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jorion:
Bros, which ambitious guy spends much time on these hoes. You should have said you don't give a damn about what she does than say she is under your control. FYI, I am the type of guy who would walk into his bedroom, see his wife with another man, enter the shower, take a bath, go to the palour, switch on the TV and watch CNN. I just don't care, I won't shout nor argue. I won't even hold a grudge. I DON'T CARE, THIS LIFE IS ALREADY HARD ENOUGH

If I mean to prove to you that I have great amount of control her, then I'd divulge basic secrets in our relationship which would pass me off as manipulative, selfish and evil ultimately. And since I won't like such impression to be created against me, then I choose to agree with you. You're 100% right.

In conclusion, the nonchalant attitude is valuable when dealing with these ladies. Don't ever give what is holy to pigs. If you must give, make sure you do so to a queen.

jorion:
Na so, let me tell you the simple truth, you don't control women, they only give you the illusion of being controlled. The reason why you still have her is because she has not found a better alternative

I still have her Me sef no wan own anybody. My own life is hard enough....why would I want to add more burden to myself by seeking for whom to control? Did I create her?

Guy, your priorities are different from mine. Maybe you have too much time and resources to spare. Me no get time for myself. Where I come see time to impress babe? Ask around, I never send pm to any female N'lander since I joined . Any lady here wey fit prove me wrong, I go wire am #20k instantly.

In conclusion, my brother, many matter dey give me headache as I dey so, but woman matter no be one of them. Whether she goes or she stays, that's not my problem.

Abeg where my brothers dey see this kind girls... because to me they don't exist. Abi na brothel op go find this im girlfriend?

The thing is that most men are so poor that the only thing they have is money. It's the only thing they can use to impress a lady. But the thing is, women value great sex more than money. I've been with mainstream prostitutes so I know what I'm talking about. They often have lots of money, mostly running into millions, that they don't know what to do with. But funny enough dem go still collect maximum payment from the next client. And intelligence is another trait that women admire a lot. Strength, eloquence, good looks are also capable of capturing a lady's heart.

From a personal point, I've a gf who I kept under my spell not with money(she has not even begged me money before in the first place), but with so many other qualities. And I can't remember her denying me anything before. The only bad thing is that I don't want to marry her, or anybody else. I just want her to give me children, preferably males.

Tomoyayi:
People that have their money stuck nko.
Mr know it all, you're the one that needs to be enlightened.

Seriously, some people's naivety is out of this world. True true, dem no dey learn commonsense for school. My dear, abeg free that dude. You don't want to be dragged down to his level of "wisdom".

faithfull18:
Does the man like himself without money too

And does your guy become suicidal once he goes broke? You're a homo sapiens with a full brain, not some dim-witted earthworm. Use that brain

This thread, under the surface, is sexist and man-hating in nature. I suppose the op has been unlucky in her ventures with the opposite sex. That said, clinging to a past of frustration and allowing it to control you is, to say the least, silly. Move on. Get stronger.

One more lesson learnt here is that women need men more than men need women. See how ladies are just so eager and desperate to meet their Prince Charming. Do I need to say that they are looking up to the opposite gender to give them a sense of validation, as well as quench that burning passion that is heating up the hole between their thighs? Men of worth, take note. If things were in a different order in this world, women would chase and woo men, not the other way round. We males can't match them when it comes to the emotions and fulfillment that sexual interaction provides. They crave attention much, and they love sex madly. Don't be fooled by their hypocrisy.

Having exposed the some of the subtle messages in the posts of these daughters of Eve, it's important to note that rather than create standards for others, it's better and more glorious being the standard.

What is the correlation between condom and menstrual pad? Condoms are used for sex... menstrual pad are used to absorb a flow that happens to every normal female monthly. As a girl, even if you don't f**k, you must still see your period. So what does mensuration have to do with sex?

Nna mehn, for someone to think like this, na im be say development never reach Nigeria.

carzola:
This guy must have the worst sex life ever.



This is how real men fuccccck!!!!

20 mins for play
20 mins for sucking breast and pusszzy and her sucking your dee too.
20 mins for sex.

Total 1hr.

You're still a student receiving sure monthly allowances from your parents. If not you can never say this.

Every time I go back home for the holidays, I join the family's business. Seriously, the hustle no easy. Na only when I enter Nairaland na im I dey remember wetin be sex, due to the high rate of threads advertising semi-nude ladies. Even at that, my d!CK no dey even recognize dem at all. Too much stress can effectively delete sexual urges from one's life.

Imagine after a day of too much stress and brainstorming...only to get home to a wife who won't allow me rest till I've f**Ked her to her satisfaction. The kind slap wey I go use silence am no go be here.I can't marry you with my money and you still order me to service you against my will. Maka gini?

So my friend, just enjoy your youth and abundant time, for a time would come when you can't remember that you have a gf.

This generation of men are very foolish. How can you woo a girl, go out of your way to impress her, spend close to millions to marry her...and she expects to have a particular dick size that she prefers? Who dash monkey banana?

Omo no time. The only time I'm lenient is the first time. If I f**k you and I discover that you enjoyed it so much(Women no dey fit hide feelings for this side. Some go even tell you "thank you"...you must dey drop something before you go collect my "amu" again. That feeling I get when my girl(s) beg me to make love to her: it's so out of this world. Anything you tell am that time, im go do am sharp sharp.

In conclusion, women like preeq pass money. Ask any sharp nigger around you if you doubt me.

Admitwithschola:
Bros, abeg take am easy. You dey vex.

Not at all. There's a huge difference between being angry and being economical in the time you spend with someone, and i hope you can spot the difference

Saff:
Why is it paining you like this? Why you mad baby?

I'd give you my reason. It's because I don't have enough time on my hands, let alone the time to read your comments and reply your mentions.

By bye

Saff:
Men and women are not the same. The libido of a woman drastically decreases once menopause hits. Men..well, they desire youthful women and sex all their life, it’s just the nature of man. Loneliness and idlenesss at an old age can really do wonders to your mind, let’s just hope when you get there, you won’t be like my grandad

I don't care about loneliness. I don't care about idleness. I don't care about libido. I don't care about you and your opinion. And I don't care about your grandad.No be f**k God send me come this world come do.

Find another not-so-smart male for your deception.

lefulefu:
this is why i tell some some of my friends who say women are evil and they will never involve with a woman to do away with such mentality so as not to get lonely when old.in ur old age when u lonely u get really depressed and depression kills quickly.and as for ur grand dad he wasnnt chasing the young ladies for but sex .how many sugar daddies for naija really dey look 4 love .they had all the loving they needed in their youthful days.

Once pu$$ified, always pu$$ified. If you have a problem with controlling your sexual desires in your youth, you'd still have the same problem in old age. Both of my grandmums are alive and they are doing just fine.

N.B: I didn't mention Saff because she already knows the truth I wrote up there. It's you I chose to mention because you don't really sound smart in this matter. There are old men who care seriously about sexual gratification, and there are old men who care about the legacies that they are about to leave.

The Christains of this generation are neck-deep in selective sinning. They condemn one sin, but practise the other. See efforts by so-called Christains to justify masturbation and other lustful practices. I'm quite sure they also don't have anything against fornication and lying. But they abhor murder and armed robbery. Abeg who's deceiving who?

Reminds me of my two recent girls. After a night of blissful f##king, as well as some couple of rounds in the morning, these ladies would throw a wrapper over me and them(We normally sleep nude. Even when we aren't f##king, we stay nude 24/7, so far as we are in the house. It was our domestic practice)...and then wake me up for morning prayers. There was this funny one that covers her head with her pants. Women get mind. Which God are you praying to after a night of fornication? Are you praying to Cupid? Abi Eros?

I stopped joining them in the prayers. I can't be sinning and mocking God at the same time. The conclusion of the matter is this: If you want to be a Christian, be a true Christian. If you still have affiliations with the world, abeg don't confuse yourself...Calm down and sin very well. Don't mock God and Christianity

The bottomline of the whole matter is this: many men are not masculine at all. In fact the only thing masculine about the op is his balls and his shaft...and I'm not even sure he has those two. See small matter wey dey chop you. If your mama or papa come die nko, na to commit suicide one time.

But finally, you be like person wey go prefer say im mama and papa die at the same time to that your ex having small scratch/injury on her body.

Meanwhile, how people bring their private matters on social media is so unbelievable. You'd think they have no brains to advise themselves

You're what you attract. A decent and smart young man would attract his like in the opposite sex. I am a living testimony. Slayqueen, leech, parasite...I've never experienced any of these. And I'm very near to 30 years of age, so it's not as if I'm still a kid. The only time I see this kind of girls you talk about is when I'm in naughty mode and feel like visiting a brothel.

Op, you need to do some homework on yourself. There's something you aren't doing right. For example, I've the standard of dating only those from comfortable families, since I come from one too. And I also treat my partner as my equal, though I also make it clear that I'm slightly over her. You too can apply this method in your own affairs.

Finally, don't be in a rush to get into a relationship. Patience is a virtue. With time, the right one would come. Besides, relationship na stress. Everyday I have to pick a call from a female(s) who's always professing about how she loves and want to spend her entire life with me, and also asking silly questions like if I've eaten and what I'm doing at the moment. Na me sef beg make the kind call be like once in a week. I don't even want to talk about how I've to eat well in order to refill my tank of sperm and be fully fit for "bedroom wrestling". Las las I was created by God for better purposes.

Great Bedroom skills and a high level of emotional intelligence are more valuable when it comes to keeping a woman than money. In fact, women don't need money that much....at least when compared to men. Men who are successful with women knows this, and they don't make the mistake of impressing a lady with money.

I would keep saying it: the fact that ladies are such emotional creatures, and yet men find it hard to be in control these days points at some obvious facts...The men of these days are dull, weak, lack adequate emotional intelligence and a God-given appearance of authority.

Thank God I grew with the right orientation of what it means to be a real man. Currently I've girls who can't wait for me to warm their beds. Most of them tell me they need just my permission to come over(I hate uninvited guests. I hate surprises too. You must inform me before you can come to my place. Anything otherwise is a breach of personal privacy). The truth is that girls love sex far more than their male counterparts, though they are very coded about it. But at my age, I refuse to be a sex-toy to randy girls, some of who I'm older than. Sowing wild oats needlessly is not in my personality.

"Women and children can be careless, but a man cannot afford to be careless"-Vito Corleone in the 'Godfather'. Kings, you all can't afford to be careless for even one second.

God help my fellow males. God help me too. Men are generally getting weaker. See as all these ones gather for this thread dey complain about women and their excesses. This generation of men really need help.

On a personal note, I can't complain to my lady, let alone bring it on social media. She should be the one doing that, in the event of a dispute. What I do in such situations is keep calm, act like all is well...only to retaliate in an unpredictable manner and at an unpredictable time. E go be like heavy tsunami.

One thing I learnt early in life is that the most vicious, effective and destructive battles are not fought with guns nor tanks. Guns and tanks can only kill the body. But complete destruction targets not only the body, but the spirit/individual psych.

Women are emotional creatures, and this makes it easier to discipline them. This was exactly what frozen meant in her comment about various categories of maturity, and only intelligent men could perceive. A man skilled in the art of emotional manipulation, and is emotionally cold-hearted himself, can control any lady in this world.

Don't ask me about details on how to play advanced mind games. I've my own strategy, which works for only me. Find your own strategy. But above all, a man does not complain, especially because of a woman. It is totally wrong.

abluck:

What Dybala and Ronaldo actually said in that pix, according to an expert lip-reader.

Dybala: Big Bros, you sure say you fit score from this free kick

Ronaldo: Score wetin? I chop witch like Messi? Make I try shaa

JONNYSPUTE:
You are only trying to justify the girls action. Everybody is not the same. Some people hate lies and once they can't trust another person due to lies,they leave..The girl is a lier and can't be trusted. Period. Happy Sunday.bye.@Victorian.

No dey mind that one. When you see people who run their mouths/thumbs anyhow on social media just to impress, you'd know. No girl with a boyfriend that she loves spending time with would spend so much time on Nairaland. She always leaves a trail on 70% of threads of NL everyday. Now NL is not the only social media forum out there, and I assume she's also active on Facebook, WhatsApp, Tinder and other social networks. Put all that together and we have a social-media girl/keyboard heavyweight.

So my brother, just waka pass when you see some certain things. The kind girl fit never get boyfriend sef, let alone irritating him by hanging out with another dude and lying about it.

victorian:
If I were the one ehn? With this your behavior of hanging out with different girls? Only you go taya. I will simply back off from you, after seeing with series of girls and u are giving me lame excuses or lies.
E go shock you

I don't have the patience for mind games. At this level I am, no man am with, can drive me nuts with his games. I will simply take a walk.

But you want the op to understand that it's not a big deal hanging out with another guy and lying to him? Why are you this afraid to take a dose of your own medicine? See hypocrisy.

Meanwhile, I've backed off already when I saw you hanging out with another guy. Every other thing is just a supporting statement to that effect. So last last, nobody lost.... except the person who'd try to pull the "men are scum" stunt by ranting about how she gave her body and her all to a guy who penetrated every hole on her body and left her in the lurch after he had used her to his satisfaction.

To argue with a lady is useless. Only few men can win a war of words with members of opposite gender. All these ones arguing with the ladies commenting on the thread are not men. They are boys. A real man does not complain. He does not argue aimlessly.

Op, at one time...i would do what you just did. I'd offer her the silence treatment. Trust me when I say that it unsettles her, especially if she's really into you.

Better still, I'd just mirror her actions. Hang out with other girls and lie about it. If she finds out, tell more lies. Keep lying till she gets tired of the lies. She would ask you if you're trying to get back at her for what she did. Deny your vindictiveness....But keep hanging out with other girls...and keep lying. You'd surely drive her to the thin line separating sanity and insanity. Whether you'd choose to forgive her or keep making her mad- the ball is in your court.

In this life, only babies and weaklings are allowed to complain. Otherwise, anything wey person do you, do back seven-fold. First to do no dey pain

pocohantas:
Wetin concern feminism inside toto matter?

Why is that when you guys here have nothing to say, you start screaming feminism.

Please, show me the part of my post that explicitly stated EVERY VAGINA smells.
I am waiting...

Show me where I used the words "subtly" and "suggests". I dey wait you

pocohantas:
Uncle alpha male, if e too smell, fold your prick put back for trouser. Find another one wey no dey smell na...

If all of them too smell, turn celibate o.

Because this topic has been over flogged, and I have seem you all on these threads.

Some toto will continue to smell oooo.
It is the reality. You didn't die when you were thrusting, konji na bad thing sha...you won't die now.

That said, I am still waiting to know whose girlfriends and sisters are these girls with smelly vaginas...

Anyone with a sound brain knows that you're subtly suggesting that all vaginas smell foul. And everyone with a sound brain and reasonable experience knows that such suggestion is a lie.

Feminism and its tenets are needless here. This is purely a health-related issue. If you have a smelly coochie, deal with it. It's not normal.

lefulefu:
my brother this Brett Kavanaugh's case is a big lesson to we men. U dont know where Baba God might place u in the future. Na so u go jus get one position and one lady from nowhere go dey accuse u dat u raped her decades ago. Also a lesson on how we relate with women. If u must have a breakup with a woman do it with sense.dont give her the impression dat u just chop and run cos if na dat impression u give her she can turn around in the far future if u wan enter position and claimed u forced urself on her.

I don't blame the ladies. I blame us. Many of us lose our senses when dealing with the fairer sex. The advantage we let them have is irritating. We've made it seem like a favour when they finally accept to date. We don't see anything foolish in spending huge amount of money, just to be in their good books. Very sad mentality. And you don't expect to put yourself in a position of disadvantage and not be taken advantage of.

It's even more sad that a sizeable portion of our gender support us against these greedy, social-climbing ladies. Imagine a niggur here saying that Ehiz is either impotent or gay. If women can select prick, why can't men select kitten?

Brother, make we leave matter. Person wey go jonse go still jonse. As for me, God no gree make I fall my own hands.

NwaAmaikpe:



He is either a closeted gay or impotent.
Those are the only TWO reasons in the world why a full-bodied man will allow kpekus to waste.

Brett Kavanagh's Case is right before you and you didn't learn still? Besides na everytime you dey do...abi na every hole wey spread open for you na im you dey dig?

I smh for you

Take out violence, and Islam is by far the best religion. Christianity has so much fundamental problems that it is turning into a huge joke. Imagine a girl I don't even stress myself before I get into her pants scolding me on why I didn't attend Church this Sunday. It was funny and embarrassing at the same time. I mean all I have to do is to tell this babe that I'm hot, and then tease her a bit. She has even told by herself that she's my personal prostitute.

On the other hand, these things happen so that we can learn. The intelligent ones have taken note. The stupid ones will still make the same mistake.

frozen70:
All I can say is satisfy a woman in all areas she needs to be satisfied and things like this won't happen

Pay attention to this advice at your own peril. Meanwhile, it is better to be feared than to be loved(Machiavelli, 1532:The Prince). In dealing with women, seek both. Make sure she loves you, and also fears you.

In life, it's necessary to create a reputation of bloody retribution when wronged. Pablo Escobar's wife can't attempt to wh*re around in the lifetime of her man. It's true she loved him, but she also feared him. Same with the men who served him till his last breath.

And finally, don't bow to a woman's every desire. It's a sign of weakness, and women have more enhanced abilities than we men to detect human inadequacies. In fact, their brains interpret such moves as weakness

funmisticqueen:
no, marriage is not a do or die affair, but i have been told that i am crazy and unpredictable and the predictable thing to do is to leave the relationship. the unpredictable thing to do is to teach the cheater a lesson with chilled revenge. i advise you to watch the movie. Gone girl! i like those kinda girls, and a lot of nigerian men deserve those kinda girls

And you think you play out what you watched in a movie effectively in real-life? Don't make me laugh.

The better thing to do would be to use this time used in creating these evil plots to plan on ways to improve the quality of your life and improve your worth. Your brain can invent better things than this crap about hoarding a prick.

Don't bother to reply me. I'm already sick of the thread.

funmisticqueen:
pls what part of my post points at sexual starvation. mtcheeew. dont show the whole world that you think with your prick

You are the one who's thinking with her punna. Everything in your thread has been about guarding the prick that's fucking you from fucking another pussy. Even when other ladies advised you to walk away from a toxic relationship, you insist on having that phallus all to yourself, by hook or crook.

Lemme ask you, is marriage and prick your sole purpose in life?