₦airaland Forum

sugaslim:
Please be careful, most Naija used corolla are Uber wounded.
No go buy another man problem ooooo

Chummynoni:
60k meant a lot to me as salary because I had to wait for a whole 30days before earning it. I sat down at a point in my life, and thought about my life , like for how long would I continue waiting for 30days before earning 60k. No time for friends, no time for family, you earn the money, and gets broke within 2weeks. I left the job , and within 2weeks of resigning, and realizing how much I earn and spend within those time, I hated myself for accepting such a salary for 1year+. Instances, when I was earning the salary, my sub doesnt exceed 1k in a month, now, my sub is 8k in a month, and so many other instances I cant narrate here. @OP, I have no advise for you. Just read my experience , and advise yourself. The ball is in your court.

thebosstrevor1:
Nonsense comment.

You want people to do dna test without thinking about data protection.

Nigerian dna market is unregulated.when you give your dna to companies, they have control over you.

RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

BestOsai:
She did nothing wrong.A man is the head and the woman a help mate.He was wrong in asking her what her role will be.She is supposed to help him from her heart as the need arises.Men invest tens of millions in their wives' businesses without expecting anything in return. That she has agreed to be his wife is enough reason to invest in her.It is his duty to take care of his family ,most especially his wife.If he treats her well & shows the right attitude, he wont have to tell her when she has to step in.She will do so voluntarily.

Zzor:
Is he marrying her for gains, why have are you men becoming leeches smh

GarangDeMabior:
These places you named have been known as north for a long time.

They have a common language binding them which is Hausa.

ademidedavid:
Yes I saw it but thought my jobs can cater for it

ademidedavid:
She tends to be the best wife and mum if their is money but changes once its the opposite even her mum noticed her mood during this lockdown period.

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

samuelson06:
What job do you want to secure? Where's the job? Guy, think of what you can do, what capital you need to get started and how you can raise the money. Don't plan of becoming a slave for any organization. If at all you want to work for anyone, payment should be at least 100k. Nonetheless, you must still plan on how to be on your own and leave your employer within two years or less. The best you can do for yourself is becoming an entrepreneur.

MrToothBrush:
The question should be, if you get a job at 30 what is your retirement age? Would you be happy with you culminative retirement pay?

dangotesmummy:
lmaoooo anybody tobari boshey soro Moran Moran asope omoluabi tansibe


This cover ups and packaging to make benue appear like some form of utopian place kolework.its obvious.we see it in the news everyday.its nothing hidden so carry your nonsense commot for my front before I wooze you slap

dangotesmummy:
Herdsmen, bokoharam , poverty, illiteracy and Islam never do Una?


Una con add cultism to your woes


Suffer head people

Ignorance is written all over your statement. Google about Benue State before using your 50mb to type crap. Apart from failed government administrations, come back and tell us what you find out.

If I check well, you don't know jack about Nigeria's diversity apart from what they told you at home that Nigeria is Igbo, Hausa and Yoruba.

I know it will hurt your brains but it will benefit you if you know more than what happens in your region.

madridguy:
From your write up I think she's trying to test you and see how you will react to her dark side too. She might as well be hurt to hear the dark side of you and maybe she cooked something up to see your reaction too.

My observation though.

urchmanio:
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lekjons:
so am I supposed to be happy or something

nototribalist:
I love this man. I'm so happy he's a learned leader. When you hear him speak you know that God sent him to pull us out of the zoogeria.

connectpoint:
When did i call you an animal ?

Oh i'm stup*d i don't know good news happen... perhaps you've just arrived from mars and haven't been reading the news in the past one week

connectpoint:
When did i call you an animal ?

Oh i'm stup*d i don't know good news happen... perhaps you've just arrived from mars and haven't been reading the news in the past one week

connectpoint:
evil news everywhere everyday... it's too much

oshe11:
dey dere mk pant dey wear U.....
Abi no be Naija wen I first U see again

NwaAmaikpe:


I don't trust her motive... This certainly has a ritual undertone.

oshe11:
Is the Mad Woman the dark woman wit red lipstick




After ur husband dn impregnate the mad woman for moni ritual U dey use style take the pikin go motherless babies home so dat u wud go adopt her later abi