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3coins:
He beat wilder is the last two fights? I am sure you didn’t watch the first

Seriously. ..most of the people saying fury beat wilder in the first fight didn't watch it. Wilder completely outclassed fury in that fight. To be sincere, wilder won that fight - I was shocked when they scored it as draw.
The second fight was what I didn't understand. The same wilder that was very confident and always on the attack in the first fight was now looking very scared to throw a punch all through the time the second fight lasted. Maybe God just wanted to humble him because he really got so loud before that fight

KosiGee:
Deontay Wilder can’t beat Fury. Why is he working so hard to get himself injured? Fury bested him in their two previous fights.
He should stop being a clog in the wheel of progress.

Fury vs Joshua is the fight we want to see. Either can use Deontay as a sparring partner.

I don't think you watched the first fight between the two. Wilder bested fury in the first fight, I believe it was the over confidence that made him train less which resulted to fury outclassing him in their second clash.
A third clash between the two will be a very hard one for fury: you know why? It's simply because a man that's already on the ground has got nothing to lose, but he would certainly want to prove a point.

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Make una dey forget all this una funny talk of "I wanted to marry her..." person wey no want or send you naim you wan 'wanted to marry'! Funny guys really plenty for this nairaland o. So you need soothsayer to tell you say d babe no send you again en? Some guys go just dey fall their hand for small small girls! Imagine someone calling a girl up to 20times in one day! O boy, people dey o! Ur mata don pass advice o... na maturity and self-respect you need

blazepascal:
When it comes to relationships or picking a partner for marriage, most Nigerians have a long list of preferences and what they want their spouses to possess in order to make a perfect partner.

Men have want their women to be respectful, beautiful, caring, bold and hard-working before they can consider them as "wife materials". This ideology often make some men to be too selective and usually end up being single even in their forties.

What about the women? Nigerian girls are very complicated people and their idea of an "ideal" husband might depend on age.

A teenage girl or one in her early twenties would want a fun guy, the party type that would take her places to have fun on weekends. Any guy that behaves like a husband to a girl of these age bracket will surely be disappointed as her lifestyle and mentality might be too over-whelming for him. These kinds of ladies prefer play boys and fun lovers at the moment.

Since we're talking about ladies who are choosing the kind of men they want to spend the rest of their lives with, let's get down to the point.

What do ladies mean when they say they want a "God-fearing" man?

First let's describe who a God-fearing man is. A person who is God-fearing is an overly religious person who sees nothing more important than his relationship with God. These people are try to live as holy as they can and often times, treats all people with love and respect equally. These kind of people don't lay much emphasis on romance or being a "great husband" and treat their spouses equally with the way they treat other people outside.

Now, with the above description is there any Nigerian woman that would want that kind of man? Many would cringe at the mere idea of marrying a pastor so as not to appear wearing gowns that they wouldn't normally wear.

No Nigerian woman would want to share her husband's love and affection with anyone and clearly, intimacy is a vital ingredient in marriage that must be shown as often as possible so as to keep the bond strong.

Some Nigerian women would likely cheat or even loath on her "God-fearing" husband because well, that isn't what she had hoped for.

So in summary, what people actually mean when they tell you that they want a "God-fearing man" is actually "I want a Good man''.

"I don't want someone who's too religious".

So the question is, why do we say one thing and mean another?.

Your description of a god-fearing man is very shallow. The fact that a man loves God doesn't mean that he's not romantic or he's got no game. We get many levels brothers in my church with styles and class that actually love God. The fact say person love God and chooses to live for God no mean say d person no sabi catch fun or do shits because your definition of fun and mine no fit be the same but that one no mean say you dey get more grove than me. Just saying!

Kelvin3476:
U said sumtin gr8 bt the part u talkd abt respecting all ur wish like a zombie isn't part of the submission i am talkn abt.

That's some men's definition of submission - control. They want to control the woman and expect her to always do as they say. The moment the woman have any different opinion from theirs or object to any of their orders, you'll hear them saying that she's not submissive. Submission no mean say she no go get voice or say for the family Mata, is all about how she treats you and makes you feel.

Kelvin3476:
U ARE VERY CORRECT , BUT HOW CAN A BROKE MAN EARN SUBMISSION FROM A RICH WIFE ?

Submission is not earned, submission is given. A woman that truly loves you would have less difficulty submitting to you. Also, both men and women submit to each other. As a man, any time you respond to your wife's need, listen to her concerns and put her first, you're indirectly submitting to her at those instances and vice versa. Submission has nothing to do with your woman obeying all your others like a zombie without her having any say, it's more about how you both treat each other, relate with each other and respond to each other's needs and concerns. So if she loves you, submission would come naturally to her irrespective of whether she earns more or less.

HisMajesty1:
Lol... Look elsewhere? We're stuck with them na.

Good as you don already know say you're stuck with them. All those team 'foreign ladies' wey specialize in bashing Nigerian girls and dem neva fit even get opportunity to cross enta Niger go realize las las say na d same babes wey dem don bash tire online be their only option for marriage. Lol

Submission in a relationship is not a function of your financial weight or the family responsibilities you're shouldering as a man, submission is a function of your wife's perception of you. How your wife sees you influences how she'll treat you; irrespective of whether you have money or not. Also, submission influenced by your financial strength is no submission but eye-service because it ends the moment your financial strength declines. Just saying!

davhams:
Absolutely cryptocurrency trading is a very difficult task and is subject to high market risks with unpredictable deviations from one’s trading system,really many have lost,loosing better still will be loosing.
You don’t need any Indicator
You don’t need any technical analysis
You don’t need any signal or alert
You don’t need any news to decide trade
You don’t need any robot
You don’t need to copy any Guru’s trading system

I don't think you've ever traded any crypto before from what you posted. Crypto trading is much easier than forex trading, and though the market can be unpredictable at times just like any indices and commodity market, you need indicators and some analysis to help you make a good decision. Every market has risk, even the normal daily physical buying and selling business, but having a plan is what will make you stand out in the business. The General rule in crypto trading is "buy low and sell high" and sometimes indicators may give you an idea of possible lows and highs. So try to find out about what you want to talk about sometimes before yarning dust about it. Just saying!

Thompz43:
Someone should recommend escrow service here for me.
This idiot just come my inbox and call me scammer because of $110 coins, simply because i didn't comply with his escrow..

$110 may be a chicken change to you, but it may be a very big change to the "idiot" as you can't tell how long it took him to amass such chicken change. You can't really blame him for mistaking you for a scammer because it is no news that scammers are everywhere in the country lately and no one wants to be a victim regardless of how "chicken" the change may be.
So it's your duty to make him understand that you can be trusted and that you run a legit business instead of calling your prospective client "idiot" and the worth of business he/she wants to transact with you "chicken change."

Resuscitate:
Hi everyone, this is my first time of creating a thread here and I created this thread out of necessity to seek for your help.

I have some payoneer funds I want to sell to an exchanger, though I'm yet to pick any exchanger since it's difficult to identify the legit ones, but the problem I want to resolve first before engaging an exchanger is how can I identify or verify that an exchanger is legit and isn't someone that will abscond with my hard earned money.

we all know the transaction is going to be a payoneer to payoneer transfer, while the person is going to pay me in cash, and should anything go wrong, there'll be no way for me to trace the exchanger's Nigerian bank account and seek for it to be blocked should he/she refuse to keep to his/her end of the bargain. So please, what are the things I need to do to verify the credibility of the exchanger before engaging in a transaction with him/her.

please, those of you that have exchanged payoneer funds before and it was successful should please help me out. Thanks in anticipation of your helpful responses.

You just need to be careful with anyone you're gonna deal with here because it's really every difficult to differentiate the legit guys from the scammers as some of the scammers were once legit people. Try to get the person's personal information and if possible request for his/her bank account number even if the transaction is going to be on payoneer.

SenecaTheYonger:
Until bear market comes and 99% pull out of crypto lol

You funny o! Bear market will certainly come and its a good time to buy more. The best crypto pairs to trade are those paired with any of the usds. When the crypto gets low buy with ur usdt and when it increases sell for usdt or any of the usds. That's one easy way to get good profit in crypto trading. So the bear market is a good opportunity for buying more for those wey know d game.

oluwasegun007:
Summary ,

You wan chop like every other guy and run...but after the condition attached you calm down.

Conclusion, even if she has had intercourse on a daily basis for the past one year if you love her you will not be asking questions.

You just need excuse to japa like other guys.

All this undergraduate relationship sef.

This na dumb talk! Loving her should make you even ask her more questions. Being in love is not being stupid. Make una stop to dey pass wrong message so as to reduce the number of people getting exploited and drained daily in the name of LOVE

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

Funny talk! That part where she said 'she's coming to have sex with you whenever you both meet and whatever happens, you shouldn't leave her - even if she gets pregnant,' hope she isn't coming to transfer someone else's pregnancy to you? Hmm... the way the life is now en, you should swallow everyone's words with a pinch of salt o because nobody holy anymore o! Just saying sha! But e be like say u still be novice for relationship Mata o... bros, use ur head make girls no go use u take catch cruise o!

Someone7:
We will not learn our lessons in Nigeria. Ever

Knee jerk solutions have always been our approach to solving issues. Imagine thinking protests are not spontaneous.

People don't protests because it's fun or because it's they want to be shot at by police. Generally speaking, people protest to end oppression.

When do we start tackling root causes like ensuring rule of law, and fairness and justice and end oppression, rather than treating symptoms in Nigeria?

If the people don't rise up and speak, how can oppression end? But how can the people speak up, when they're being gagged by the government? Some of the commenters above are hailing the government, but Nigeria can never change and injustice will keep being the order of the day until we all rise up and demand for a better country. The rule of law will never be upheld in this country until we make them uphold it. The ball is in our court - you and I.

Sebastine1994:
No dey follow follow crowd. Use your brain too

Protest does not work.

What did the Endsars protest solve? it created more problems,

let us be United first to demand for our right

You want to know how to be United?

we have tools like Facebook to unite us together, break barriers, but when I see how the useless youths abuse Facebook, I weep.

I am a member of Abuja Connect,

They have never posted anything that will benefit anybody on that forum, they post jokes and useless prayers on that forum, Naked girls saying I am from Kubwa, Am I welcome?. That is not what such groups are for

Such Group is for something mature, to bring people residing within a zone together irrespective of barrier. They are not connecting anybody.

if I want to make an announcement in Abuja, where do I go to? why must I go to a radio station, when we have tools like Abuja connect.

Facebook group is a blessing in disguise, if you know what I mean. THINK ABOUT IT

#Endsars did not create any problem, the politicians are the ones that used hoodlums to make it look like it created a problem. #endsars sent a strong message to the politicians that soon the youths are going to rise up and demand for their rights and a better country if they don't sit up now and do the needful.

The military might have ended the first one abruptly with their reckless killing and instilled fear, but a day will come when no one will be scared of the military or dying anymore and everyone will stand with one voice and scream "enough is enough!"

The politicians may seem to be having the last laugh now, but such laughter will soon turn to crying and wailing if they don't start making the country work now, because the youths' patience and hope in the country are getting thiner by the day and it will get to a stage where we all are going to see the government(everyone in it) as the real enemy of our country and we would want to do anything to get them out.

So to me, #endsars protest was just a preamble of what's to come if our current crop of selfish, evil, corrupt and unpatriotic politicians don't amend their ways and start fixing the country.

All those thin men wey like to dey marry big women na dem dey suffer domestic abuse pass. Luv no fit over catch me to come go carry watin i know say i no stand any chance against. There's one in my area, whenever he has a misunderstanding with the wife he'll not sleep in the house till d wife has calmed down. Some women no just sabi manage power at all o! If some women get anything pass u as a man ur own don finish be dat o!

LordIsaac:
Get a wardrobe with key. It is indiscipline not to respect the other's property in the name of marriage. Except, of course, she does the laundry and all, which I doubt.

Bros, d moment u marry en, u no get any property wey be solely your own again. Na una two get everything: even ur little Johnny! Which one be indiscipline on top cloth matter again? Some of una just dey too uptight! d woman just like to dey feel her husband's scent by wearing his clothes but d man be like say na village headmaster im be.

vybzkartel:
My wife has been wearing my shirts and I hate it it
I have warned her but she is not putting a stop
How do I stop her?

This ur own strong o! How can u say: u detest your wife wearing your shirt? Ur wife o, no be gf sef! Hmm... na wah o! There was one of my babes that year that loves wearing my boxers and polo shirt and it was kinda sexy. Anyway, people different sha.
Try to find out her reasons for wearing your shirt and regardless how flimsy the reason (s) may sound to you, just let her be jare. She's ur wife; If she no wear ur shirt na which person own she suppose wear before? My own? Oga a free ur wife joor!

Our politicians no really get shame! So FFK wan decamp to apc true true! All dese men only care about their pocket and gives no shit about this country. Dis na really time for d youths to rise up and retire all these greedy men taking our country backward.

inoki247:
If you ask them why's the country not progressing is because the Price of oil in the international market is Low if we pray say make the thing high again we go dey see speech like be ready to suffer more...

D thing just be as e get for dis country!
E just be like say dem design this country to fail. Fuel price low, govt go complain and use am as excuse for doing nothing, fuel price come manage high in hope say dem no go complain and continue to blame am for deir cluelessness, yet dem go still complain and tell d masses to prepare for more suffering, watin fuel price go come do now wey go favor us? because weda e high or low, na same suffering and excuses, abi e no get price wey fuel go dey and e go manage to favour d Nigerian masses? See govt wey we get!

Whatever happened to you were as a result of your carelessness. When dem tell guys not to use their work time to chase woman or retire to a woman place immediately after work na to avoid dis kind story. You meet girl for not up to a month and you don go introduce am to your mum sharp sharp. Hmm...funny guys full this naija o! Watin dey vex me sef na pple like you go come nairaland come dey form James bond on top woman matter! Abegi count ur loss make u move on jare! U get luck say no be the motor wey u take dey hustle dem obtain

Naajjii:
Your level of comprehension is low, in his comments you didnt see where he mentioned if it were to be a non- northern muslim president that did what Buhari is doing they would be coup and crisis. Can you decipher that? Who are the people that will cause the coup and crisis? Who was he referring to, was he referring to Buhari here or muslims in general?.

How is that statement an attack on muslims? Buhari's government is the most nepotistic government in the history of Nigeria. Nobody belonging to any other faith could try it and not get the backlash of the people or even get impeached sef, but because Buhari is from the north and a Moslem he's being overlooked. What the pastor said is the obvious truth and it's not an attack on anybody.
Calling something that is very visible for even the blind to see an attack is foolishness. Beside, the pastor wasn't the first person that had raised such concern, why is he the only one being threatened? The former president didn't do one-tenth of what Mr. Buhari has done yet he was lambasted from every corner during his tenure. I believe you were even among those that nicknamed him "ineffectual buffon," now just one small criticism of your lord and saviour - buhari, una no want make we hear word again. Abeg make all of una shift enter one corner make person see front joor!

Etudy:
Men of God should concentrate in preaching the words of God and stay away from analysing politics or political figures let alone dragging religion into politics, men of God should always preach Peace, love, righteousness and not messages full of incitement and hate.

Make i ask you this question: watin the bishop talk na true or na lie? Why truth dey pain people like this? So make everybody quiet dey look d country make Buhari and im cohorts dey destroy am dey go like that? Make I no tell you watin dey my mind!

emrain:
Please keep quiet. Anybody can be killed in this country and nothing will happen.

Ps - I'm not a northerner.

Ok, go and kill him and watch if nothing will happen. Muslims are not up to christians in this country and should such thing mistakenly happen that may be the end of Nigeria. Let me allow you to wallow in your stupidity. Bye

NeoWanZaeed:
Going through the comments. .its clear people here are damn HYPOCRITE. NO RELIGIOUS MAN WOULD INTERFERE INTO POLITICS. Leave these idiots to themselves. Saw a guy defending oyedepo and one pastor to0th and nail despite the fact that they are glaringly wr0ng

"No religious man would interfere in politics?" So the religious man no be citizen of the country? The religious man is not affected by the headless policies of the government? Guy this your yarn na misyarn joor!
Have you ever heard any Christian cleric publicly say that they're going to attack anyone or influence their congregation to attack the government? So watin come concern them oyedepo and pastors for this talk na? Abi the person wey dey threaten a bonafide citizen of the country with crucifixion na Christian pastor? Abeg go borrow sense before you yarn dust!

emrain:
If they kill him nothing will happen. You personally won't do shit.

You're boldly saying this trash because you guys are depending on the Nigerian military to come to you guys' aid. You think say if Christians forget peace talk and face una squarely, una go fit stand? We pray this doesn't snowball into something that will consume this country!

Naajjii:
Just imaging the attacks and counter attacks going here and even threat of crucification. I hope the Bishop is happy with the current attacks and counter attacks by religion extremists caused by his comments against muslims

When did the bishop make any comment against Muslims? Or is it that you have problem understanding simple English? You people will not cease to amaze someone! See the kind people wey we dey share the same country with! Buhari has suddenly turned to the president of Muslims that a criticism of his misdeeds is a criticism of Muslims. Nigeria still get every very long way to go!

vioment:
Who be this foolish cleric.

Criticism and threat are two different things, he can criticize Oga Buhari if he wishes like you too.


The pastor need to take him to ekelebe and fast forward it to court. He just threaten the pastor.



Criminal cleric your own dun dey too much.


Oga Buhari need to be using times like this to set a progressive example. Remind that thuggish cleric that he can get in trouble. All that silence way of leadership is not working, upgrade your leadership skills. Fight for unity, equality, and prosperity until you leave office.

If na one Christian cleric naim make this kind of statement, come even do video join am, shay dss for don go pick am? We fold hand dey watch the government and their religious favoritism!

This people ranting dey quite strange to me. Is Buhari the president of Muslims or the president of Nigeria? So because buhari is a muslim someone cannot criticise his lopsided appointments and ineffectiveness en! What a people!

BEDC is one of the most corrupt electricity distribution companies in Nigeria. They bill their customers any how whether there is light or not. This is their usual practice that is why they've refused to give anyone prepared meter. Look, I don't think there's anything you can do because this is naija and nobody send the common man. Beside, na politicians them privatize NEPA give that's one of the major reasons why we're going to keep paying our hard earned money for darkness until we all rise up and say enough is enough to this nonsense. But until then, keep paying your monthly 5k for darkness: that's one of the cross we have to carry for being Nigerians. Kpele!

Princeofasia:
lol, i no want go into this tyoe of explanaton because all the maths wey them teach me for school, na only 2% of it i dey use now

Lol. So far you sabi count moni and calculate profit and loss, you dey use over 30% be dat. I hail!