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The only time a female cannot help when it comes to defending her folk is when her brother(s) is involved. Every other fool who can't advise themselves are at the mercy of a counsel that would be unwise to implement.

Op, if you want to know whether you're taking the right step, ask any of your blood sister.

I support this op, but from a different perspective. Reason is this...I can't complain against a lady. It's freaking unmanly. So I suppose just act like say nothing happen. I no fit rant, no matter wetin sup.

But I no let go finally. Two things are involved...either I run the girl better street wey pass the one wey she run me, or she go fall like tree last last. I mean, I go collect her life waka comot.

Nevertheless, men dey fall hands. I no just know why, but woman no be anything to me. God come help me I no come get high libido. Na im I come use the thing to my own advantage. As it stands, babes for street dey give me my way. Dem no born any girl well to even attempt to use me shine. My respect dey flow wella. Same thing applies to the guys around me. Maximum respect 24/7.

If I come get mad money join, na legendary status be my portion.

God...as I get ready to wear these same shoes that op is wearing right now, let my feet(funds) be big enough to size in perfectly.

Op, face your duty with delight. Family is everything. Mine are the only people I love more than myself. I can shed some pints for them without thinking that I have done a great sacrifice. Last last, na there be my refuge if the whole world reject me.

The only thing I think you need is bigger funds.

If you need money to be attractive, then you must be naturally and terribly ugly at the same time. No thanks to your parents' genes at all.

Guys who are cute, confident and are good in bed understand better. If they earn money, they spend it on themselves- they don't use it to buy a lady's love at all. All they need to keep the b!tch in check is their fine face and their sweet d!cks.

I dunno. I'm just different. And marriage might be a nice institution...but i don't give much f##k$ about it. And If you come from where I come from, you would understand me.

Even as an only son, I don't feel pressured. I'm more concerned with myself and my family. And till my family's name is as famous as Dangote's, Tinubu's or Innoson's....I'm not resting.

I just want to ensure that whoever would take any of my sisters' hands in marriage would feel like I did them a favour. I want to see that look of awe and joy on their faces when I tell them that they can tap from an illustrious bloodline.

As for me myself...if you can remember Michael Corleone's character in the 'Godfather'...that's exactly what I want to be like. I know I want to be respected, influential and feared. And if it is possible to be these three things without being married, then marriage is not an achievement for me.

Just pads Like you girls can't afford sanitary pads on your own?
With the way they tag every guy as broke in here, I refuse to believe this.

Anytime I notice a seemingly holy lady, cold chills run down my spine. I've been with a lady who would wake me up to pray in the morning in our nude state. I wonder if it's the same God I'm thinking that she's praying to. God is really a merciful father.

I couldn't keep up with her level in hypocrisy, so I soon learnt how to leave her to do the morning prayers alone, as well as the ones we do at night before we f##k.

I don't fear women shaa. I'm sensitive enough to know when I'm dealing with a daughter of Jezebel, no matter how she conceals it. The ones who would fall are those who think ladies are not capable of atrocities. And somehow, I don't know what it is about me...but they do let me in to see what they are really capable of all the time. Ladies don't surprise me at all

Some people already have very negative vibes and energy, filled to the brim and ready to cause calamity. What I don't understand is why these people won't make themselves ideally useful to the society by joining the military, which would consequently afford them the opportunity to put this negative energy into action by going to warfront to cause better trouble for their country's enemies?...or if you really hate your country, why not join a terrorist group like ISIS or Boko Haram and express your negative vibes in the best way you can against humanity? Why pretend to be a normal human being when you're a personification of Pandora's box? What even makes you think marriage is an ideal battlefield where each person test wits, strength and will against their mate?

Marriage is not for everyone. If you hate peace, look around you- there are wars to fight. Choose your favorite and expend your energy. By the time you're done, you might finally understand the value of peace.

maynia:
Whatever man

Why don't you go online and check the ratings....

Because Ronaldo didnt perform in his last 2 matches
He is no more good?

You said I shouldn't mention past season

But it was you that saud Ronaldo perform for only his first 2 seasons in Madrid..

so why is last season a past glory ?
Is it part of his first 2 season?


What Messi couldn't do
Salah did Even collect change ...

Who is the idiot now?

How endless do you want this bickering to be? I've got enough data for people like you.

I never said Ronaldo isn't performing again, read my lips. What I'm trying to make you understand is that he has evolved into a player who influences games only by way of goals. Nowadays you don't know Ronaldo is in a match until he has scored a goal, or when he's throwing tantrums.

chocorex:
you're the one who is not worth arguing with. if you cannot answer why Ronaldo was not inform it means you're a biased fan ,at the moment Ronaldo or Salah will take the world best and Messi will be 3rd,whos in form now?

You're sure about Messi being 3rd? Are you FIFA president Place all your life savings on Messi being 3rd if you're so sure.

The last polls that was held on who is best among the trio by football fans, Salah was first, Messi was second, Ron came 3rd. This happened last week.

chocorex:
Ronaldo was not inform when he came, till January. if he was in same form at Jan in the start of the season, it will be a different story

So why wasn't he in form? Messi and Salah stole it and shared it between themselves or what?

Some people are not worth arguing with.

maynia:
Ronaldo rate yesterday was 8/10..

He is the reason madrid is in semi final
Out of 4 goals he scored 3

Last season
Against Bayern

He scored 5 goals out of 6--3 Madrid win

Last season also he is the first player ever to score a back to back hat trick
He score 2 goals in final

When last did Messi score in a champions league quarter final match

What else do you want Ronaldo to do

He holds the record for most goals scored in a champions league campaign
17

He has 15 goals now
And by God grace he will break it...

If goals don't win matches
What will?

Possession?
Dribble?

Let me ignore all those stuff you said about last season....you are making a case for a current running season and you are using past glory. He has crowned best player already. Abi you wan use feats of last season give am world best for this season?

And please clear me. If Ronaldo had 8/10 rating, what then was Marcelo's rating? Or James's? Or Benezema's? Bros reserve your lie for idiots.

Goldmaxx:
you made sense until you added salah to Ronaldo and Messi's level

Why is Salah not on Messi and Ronaldo's level? Because this is just his first season of a super wonderful performance?

Lemme tell you something about football. Everyday is not Christmas for Messi and Ronaldo. Some days are like that. But still, even in matches were a co-teammate performed better, they would still get noticed...they might even get more noticed than the guy who played better than them on those off-days. It's called media sensationalism. And that was how they were able to share the ballon d'or for nine years between themselves.

The Egyptians and other Gulf countries have understood this trick, and they have began to 'sensationalise' Salah too. Not long ago, he got a land in Mecca. If they can sustain this attention for him, one day, even you would think that Salah has come to displace the other two. The reason why you doubted if Salah was at their level is because they haven't sensationalised Salah enough. With time and sustenance, they will, and you would become their victim...just as everyone is Ronaldo and Messi's victim right now.

maverickdude:
You are pathetic,damn!!
How could you say barca won la liga because ronaldo missed 5 matches?? The five matches he missed,they won 2,drew 2 and lost only 1 to real betis,that's 8pts out of 15pts. If he had played and they won all,they would still be trailing barca by 7pts at week 34. Was he not there when they lost 2-1 to girona in week 10 or he was in the stand when they lost 3-0 to barca??
You don't just come here and spew words like these,it's disgusting. And saying barca won the league by luck is the height of hypocrisy(with 4 matches to go,unbeaten and the second best defensive record). If madrid is not in the CL final 3 times consecutively cos of luck,barca didn't win the league at week 34 by luck.
You are not the only one who follows la liga,so mind what you say

Thanks for saving my data for me. Whether he was trying to be smart with facts or just typing things he wasn't sure of, I can't really say. But one thing I observed is that he doesn't watch football regularly... consequently he shot himself in the leg.

ZZ22:
do you watch football games on a black and white television? Every success Madrid has enjoyed since last decade is not solely down to CR7 but CR7 has played a major role more than anyone else. Do you know the state of Madrid before the arrival of Ronaldo? Who is the highest goal scorer in Madrid? Who has the most assist in Madrid? Ronaldo didn't score today but do you noticed the kind of spirit he showed on the pitch as he leaves his position and intercepted numerously in the midfield. If Messi showed such spirit against Roma he could have been thinking of how to get to Kiev instead of crying and whining for a guard of honour from Madrid.

You might be the one watching football on a black and white tv. Ronaldo was an excellent player when he arrived Madrid...and he continued like that till the last two or three seasons. Now he's a ghost of the player he used to be. Last night was an example of the kind of player he has become eventually. Name one match day you've seen him dictate the tempo of the game for his team. The only thing he can dictate for them is goals.

And if you can watch the replay of yesterday's match, please do. Ronaldo's work-rate is among the least ten work-rates yesterday. Even Muller expended more effort. Only Lewandoski offered less.

Maybe I'm too sentimental in my analysis. If you think I am, get your momma, sister, gf(I chose this class of people because women don't really fancy football) to start watching football games, especially Madrid matches. They might tell you something about Ronaldo that would seriously shock you.

SonG113:
barca fan go n sleep hala Madrid

Sleep if sleep don catch you. Don't drag me into bed with you. I'm not your spouse

chocorex:
you get it all wrong, I ain't talking about past glory, Ronaldo has been very much inform this season and for the past 3 seasons he has been better than Messi, Madrid cannot perform without Ronaldo on the pitch, he kicks benzema to the wing because benzema miss too many opportunities which has limited Ronaldo from becoming a better assisted than Messi. if you remove ronaldos goal from any competition Madrid is nothing but removes messis own and Barça still wins, Ronaldo is 33 years and has earned the right to play as a box to box striker. what kind of influence do you need in games goals or dribbles? Madrid playsdirect front football and no time for dribbling

Very much in form? How Do you know that Ronaldo's most effort-demanding goal this season was that acrobatic against Juve? That others have been either headers, tap-ins or penalties? And Barca would win if Messi doesn't play? What happened at Sevilla and Celta Vigo this season?

'Madrid plays direct front football'...what does that even mean? Okay Lemme pretend I understood you. Dribble. You've not seen Marcelo dribble before? What of Isco? Benezema nko? Modric??

'Ronaldo plays as box to box striker'...What is the meaning of box to box? I doubt if you know what that means. Maybe you meant to type that he's an '18-box striker'. After all, it's been a while since he scored from outside the box.

I would have spot more errors, but it's kind of useless. Your argument for Ronaldo ended up making him look ridiculous

chocorex:
you're right, James could dominate today because the combination of alaba and Ribery forced modric to play full wing and mark there, for Ronaldo, he was marked by 2 many players, this is why benzema was brought in to offer goal scoring opportunities when Ronaldo is marked which he did.

Ronaldo wasn't bright tonight, Messi wasn't bright against Roma don't make them any less. don't compare Ronaldo to Salah. when Ronaldo was destroying epl Salah was still watch the epl on TV

Bros I'm talking about influence. Madrid look very much like a team that can still win comfortably even if Ronaldo isn't playing. You can't say the same for Messi's Barca. If you even know Madrid's general gameplay, Benezema is the reason why Ronaldo has an insane number of goals. I'd explain the complex tactics in a few understandable words... Benezema draws defenders attention away from Ronaldo, as well as play the role that Ronaldo is expected to take care of- he starts as a 9 but subsequently plays as a winger as the match wears on.

And please, don't talk about past glory. Ronaldo did great stuffs back then. I agree to that. What I don't get is this...Is he getting all the praise and hype for what he is doing currently, or for he did back in the days?

chiboy1116:
No mind DAT guy....all dis guys wey de watch ball for bet9ja shop self.

You don't need to blame them. Most people don't watch these teams regularly. Thus they publish erroneous opinions.

This same thing happened to me. I haven't watched Liverpool play all season before, so I really underestimated Salah prior to the first leg against Roma. Of course the last time I watched Salah was when he was at AS Roma. Then he wasn't so excellent. And I thought he still wasn't. Stupid me even placed my bet on Roma to win.

You won't blame me much shaa, just as you shouldn't blame these people. I don't watch EPL with my two eyes. I'd rather watch Sevilla v Celta Vigo or Lyon v Marseille rather than to watch Man. united v Chelsea. Thus, for someone engrossed in leagues other than the English Premier league, I would assert that Nabil Fekir was better than Mohammed Salah...till that night against Roma.

How can someone open their mouth to say that Modric, Toni kroos et al aren't creative? You judge performance with a single match right Lemme do what I can to clear this air of silliness. Did you guys even notice the number of passes stringed together before Madrid's first goal?

Even though Madrid's midfield didn't dominate the ball due to James exceptional brilliance, they were diligent enough to mark him and his cohorts down. Thus, even on his own night, James wasn't finding it easy...he was harried and hassled by those guys. If it were a team inferior to Madrid, the Colombian would have dictated tempo absolutely...like 100℅.

In conclusion, I don't expect much from that midfield when Madrid play against more ball-hugging, possession-oriented teams. And even at that, they try to shut out the opponent's creativity and play on the counter. They are very okay.

By the way, Ronaldo is too uninfluential for someone who is acclaimed to be the world's best player. His impact is absolutely based on the goals he scores, and it is not as if they require too much effort from him before he can get them. He's certainly not on Messi or even Salah's level. He's just as good as Ibrahimovic and Lewandoski...or a little better.

Na people dey use their own hand cast themselves. If I'm in the middle of something that's this funky, there's no way you would catch my face on camera. If I catch you eh, I'd break that phone.

Wise people stay away from cameras, especially in this selfie age.

Have someone ever imagined a world where all female human beings live in brothels, and males visit them for sexual gratification and in exchange of financial benefits? Well...I have. And I know that if I had Hitler's power and influence, I might make this a reality.

I don't know how the opposite gender do it with comfort...I mean acute dependency. Maybe that's why they are the weaker sex. But if I were a lady, I would strive to equal, if not outdo a man's feat. I don't know how people get to leave themselves at other's mercy, but I know that I'd have been a boss lady. And when I behold the likes of Christine Largarde, Okonjo Iweala, Mary Slessor, Madam Thatcher, Joan d'Arc etc., I'm 100% convinced that I'm not talking about a utopian.

All in all, let people do what please them. I know for sure that for every Jefe, there's a matching 'Jeferess'. Quality deserves quality

Nasri100:
Haha. The God father is just an excellent movie

Too excellent for a movie produced in the 1970's. It's my personal best of all times.

Nasri100:
Mate you are an alpha male. You already know how it goes. Bless.

Alpha male That compliment is way too much for me now. I would claim it possessively when I fully develop the character of Ragnar Lothbrock, replicate the exploits of Alexander the great as well as earn as much respect as Michael Corleone in 'The Godfather'.

No mind me joor. I'm a very ambitious and vain person. Thanks all the same for the compliment

10 years ago, I would condemn this article vehemently. But having grown well into adulthood...as well as having understood that people(not just ladies) are way more selfish and self-centered than can be imagined, I currently stand with the op.

These are the 'last days' when men shall become lover of themselves, and as a last-day dude, I'm a lover of myself. Anyone who is honest would agree with the op's view too. On the other hand, people who would see negativity in this realist's viewpoint are either very dependent or manipulative fellows...or a combination of the two.

People who are mentally, emotionally and financially strong are not bothered at all.

All these guys wey come here dey lament wetin woman do dem, una be better fools. How woman wey get fish brain go cause all these havoc to person wey dey claim say im get sense?

See eh, whether man or woman, once I sense say your aim na to use me shine, I'll never complain. Na to change am for you sure pass. I'd either leave you out on the cold sooner than you expect.....or I will run you more street than you can run me.

I bin know say people get serious esteem problems, but I no bin know say e dey this rampant. I dey treat people as dem take treat you. If I call you once, you are supposed to call me the next time. If not, I no go do again. If you come call after a reasonable time have passed, I go purposefully miss am. And it works for me. All these experiences of craving a girl that don't want you...I never experience am before.

tokrizy:
9)when you think barcelona ve got it all and you forgot u both watched Spartacus and u 4got spartans are romans and they re from the city of ROME..the result

Spartans are Romans? Lemme know please, Are you a graduate?

lilmax:
I do not want to be called sweet names

thanks, I'll pass

Exactly. Fathers don't care about the appreciation. Even if they do, they act like they don't need it. Plus their general strict nature and business-like attitude towards their kids. It's absurd to see a father solicit appreciation from his children. It kinda makes him a sissy. Of course he is the god in the house, and a god is not supposed to depend on his worshipper(the children in this case) for anything. That's the thing with Fathers. They act as though that they are above the kind appreciation, thus it is useless to them.

Meanwhile, the favours that moms do come with some drama and emotion(Women and manipulation are like 5 and 6). It is this stuff that play on the childrens' mind to elicit those appreciation and encomiums mothers get all the time. In the end, it doesn't matter if the dad provided more favours; the mother always get a lion share of the praises.

It was as I got older that I began to realise that men endure a lot. To be a man is not easy. All men worldwide, both my enemies, (and minus kitten niggas that worship women)...I hail and respect you all.

lazeal:
and @jeferious saying this is like living in denial.

Are you trying to say that none of these are true?

I'm not saying it's not true. I'm just saying that I don't care. A psychopath has no business with me, because he/she knows that I'm not a good prey. It doesn't matter how subtle the manipulation is, I can still detect it if I'm really alert. Me sef go school the kind person in the art of manipulation sef.

Lemme break it down for you: There are several people out there, especially females, who have no feelings or emotions whatsoever. When they seem to cry, they are actually laughing inside themselves. When dealing with such people, make sure you don't feel anything too. That way, they would find it hard to take advantage of you.

ClintonEmex:
To read all these is hard talkless of doing them. There is no particular way(s) of understanding women. Different strokes for different folks. A man should be more interested in improving himself as a person than on how to understand or please women, the mass media complicate things and confuse people.

As in...what is the difference between these behaviors listed here and the traits of a manipulative psychopath?

Thank God for the ladies around me. I just need sanity, maturity and reasonableness mainly from them. Beauty and big assets come second for me.