him. E go bi e like hmmmm, hmmmmm, hmmmmmm,pa, pa pa, paa pastor ,I I I I I wan come o o,una bi bi bi bi biaaaaaaaaaaa
zoo country. Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
nairavsdollars: There Goes The President, Federal Republic Of Shithole
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
boolet: Cattle colonies... nonsense! They should pay for land and build ranches, period!
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
AAlozie: Finally, I agree that we're living in a lawless and useless country. Human lives are now worthless. This is what happens when touts and criminals are given jobs to protect lives
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
donnie: The prophesy was given at the program hosted by Rev Tom Amenkhienan and Christ Embassy Abuja...
Prophecies From the Man of God, Pastor Benny Hinn for Nigeria.
God is sending an anointing for authority. God is exalting His name in the nation, Nigeria. God will do it in the next few weeks. God is going to bring change into the political system of Nigeria.
Fast for 3 weeks and when you fast, target the individuals you want to see removed. This time, we must take the kingdom by force. Target the individuals by name and position. No nation is stronger than the anointing of God. No nation is stronger than the spiritual forces in it.
Words are powerful but our words are more powerful. The church is going to affect the economy of Nigeria positively. LoveWorld is going to plough the mentality of the politicians in Abuja. We will pray for prosperity to rest in Nigeria and all power that is not of God will be defeated.
There's going to be wealth transfer from the sinners to the Children of God. There's been six wealth transfers already recorded in the Bible, and we are No. 7 on our way to heaven. Hallelujah!!
so since 1960,its now that God will do something in Nigeria? Sheeple!!!.. Ndi ara!!!
donstan18: Maybe, you are lacking natural wetness, getting wet helps a lot on issues like this, i would have suggested your husband to improve in his oral sexual skills to make you more wet before penetration, things like caressing, smooching, fingering, boobs squeeze and touching, clit giggling, neck licking, playing with your pubic hairs and eating your ass up, it can help.
But, it's just like there are d*cks that looks like a pounding stick, some even looks like a python and at the same time curved, these kind of d*cks can even shift your womb or come out from your mouth if you fail to pray before sex.
I pray you find a solution to your sexual problem.
hahhhahahahah..Jesus..Laugh wan kill me..savage reply
Troublemaker007: Whenever foreigners tell Nigerians the truth, they always feel pained. Buhari and all is killer Herdsmen are the mothers of all Shithole.
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
mhizenugu: Let's be honest here, nigeria is obviously a shitthole.. there's no point pretending..
.Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
sabama007: Maybe Kanu was right to include Benue in the map of Biafra...
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
iSlayer2: In one of those comments up there did you see another reason why Nigeria is a shithole? Just look at that comment by the Kim Kardashian moniker up there to see why Nigeria will continue to be a shithole.
On to the topic,it is a laudable move. In saner climes once an issue escalates/develops to a certain point,a protest is what will ring a loud bell to the government.......But not in the shithole.
Kanu called Nigeria a ZOO people got Angry,David Cameroun Called Nigeria Fantastically Corrupt Nation we all smiled and thanked him, Donald Trump called Nigeria a SHITHOLE COUNTRY,Nigerians are happy,Smilling and waving hands to trump!!..Lmao..... Which one is more better:A Zoo,Fantastically Corrupt,A ShitHole Nation??
zombieTRACKER: Didn't Benue people vote for Buhari in 2015...
Why are they protesting now.. They should go home and enjoy the APC change
Buhari did not request for new oil refineries for states, Buhari did not request for international airport for states, Buhari did not request for power plant for states, Buhari did not request for World Bank assisted projects for states. Buhari is not requesting for an improves education, health care, good roads, and security in your States. What Buhari and the northern leaders are requesting for your states is "Cattle Colonies. There we go Nigeria...
Religion / Re: Free Sex Is Not Free: A Warning For Guys - Sunday Akanni Moshood by jacyhelen(f): 2:43pm On Feb 18, 2018 
..Lmao
