₦airaland Forum

karnafiu03:
me I get 9As and I no make noise o

Na lie

Employ this closed loop system

>Dream>Hard work >Perseverance>Result

VickyRotex:
Thank you Jaybee for the response.
I want to believe I'm verifiable then. lol. Right?

But sadly, I am not in Naija, else I wouldnt mind doing my best to verify this myself. That's why I suggested a friend who stays in Uyo. But I dont think she has a NL account.

If TEHN knows anyone that stays in Uyo and is verifiable, that will be great.

PS: Please note that I dont know the Family personally and I am very much interested in verifying this, as TEHN is.

Thank you!

You’re welcome Vicky.

Of course you are verifiable naaaaaaaa

TeHN can’t be directly involved with medical cases regardless of it being limited. However, as we’ve previously advised with this sort of situation, it’s probably best you engage the moderator of the Health section to help coordinate the verification process

Regards

VickyRotex:
Hello TEHN,

Thank you for your response.
Just a quick question. When you say the verification has to be done by a verifiable Nairalander, is it TEHN that chooses the Nairalander? Or how's it done?

Thank you TEHN!

A verifiable Nler is one with a long standing posting history.

It's just an approach we employ to ensure gaming is curtailed

What awareness are they trying to raise though?

I still don't get the reason why their choice has to be forced down our throats

Nonsense

cocoberry:
Are you asking me out now? YES!!!

No go forget finder's commission oo

Omotayor123:
My parent help with my expenses. so it gives me the opportunity to save.

Share some na

alegbeleye:
I just need 500k for my business.

na kidnapping business ?

Stephen Curry earns more per week with less global appeal

austino677:
1:Nairabet
2:bet9ja
3:merrybet
4:lionsbet

Gbayi bro

agitator:
Now you are talking. Problem is Nigerians are not adapting, keeping the old cultures that favours them and accepting the new/foreign that favours them, others are at the receiving end.

Women want equal opportunities, as the advanced world, while maintaining man being responsible for the welfare of the family.

This causes a shortage of marriageable men, because the men want to meet up.

So we shouldn't disengage/derail wheel or pace of evolvement but instead educate the younger ones on how to make themselves attractive to prospective suitors

agitator:
Flip as much as you want.

1. It is the man that pays the bride price in Nigeria.

2. It is the responsibility of the man (by African tradition) to feed the family (although some women are breadwinners, but in most of such marriages the man has no say in the family).

3. The man also takes care of his parents and siblings including those of the wife's family (except in few instances where the wife is rich or her family is well-off).


The developed west we are copying, scrapped bride price a long time ago.
and family financial responsibility is shared.

Bride price is culture specific hence isn't recognised by the law. Though it's common but surely can't be used as standard

It was the responsibility of the man back in 'em days as written in the holy book. Women historically stayed at home as most jobs required and demanded physical prowess. World has evolved and we ought to adapt accordingly

nitt:
u made brain!!

I've always been an advocate of this.

Let's flip it for a second and view it from a father/daughter angle.

Would you feel comfortable allowing your daughter whom you've tremendously invested in become a second class citizen just so she can become a Mrs?
Or
Would it be acceptable not to invest in them (girls) but rather focus on the boys since they will most certainly yield positive financial results?

I think it has a lot to do with understanding and full acceptance of roles in marriages.

miella:
It is better to go for longer tenor especially if the amount you are investing is high.

For example, see the difference between investing N100,000 for 364 days and the same N100,000 for 91 days below:

If you invest N100,000 for 364 days at a rate of 18.65%, your interest will be N18,650.00.

While for 91 days @ 13. 6% your interest will be N3,390.68

Now if you multiply 3,390.68 * 4, your interest will be N13,562.72 (if you invest four times in a year for 91 days each)

So you can see longer tenor will give higher interest. Now imagine if you invest like N4,000,000.00, the difference will be very high

Your Calc is slightly off but your point is valid if we don't take the possibility of rate rising into account

Jarus:
Why does such penis captivus always happen to cheating married people? Not singles mating. Not couples.

Selective reporting because it's newsworthy in Africa but largely suppressed elsewhere as it's an embarrassing phenom

tollu:


The associated mail has brain touch but I'd go see if I can sort it out. If not, will drop an alt email shortly.

Okay great

tollu:
Woke up to ITA this morning, ese o eyin thread members, Oluwa a gbo adura gbogbo wa!

The journey continues...

Thank you heavenly Father.

P.S Jaybee3, I don dey leave you go small small be that o

Meanie

Your PM working?

olu4life:
And by the way, transfer to which next case exactly. When last has TEHN functioned in any medical need. Not buying it rara. I was actively involved in this case so I must be carried along. Kappish. Or simply gimme the room to begin allegations

Not being involved with medical cases goong forward doesn't mean we've been redundant so Please go ahead with the allegations

Regards

olu4life:
@Tehn why the refusal to my request?
Cos I am not down with all the explanations you gave. Till I get response from the other side before I can see a transparent option here

cc Jaybee3

I honestly don't understand your point to be honest bro

You aren't a representative of a TeHN so why would you expect us to give you a confidential number?

How else do you want us to be transparent when we've clearly stated the option to refund donated funds

Funjosh:
I think the bolden was the last stand while we wait for him to attain the age of enrollment, is it the parent that are refusing him not going to the school

Yes

Funjosh:
Not understanding

What's confusing Sir?

tollu:
Lol. I don hear. Life's good, I can't complain
Whats ke? I hate that app, even eleran wey dey supply you meat go dey message you. Deleted it years back.

You go fear downgrading

Mark must hear am

tollu:
Hehehehe. E ku ijo metta
Yes, I am o. We go come dey greet you for JD

Factor me into the equation na

Been a min...How is life na?

You on whats...?

tollu:
Impatient ke? This EE is a true test of patience o

To answer your question, no idea.

Are you seriously leaving me behind?

1bkaye:
Where in Nigeria or the Middle east? Still in touch with any of the oldies?

Lag/doha (my other half has been there for a few)

Nah not really

1bkaye:
Lol thanks

Back to the capital, thinking of going to Nigeria for a bit though. Yourself?

I'm also looking into that or the middle east

1bkaye:
Lol ages ago, I'm an old woman now. How are you?

Ps can you please edit the name out, I'm a lot more low-key now

Makes a whole lotta sense jare

Back to the capital or you stayed behind?

Mamaof2:
My LA are unable to help me at the moment, as I would classed as being intentionally homeless due to the eviction. I will be staying with my mother until I am able to find my feet. My LA will be able to help me as long as I can prove I have been staying at my mothers place for a few months. I am also expecting baby number 2 so it's the most practical Plan for now.

There's no issue, i just wanted reassurance that I am planning on doing the right thing, which is to separate.
Sometimes when you have been accepting things for a long time, You tend to forget what is normal/acceptable. I keep questioning myself, asking if I'm overreacting etc.
But it's not normal and I need to accept that....

It's nice to know I am on the same page with most posters here.

You are definitely going about it the right way. It's ultimately going to be your cross at the end of the day so it's comforting to know you've assessed your situation and arrived at the evidence based judgement that you deserve better.

It's usually very difficult with those comfortable making a living by scamming other people to turn their lives around. It's a values thing and them kinda people don't change values mid way through their lives

1bkaye:
Lool so you're still here? Thought everyone had left

Not much of a commentator these days though

Glad to know you still balling

I'm sure ... is done and dusted right?

1bkaye:
Lol hey stranger ^.^

When are you going to start talking to strangers offline though?

Blunt gyal

Mamaof2:
I live in london

Have you considered going to your LA?

What exactly is the issue here though (please pardon my ignorance), saving your marriage or practical solutions to your current financial/housing predicament?

Do you live in the capital?