Flamemignon1: You people keep speaking out of your ass,no please get an education because if you did,you will homosexuality is present in animal species
Mophasa: I’ve been seeing some marriage lists with insane requirements running into millions of naira on the internet lately and there’s something that actually interests me about it.
In the generations of our ancestors when this lists were curated, 99% of the brides then were virgins and have never known any man, in fact it was a taboo traditionally to give out a non virgin wvman as a bide then.
Over the years civilization have changed alot of things where wvmen feel they’re now more powerful and have grown beyond being accountable to their families and can literally do whatever they like with their lives and bodies.
At this point, I think it’s fraudulent for families to keep insisting that non virgin wvmen should keep enjoying the same traditional marriage benefits as older generational virtuous wvmen that kept their virginity for their husbands.
The government and traditional leaders need to look into this critical issues, non virgin wvmen should be given out in marriage for a token or for free, while virgin wvmen should keep enjoying the full traditional marriage rites of previous generations.
These is the only way we can hold our wvmen accountable and also encourage them to become like the biblical virtuous wvmen like Esther and Rebecca.
As a man, I will feel cheated if I have to pay millions of naira to marry a non virgin wvmen, exactly the same amount of money and expenses that my father paid for my mum as a young fresh virgin wvmen in the early 90s.
I know some persons will disagree with me but!
Culture is culture. The government have nothing to do with it. If you're broke stay unmarried and let those that can afford and take care of someone's daughter do it.
Thebest12: There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.
Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?
She's not your enemy for refusing your offer to date her that's why she's still chatting with you. Guess she's more mature than you.
Hezzyluv: So I went to the church one certain Sunday, I think this year or so. Prior to time of offering, the the church normally gives envelope for it. Perhaps, to avoid others seeing what you will drop in the basket.
And an usher gave me my own offering envelope, i dipped hand in my Pucket and removed #100 from it to put as offering. On opening the envelope, I was surprised because, I saw 2mints of $100 note. I think someone might have dropped it as offering the previous Sunday and the ushers skipped it when they opened and removed money from other envelopes.
The mind as usual started dropping devilish thoughts like, you know you don't have nice phone. You know the money in your bank account is not up to $30 let alone $200. You know you don't have a job..... All the you knows and plenty what-if's kept ringing in my head. I decided to show a friend seating beside me, the answer he gave me surprised me and goes thus... "Na your father house na, him don bless you".... I started pondering on na your father's house na your father's house if you carry the $200, drop your #100 nothing go happen. But one tiny thought said to me, what if you do this single act and curse followz you?
That was how I put my #100 note inside the envelope 2geda with the $200 when it was time for offering, I just dropped everything inside the basket. After the church service, my friend came to me and said" find me something na. And I told him, me don drop the money back because, I no get that mind. He now said even me I come rethink am sey e no good make you carry the money."
looked back and was happy I didnt go with the money because, any little -tive thing that happens to me, I might be saying "maybe na because of that money wey you carry from church ooo"
ahnie: I have this beautiful chubby neighbor that's from my husband extraction (Igbo) Babe is hard working, business oriented and an avid hustler.
But she's dating a chubby fuvk boy,a failed yahoo lazy lout that even in the next 50yrs I do not see him ever picking.
He's killing and bringing down my neighbors business and sucking her dry and she doesn't seemed to noticed.
She's always crying of bn broke everytime....and it's damn pissing me off like fvck.
On his birthday she baked cakes for him,printed his name on mugs, towels, got him clothes and even travelled to visit him,left her business and stayed days with him before coming back.
It's irking me because he's a bad market and to me he doesn't have a bright future,he's not working,he has no handiwork and no skills He's just a rotund whale sucking her youthfulness and finances.
Let's assume he has a skill or he's learning a trade it's another thing, at least we would all assume that he's productive and her supporting him wouldn't be futile,but this one.... nothing nothing.
On her birthday he didn't even posted her pictures or got her a pin,he said he doesn't have data...just negodu the nonsense and he still demanded money from her....to me the guy is just miserably useless.
He's now proposing marriage to her,and he visited her some days ago na she use her money run everything from feeding down to blood test.
I have not met him before,but immediately I saw him....my spirit no conform with his at all...he's not only a liability,but also a robust reaper.
Now my neighbor is asking me what I think of him.....I told her outrightly that I don't like him,that he's going to be a liability to her in the future....person nor fit take care of her as girlfriend,how e go take care of her as wife.....I m one hundred percent sure,she's the one that's going to pay her prideprice, pay for the wedding and feed herself.
She's trying to convince me to like him....but this isoko woman ain't capping that shiit.
I just detest fvck lazy boiz.
A true case of 'Love is Blind ' or probably d*icmatized.
CANDYDADDY: We have been in the relationship for Just 2 weeks now, yesterday as i was going out, normally whenever i am going out she used to implore me of buying something for her when I'm coming back, but i don't really see the need to impress nor spend on a girl that never also invest in the relationship, so yesterday as i was coming back i bought her biscuits and some chocolate bars worth 1,500 and i told her the amount intentionally.
So today when I'm coming to her place i was already anticipating gratitude or 'thank you' from her to no avail,thus our convo goes;;
At the instance, i told her she is not appreciative and she should forget everything about us and she should never dare call or stop me on road wherever she sees me
Till now neither she have find way to call me nor me calling her
Moral of this is girls lives at the moment,what you did for them now ends there, stop impress a girl financially that don't show gratitude nor reciprocate your show of care.
Big mumu so because of 1,500 she should keep appreciating because you own her . If only u used the money and send airtime for your mum or sister. But u said you prefer kp*kus.
Wizzyonyxphoenix: I didn't realise some females could be this wicked until my cousin called me up yesterday, and told me that one of his female friends, whom he invited for a hook up, had recorded a video of him naked and was threatening to post it online if he didn't pay her 50k.
She gave him a deadline, which is next week Monday actually. According to him, they had just finished doing the do, and the girl had started flashing her phone light, while he moved around naked (the room is pretty dark) so he felt she was helping him see clearly, not knowing that she had recorded not one but TWO videos of him stark naked.
Now he's crying profusely and running around like a headless chicken. What is he supposed to do guys? He tried calling her bluff but the girl in question seems pretty intent on ruining his life if he doesn't pay that money. He also has the option of giving her his phone, peradventure he doesn't get the money.
Honestly, I feel sorry for the guy, but that's what he gets for not being able to keep it in his pants. What would you advice him to do in this situation guys? His reputation is at stake here oooo....
He should deal with it. It's obvious he didn't pay her.
miniziter: Our last born of age of 18 has been staying with me and my wife since she was 12 years of age. Ever since she started staying with us, it has been one issue or the other. As we speak, the girl is temporarily not sleeping under thesame roof with us as I asked to move into an empty room in the other building (our Dad) beside my own house where my younger brother and his wife stays.
Some 3 years ago, her younger brother visited us and he was rushed to the hospital and was diagnosed of food poisoning (according to her) and because another issue came up of recent, she claimed my parents hated her to the extent of sending my younger sister to come and scatter her marriage and even poisoned her food of then so she can die during pregnancy.
I have been feeling so unrest since yesterday. Imagine if this kind of statement should get to my parent.
Emaprince: loool..what the hell? This is pure garbage.
How can you blame it all on money....and also subtly pushed the blame to the man by claiming she suspects he is cheating . Well only a foolish man listens and believe what comes from the mouth of a woman.
The married men might be for money...so you should be sleeping around for money and think you are not a who.re? Even after being married? Why is she letting her fellow students fuxkk her too? For money?
A who.re is a who.re...and Nigerian women that dates several men at the same time will continue in that character after marriage. They are already used to it.
This OP also seems like a naive man. How can a man be so stupid to send a woman to school in the name of love? If he is interested in an educated woman..why not find a graduate who have done all the dirt in the school. 99% of married women in school aare extremely promiscuous much more than the single ones. Any man whose wife is in school or travelling abroad to study should have it in mind that by the time she comes back, she must have garnered more body counts from school while married to him..cos she won't let only one man hit...there is usually an evil spirit that possess them ..that makes them feel like they are off the chain and have to live life and have fun with other guys to the fullest. Looking at what married women do in NYSC camp in a short period of 21days says it all.
His wife is even a side chick and used as a sexxx to.y by other men..lol. his wife!!! Damn... This alone will make me msg her not to return back again cos she is worthless. A man of no value is that man that will welcome back a woman who is used as a sexxx toyy by his fellow men. His pride is in the mud...and the only way to stand up as a man again is to bin the dirty cheap hoe.
Women can really bring shame to men.
Sorry to say. I couldn't read all the shit you wrote next time be brief and display intelligence. Bye!!!
Nhemzie17: Coming from a dependent low life from a family of dogs. Little wonder you support the man's wife cos u obviously a slut than she is. Get a life, hustle, and sponsor your lifestyle yourself you beech and stop leeching on men for support. B.itch
Every female in your house is a bitch. Just like the way your mother is leaching on your cheating father. Scum bag.
MufasaLion: Wether you have been married for a decade or century, your actions are not justifiable. It's unwise to do what you are doing. Even the elites that their kids will end up marrying rich folks, will always enroll their kids in school, some till Ph.D. level before/after marriage.
You people (both genders) always let love becloud your reasoning hence the reason you always settle for less. Your wife was not exposed to some lifestyle before marriage but now that she's schooling, she's met men of different social class which has made her feel more valuable and reckless at the same time.
Also, men like you that have plans to enroll their woman in school should also upgrade their own life in terms of education, enlightenment and social class because women like your wife will be carried away easily by some basic things.
Women are hypergamy in nature, so it's part of the reasons you're being cheated on and disrespected.
Nextlife1: All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland Am so confused now. I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.
Sorry about that. 1. Does she live in school? If yes probably she's doing it to get more funds for her education. 2. Doing it to get good grades because her friends does same. 3. To get money to fund her campus lifestyle. 4. To spite you because she suspects you're cheating or cheated on her.
Kollins11: What stupid advice do you need? Are you normal at all? dey swear for you? What kind of SIMPle breed are you? I'm always angry when I read stories like this from a married man.
Never you wife a Nigerian liability wh0re. Your wife belongs to the street but una no go hear. I'm sure you saw lots of red flags when you both were dating but you were hoping she would change afterwards.
it's a total disrespect for a married woman to cheat on her husband. A Cheating wife can kill you one day. Thats the truth. Bundle her like firewood and kick her out of your house.
I would rather die than to marry a Nigerian liability wh0re. That gender are all useless... All of them.
But a cheating horseband cannot kill right?....LOL
MufasaLion: When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?
Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?
The internet is going crazy now with a shocking viral video of popular veteran Yoruba actor Olaiya igwe stark naked to campaign for popular presidential candidate Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu.
In the video he was seen praying and making incantations for Tinubu to win.
The video has recieved serious condemnation since it went viral.
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