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[color=#cc0066]Horniness is the result of sexual frustration, and you've not been partaking in sexual intercourse, so you are bound to be sexually frustrated. It's your hormones and let's not forget sex is very natural! I am not saying you should have it either. I believe that you should tell your partner know, you are only human, the worst thing is if he starts thinking you're avoiding him for different reasons, if you're both strong enough you can help each other, I really do hope the both of you can help each other. Do not be ashamed, it is to be expected, when you are incredibly attracted to your partner, and in the realest sense of the word, it is a compliment as it means that you one day can imagine 'carrying out the act' with him after you wed him.

I am so happy to hear that you are waiting until after marriage. I hope everything works out so that both of you can find out whether you two will be compatible for life, then you can go ahead and make wedding plans, please do not let sexual urges bring forward any dates or cloud your judgment, the urges pass, it is only in the heat of them that you feel as if there is no cure.

Keep us updated, I don't feel I've helped enough.

Take care and God Bless.
Happy Holidays too![/color]

you are always on cue and the tops in my book. i thank God for people like you always. God bless you

@ sholabanke. sorry to bother you what is the meaning of sholabanke?

watching

OgaMadam:
Ebony and Tbag translate
Berra kun le fun iya oko eeee

JJYOU you mean the Other Woman,
my post focuses more on the men as they are the ones who bring a 3rd person in their bed and also are the ones who made
the vow, i want to focus on the one who jumps fences if that helps.

in my opinion the nigerian woman is as bad as the nigerian man in pushing their ugly head into relationships they know some other woman is settled down already with kids

rat on a rat as they say. naija peeps.  please pull that girl pics down she will almost certainly have nothing to do with this stupidity

sorry to hear about your plight. just yesterday my other half drew my attention to ty adams article on something similiar  hope it helps you 

HELP! I NEED A MAN FOR CHRISTMAS!
Q:
Dr. Ty, I'm a student at ORU. I used to think getting here was the hardest part. But, now I understand the getting through has been the biggest issue. I know what God wants from me is what He always wanted and that's consistency. I'm doing just that. Praying in the morning and at night. Reading my bible (and finally doing that if I don't feel like it). I kept asking God questions. Why do I have such a strong desire for a relationship? Why did you see fit to expose things to me about the purpose of relationships and marriage at this young age (20)? Man, I just want to be able to focus on school! Walking around wondering when the man God promised pops up is not my idea of peace. I guess my question is how do I not stay effected by my friends engagement announcements and the like. The closer we get to graduation the more wedding news I hear. One thing I know for a fact is that I will not be getting married upon graduation like some of my counter parts. I understand that God has called me for greatness, so, I would just like to be content knowing that God holds me precious in His eyes and what He promised He'll do.

What do I do? Signed, Not feeling so Merry Mary

[b]A.[/b]Dear, not feeling so Merry Mary.

I, like you, desire a husband, not some temporary boyfriend to come and give me a Happy Meal Thrill and then hungry again after I digest from a cheap meal. I'm tired of relationships that begin hopeful and down in your gut you feel that this is the one that God has sent you but then,

Many women in their single state who desire a husband will allow the season of waiting to frustrate them and forfeit what God has for them because they become distracted or lonely. The reason that many good women end up in bad relationships or failed marriages because they don't understand the holding pattern that God has them in and a full understanding of that process. Like Esau, you understand what the Lord has for you and what He has promised. Like you, he was in the field, working for the Lord, praying and doing the Will of God, but grew faint while doing that because he failed to go through the process. Esau allowed his desire to be fed by something temporal when he became faint; his focus was diverted and he forfeited everything that God had for him because of mismanagement of desire. Genesis 25

My mouth hit the ground when I read this blog. I think alot of women are where you are; where we are. I long for marriage deeply because I know I am suppose to be somebody's praying queen. I know I have been set aside for greatness and His favor rest upon me through all situations. But I found myself connecting and hoping. I eventually had to realize when my last boyfriend broke up with me via text message, my true love would never do that so why do I keep cheating on Him. We have to love Him first then ourselves. Once that is done,  He spoke to me one day in prayer and said" How can I give you the Man of God I have set aside for you to committ and submit to when I can't get you to committ and submit fully to Me, the God of Man?

there is more to life than sex. true love wait as they say. may God grant you this victory over this wicked urges

check out the rest of the article> God bless and be with you

http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=107705758&blogID=453842947

praise God and please dont forget to be diligent and treat others right. God bless and help you get satisfaction with your new job

davidylan:
The bible is right before you . . he that believeth not on Jesus Christ is condemned already . . . no where in the bible is there space for those who give to charity. They and you can create your own special heaven . . . its not by force to enter ours.

unfortunately this misses a whole gamut if issues.

1. why was the injunction given at all? to kill offenders or to promote respect for parents?

2. Can you find JUST ONE VERSE where this injunction was carried out?

he cant find half.  remember israel of old in  psalms 78

17 But they continued to sin against him,
      rebelling in the desert against the Most High.

18 They willfully put God to the test
      by demanding the food they craved.

19 They spoke against God, saying,
      "Can God spread a table in the desert?

i dont know why this small man dont fear God. keep him in your prayers

LadyT:
Huxley I thank God you are not a Christain.

Because the bible also tells us if your eye causes you to sin pluck it out.

I'm sure if you were a Christian you'd have no limbs left.

he should be a christ follower. that is Gods will for him

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naija peeps. you can play with peoples emotions without thinking of consequences

that may be a good idea. too many useless, good for nothing, not fit for purpose - surplus to requirement men in that country

BARAWO. aunty funmi you will be better in the senate than these fools

Sisi Jinx:
Bwahahahaha! LadyT, who taught me the tricks of the trade is now denying the messenger?!!!

How Typical. . . and they warned me oooh!!!

you? where have u been hiding?

never knew NL has all these scientists. naija people na the more you look the less you see

another bunch of restless sinners at work. God has nothing to prove by raising the dead

busybein:
2.*our lords prayer*

and forgive us our sins,as we forgive those who sin against us

so we humans too have d right to forgive

2.nope,d second is not his fiancee,shes d one he slept with and his preggie for him

preach it sister

OgaMadam:
its not even as if women have a choice, men cheat anyways.

point is they cheat with women who are as bad as them. most women have a choice

ofcourse shes lying,some women r devils

you talk true here

age is not always number. 18 is too young people.

2 ugly evil. what do you say to the women involved?

be careful with this one bros. dont end up paying the school fees and be told later you are too old. seen too much of this in the last 10yrs

davidylan:
Chris . . . done with Noah's flood and Jonah's big fish?

Chris lets be honest . . . after 8 years there can be no worse betrayal than the fact that you were not the one to open the womb first for your husband.
It wont be easy and simply saying the man shld go talk to her as if all he did was peck another woman on the cheek isnt realistic.

The guy shld be ready to tearfully beg and beg and beg.

good ole bro david. it is like you changed your meals recently. you are definately getting older, calmer and wiser. God bless you

evil, twisted and wicked religious minds.

KarmaMod:
^ yea like 80 and up

PERFECT AGE I WOULD SAY

you love the world
and the things of the world you love

where is the love of God in you?

your brother is in need and you are able to help but you didnt
where is the love of God in your heart?   

any one remember that song?


we live in the last days.  very soon life as we know it is going to be no more

what are you going to tell heaven you did with your life?
i went to church wont do. i argued for my pastor and your favourite my pastor and church is better than yours wont do either.

son of man think of your life when all these things are pass away.

the Lord is commanding that we love one another for this is the will of GOD

davidylan:
crocodile tears that are based on fantasy. The way people post here, you'd think they are physically blind.

Great mother because some pot-smoking failure punched her?

bro david, i am beginning to get angry with you. why cant you recognise "great mothers" when it obvious to the whole NL? this is getting ridiculous. next time this small boy see a woman with 4 kids he will jump into bed again. God help us

restless sinners

funmi international unlimited

mmm name it  claim it.