₦airaland Forum

DrFunmisticGlow:
The man landed himself in his present pot of soup, he is responsible for his misfortune and his destroying his marriage himself.

The man did nothing wrong to me o. What's wrong in conducting a DNA on ur child to be sure it's truly yours?
The only wrong he did was entertaining her nonchalant behavior and allowing her seem like she has the upper hand in the relationship.
Have you noticed that women always try to make things work and be in their best behavior when the man care less whether their relationship with her work or not?

Place a woman on a pedestal and she'll think she's better and deserves more. Weak men are very annoying people. They're the ones that empower such type of nonsense behaviors

DrFunmisticGlow:
so you ignored the rest of that writeup. She has checked herself out of the marriage.

The man is a mumu for wanting to go on counseling with someone that has already "checked herself out of the marriage" like you said.
A woman telling you she no longer loves you as a man should quench whatever interest you have in her. She should become a stranger to you and be treated as such the moment she opens her mouth to tell you that.

Men need to understand that they deserve better

You told your husband you don't love him anymore and he wants you guys to go for counseling?
What a very stupid and insecure man! If I was in his shoes I'll be very glad to let you go. Openly telling me you don't love me is the end of whatever bond we have. The sooner men starts treating entitled and thriffling women like they truly deserve, the better the society will be for everyone.
Marriage that can't give you as a man peace and some form of comfort is a waste of time, energy and resources.

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NaijaCowFarm:
I am not happy that Peter Obi did not win. There are clear fundamental factors that were so herculean to overcome the very moment LP/NNPP alliance failed.
Now that Atiku is seemingly out of the way, it is time to galvanise the opposition towards 2027. It is going to be a marathon, so let us start now. There is no point wasting resources on election tribunal. With the capacity shown by Obi, 2027 is possible, but we need to do the following:

1. Not waste time and resources on election tribunal, but need to let Nigerians know of the brazen robbery APC governors and Wike perpetrated. If the PDP wants to challenge the results, let them do so themselves, without involving LP

2. Get real political structure for Labour Party across Nigeria. One reason we loss was because we did not have strong roots in the North.

3. Galvanise all elected officials to form a formidable force to take on APC, which is already reduced in strength from 21 to 12 states.

4. Peter Obi and LP should focus on the March 11, 2023 governorship polls. Obi should begin touring states LP won to boost morale of LP supports in the 22 states win high voters. Not waste resources in states like Katsina, Yobe, Zamfara.

5. LP leadership should begin talks with NNPP, progressive still in PDP and form a formidable party with structure, just like what ACN/CPC did. We need to start now.

What are you saying? If Inec is allowed to go Scot free now with the very obvious rigging, they can do it any other time and people like you would still come out and say the next person should prepare for 2031.

When you don't fight injustice, you allow it to get strengthened and continue spreading.
Yes, tinubu has been declared the winner by compromised inec, but deep down they know they are not the choice of the people and it's making them really sad

engineerboat:
As we move closer to the End of the Voting period for the 2023 Presidential Election in Nigeria.

INEC Has made provision for viewing the result on their result viewing Portal.

The Portal is accessible through:

https://www.inecelectionresults.ng/elections/types

for the Presidential Election Result Per State:
https://www.inecelectionresults.ng/elections/63f8f25b594e164f8146a213?type=pres

For the Senetorial Election Per State:
https://www.inecelectionresults.ng/elections/types/5f129a04df41d910dcdc1d52?type=sen

For the House of Rep Per State
https://www.inecelectionresults.ng/elections/types/5f129a04df41d910dcdc1d53?type=reps

You can also post the result as declared in Your polling Units.

Please Fake result is not welcome.

Good afternoon Nairalander.

engineerboat.

CC: Fergie001

Y'all should stop wasting your energies posting results. Atiku has already won the election. Election started early in the north and went on seamlessly. But down here in the south there was late delivery of materials, destruction of ballot boxes and threat by political thugs to compel electorates to vote for their preferred candidates. Down here in my polling units materials came around 2:27pm after many people don vex go house. The worst thing be say rain sef don start to dey fall.

People really came out to vote but inec and apc thugs discouraged them. The status quo continues and the future of Nigeria gets darker as the year's go by. It's well.

Aufbauh:
As you can observed, I'm not naive and short sighted like most of Obi's headless mob who can't reason critically.

I've taken my time to assess Obi with an open mind. All I can see about him is just an average man both in intellect, competence and capacity.
He lacks the tactfulness and resourcefulness to turn around the multifaceted challenges bewildering the county.

He's just hustling to bear the name (Mr. President) and to file in for perceived ethnic gap.

I don't need to guess much about the outcome or outlook of Obi's presidency cos the tree can easily be recognized by it fruit.

So it old and forgetful Tinubu or Atiku whose character has been questioned over the year's that can handle the 'multifaceted challenges ' bewildering Nigeria? I dey wonder if some of una dey think at all o! Can you give this present tinubu or atiku your company to run for you?

Aufbauh:
Talk is cheap!
Governance is not an academic exercise of reeling out known problems without specific practicable solutions.

It's good he's saying what he's saying as they can be used to hold him accountable. Unlike Buhari that denied all his campaign promises with the excuse that he was not the one that made/said them.

You can use what obi has said in his campaigns and what the others have said to guess who would at least try to do something for the country once he gets there. It's simple common sense.

midashenry:
Peter Obi has the whole of SS and SE in the bag. It is a movement and soon NC and part of SW will become Obidient

Don't be deceived, he doesn't have south east in the bag. Southeast that will declare "no election on biafra land" on election day to scare voters from coming out that you're saying he's bagged? Story!

I'm a staunch supporter of Obi, but happenings in the east is making me lose hope on him. Atiku already has a 90% chance of getting block votes from the north, while Obi's chance of getting block votes from the east is not even up to 50% simply because Igbos don't know how to play politics despite being a major tribe and they'll be shouting marginalization up and down.

Igbos are their own enemies!

MadamVanessa:




Something my darling will win flawlessly, with or without South east support.

He can't win without south east's support. The way d north is stylishly rallying around atiku so should the south east rally around obi.
The likes of soludo should stop demarketing their brother and give him their support. If an igbo man would rule Nigeria , Obi is the best man to make that happen and the time is now.

Rheminx:
Hahahahah..All married women are like this..mind you, they know what they are doing..you just play your role as an husband provide the basic as a minimum and don't think too much..hahahahaha

This your comment na big lie! Who said all married women are like that? What a stupid generalization! You guys should continue accepting nonsense in your homes en! Someone was even saying above that "all married woman have low sex drive," that's how you'll keep claiming your wife has low sex drive and another man is helping you do your job. May God not let you train kids that are not yours because you're too weak to take a stand and be in charge of your home as a man. Some men are truly born stupid and simpish!

godfrey02:
See another one oh. Jesus' same experience here .. how una take dey leave for one roof sef with this kind women

They are weak men, and women always take advantage of weak men. When a man has no standard, pride, self respect and simpish in nature, this is the type of thing that happens to him

laluski:
The poster below you has said it all... Anyway, there is nothing you or anyone can do about it.. divorce is NOT AN OPTION as long as she doesn't go against the God give marriage rules and regulations.. all you can do now is to pray for her to change... Don't go to hell fire because of this... Boil hot water and pour on your hand.. that pain in hell is a 100 times more than hot water... Don't allow desperation and stupidity to overrule your sense of reason.. God no go follow you look am from your angle o

This is a nonsense submission. Who said divorce is not an option when a partner is consciously and adamantly refusing to play her roles to the extent that the other is contemplating suicide? This is a shifty advice. He has every right to kick her out of his home and start afresh. Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. Don't pray to God for things he's given you the common sense to fix

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

You're very insane for contemplating suicide for something that has an easy solution. Your wife has no business being in a marriage if she's unwilling to play her role. Both husband and wife have roles to play in a marriage and if your wife is unwilling to play hers, kick her out of your house and gain back your sanity. Why did she agree to marry you? Man, that's a problem with an easy fix. You can start afresh. Don't take your life because of someone else's selfish and inconsiderate actions. You can start afresh and the sooner you take a stand the better for you.

Romanoff:
Anybody in a marriage that is not comfortable leaving their phones unlocked and with their spouse is cheating or being dishonest about their finances.

This is a fact.

So y'all can explore each other's private parts but the phone is where you draw the line?

For the finance part, my wife won't know about all of my finances because I have several people I'm supporting monthly. I won't want her to start questioning every spending and getting unnecessarily angry concerning some of my spending. But she'll certainly have free access to my phone and vice versa. I don't think there should be any form of privacy in marriage because it gives room for suspicion and distrust

jaxxy:
I don't believe in any sort of fone privacy btwn married couples unless marry the wrong or complicated one which happens alot sadly.

Seriously, there isn't suppose to be any form of privacy in a marriage relationship. I've ghosted several babes for merely overly protecting their phones when we're together and they do have free access to mine. I don't condone nonsense and can never tolerate any act that creates the impression of unfaithfulness. If u're not ready for commitment stay in ur lane.

It's odd for partners in committed relationship to hide their phones from each other. It shows lack of commitment to the relationship. If I can gain access to your body easily which is your most priced possession as an individual, why should gaining access to your phone be an issue? A relationship starts failing the moment any partner starts protecting their phone like their life depends on it. Such action creates suspicion and I don't think I can be in a committed relationship with a secretive partner.

Ocholu:
So today, I was catching up with my buddies when this topic came up. We analyzed it critically with everybody giving his/her own opinions.

I found out that, man! A woman can easily and quickly forgive a man who cheated on her than a man to do so.

Some of my buddies opined that men are polygamous in nature hence, the natural exception. I find their assertions quite disturbing. Because if a woman can forgive and accept back a man who cheated on her, so should a man.

A lady who was with us also said that even though men are the ones who cheat the most, when a woman cheats; all hell let loose. But if it's a man, no noise is heard. Why so??

The other dude was like, if his woman cheats, he'd forgive and accept her. But it's just for the fun of it. That he won't take her serious again.

So in the end, men cheating is somehow normal and acceptable. But a woman's own is a sacrilege and abomination.

It's the double standard for me.

Mods, help propel to FP abeg. Make person get wider opinions.

I'm not in any way justifying cheating by any gender because it's one of the highest form of disrespect for one's partner. But when we talk about cheating in relationship, a man may cheat and still perform his responsibilities and duties at home without any hindrance and most of them still treat their partner with love and respect. But the moment a woman starts cheating that's the moment she would start despising her partner and detaching herself from him emotionally. So cheating on the side of women is more deadly than that of men. A woman that cheats is no longer connected to you in any way and can easily harm you or plot your down fall. A cheating woman is a time bomb and d earlier you discover her cheating and distance yourself from her the better for you. Just saying!

Imagine Buhari looking for a successor to continue his failure as if ascension of the presidential seat is no longer by election! What a human being! APC is already a failed party. With the happenings in the party, the party may not survive after the onslaught of Buhari. Seems anything buhari touches vanishes into thin air.

Cassahav:
Omo i understand the situation but i guess you be single man do you really know what love is??

That's not love, that's stupidity! A one-sided love is a stupid one and can never sustain any relationship because the other partner would keep exploiting it.
A relationship ends the moment any of the partner cheats: it even ends faster if the cheater is the female because a cheating woman can also be a murderer.
U played with your life for such a long time. Chai!

Zonefree:
No one even cares about male refugees

Did you say "male refugees"? No one ever cares about men in this world! After we've struggled hard on our own to survive and make it, some people from a certain gender would spring up from no where and start screaming "equality" - when in reality everything is skewed in their favor

It seems nothing is designed in Nigeria to favour the masses. When oil price was low, everyone in government was lamenting about the low price and how there's no money that they had to increase the oil price of the local market and introduced multiple means of taxing us. We no complain because we understood the situation then.
Now oil price is very high and the same people have started lamenting again and complaining about subsidy. What's going on in this country? Why is it that the masses suffer in scarcity and also in plenty? Will there ever be a time where something good is going to happen in this country that majority of the masses will benefit from it?...

JosephXavier:
Let's be critical in our our approach to this

Women are asking for equality in everything and are asking for an advantage at the same time

You can't be a feminist agitating for level play ground and still asking for 35% seats to be allocated to you because that would be unfair and mischievous

In my own humble opinion, I think they should participate in politics more often and not sit back and wait to be appointed into political positions

A woman I respect so much is Sen Mrs Ekwuniife from Anambra central.

She have contested and shown that she can represent and is now a two time Senator in Anambra central that has the most number of strong politicians like Chris Ngige, Peter Obi, Sen. Vincent Umeh and the rest

Most if these people protesting don't even have a Voter's card and are not registered to any political party, but you would like to win elections and occupy political appointments

You can't reap where you did not sow

Nobody is stopping them from buying tickets, declaring there interest and campaigning

It's a fair challenge so don't be looking for an advantage

They're simply not ready to compete. Men competed (worked) for everything they have and you see them asking for slots. Why? Because they are women! These people only have mouth and nothing else!

zenensky:
Too many old men in our National Assembly, they don't care about women rights there with their 1960s way of thinking.

So giving women slots is now women's right? What happened to equality and everyone contesting on a levelled playing field?
The only thing I see wrong in what they listed are the citizenship stuff and that state of indigene whatever

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Hannania:
If Nigeria was in war, obviously it's gonna be It's Citizens before others. We fall to the nearest blink to blame everything on racism. It's not

Are you serious? Has Nigeria ever put its citizens first? Haven't you seen countless situations where Nigerian security forces dehumanized Nigerians just to protect foreigners? If Nigerian was at war every foreigner having a pale skin would be protected before Nigerians. In fact, Nigerians would be last to be done anything for.

seunmsg:
Game on. We will walk majestically to the polling booths on 25th of February, 2023 to vote for Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu as the president of Nigeria.

Tinubu is well educated, very exposed, understands the economy and how to generate revenue, has an eye for spotting the best talents and deploying them appropriately, very good at developing infrastructure, understands how to secure the country, has a good working chemistry with the private sector and most importantly, he’s a NATIONALIST.

No part of the country will feel marginalized or neglected during his tenure as he will carry everybody along. It’s going to be a period of unimaginable economic growth and shared prosperity. Fellow Nigerians, the choice is yours. Vote Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu for president.

So you no want good for this country en! What does old and weak tinubu has to offer? What you wrote up there are same thing they said about buhari and he turned out to be a monumental failure, we don't want another packaged failure please!

Ebelelivinston:
My guy,I have I lady I love o deeply that am ready to do anything for her.I disflower her,yet she has a sugar daddy that does anything for her,am happy she's not billing me because am struggling too,am angry she's cheating on me with this old man,but I wont and will never let her go simply because,I rather stay with a devil i know than the angel I don't know.

A devil will always be a devil and a devil will always end up making your life miserable. People that do make such statement (your ending statement) regret their decision later on in life.

Nwodosis:
She is still for everybody until you marry her.

Anybody that is for everybody when he/she is in a serious relationship with you even if you marry her/him, he/she will still be for everybody. It will only take a little time before he/she will start distributing it to everybody again. Though, they become more skilful at hiding it.
Marriage doesn't change anyone : it either brings out the best or worst in a person.

From the pics this guy posted on page 5, it's obvious the story is false. Seems this is another begging format on nairaland. No landlord will give you a quit notice written with pen and come to remove your roof 3 months to the expiry of your rent. Nigerians sha, dey can be very creative for bad thing!