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CSTR2:
I have done that to one lady.

I told her I am no longer interested after I sent her N3k for airtime.

She asked for credit out of nowhere, I try to ignore her, hoping that she will see how shameless her request is on our first chat.

She immediately called me " stingy".

I just vex, send am N3k, and told her I am no longer interested.

You vex sent her 3k...make ur ego no go do you strong thing. She manipulated your ego by calling you stingy and you just fell yakata! Women go like to dey patronize man like you because you seem very easy to manipulate

CSTR2:
Send me airtime.

I don't have data to chat again.

My desire for her just went from 100 to -10.

Women don't know how to practice delayed gratification.
Buying you 10k worth of airtime is not the problem.

But bittch, don't be so money conscious.

They're not money conscious, that's what they do when they're not interested in you and they want to play you. They do that to lots of guys and some guys actually fall for their dubious schemes.

It's obvious that ipob don't mean we'll for the south east. Instead of encouraging people to come out enmass to vote for credible candidates that will move the states in their region forward they declaring sit at home in an election day. What a clueless bunch of ignoramus.
Ipob should understand that they need political powers to actualize whatever they want to actualize. So instead of fighting the system, bring out people to represent you during elections and garner support for those people to ensure they win whatever position they're vying for. That way you'll have power and gain control easily. Without political power you can never armtwist Nigeria to dialogue with you. Ojukwu was the governor of the eastern region that was why he was able to initiate the Biafra struggle...

Osnami:
This country is boiling. Nigerian Army shooting into houses some days ago, Nigerian custom burning houses today? Nigerian police killing innocent people everyday....... And all these are happening in the South

All these burning of houses and villages when a security personnel is killed by unknown persons can only happen in the south because the leaders and the people are allowing it. You see what bandits are doing to the military in the north and no village or community is has been overran by the military. Our leaders in the south need to wake up and start speaking up for and defending their people.

Aufbauh:
I will Never give up on Nigeria inspite of her current troubles.
There is nothing you can do or say to make me give up. Do or say what you want and I will say or do what I want. We don’t have to agree but we can stay respectful of each other.

The wealth or poverty of a nation is created by the citizens. Instead of just complaining about everything, ask yourself what you have done to increase the wealth or poverty of your country.

The wealth of a nation is created by her citizens under a conducive environment created by the government. But what do you do when everything the government does is aimed at bringing the citizens down and subjecting them to pain and misery?
No country can grow or progress without good governance. Fix Nigeria's leadership problem and see majority of Nigerians soaring to greater heights in this same country that our leaders are turning to a hell-hole. Good leadership/governance is the foundation of a prosperous nation, without it majority of the creaive minds in that nation would seem like a dumbo as in the case of Nigeria.

Nigerian military is only ruthless in the south because the people are allowing them. Imagine the military saying they called the criminal bandits for negotiation with the villagers. They even said the bandits attacked them one time and they lost two of their colleagues as a result of such attack and they did nothing. While in the south here hoodlums would mistakenly gun down one of them and they would reinforce to go and burn down the nearest town or village closest to where such an event occurred, molest their women and kill their youths. What a double standard! Sometimes I wonder if the Nigerian military should not be called "northern Nigerian military"

Toks2008:
I undrstand your point but it still does not change the narrative that REAL MEN see no big deal in marrying a single mum. That does not mean men don't have a choice to make.

Replace "real" with "some". Your statement should read: ...Some men see no big deal marrying a single mum... The fact that a man doesn't want to marry a single mum doesn't mean he isn't a real man, and the fact that another man chooses to marry a single mum doesn't make him a real man. They both have different standards of the type of partner that they can each settle down with. So stop calling a man real because he choosed to go for someone that meets his standard...

#EndSars might have ended badly, but it will never be forgotten. The only period in the history of Nigeria where the youth shun ethnicity, religion, political affiliations, educational and economic statuses and came together, spoke with one voice and fought for just one cause with all gusto and temerity. It's a beacon of hope that one day we're gonna come together again, face our oppressors (evil politicians ) and send them and their children to exile so we can make Nigeria what it should be. That day is coming!

Igbos are their own enemy. They can never be united and speak with one voice. Give them a little money or opportunity and they'll start turning against themselves. Biafra is a pipe dream!

fortune1968:
una see how people dey reason ? That's why many crazy people wouldn't mind using their own mother for money ritual .

It's really very sad! When job and money are the major things that some peopl are using to define themselves then we're truly in a crazy time.

Rubbiish:
Not only wife!
Nobody will respect u if u lose your source of income.

You're in a fake and wrong company if the only reason they respect and treat you right is because you have money. There's much more to a person than money.

MightySparrow:
Your job defines you: no job, you cease to exist.

This is a complete misyarn...so it's your job that defines you as an individual? Wow! We're really in a crazy time!

Tokskob2008:
Keeping it till marriage is good but displaying it for everyone to see on social media like this couples did is plain stupidity. Some things are best kept private.

That's what happens when something that used to be a normal occurrence suddenly becomes very rare. You can't blame them!

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

Since you're also choleric the simple question you should ask yourself is: can you live with yourself and be happy? / Can a marriage with yourself workout? If you can answer this question sincerely you'll know what to do.

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

Two controlling people in same environment for a long time will always be at loggerhead

The whites are so used to having everything available when they need them that just a little shortage of any of their daily necessities would through them in panick mode like the world is about to end. Mehn, wicked governments all over African has taught Africans to embrace suffering as a normal way of life. What a world we're living in!

OfficialGaGa:
Make something like dis happen for NORTH...


I wan see something first

Don't wish evil for your fellow brother. Regardless of what's happening in the north, we're one country and we shouldn't be wishing evil for one another.

Thank God for Africa. God knows our leaders are heartless and extremely wicked that's why he put us in place where natural disasters are rare occurrences. We're really very lucky!

OkuFaba:
Fear that gender...

They'll say money is not everything but just go broke for one seconds and see how they'll fall back.

The man will surely bounce back, and i hope he has learnt his lessons.

That girl deserves to be punished.
I BELIEVE IN AN EYE FOR AN EYE

It's not the girl's fault. That's what happens when you try to impress a leech with money. If you check every well you would discover that the guy wasn't giving his mum or sisters monthly allowance, let alone weekly allowance. If the story is true then the guy is a compound fool.
When you entice a broke woman with money she goes to the next customer when she can't suck from you any more

Sonnobax15:

Good for him...

E go surprise you say this kind guyman na the type wey go loseguard him fellow guyman because of Small assistance....

Imagine am na,if you give your guy wey dey come warri from Lagos just 2k,he go value am forever..But if na Woman you do that favor to,she no go value am via say she go reason am say you do am for her because of lashing..

Well,my ultimum pity goes to every guyman wey think say he go fit buy woman loyalty with him money.... Because las las when the source of the money go stop,na then you go know say money no go fit buy Woman loyalty

As for una wey be women,I still dey pity those of una wey they leave men wey dey spend for una Simply because say he lost him job . No be so e suppose be na....you suppose be the better half of the guyman both in the times of highs and lows..

I've discovered that most men hardly forget good/help/assistance given to them I their time of needs no matter how little that assistance may be. Most women consider whatever you do for them as their right and as such they hardly remember it.
Just imagine if this guy has been saving those 10k/20k he has been wasting on a leech, it would have been of great help to him during his low moments. Sense is really very far from some guys. Any money spent on a woman, mostly one that isn't your wife is a very bad investment because it has no returns.

michlins:
I think feminism is all having a level playing field for all gender. The idea of giving someone an advantage goes against everything it stands for.

Those seats aren't earned

Women can't really compete so they hide under the umbrella of feminism to armtwist men to give them what most of them don't truly deserve. Men fight and work hard for what they want, while women play the victim and lament so as to trick me to giving them what they want. It's how they operate all over the world and the will later start shouting "girl power", "strong woman", etc. When in the real sense they're just pathetic manipulators.

Where is the gender equality that women have been fighting for if they keep giving women slots? Everybody should be given a levelled playing field to fight for what they want, but women are not ready to do that because they know they can't truly compete, and they will be shouting gender equality up and down. This is an example of gender inequality because if the gender are equal then it would be all man to himself and the best person taking the price. Just saying!

YoungLionken:
Some of these LITTLE THINGS are underrated..

Abboniki works for both waist and muscle, feverish conditions and miraculously cures body odour..

We tend to rely on the wisdom/knowledge of the Westerners more than ours here..

I was surprised at the cheap, traditional and effective remedy for stomach ulcer. This is something one would pay exorbitantly for in hospital..

And again, we Africans have failed to upgrade whatever we learnt from our forefathers...

Can you please share the traditional remedy for stomach ulcer?

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

You can never change anyone that hasn't seen the need for change. Infact, the more you try to make them change, the more they would resent you and do those things you advise them against doing. Look, your 24yr old brother is already an adult and if at 24 he can't advise himself and decide what he really wants to do with his life, there's nothing you or anyone else can do to help him.

One more thing, you guys should stop bailing him out from the consequences of his misbehaviour. The sooner you guys start allowing him to suffer squarely the consequences of his bad behaviour, the better for all of you. He's already given your family a bad name, so allowing him suffer for his wrong doing won't make any difference to the bad name he's already given you guys.

Fahdiga:
Why can't Muslim countries like the UAE and others help their fellow Muslims. Why must it always be Christian countries that will be helping this terrorists anytime they are in a mess, a mess they created by themselves. Political correctness in the hands of Muslims will destroy the west soon.

Muslim countries are scared of their fellow Muslims from other countries. Aside that, this is a means for them to spread to other nations and start clamouring for the same sharia they're running away from.
UK and the U.S should evacuate only women and children, they should leave the men because they are the trouble makers.

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

Why is it that whenever you guys talk about relationship, you always advise the man to have money? So the woman should come with empty hands en?
Guys, hustle to make money not because you want to spend it on any woman, but because you want to give yourself comfort. All this have money talk before going into a relationship is getting too much and kinda boring. Have money because you want to give yourself a great life - not because you want to spend it on a leech.

What I'm finding hard to understand about this Taliban takeover issue is: are the people running away from the Taliban non-Muslims? If they are Muslims, then why are they running away? Is sharia that the Taliban are saying that they would impose in the country not same thing that Muslims enjoying the freedom of developed countries like UK, USA, Canada, etc, are clamouring to be allowed to practice in those nations?

You're in your home where the tool to help you practice your religion fully has taken over and you're running, where are you running to? These same people will now go to another man's country and start clamouring for same sharia they running from now. What an irony!

N-power seems like APC election strategy. Just like they tricked the batch A and B with continuity so as to use them for their second term election bid which they've gotten, that's how they're going to trick this batch C and A and B with exit package so as to support them in 2023. Batch C is being planned so that their exit would fall in the 2023 election period and they will promise them continuity so as to get their support and use them as both offline and online campaign warriors like they did to batch A and B, but e go clear for their eyes las las when dem go realize say all na scam. Just saying!

daniel56:
Stop disturbing m with dis or I will report you, I don't like dis

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CzarChris:
From the name elohor, it's clear that you are an urhobo.

I stay and work in Warri. When did Urhobo people marriage list come pass Igbo people own?

When I get an honest answer from you, then we can proceed. I smell lies here.

The tribe she identifies with makes the story fake. The urhobos have one of the cheapest marriage list in Nigeria. They will tell you categorically that they don't sell their daughters. The OP edited an old story but she identified with the tribe that has never been known for expensive bride prize which makes the story very fake. Some people wey read d story go dey ask which part of urhobo dem dey give list of up to 500k? It's really funny

Nigeria is a scam country: they always put the cart before the horse. I thought they said increase in electricity tariff would lead to increase in power delivery? Mehn, dem don too scam us for this country o! This is one of the countries where the price of a service is increased with a promise of improved service delivery but the situation always gets worse and there's nothing we the masses can do about it.

Nothing somebody can say "as a Nigerian this is what I am enjoying; absolutely nothing." The government and everyone that has the chance keeps robbing us and it seems there's nothing we can do. If we don't come together and fight for a better country nothing will ever improve in this nation because everyone out there that gets a little opportunity to be in position is out to exploit the average Nigerian. We gotta come out and speak out because everything in this nation has gotten out of hand!

LandMann:
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