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Mzspread:
If he had been flown abroad, all these tests would have been minimal. Let the teams please come together and resolve in flying him out for better treatment if its stil possible. Al these tests are too much. I wonder how much must have been spent so far in that hospital.

It is well with u DJdola

We needed to get an idea of exactly what's wrong with DJ hence the insistence on getting a definitive diagnosis before planning and effecting next move.

I don't have a phone so i'm waiting on santa to bring me one this xmas

Na pdp affair

The story na porkies jor

UjSizzle:
Nope. I don't notice the lips until I'm already attracted.

Hmmmmm

What then do you notice?

@chaircover
@madamcc

UjSizzle:
*flips hair*
If we don't give the world drama, who will?

Abeg which hair you been dey flip biko?

I dey laugh oooooo

Okijajuju1:
Indeed it is unlike me.. Infact, I had to think over the matter severally before posting and I maintain my stance..

A husband of 8 years passes away at what I am guessing is a young age and his widow is online less than 3 days later announcing his death to a largely unknown group just to get sympathy responses, likes and shares? Or what exactly? And she was even still online monitoring the post to see the responses. .

Madam please forgive me but this strikes me as very odd.. I suffered a loss this year (pregnancy) and that shiit really put me out for weeks.. And here we are talking about someone's husband of 8 years who passed on less than 4 days ago. I would expect her to be so distraught and surrounded by family that her focus would not even be on her phone let alone a forum.

It's either I am over thinking this or I have lost the plot of what it means to grieve the loss of one's spouse.

The time frame is just too short for comfort..

Oga, the fact of the matter is people grieve differently and there really isn’t an acceptable way to grieve the demise of loved ones. The most important thing at this trying time for her is the support network and if she feels hers is restricted to NL then who are we to suggest it’s a wrong way to go about it.

This is a classic case of a girl ignoring her happiness just so she can have the priviledge to be called a Mrs.

I know it's emotionally hard/challenging for women to have kids with different men and this single fact may have contributed to the reason why the lady is trading her happiness for the bull crap continously being meted out to her.

Fact of the matter is, a dangerous precedent has now being set meaning plans and agreements are always going to be inconsequential going forward in their relationship. You just don't make the potential happiest day of your woman's life arguably the saddest day by being indecisive and arrogantly inconsiderate.

The date for the primaries was set and published long time ago so they should have known not to agree to the date when it was being set. This is just yet another excuse from someone who isn't really bothered about the emotional effect on his long suffering fiance.

A cancelled wedding is better than a failed marriage

Fhemmmy:
Yes, sir oh.... Na you biko.

Share dis money biko

Pastor Fhemmy

GenBuhari:
General Abacha did not loot at all

sorry i dont engage loons

Your own is loading . . . . . .

Mynd44:
Lmao...

What if you never find out?

Big brother thingzzz
My/our eyes are on you!

UjSizzle:
Go away. My battery is dying
You've failed in your duty to provide me a new one


Don't talk to me again

Is it about battery?
Make i begin beat chest sharpish....nwanne, i will build you your own personal battery factory for nnewi

Mynd44:
You know I will gladly do you...I hope jaybee does not have a gun

Anu eh shey mi
Oun fi iru oka shey re

F

UjSizzle:
Lmao!!
Booboo I don't know what greenlights are biko.

If a guy comes to my rescue, I assume he's being kind.

If I help a guy out, I know it's all because of kindness.

Don't quite get why people have to make a big deal out of nothing.

If I enjoy your company, I'll hangout with you.....no strings.

If you enjoy my company, then same goes.....no strings.

If you enjoy my company because you want a relationship I'm not interested in, then no hanging out. No time to be labeled a green lighter.

All these 'color variations' just tire me.

Nobody should try to read my colours (hian ) or paint me one because I am colour blind.
If you have something to say, then please say it. If I have something to say, I'll do the same.



Btw Mynd44, writing this topic is a green light

Please upgrade me.....I don't want to be permanently stuck on amber

OMA4U:
Note: My take.

One moment you are saying this

OMA4U:
Secondly, I don't agree with asking a girl, if she would date you. It will really make you look childish, and she might deny ever being in love with you.

Then this

OMA4U:
No other way to ask someone out other than to try your luck. Say what is on your mind , provided the atmosphere supports that kind of discussion. I think we understand this better.

Wetin you want make we do?

Uju been giving Amber light since 1880 <= Neither green nor red.

Exjoker:
To be honest green light as the call it is very important to/during dating a girl/boy. It let you know your stand and what step you should take next. Green light is just the promising signs your partner emit to show the also have same feeling for you. So Green light is just a name...an I know it too.

So you are comfortable mortgaging your time, wallet and fragile heart on a mere promise?

Lovethlovesmike:
Answers:
Question 1: At a certain age and with certain accomplishments, most men will expect marriage next on your to-do list. Which is, in my case.
2. How do they know? Hello ... I'm not ugly and I've never posted any guys pics on social media. They ask and I simply tell them that I'm seeing someone else.
3. Simply put, my understanding of commitment is personal dedication and some sort of assurance (which may fail) by words or actions that I'm in his long-term plans.

Do you think it's right to work in tandem with goals set by the society when it isn't really what you want?

Of course you aren't ugly but i would expect any serious guy to hit you up with i want to marry you chat up line and expect you to take them serious.

I like your personal definition of commitment. So is he dedicated to you cos if he is then that's about the best assurance you can ever wish for as a woman.
However, if he isn't then i should be asking you why you are simply wasting your time

agabaI23:
But the guy you are routing for said the father was not corrupt and you also say he is incorruptible.

Technically, do you punish a son for his father's offence?

I haven't rooted for any potential contestant.
Did he gain from his father's crimes or where exactly did he get the money he has been using to campaign for all these years?

Lovethlovesmike:
I understand your point, but in OP's defense (because I'm in a similar situation), there are more serious guys out there willing to commit and have already made their intentions to settle down, known to me from the get-go without my "entertainment". Maybe that's why she refers to them as "suitors". Thing is, it's not easy to jump from one relationship to the other especially when you're already in a drama-free relationship with a great deal of understanding. My own issue is that he's slow as a snail!! I keep dropping men out of my life when I'm not even sure where this relationship may end up.

OP, sorry I took over your thread, somewhat.

Do you have some sort of commitment wanted banner attached to your sexy cheeks or how else do these serious guys know you aren't already in a committed relationship?
What exactly does commitment mean to you, is it until he gives you that ring that makes him commited?

So he is a slow snail compared to the other men you dropped out of your life. Do you realise you create more emotional problems for yourself when you start introducing comparative analysis spirit into your relationship?

You don't need me to tell you to move on If your ambition is to get married and he isn't down with that

Mynd44:
She might just enjoy his company and enjoy hanging out with him, that does not necessarily mean she wants to date him na.

Obviously i was expecting them to state the terms of engagement from the onset

Don't go asking her to be your friend if what you really want is for her to be your gyal

All these issues of light variation stems from the fact that teenagers are too timid to state their intentions as well as being too rigid to accept rejections as a part of dating phenomena

agabaI23:
Makes what acceptable? He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones.

Na real wa for you i sweat down.
Didn't they just repatriate or in the process of repatriating yet another discovered stollen funds by this same dude's father?
It's simply not acceptable

Exjoker:
This green light thing is so confusing. We should always look at it properly before jumping into conclusion. You don't wanna get embarrass right?...Good job op

It seems confusing because you made it so.
Why don't you let the dynamics of relationships play out seamlessly as they should instead of turning yourself into a traffic light detector.

A girl that wants you will always want to be around you. #endoff!

ferhyntorlah:
Babymama, Aisha & Efe, tuale to you sexy Mrs! I enjoyed your posts. Please keep it coming.

This is for Aisha: please can you open a diary here (family section) narrating your experiences in your past relationships before you had the AWAKENING to leave and how you met your "hot" husband and all the pleasant dramas that happened. I'm on my e-knees begging you to do this.

I used to think you were way advanced in marriage (like 8-10 years) till you mentioned debrief. I think you are still in your "honeymoon" years (I mean 3-4 yrs in marriage). If I am wrong with my assumptions, I apologise. Please open that diary and save some lives! Thanks!

I believe when a man meets the woman he wants to spend his life with, he WON'T waste time. Some know within a day of meeting her; some a week; some a few weeks and for some 3-6 months but when it spans to years, that one is a serious matter.

A man that wants you won't waste time at all. Infact, you will be the one telling him to wait a bit and take it slow. Some men are just time and destiny delayers and wasters.

Okay let me get this straight, how will her personal experiences help define/shape your present or future relationship?
Don't you understand that dynamics of relationships are different in every sense you can think of
As adults, we should know the difference between right from wrong and hopefully that understanding should help shape your destiny

evegran:
Right! Agreed.
I did say "looking on the bright side" duh!?

How can their possibly be a bright side in a terrible act?
Do you even realise the magnitude of the effect of these terrible acts on the victims?

evegran:
Well, looking on the bright side in a terrible negative situation- you gotta be really smart to pull this off. Hes smart!

I hope he gets a befitting punishment.

Ain't nothing smart about these heinous crimes when most victims are vulnerable and/or gullible

agabaI23:
Your saint Buhari exonerated his father of all wrong doing saying Abacha was no corrupt. How you see am?

That makes it acceptable right?

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