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Crime / Re: Nathaniel Samuel: Failed Suicide Bomber At Winners Chapel Being Interviewed by jimmyLd101: 10:22pm On Feb 03, 2020
Beedehmee:


or it was to make the pastor look like an hero... After saying all his "ASHIRABOBOBA" The bomb refuse to detonate.
NO OFFENCE
am also askin to know.
Sense no they ur head. Cheap data ,cheap sense
Travel / Re: Pictures From Ibadan Zoological Garden by jimmyLd101: 10:17pm On Feb 03, 2020
Ykc2:
The famous Ibadan zoo obiora my friend wanted to take his friend olu a yoruba boy then to 1989 but olu was afraid going to Ibadan, life is funny shaa,today olu is maybe with insurance company or bank obiora is in Japan,anybody that live behind ajayi hospital will know 151 brick field then ,I miss that street
Ekale sir
Politics / Re: Aishat Ajoke Akinsanya's House: MC Oluomo Shows Off His Wife's New House by jimmyLd101: 2:53pm On Jan 31, 2020
VirtIQ:
Fire will gut it. Evil house bought by blood money
Shut ur mouth there enemy of progress fire gut your house
Romance / Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by jimmyLd101: 11:27pm On Jan 28, 2020
Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.
First thing first find one excuse pack comot for that area

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Celebrities / Re: Ozioma Onuzulike: Naira Marley, The Deadly Virus & His Marlians Cult by jimmyLd101: 11:47pm On Jan 27, 2020
Onlinealaba:
To me I believe is just for a short time this too will fade and another new trend will come up..just watch
we sell smart TVs
Thank God say slimcase don go. Awan ologo rainbow
Celebrities / Re: Ozioma Onuzulike: Naira Marley, The Deadly Virus & His Marlians Cult by jimmyLd101: 11:44pm On Jan 27, 2020
Kallmerb:
You look like a rejected marlian...Bible Says

Proverbs 22:6 KJV
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.


It's Funny you think Naira Marley is the youth problem.. People like you danced and sang Dbanj Tongolo.. What do u think Tongolo Meant U listened to Terry G and Co.. Even phyno but u still think Naira Marley is the Country's problem...you listen to rubbish been said in foreign Music but Nigeria Marley is the one destroying the youth future abi?

Ogami with due respect you brain is paining you



Abeg Wake up and train you child well and stop spitting crap.....

Blaming Naira Marley for The the errors among Youth is a pure waste of time rather let's focus on curbing the influence all this bad practices have on our children...


If you think Naira Marley is the issue then you are getting it wrong because we have lots of far worse Artist Evolving after Him..

I remember that late Lasu student that sang Something about Vaginaa... This was already happening before him.. So blaming him for the decays in your child life won't solve any problem
Bros keep shut for there , the fact is no musicians way no they yan street but that of Naira Marley is too raw. Even them sunny Ade self talk street for there song this marlian guy just sound too raw that is it.
Religion / Re: Why Do I Wake Up With Mysterious Marks On My Body? by jimmyLd101: 3:32pm On Jan 26, 2020
O ti ese ilebo
Celebrities / Re: Simi Esiri & Dr Sid's Marriage Crashes. Simi Confirms The End Of Her Marriage by jimmyLd101: 3:27pm On Jan 26, 2020
Mymynd4u:
Thank God.. I tot it was Simi and adekunle oooo.

I wud av just find a 10 storey building and jump and die.

Those two must nt break up irrespective of anytin oooo


Dr sid and Simi, u guys shud fix ur marriage

Shout out to aro1 Josephmumu03 logobenz luminouz seangy4konji poweredcom philip0906 Sunkyphil
You die for yourself by yourself nothing do you.

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Crime / Re: EFCC Arrested 89 Yahoo Boys In the Ibadan Night Club Raid (Pictures) by jimmyLd101: 10:48pm On Jan 20, 2020
dante0147:
Same picture posted October 2019 check EFCC's page on twitter
Don't know about the club but them bust that club truly.
Romance / Re: My Fiance Is A 2-Minute Man & We Are Set To Do Our Introduction. Please Help by jimmyLd101: 10:25pm On Jan 16, 2020
This life Sha, me just wan ask why I no they quick release for sometimes now I no even they release. I spend hours without coming and most time I had to pity the girl

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Romance / Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by jimmyLd101: 11:20pm On Jan 15, 2020
If you they fine all this one you go too tey for your papa house no forget say Man no they enter menopous
Politics / Re: Fada Oluoma Reacts To Supreme Court Verdict On Imo Election by jimmyLd101: 12:30pm On Jan 15, 2020
EagleNest:
I hardly would believe this logical masterpiece will come from a reverend father. It is a truth!

The way we blindly practice religion in Nigeria supports Karl Max's assertion that religion is the opium of the masses. It takes away independent critical thinking and Pastors, Imams and politicians are taking full advantage of it.

Think Nigerian!
Give people science they will overcome the world but give them religion you will overcome them.

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Health / Re: OHAI Changed The Life Of A 72-Year-Old Woman Through Surgery (Photos) by jimmyLd101: 10:50pm On Jan 13, 2020
Why them no put disturbing pics
Health / Re: What's The Name & Medical Uses Of This Flower? by jimmyLd101: 10:44pm On Jan 13, 2020
Ayofaks:


Ewe dongoyaro bawo cheesy grin
Dongoyaro ko lapalap ni. Etie ma dake die se wan fi se yin ni
Health / Re: Please Help Diagnose This Scalp Disease (Disturbing Photos) by jimmyLd101: 9:55pm On Jan 13, 2020
YourNextLevel:
The guy above. There are Doctors in here and is not everyone in this forum is jobless or employed by the politicans.

You dont even know if he/she has the hospital money. Just be polite to people that needs help One mustn't comment in all topics.

Back to the topic. : I dont know what to say. Goodluck
Nothing to contribute must you talk how are you different from the guy.
Foreign Affairs / Re: US Strike Targeting Mullah Nangyalay, Taliban Commander Causes Civilian Casualty by jimmyLd101: 11:04pm On Jan 10, 2020
KingAzubuike:
I just watched aljazeera and CNN, there's no breaking news of such there. It wasn't even in their headline at 10pm news Then I read the article and I discovered it's an old news. It's an event that happened last year. Unfortunately most nairalanders don't read














I'll continue to say this, the USA is the biggest terrorists nation of the 21st century. They murdered innocent kids over the years in this afghan war and now look at this .
They assassinated an innocent man on foreign soil with the excuse that he was planning an imminent attack against American citizens. Same man that fought tooth and nail to give Iranians and most middle eastern nations peace. trump claimed he was targeting a us embassy, today he claimed he was targeting 4 before his death. He doesn't even know what he's saying.

Few even know this same USA was responsible for the Ukrainian air crash yesterday. They did it to give the world a reason why we should all turn our backs on Iran.

The USA over the years have carried out numerous attrocities through the CIA, the Pentagon have taken innocent lives, assassinated people yet, bullied everyone yet they want to be respected.

This is a country that have been responsible for the creation of several militia groups like Al Qaeda, Al shabab , isis, they will create more.
I swear person no understand this life again. shey na USA get all the world ni
Family / Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by jimmyLd101: 12:39am On Dec 18, 2019
Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.
Whatever your case may be cost men drama. Nothing capture human interest like human tragedy
Travel / Re: Here Are Countries You Can Buy Citizenship From, When Tired Of Nigeria by jimmyLd101: 10:06pm On Dec 14, 2019
NaijadrivaCars:
The irony is that most people here cannot afford it.
Person way go fit afford this one self no go fit get time to comment on Nairaland

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Politics / Re: Sowore And Bakare Say FG’s Request For Their Transfer To Prison, Frivolous by jimmyLd101: 9:55pm On Dec 14, 2019
valentineuwakwe:
Sahara Reporters publisher, Omoyele Sowore, and his co- detainee, Adebayo Bakare , on Tuesday , described the Federal Government’ s application for their transfer from the custody of the Department of State Service to prison as frivolous , vexatious and unarguable.
They said the fresh application filed by the government before Justice Ijeoma Ojukwu of the Federal High Court in Abuja was meant to frustrate the court’s order for their release from DSS custody .
They also described the application filed on behalf of the Federal Government by the prosecuting counsel, Hassan Liman ( SAN) , as contemptuous for being a contravention of the order directing the DSS to release them from custody .
This is contained in their notice of preliminary objection filed before the court to challenge the Federal Government ’s fresh application .
Sowore and Bakare are being prosecuted before the court by the Federal Government on charges of treasonable felony instituted against them in the wake of their call for # RevolutionNow protests across the country to demand better governance.
The DSS continues to hold them in custody since August when they were arrested, despite separate court orders directing their release from custody .
The latest of the court orders was the one issued by Justice Ojukwu on meeting the bail conditions imposed on them after their arraignment.
They argued, through their legal team led by Mr . Femi Falana (SAN) , that the application for their transfer from the DSS custody to prison, showed that there was no genuine interest to prosecute them.
Grounds of the application read, “ The application was filed by the Complainant/ Applicant to frustrate the execution of the order of release of the 1st and 2nd defendants /objectors from the custody of the State Security Service made by this Honourable Court on November 6, 2019.
“ There is no genuine intention to prosecute the 1st and 2nd defendants by the complainant /applicant as the statement of witnesses this Honourable Court ordered to be availed the defence team is yet to be issued and served .
“ The grounds upon which the complainant’s / applicant’ s application is hinged are frivolous, vexatious, contemptuous , manifestly unarguable and unknown to law. ”

source: https://punchng.com/fgs-request-for-our-transfer-to-prison-frivolous-sowore-bakare/
They prison they speak frivolous English na there u go spend Xmas . Shey bi u they support them against Jonathan
Health / Re: Why Are Weeds And Other Hard Drugs Illegal While Cigarette Remains Legal? by jimmyLd101: 2:38pm On Dec 14, 2019
You can never high on cigarette, cigarette is just to cool ur nerves
Sports / Re: Philip Osondu Dies In Belgium by jimmyLd101: 12:43am On Dec 14, 2019
bubu2019:

once met him at divas garden Toronto
Once met him at medocino coast botanical garden Carlifonia this life sha

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Nairaland / General / Re: Suspect Held In Hospital For Ibadan Cult Clash by jimmyLd101: 10:25pm On Dec 10, 2019
Nero don drop since Sunday night . Na Eiye boy

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Politics / Re: Sowore And Bakare Say FG’s Request For Their Transfer To Prison, Frivolous by jimmyLd101: 6:52am On Dec 04, 2019
Na English you still they speak you go old for there

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Fashion / Re: Ladies, Can You Drive In Heels? by jimmyLd101: 7:08am On Dec 02, 2019
Twoclans:
I can't drive in heels ,I dont even think its possible to drive while putting on high heels cheesy

Only when I am putting on trainers or flats can I drive with my shoes on
Who dash this one car. Heels kor mountain ni.
Politics / Re: Diezani’s Dominican Republic diplomatic passport protecting her from prosecution by jimmyLd101: 1:48pm On Dec 01, 2019
StrikeBack:
Heeya! Safe haven countries
Dominican republic Panama Antigua and Barbuda
Steal money and leave for there
Thanks
Phones / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Never Skip Android Updates On Your Device by jimmyLd101: 1:27pm On Dec 01, 2019
ijewejones:


Your moniker is too too R. Is your fada that one eyed man that drives a car with 231 plate number grin

Well,you got me cracked by that,not an infinix hot


Stinking
Phones / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Never Skip Android Updates On Your Device by jimmyLd101: 4:34am On Dec 01, 2019
ijewejones:

Why is mine always "hot" when charging & when not charging(when in use)
May be na infinx hot

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Crime / Re: Mompha: Court Remands Kayode Phillip And Hamza Koud In Prison For Internet Fraud by jimmyLd101: 6:03am On Nov 29, 2019
DAramis:
so, na that Lebanese man be the HK money Nice sang for living things song? shocked shocked

why does it sound like all those guys mentioned in that song are being picked up one after the other
The one nice talk about is H money not. HK money .H money eruku to pese woke in Remince voice

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Celebrities / Re: Pasuma Celebrates His 52nd Birthday With Cute Photo by jimmyLd101: 3:09pm On Nov 27, 2019
Hbd Baba wasila, Baba baraka ,Erin lomo,Gsm Alahaji, all round nerwork , orobo kibo ,
Celebrities / Re: Don Jazzy Celebrates Burna Boy, Fireboy & Joeboy For Having A Great 2019 by jimmyLd101: 8:00am On Nov 27, 2019
rattlesnake:
what exactly does burna boy sing to deserve all this hype
You are mad.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Whatsapp Group: Single Mum & Dad, Let's Meet!!! by jimmyLd101: 6:43am On Nov 26, 2019
Olabukola1:

Am a single mother of one, am 29 I need a matured working class or self employed guy that is ready to settle down soonest.please I don't need play boys. Preferably Yoruba. Age 32-36.
Give me your number let me call you
Family / Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by jimmyLd101: 11:54pm On Nov 25, 2019
Don't dull yourself you can enjoy both ways boys they here way go satisfy you sexualy no string. Life na go slow

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