₦airaland Forum

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello guys, I am a 36 years old single mother of four. My son will be 15 in August, first daughter 10 in october, my third 5 and youngest 3 by june.

I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years.

I have been friend with this man, a widower who is 57 years and a father of 2 children. He is asking for my hand in marriage. To be honest, I don't want to be married again, all I want is to focus on raising my kids because I have been through a lot in my previous marriage and I don't want another marriage wahala.

He asked for my hand in marriage, I rejected him and I had explained to him why I don't want to marry again. I told him what my ex did, he said he is a mature man he will love me and my children and he will never hate them or ask them to leave his house. I told him I have to think about it and I will get back to him ASAP. But I am still scared to accept his proposal because I don't want history to repeat itself and he is still on my neck. He wants me to accept his proposal. I am confused.

Please advice me. Is it a wise choice for me to get married again after everything I have been through in the past?

pocohantas:
Nawa. With skirt for that matter.
She no even send say they will see her pant. Tallesty come and hold your aunty abeg.

She probably has kids at home and they have to survive this weekend. Kai!

Midehi3:
Wahala

This kind woman fit fight her husband for house oo, spider woman


But this is uncalled for, she might be a mother

Abimbola2525:
A 300-level Mass Communication student of the Benue State University, Erekaa Naomi Dooshima, has been reportedly found dead a few days after she went missing.

The student, also known as Affection, was reported missing three days ago and all efforts made to locate her whereabouts proved abortive.

According to a post shared by Benue activist, Ukan Kurugh, a phone, ID card, and blood-stained clothes allegedly belonging to the student were found around Rahama clinic opposite Medical school in Makurdi on Tuesday, February 21.

In an update on Wednesday, February 22, Mr. Kurugh said her corpse has been found and is currently being exhumed by operatives of the Benue State Police Command.

Source: https://www.examfurther.com/2023/02/rrekaa-naomi-dooshima-missing-bsum-300-level-mass-communication-student-found-dead-photos.html

CoronaVirusRelo:
Way to go!

Biafrans are relaxing and losing focus!

Biafra has nothing to do with the zoo

And whoever feels he is bold and strong enough should default orders and feel full wrath of Biafrans

envoymedia:
Simon Ekpa, a disciple of Mazi Nnamdi Kanu has said that he did not recant the sit-at-home order of 23rd to 28th February, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote on his Twitter handle;



https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1627251773789417479?s=19[/quote]Who's this man for crying out loud. He's not in Nigeria but controls those leaving in the eastern part of the country unnecessary.

underpinna:
I stay in a one room self-contained with no electronics, iron.
My landlord wants me to share equal amount of money in terms of NEPA bill.

Is this right?

At the ATM Queues, the sight of RENEWED HOPE excites the PEOPLE saying "WE TRUST IN YOU ASIWAJU"....... pic.twitter.com/Tkjho8zGGe

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) February 21, 2023

Britishcoins:
Progress so far

Britishcoins:
More

Britishcoins:
The fencing foundation will start on Monday
Already bought gate 170k, don't know if they have cheated me

jaybenugo:
https://instagram.com/stories/alexxekubo/3041062870314245837?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

vicdom:
https://punchng.com/soyinka-disowns-social-media-post-endorsing-tinubu/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1676847848

Biglogo:
At the very heat of the new naira note policy by the PMB administration. How much of this old naira note do you still have with you and don't even know what to do with it as no merchant is ready to collect it from u
As for me I have #4000 with me and is really telling on me. I will like to hear from u guys, how much do u have and how are people in ur area reacting to these monies

JoshTim:
I am not surprise....i mean you are uncouth. Wife indeed. Get out of here.

JoshTim:
Jessylaurel or what is your name?

No be your papa still dey feed you. You cannot understand the plight of man wey dey hustle. Keep shut.

damoobaba:
Point of correction, His Mum's childish and wh*rish behaviour. The father has moved on, even if he was poor before, it's not a crime to be poor as Tonto is painting it to be. The man has moved on and hes now doing well, he's even a philanthropist. Tonto on the other hand cant keep a relationship, it only CONFIRMS how TOXIC she is.

ebukajay184:
"I wake up everyday apologising to my child for having you as a sperm donor" Tonto Dikeh calls out ex-husband Churchill

Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh has slammed her ex-husband Olakunle Churchill for posting their son on his birthday, IGBERETV reports.

Churchill and Tonto's son, King Andre turned 7 yesterday, Feb. 17, and Churchill posted a photo to wish Andre a happy birthday.

In the caption, he said he misses his son and hopes to see him soon.

This led to comments from social media users sympathising with Churchill and begging Tonto to let him see his son.

Tonto then hit back and claimed Churchill has made no efforts to see their son or contribute to his upbringing yet he comes on social media to give a different impression. She accused him of using their son to chase clout

She added that Churchill is just a sperm donor and she regrets choosing him as one for her son.

See her posts below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1439179/just-sperm-donor-tonto-dikeh-calls-ex-husband-churchill/

SmartPolician:
Stubborn people - they had since 31st January to return this money but they wouldn't. I noticed that we have grown to see this country as a lawless one. Where nobody takes laws seriously because deadlines MUST be extended. These ones have been caught up in the morass.

Maybe PMB doesn't want this election to hold & to achieve this, he wants to intentionally create chaos. My brother got to CBN Marina 6am this morning, he is number 420 on d queue. Majority of the pple there couldn't generate code on @cenbank site. How do one explain this madness? pic.twitter.com/yZh6hrg6zi

— Asiwaju Malik🇳🇬 🇵🇸 (@malsky007) February 17, 2023

IamBoysonic:
The Diobu region and mile 1 in Portharcourt city currently in chaos over the naira swap policy
Banks are being destroyed and set on fire, people are out on the roads protesting.
Residents living in that region have been advised to stay indoors due to gun shots being heard

Nigeria what way?

aminulive:
He says the country cannot depend on oil revenues for prosperity



https://www.economist.com/by-invitation/2023/02/15/asiwaju-bola-tinubu-on-why-he-is-running-to-be-nigerias-president

kitikisa:
Ooni of Ife's estranged wife, Queen Naomi, releases new photo to celebrate Valentine’s day.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/cbn-lists-money-bouquet-as-naira-abuse/

ebukajay184:
Two Suspected Fake Journalists Arrested For Buying Bag Of Rice With Fake Bank Alert In Kano (Photo)



https://igberetvnews.com/1438552/two-suspected-fake-journalists-arrested-buying-bag-rice-fake-bank-alert-kano-photo/

God1000:
https://www.facebook.com/nytimes/photos/a.283559809998/10153074101079999/?type=3&app=fbl

agarawu1985:
https://www.pulse.ng/news/politics/being-my-cameraman-not-enough-to-make-you-governor-fashola-tells-jandor/wvf7fdp

Busy76:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoNZ-X0cEF4



https://thisweekng.com/2023/02/naira-swap-bank-customers-cooks-and-eats-noodle-inside-gtbank-in-aba-abia-state-video/

Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

dawnomike:
If she's innocent, i pay she gets off the hook