saintbillion: I thank God for a successful journey, 4 years turn to 5years. Despite ASUU and lock down God still prevail. I suffer for den ooo. If you know you know.
[quote author= post=118804298]A Young Nigerian Girl has taken to Facebook to celebrate her anniversary with her young Lover.
Purity Love who expressed her love for her boyfriend, thanked him for the sacrifices and effort he puts in, to keep their relationship going.
She Wrote:
''Can't express hw I feel about it buh he has gone all through my stress , times wen I don't have he sacrifice for me , he thought me hw to do it , he guide me , I can't describe hw I feel being with you, u helped me, guide me, support me, lead me save me, i don't know hw to describe it , but wat I will say is thank God I found u
Happy anniversary to us , pls guy congratulate us , it's not easy, no fight, no quarrel, nothing nothing , can't love you less my rest of mind.''
Naijaisshitho: Yes. He should find means to appease his wife. If i were in his shoe, that is what i will do. He can take the girl child to motherless babies home.
You're heartless o. Haba do you have empathy? Am thinking you're the second wife.
frozen70: Well it depends on where the school is located
My children are in boarding house and they don't feel abandoned
I went to boarding school far away in the east, my parents never visited me and I don't feel bad about it because Lagos was too far to the east
Boarding home schools makes you to train yourself and be independent of yourself, especially catholic boarding schools
I also went to boarding school. Your case is different because you never had the type of problem the girl is experiencing. Imagine finding out your dad isn't your biological father and your step mum maltreatment added with boarding school.
ebuka10box: I have got a girlfriend,I love her no doubt but I found out she follows kanyamatta pages and guess she has bought kanyamatta in the past before I met her . She claims she is a born again but I don't see any thing godly dealing with kanyamatta.
Pplease am I over reacting?
If you think you're not overreaching its because the kayamata is working on you.
She just want to frustrate you so that your girl will leave, but she doesn't know that the presence of that girl in that house means a lot
I think you will put her in boarding school and she can home during holidays
Am not happy over your wife attitude and she is doing it on purpose
If you can afford to rent an apartment for her, you can go ahead but a mini flat should be OK so that you can handle her house rent
But I think you can ask her to return to her family pending when she wants the issue to be resolved
I don't know why she wants to traumatize your life just because of an innocent girl
Is nothing but wickedness
Putting her in boarding school may affect the girl psychologically (abandonment issues). And what if he doesn't visit her on visiting day maybe because of work or the so called wife may cause him to either forget. Imagine how the child will feel knowing that the stepmother doesn't like her and might have influenced her dad. There's nothing more heartbreaking than for a child not to see her parents on visiting day it's better you come empty handed than not coming at all.
Priapus69: Options 1. Divorce your wife 2. Send your daughter to your late wife's relative 3. Divorce your wife and send your daughter to your late wife's relative 4. Nothing
Naijaisshitho: Choose your wife over your child. If anythimg bad happen, your wife will always stay with you. Other family members, including your mother and kids will leave u
Meaning So he should abandon the little girl. With all the vices happening now.
I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old. We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.
Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands. I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day. I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.
I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child. She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.
She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth. But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.
It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.
Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.
Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.
I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.
Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married. Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses. I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.
I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?
You're a good man. Poor girl not only found out the truth but also passing through alot. Your wife is not being nice at all for treating the girl badly when she's aware that the girl knows nothing about it. As far as am concern that girl is 100% yours for sticking with her for this long and loving her ad a father should. Please don't abandon her.
[quote author= post=118777509]Did they see him face?[/quote]If the CCTV from the entrance of the bank is working they would catch him. If not I pity the cashier she will pay for her negligence.
CCTV footage showing the moment a man stole a bundle of Naira notes from a cashier's desk has been shared online.
In the footage, the man could be seen walking to the cashier's desk and then moving the bundle of Naira notes while she was busy attending to another customer.
Actress, Chacha Eke Gives Testimony About Her Mental Illness, Reconciles With Husband (Video)
Popular Nollywood actress, Chacha Eke-Faani has shared a testimony in church about how she recovered from a struggle with mental illness, IGBERETV reports.
While sharing her testimony, Chacha revealed that she was staying in a hotel in Enugu with her husband and two children when she went mad. She said she began to destroy hotel property and threw away her personal belongings for no reason.
Chacha and her husband felt her strange behavior was as a result of either a demonic attack or marine spirit. They even blamed some family members for being against their marriage.
She stated that the situation became so unbearable that she and her husband decided to visit the hospital for medical help. They visited the hospital and discovered it was a mental illness.
The actress who said she is now well and back with her husband again expressed deep gratitude to her husband for staying with her during her trying times.
LOL. whoever wants to board the train should better make sure he/ she/ their family has the new currency for ransom incase o. Don't say I didn't warn you.
emmyluizzz: Unhappy marriages are pretty common. Look, you all have seen the stats. The chances of ending up in a lasting marriage are essentially based on a coin toss.
It's your girl Ms Travelin Diva and she has arrived! What an adventure it has been so far, but I made it to Abuja!
First two days had a bit of a rocky start (our flight was delayed and luggage did not arrive in Abuja until the next evening). I must admit, if you have to return to the airport for anything, Nigeria makes it a bit difficult to navigate back and forth easily. At any rate, once we received our luggage then our vacation officially began. I quickly learned the true meaning of the nigerian factor, lol! While still a bit jet lagged, I have managed to enjoy a few adventures within my first few days, and even got my hair braided in my hotel room shortly after I arrived (BEST EXPERIENCE EVER). Here's part 1, and definitely check out my Instagram page @MsTravelinDiva_ if you’d like to follow videos of my stay. Cheers!
Stay tuned for Part 2!
Peace & Blessings to Nigeria and to you all!
Abuja is good mehn. Seems it your first time in abj?
The kidnapping this time will be on the high side because they all want to do away with the old currency and request the new ones from their victims. God help us o!!!